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By *oneyjule65 OP   Couple
over a year ago

Halifax

I(Mrs) am not a fan of cock pics...I would rather have a surprise of finding out for myself because just because it looks impressive (or sometimes not ) on a pic doesn't mean it's going to pleasure me....guys it's what you do with it not how big,Girthy, long you are.....rant over...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Were sick of them pics and the amount of lads who dont trim or shave ' some hanging pics weve recieved

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By *orthern StarsCouple
over a year ago

Durham

We like the surprise element too. Graphic photos don't appeal to us but we do understand that other people do enjoy seeing them.

We all have different views.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

“Will guys ever learn....“

Too easy.

No.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That’s not being flippant, btw....I think in general we’re ‘wired’ and influenced to focus on dick size, etc.

Whether it’s conscious effort, empathy, confidence or something else (singularly or in combination), not throwing a dick pic out at the first shot takes one or more of those. Just my opinion, I could be wrong.

I have fully erect pics in my Friends Only gallery; I’ve not shared them without request outside of that. I’ve kept it that way as I’ve paid attention to the general feeling on it here (Fab) and also haven’t really felt the need to plaster them everywhere.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

the problem being not all couples and women are the same some of us like cock pics of guys we may want to meet ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never had a public one, only a couple in friends only and they are part of a widee picture,not zoomed in.

I only ever send if someone asks.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"the problem being not all couples and women are the same some of us like cock pics of guys we may want to meet ... "

Typically its couples that complain and normally the male in the couple.(plz note I have NEVER sent unsolicited cock pics). Let that man have a profile seperate from the woman and no one would give a damn about him but hanging on the wifes coat tail makes him feel like hes god and can be as rude as hell. Notice the rude profiles on here,its typically couples fussing that its the man who answers the mail so address them both bla bla bla. (Yes I know its a sweeping generalisation, but the point is valid). 50% of the meets Ive had here is couples and most have been brilliant but some couples (male in partnership typically) really need to stop bearing up on single men. We are not all assholes!

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By *sm265Woman
over a year ago

Shangri-la

Agree OP, I'm not a fan of dick pics either, especially not unsolicited ones. Profiles with nothing but picks of a dick from every angle are not appealing.

Ultimately, if I don't click with someone personality wise, then I won't be going near their dick anyway so I really don't care what it looks like.

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By *winfrozrMan
over a year ago

Carnoustie


"Agree OP, I'm not a fan of dick pics either, especially not unsolicited ones. Profiles with nothing but picks of a dick from every angle are not appealing.

Ultimately, if I don't click with someone personality wise, then I won't be going near their dick anyway so I really don't care what it looks like. "

On your advice I’ve updated my pics

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By *elleshellsCouple
over a year ago

North Manchester

I (Mrs) love a good dick pic as long as there are other pics with it - I don’t need to see it from 50 different angles!!! And not too impressed if that’s all that’s sent, along with the “ hi how are you?” message!!!! Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We will request a dick pic if we are thinking of meeting. There are a lot of really ugly ones out there which I would not put in me! I like a nice big, thick, well proportioned cock with a big nicely shaped helmet.

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By *AYENCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire


"I(Mrs) am not a fan of cock pics...I would rather have a surprise of finding out for myself because just because it looks impressive (or sometimes not ) on a pic doesn't mean it's going to pleasure me....guys it's what you do with it not how big,Girthy, long you are.....rant over..."

We totally agree but some do like to see them, so the easiest thing to do is to proactively block all cock avatars from the forum and your local updates - at least then they won't be invading your inbox!

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By *ocoTemptationMan
over a year ago

london

Lots of couples insist on seeing cock pics and ask how big it is. So I use a balanced approach. My cock is never used as a profile pic and I never send them unless they are requested. However all the details needed can be seen and read in my profile.

I personally think its really rude when people approach me that way but I'm fine with it if it comes up naturally in conversation.

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By *uliaChrisCouple
over a year ago

westerham


"I(Mrs) am not a fan of cock pics...I would rather have a surprise of finding out for myself because just because it looks impressive (or sometimes not ) on a pic doesn't mean it's going to pleasure me....guys it's what you do with it not how big,Girthy, long you are.....rant over..."

And yet pretty much the only public photos of your partner are....er....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s the same for women and sending me loads of random tit pics.. my inbox is full of them...I didn’t even ask for them!!

.. ive then woke up n realised it won’t ever happen

Wishful thinking

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I(Mrs) am not a fan of cock pics...I would rather have a surprise of finding out for myself because just because it looks impressive (or sometimes not ) on a pic doesn't mean it's going to pleasure me....guys it's what you do with it not how big,Girthy, long you are.....rant over...

And yet pretty much the only public photos of your partner are....er.... "

As I predicted during this slight single man bash,I pondered the possibility of some contradicktory information...

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By *oneyjule65 OP   Couple
over a year ago

Halifax


"I(Mrs) am not a fan of cock pics...I would rather have a surprise of finding out for myself because just because it looks impressive (or sometimes not ) on a pic doesn't mean it's going to pleasure me....guys it's what you do with it not how big,Girthy, long you are.....rant over...

And yet pretty much the only public photos of your partner are....er....

As I predicted during this slight single man bash,I pondered the possibility of some contradicktory information..."

Point taken....however we don't have them as our avatar...

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish


"I(Mrs) am not a fan of cock pics...I would rather have a surprise of finding out for myself because just because it looks impressive (or sometimes not ) on a pic doesn't mean it's going to pleasure me....guys it's what you do with it not how big,Girthy, long you are.....rant over..."

You have cock pics in your profile. Maybe others would like a surprise too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *hongman1Man
over a year ago

Mansfield


"I(Mrs) am not a fan of cock pics...I would rather have a surprise of finding out for myself because just because it looks impressive (or sometimes not ) on a pic doesn't mean it's going to pleasure me....guys it's what you do with it not how big,Girthy, long you are.....rant over..."

Please don’t tar us all with the same brush though, ladies (and couples)

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By *hongman1Man
over a year ago

Mansfield


"That’s not being flippant, btw....I think in general we’re ‘wired’ and influenced to focus on dick size, etc.

Whether it’s conscious effort, empathy, confidence or something else (singularly or in combination), not throwing a dick pic out at the first shot takes one or more of those. Just my opinion, I could be wrong.

I have fully erect pics in my Friends Only gallery; I’ve not shared them without request outside of that. I’ve kept it that way as I’ve paid attention to the general feeling on it here (Fab) and also haven’t really felt the need to plaster them everywhere."

To be fair, it doesn’t help our case when all I ever read on here is “don’t bother if you’re less than 74 inches”

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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago

leeds


"I(Mrs) am not a fan of cock pics...I would rather have a surprise of finding out for myself because just because it looks impressive (or sometimes not ) on a pic doesn't mean it's going to pleasure me....guys it's what you do with it not how big,Girthy, long you are.....rant over..."

Will guys ever learn that they should post the photos that they want to post, not take any notice of what other people like? I enjoy looking at cock pictures, and skip over profiles that don't have them. I suggest that you do the same with those that do have them.

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By *rx1Couple
over a year ago

North Devon-ish

Personally i am not a cock picture fan either, but it does make me smile when females or couples rant and rave over

'no Cock pictures'

and all of their pictures are 100's of boobs in different bras or taken from different angles

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I guess we're in a lose, lose situation because some like to see and some don't. But as above, some couples just have endless boob and bra shots, or females with endless butt shots or them pouting in a mirror with a filter on

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By *oneyjule65 OP   Couple
over a year ago

Halifax


"I(Mrs) am not a fan of cock pics...I would rather have a surprise of finding out for myself because just because it looks impressive (or sometimes not ) on a pic doesn't mean it's going to pleasure me....guys it's what you do with it not how big,Girthy, long you are.....rant over...

You have cock pics in your profile. Maybe others would like a surprise too."

Point taken.. I think what I actually meant to get across it's nice to have a surprise on a meet without seeing what is going to pop up....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tell me about it. They think by showing you a cock picture you will jump on them straight away or invite them around

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By *9Viking69Man
over a year ago

Chobham

After requesting and receiving feedback on my profile from a couple of friendly women profiles, I moved mine all to friends only and completed rewrote my profile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im a bi guy and i like cock pics because there are things I don't like such as hair and tight foreskins and I want to check this out before making contact.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If they are in profile then that’s down to personal taste . Never a good idea to send them in a message unless asked for .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Guys with only cock pictures are such a turn off. We both would insist on a cock picture if thinking of meeting someone because we like a nice cock. There are certain cocks we cant abide also. Hooded cocks and messy pubes are big turn offs.

We actually keep a store if hilariously bad cock pics when we need a laugh

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By *hongman1Man
over a year ago

Mansfield


"Tell me about it. They think by showing you a cock picture you will jump on them straight away or invite them around"

Again, don’t put us all in the same pot, please

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I agree but some women need to verify if a man says what he has. Expectations is very important though assumption can be quite deadly.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just love the ones where they are sat on the toilet or stood there with all their dirty washing on view *not*

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By *host63Man
over a year ago

Bedfont Feltham

And yet many women our couples ask for cock pics. I personally don’t see the point. But on here what people want is so varied there is not a one size fits all deal.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some like to see a cock pic and some don't, it's that simple really, each to their own

There thousands of naked photos of men and women on fab in various stages of undress. If you haven't already, State it on your profile that you don't want to receive cock pictures, if they don't read it and send them anyway delete or delete and block.

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By *ikesEmBigMan
over a year ago

Herts

I'm not losing any sleep

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By *entleman JayMan
over a year ago

Wakefield

My profile is no good for you. It’s full of them lol.

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By *entleman JayMan
over a year ago

Wakefield


"And yet many women our couples ask for cock pics. I personally don’t see the point. But on here what people want is so varied there is not a one size fits all deal."

I’ve never been asked for a picture of my cock on Fab by a lady that turned out to be genuine. Be careful with who you are talking to. It’s probably a fella!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Very contentious subject - I try to step carefully

I guess it is a sex site - first and foremost and not a dating site so body parts are commonly displayed.

Having said that, although I have all manner on my profile, if I send a chat to someone and attach a photo it is either a face photo or full body - not just my cock

Can’t please everyone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I e never understood why the guys with unremarkable cocks based on others on fab still plaster them all over the place

My unremarkable parts of which there are many are well hidden

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By *oneyjule65 OP   Couple
over a year ago

Halifax


"My profile is no good for you. It’s full of them lol. "

Great pictures very teasing & sexy

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By *ishopstippleMan
over a year ago

Purley

Not my experience. Most women want to see what they might be getting if they meet the guy. Dispute what they tend to say in this forum. But all agree they don't just want dick pics, but want to see the whole person first.

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By *hloevtTV/TS
over a year ago

norwich


"Not my experience. Most women want to see what they might be getting if they meet the guy. Dispute what they tend to say in this forum. But all agree they don't just want dick pics, but want to see the whole person first. "

I know from experience that you know what to do with it xx

Hello sexy xx

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By *entleman JayMan
over a year ago

Wakefield


"My profile is no good for you. It’s full of them lol.

Great pictures very teasing & sexy "

Thank you. You should see my stash of cock pics.

NOT!

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By *entleman JayMan
over a year ago

Wakefield


"Not my experience. Most women want to see what they might be getting if they meet the guy. Dispute what they tend to say in this forum. But all agree they don't just want dick pics, but want to see the whole person first. "

What works for you doesn’t necessarily work for everyone. Certainly doesn’t work for me!

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By *oneyjule65 OP   Couple
over a year ago

Halifax


"My profile is no good for you. It’s full of them lol.

Great pictures very teasing & sexy

Thank you. You should see my stash of cock pics.

NOT!"

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