FabSwingers.com mobile

Join us FREE, we're FREE to use

Web's largest swingers site since 2006.

Already registered?
Login here

Back to forum list
Back to Swingers Chat

Couples connections difficult atm

Jump to newest
 

By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hey everyone.;)

Couples do you find difficult to connect to other couples ?

Obviously we all know the impact of lockdown, but even b4 we noticed that we dont seem to generate much interest on couples..our connections have been mainly on clubs but we would like to create others out of clubs in future too.

Any contructive suggestions appreciated

TIA

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *aomilatteCouple
over a year ago

Midlands

We get plenty of winks and messages but only a small percentage are a good match. We're missing our club nights too

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *ebwizMan
over a year ago

Clevedon

We never clicked in a one to one meet so only used clubs. The scene has held less of an interest to her the last couple of years so not that worried. Our fun when we were more active was definitely in a club,with other couples. Chams in Birmingham was our best experience. Think our time to end for us both is near, this current situation could be the deciding factor.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *rMrsBrightsideCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle

No suggestions as we find the same. It is hard finding that the attraction is there for everyone. We send a few messages back and forth but it usually fizzles out. We arn't ones to use cam either which we've noticed some couples are asking for when we chat. So you're definitely not alone, sometimes looking for couples seems like a lot of work x

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"No suggestions as we find the same. It is hard finding that the attraction is there for everyone. We send a few messages back and forth but it usually fizzles out. We arn't ones to use cam either which we've noticed some couples are asking for when we chat. So you're definitely not alone, sometimes looking for couples seems like a lot of work x"

Yes I agree it does..sometimes makes us wonder if its anything wrong with our profile x

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *ittyandtheboyCouple
over a year ago

Behind the bike shed!

In relation to your profile, there’s a lot of negative stuff ie. what you don’t want, but not a lot of what you do like.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *uriousMe2018Couple
over a year ago

Aldershot

We find it does take alot of effort too. Initial contact with couples seems promising at the start but then fizzles out, dodging a minefield of fakes and timewasting couples too is a problem. We keep our friends list deliberately small and cull it regularly. That at least allows us to focus on couples that we feel are worth the time. But even then there are no guarantees

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No suggestions as we find the same. It is hard finding that the attraction is there for everyone. We send a few messages back and forth but it usually fizzles out. We arn't ones to use cam either which we've noticed some couples are asking for when we chat. So you're definitely not alone, sometimes looking for couples seems like a lot of work x

Yes I agree it does..sometimes makes us wonder if its anything wrong with our profile x

"

I’d say your profile is pretty darn hot! And those videos!! Wow! Wish I knew how you manage to do that

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *ensual 2Couple
over a year ago

Blackpool

We seem to receive plenty of winks /messages which is flattering ...some couples wanna make "friends" in lock down with a view of hooking up later which is lovely ....we have special fab friends we can contact by phone to chat to also which keeps things bubbling

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *oneyBear100Couple
over a year ago

Gatwick area

We've been lucky enough to connect with a few couples really well over the downtime. It's the same for us as normal and looking for people that we're both attracted to and that then also want to chat and are able to converse with a view to later rather than a quick gratuitous cam play (not our thing).

We have found a few but it really has been effort in = effort out and now wondering if they'll pan out later when we can finally meet.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We're super fussy so it's partly our issue of not finding what we want, but finding the same to a certain extent. We're also not keen on message ping pong so it's rather a case of a few messages and then we'll go back to them when we have a view of when meeting might be viable.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *ensual 2Couple
over a year ago

Blackpool


"We're super fussy so it's partly our issue of not finding what we want, but finding the same to a certain extent. We're also not keen on message ping pong so it's rather a case of a few messages and then we'll go back to them when we have a view of when meeting might be viable. "
Hey nothing wrong with being fussy/selective...we are also fussy sods Lol

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we are missing our club nights too

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Yes we do find it difficult to connect with other couples. We assume that's because they find it difficult to connect with us. Four people getting along, even briefly is a big ask.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *rMrsBrightsideCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle


"No suggestions as we find the same. It is hard finding that the attraction is there for everyone. We send a few messages back and forth but it usually fizzles out. We arn't ones to use cam either which we've noticed some couples are asking for when we chat. So you're definitely not alone, sometimes looking for couples seems like a lot of work x

Yes I agree it does..sometimes makes us wonder if its anything wrong with our profile x

"

Nothing in your profile would put us off x

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's difficult at the moment, it's finding the oomph to keep chatting when you're not getting the chat flowing. We're like most though, we will be looking out for that 1 couple to be exclusive with once it's safe to do so, may never happen tho.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax


"We're super fussy so it's partly our issue of not finding what we want, but finding the same to a certain extent. We're also not keen on message ping pong so it's rather a case of a few messages and then we'll go back to them when we have a view of when meeting might be viable. "

There is nothing wrong with being fussy. No joy in meeting for the sake of it. It is tricky finding 4 way attraction. Plus Miss is straight and a lot of couples seem to want the fem to be at least bi-curious. Also a lot of profiles only have pics of the woman. It can definitely be easier to find compatible people in clubs.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 
 

By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks all for the input

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
Post new Message to Thread
back to top