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By *herryblossom_BJ OP   Woman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

I stopped using sex toys like dildos as I was expecting certain type of pleasure that only myself and my toys could offer. Lovers couldn't penetrate or make me cum the way my toys did so effectively, causing difficulties that they could never make me orgasm.

Anyone have similar issues wanking too much?

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By *ecretlivesCouple
over a year ago

FABWatch HQ

Men can get what is best described as the "death grip" - where they masturbate so much and hold it tight so that no woman (or certainly her more delicate bits) could give as much stimulation.

Thats before you think of all the other realities of another person, sight, scent weight etc that can distract. Toys (and a guys hand) have an easy task so they seem more appealing than the effort of the alternative, but they dont match the pleasure of someone else doing it for, or with you.

Stopping and recovering for a bit lets you reprogram your mind to want that to come from another.

Lockdown aside of course...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I need to wank more to see if the problem occurs.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My wife only ever comes through wanking herself

Which I love

When I have cum inside her she spreads her legs and plays with herself

I usually kneel before her spread legs

Almost instant hard on again, so it's a win win

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By *ribsaMan
over a year ago

A box at end of your bed


"I stopped using sex toys like dildos as I was expecting certain type of pleasure that only myself and my toys could offer. Lovers couldn't penetrate or make me cum the way my toys did so effectively, causing difficulties that they could never make me orgasm.

Anyone have similar issues wanking too much? "

I have this same problem with my FwB she has used a particular sex toy very often for years. This has made it very difficult for her to orgasm with anything else but that toy. We have so many different toys now and she still has difficulty without using that type of toy.

The rampant rabbit type. Some sort of intense clitoral stimulation. We found the wand works great for her as well but without those no orgasm happening.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have frictions burns on my hands right now thanks to lockdown and danger wanking for excitement

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By *ribsaMan
over a year ago

A box at end of your bed


"I have frictions burns on my hands right now thanks to lockdown and danger wanking for excitement "

Use some lube can order online & have it delivered to your door. Then hours of fun without friction burns.

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By *herryblossom_BJ OP   Woman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire


"I stopped using sex toys like dildos as I was expecting certain type of pleasure that only myself and my toys could offer. Lovers couldn't penetrate or make me cum the way my toys did so effectively, causing difficulties that they could never make me orgasm.

Anyone have similar issues wanking too much?

I have this same problem with my FwB she has used a particular sex toy very often for years. This has made it very difficult for her to orgasm with anything else but that toy. We have so many different toys now and she still has difficulty without using that type of toy.

The rampant rabbit type. Some sort of intense clitoral stimulation. We found the wand works great for her as well but without those no orgasm happening. "

I had a date once.. He could only get turned on watching porn... Nothing else would give him a hard on. He was addicted to porn

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By *herryblossom_BJ OP   Woman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire


"I stopped using sex toys like dildos as I was expecting certain type of pleasure that only myself and my toys could offer. Lovers couldn't penetrate or make me cum the way my toys did so effectively, causing difficulties that they could never make me orgasm.

Anyone have similar issues wanking too much?

I have this same problem with my FwB she has used a particular sex toy very often for years. This has made it very difficult for her to orgasm with anything else but that toy. We have so many different toys now and she still has difficulty without using that type of toy.

The rampant rabbit type. Some sort of intense clitoral stimulation. We found the wand works great for her as well but without those no orgasm happening. "

I had a date once.. He could only get turned on watching porn... Nothing else would give him a hard on. He was addicted to porn

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I stopped using sex toys like dildos as I was expecting certain type of pleasure that only myself and my toys could offer. Lovers couldn't penetrate or make me cum the way my toys did so effectively, causing difficulties that they could never make me orgasm.

Anyone have similar issues wanking too much?

I have this same problem with my FwB she has used a particular sex toy very often for years. This has made it very difficult for her to orgasm with anything else but that toy. We have so many different toys now and she still has difficulty without using that type of toy.

The rampant rabbit type. Some sort of intense clitoral stimulation. We found the wand works great for her as well but without those no orgasm happening.

I had a date once.. He could only get turned on watching porn... Nothing else would give him a hard on. He was addicted to porn "

Should have told him to just wank to you, then he’d get hard

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I stopped using sex toys like dildos as I was expecting certain type of pleasure that only myself and my toys could offer. Lovers couldn't penetrate or make me cum the way my toys did so effectively, causing difficulties that they could never make me orgasm.

Anyone have similar issues wanking too much? "

I met a woman who enjoyed me fucking her and was moaning all the time but that was it. I have tried everything to make her cum but she couldn't. Than I understood that she is playing with herself often specially with her clit. It was huge when erected. She managed to come with her extremely powerful vibrating dildo only.

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By *herryblossom_BJ OP   Woman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire


"I stopped using sex toys like dildos as I was expecting certain type of pleasure that only myself and my toys could offer. Lovers couldn't penetrate or make me cum the way my toys did so effectively, causing difficulties that they could never make me orgasm.

Anyone have similar issues wanking too much?

I met a woman who enjoyed me fucking her and was moaning all the time but that was it. I have tried everything to make her cum but she couldn't. Than I understood that she is playing with herself often specially with her clit. It was huge when erected. She managed to come with her extremely powerful vibrating dildo only."

i think this is very common for women sadly

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By *herryblossom_BJ OP   Woman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire


"I stopped using sex toys like dildos as I was expecting certain type of pleasure that only myself and my toys could offer. Lovers couldn't penetrate or make me cum the way my toys did so effectively, causing difficulties that they could never make me orgasm.

Anyone have similar issues wanking too much?

I have this same problem with my FwB she has used a particular sex toy very often for years. This has made it very difficult for her to orgasm with anything else but that toy. We have so many different toys now and she still has difficulty without using that type of toy.

The rampant rabbit type. Some sort of intense clitoral stimulation. We found the wand works great for her as well but without those no orgasm happening.

I had a date once.. He could only get turned on watching porn... Nothing else would give him a hard on. He was addicted to porn

Should have told him to just wank to you, then he’d get hard "

I asked him was it because he wasn't attracted to me. He said it wasn't but didn't know the real reason.. I believe his mind was too used to porn and couldn't wank or stay hard without it. His porn collection was massive.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Porn addiction is well known to make it difficult to get hard or cum any other way.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I stopped using sex toys like dildos as I was expecting certain type of pleasure that only myself and my toys could offer. Lovers couldn't penetrate or make me cum the way my toys did so effectively, causing difficulties that they could never make me orgasm.

Anyone have similar issues wanking too much?

I have this same problem with my FwB she has used a particular sex toy very often for years. This has made it very difficult for her to orgasm with anything else but that toy. We have so many different toys now and she still has difficulty without using that type of toy.

The rampant rabbit type. Some sort of intense clitoral stimulation. We found the wand works great for her as well but without those no orgasm happening.

I had a date once.. He could only get turned on watching porn... Nothing else would give him a hard on. He was addicted to porn

Should have told him to just wank to you, then he’d get hard

I asked him was it because he wasn't attracted to me. He said it wasn't but didn't know the real reason.. I believe his mind was too used to porn and couldn't wank or stay hard without it. His porn collection was massive. "

Yeah, that probably was it, porn addiction just changes you, especially if you just look at one thing to get hard wank. If he didn’t wank for a week or maybe even too you instead of porn, that might have helped.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Damn toys ruining it for us guys

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can only climax alone too. I can't even do it if someone else is there

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By *UNANDNICEMan
over a year ago

Basildon

You can put batties up my bum and then I'm a sex toy ..LOL

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By *herryblossom_BJ OP   Woman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire


"Damn toys ruining it for us guys "

Yes and no... I only had one man in my sexual history make me cum from pentration. I think it's really common.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Damn toys ruining it for us guys

Yes and no... I only had one man in my sexual history make me cum from pentration. I think it's really common. "

I guess he was the vwe guy who you wrote the story about. I'm intrigued to know how big the dildo was.

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By *herryblossom_BJ OP   Woman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire


"Damn toys ruining it for us guys

Yes and no... I only had one man in my sexual history make me cum from pentration. I think it's really common.

I guess he was the vwe guy who you wrote the story about. I'm intrigued to know how big the dildo was. "

9 inches

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Damn toys ruining it for us guys

Yes and no... I only had one man in my sexual history make me cum from pentration. I think it's really common.

I guess he was the vwe guy who you wrote the story about. I'm intrigued to know how big the dildo was.

9 inches "

That is a lot to live up to

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope! My self control is impeccable.

Abstaining for me is enjoyable, because the fun I’ll have after is always mind blowing!

I can’t see the fun in masturbating too much to the point where you become desensitised.

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By *herryblossom_BJ OP   Woman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire


"Nope! My self control is impeccable.

Abstaining for me is enjoyable, because the fun I’ll have after is always mind blowing!

I can’t see the fun in masturbating too much to the point where you become

desensitised. "

Exactly.... Hate to ruin my sex life... I kinda have already as most men don't know how to please me down there. Most don't even know how to work a clit

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nope! My self control is impeccable.

Abstaining for me is enjoyable, because the fun I’ll have after is always mind blowing!

I can’t see the fun in masturbating too much to the point where you become

desensitised.

Exactly.... Hate to ruin my sex life... I kinda have already as most men don't know how to please me down there. Most don't even know how to work a clit "

Communication is important. Could try telling them what you like and what feels good for you. Everyone’s different. Maybe they’re just doing what works for someone else

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By *d4fun73Man
over a year ago

Shipley


"Nope! My self control is impeccable.

Abstaining for me is enjoyable, because the fun I’ll have after is always mind blowing!

I can’t see the fun in masturbating too much to the point where you become

desensitised.

Exactly.... Hate to ruin my sex life... I kinda have already as most men don't know how to please me down there. Most don't even know how to work a clit "

I've never had any complaints about not using a clit properly. Funnily enough up to last year I'd never made a woman squirt but now find I can most of the time with different women..

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By *on12xxMan
over a year ago

nottingham

I have te yrfe now anyone elde

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By *uffinfaceMan
over a year ago

hengoed

I use my mrs toys on her pussy and lick her clit at the same time and she always has multiply orgasams, try it out

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