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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Why??

In my personal experience, and I've slept with over 50 men, most men are far too rough when going down. Why do they feel the need to suck my clit so hard it feels like it might pop out? Am I on my own here? I just want a gentle soft wet kiss down there until I'm grinding the face off you!! Start soft and slow please...

Of course we are not all the same. I'd love to know the ladies' opinion on this.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I read a post once which said often people give to their partners what they would like to receive themselves, or base the idea of their partners pleasure on the things which give them pleasure.

From my experience guys like to receive a strong sucking blowjob. For those who have wanked for years, their cocks are probably used to that level of pressure. A lot of men are inspired by porn too.

Maybe they think women want the same and don’t know that less can be more?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Had one who thought biting was a good idea. Like wtf?! Husband nearly whacked him.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I read a post once which said often people give to their partners what they would like to receive themselves, or base the idea of their partners pleasure on the things which give them pleasure.

From my experience guys like to receive a strong sucking blowjob. For those who have wanked for years, their cocks are probably used to that level of pressure. A lot of men are inspired by porn too.

Maybe they think women want the same and don’t know that less can be more?"

So I should have chewed the dick of the one who bit me?

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

I don't like receiving oral but if someone is being too rough with me I gently say "too rough" or "a bit gentler please". If they need telling a second time I point out the exit.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well half of the men don't know where the clit is located , and if found they want to suck it like a cock without understanding that clit needs a gentle massage and slow licks to get stimulated. It's not a Sunday brunch to feast on it .

I just pull the guy out between my legs and ask him to stop it. Puts me off big time .

Same with fingering , guys just want to dig a hole inside to find a rare coin there .

They need some training though lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

With me being a full op ts I had a meet with a guy and fuck me was he rough biting my over sensitive clit I ended up in pain cos he was sucking and bite so hard

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By *ubmissive guyMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

A lot of similar posts on here, Women say they get bored of receiving oral after 10 mins and want to move on, so maybe guys, are thinking right Ive got 10 mins to make her orgasm and are too rough. Maybe add something to your profile, you enjoy receiving slow sensual oral.

I prefer taking my time, its not a race, but wouldnt want the Lady getting bored

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fortunately I've not been unlucky in that department, Mr Adventure knows is way around.

I suspect porn doesn't help. People see it and assume that's what women want.

Also poor communication... If women can't say what they want then they're just as responsible for the lack of enjoyment. If the person doesn't listen then fair enough, get rid.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve found that most women like to be licked gently and explored with a soft tongue - watch how 2 girls do it to each other.

I love tasting and exploring a pussy and finding the areas that make a woman quiver with pleasure

Something to be really enjoyed - gets me rock hard just doing it xx

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By *ishopstippleMan
over a year ago

Purley

Blame Porn.

I have also had too many women start off far to rough on my cock, to the point of hurting, and of course not wanting to continue. So its not a gender thing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I read a post once which said often people give to their partners what they would like to receive themselves, or base the idea of their partners pleasure on the things which give them pleasure.

From my experience guys like to receive a strong sucking blowjob. For those who have wanked for years, their cocks are probably used to that level of pressure. A lot of men are inspired by porn too.

Maybe they think women want the same and don’t know that less can be more?

So I should have chewed the dick of the one who bit me? "

Sounds like it! To be fair he may have enjoyed it. I have heard of more painful pleasures!!

That’s not a declaration of my wish to be chewed on by the way!!

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By *herryblossom_BJWoman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

Yes majority of men i been with are totally clueless about pleasuring a woman down there. For a start, they ignore the clit or bash it too roughly. I met only 3 men in my experience with amazing tongue skills. Only one made me cum in seconds and begging for more.

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By *herryblossom_BJWoman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

When I get the bravery to help the guy do it how it pleases me and makes me orgasm. Most get upset and give up. Afew are really good at learning. My ex husband was crap on our first night together, by the time we ended the relationship, he made me cum 23 times in one night.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes majority of men i been with are totally clueless about pleasuring a woman down there. For a start, they ignore the clit or bash it too roughly. I met only 3 men in my experience with amazing tongue skills. Only one made me cum in seconds and begging for more. "

Hubby makes me cum in minutes and so as other hubbies makes their partners cum quickly .

I think it's the connection you build up ,sensual playing ,kissing ,slow fingering and licking around pussy makes the whole difference.

So far in our meets only two other men made me cum orally .

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Fortunately I've not been unlucky in that department, Mr Adventure knows is way around.

I suspect porn doesn't help. People see it and assume that's what women want.

Also poor communication... If women can't say what they want then they're just as responsible for the lack of enjoyment. If the person doesn't listen then fair enough, get rid. "

I ALWAYS tell the guy and they ALWAYS revert back to it

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Yes majority of men i been with are totally clueless about pleasuring a woman down there. For a start, they ignore the clit or bash it too roughly. I met only 3 men in my experience with amazing tongue skills. Only one made me cum in seconds and begging for more.

Hubby makes me cum in minutes and so as other hubbies makes their partners cum quickly .

I think it's the connection you build up ,sensual playing ,kissing ,slow fingering and licking around pussy makes the whole difference.

So far in our meets only two other men made me cum orally . "

I have never cum from oral. I have come close once tho... but I still wanna enjoy it

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