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By *lthomas OP   Man
over a year ago

Wolverhampton

What are you doing to get round lock down frustration?

I'm spending more time on here and kik chatting to people than ever before.

Looked at so many profiles.

Finding new people is hard, as personally there are so many dreamers & time wasters.

2 lines of conversation and nothing...

I'm a single guy and find it infuriating,

god know how couple are finding it ?

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

Firstly I'm not frustrated - much as I enjoy sex and meeting people etc it's not that big a deal for me to have to wait either

I also don't find it "infuriating" when finding out either someone isn't interested in swapping messages with me, or that through doing so we find that there's no spark or connection - but then I take a more laid back approach to the site and just go with the flow and when I do find that spark with someone appreciate it all the more

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By *herryblossom_BJWoman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

I just accepted the fact I'm not going to have a great connection with everyone i chat to. Regardless how attractive they look to me. I go for connection.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's difficult for everyone.

F, FF, MM, TV/TS

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By *avinaNWTV/TS
over a year ago

Thornton-Cleveleys

Had lots of conversations with lots of people wanting to meet how many really do want to meet when we are able to will be interesting to see x

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By *lthomas OP   Man
over a year ago

Wolverhampton


"Firstly I'm not frustrated - much as I enjoy sex and meeting people etc it's not that big a deal for me to have to wait either

I also don't find it "infuriating" when finding out either someone isn't interested in swapping messages with me, or that through doing so we find that there's no spark or connection - but then I take a more laid back approach to the site and just go with the flow and when I do find that spark with someone appreciate it all the more "
Fully agree. I've been off since 23rd March, it's all about connection. I believe that when people contact you, they should have more than 3 words to say and try and make it interesting in general.

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By *lthomas OP   Man
over a year ago

Wolverhampton


"Had lots of conversations with lots of people wanting to meet how many really do want to meet when we are able to will be interesting to see x"
I've just gone for the keep in touch and see how it goes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My sexual frustration has turned into possible enjoyment of abstaining because I know when the time comes to have sex, it’ll be mind blowing and full of orgasms. So I’m good.

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit


"Firstly I'm not frustrated - much as I enjoy sex and meeting people etc it's not that big a deal for me to have to wait either

I also don't find it "infuriating" when finding out either someone isn't interested in swapping messages with me, or that through doing so we find that there's no spark or connection - but then I take a more laid back approach to the site and just go with the flow and when I do find that spark with someone appreciate it all the more Fully agree.

I've been off since 23rd March, it's all about connection. I believe that when people contact you, they should have more than 3 words to say and try and make it interesting in general. "

The thing is though, it takes two people to have a conversation and sometimes it doesn't flow and that connection isn't made, but you can't *know* until you take that step, especially on-line - there have been people I've had conversations with based on their forum presence or profile etc where I thought we'd get on, yet it has been very stilted and awkward - and others who were the last people I'd have expected to get on with where it's just flowed naturally and easily.

I don't find the former infuriating or that the other person is a timewaster or dreamer though, just that we're not particularly compatible is all, the conversation just fizzles out and no harm done or time wasted

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