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The sensual and intelligent approach

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I’m seeing a number of people on here, of all sexual persuasions, who are looking for, indeed longing to chat and meet those with a sensual and intelligent approach. It’s an approach I favour too, as I find the brash and often crude messages you get on here such a turn off. Does anyone one else feel the same? Let’s celebrate those more sensual Fabbers who enjoy that approach and long for it in their encounters on here.

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By *uliaChrisCouple
over a year ago

westerham


"I’m seeing a number of people on here, of all sexual persuasions, who are looking for, indeed longing to chat and meet those with a sensual and intelligent approach. It’s an approach I favour too, as I find the brash and often crude messages you get on here such a turn off. Does anyone one else feel the same? Let’s celebrate those more sensual Fabbers who enjoy that approach and long for it in their encounters on here.

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Nothing we like more than standing at the bar of our favourite clubs reading out lengthy passages of Anna Karenina to our potential play partners

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I’m seeing a number of people on here, of all sexual persuasions, who are looking for, indeed longing to chat and meet those with a sensual and intelligent approach. It’s an approach I favour too, as I find the brash and often crude messages you get on here such a turn off. Does anyone one else feel the same? Let’s celebrate those more sensual Fabbers who enjoy that approach and long for it in their encounters on here.

Nothing we like more than standing at the bar of our favourite clubs reading out lengthy passages of Anna Karenina to our potential play partners "

Ha ha. And Westerham is such a great place to indulge one’s love of classic Russian literature!

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

We always look for this in a couple

Definitely sensual, I.e you appreciate all 5/6 senses are important in seduction and sex.

I would say interesting over intelligent because I think intelligence can often be misunderstood and unfortunately education isn’t given equally .

And if you’re also tactile then that’s a big bonus

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like this too but sometimes people can try too hard and it's clearly not genuine. That's a turn off

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

I think you're either sensual or you aren't. There's nothing wrong with the direct approach and it suits lots of people who want casual sex. The problem is when you want casual and sensual.

The intelligent part isn't down to what you learned through education there are plenty of intelligent people who haven't got a qualification to their name. It's emotional and sexual intelligence that counts.

There are people like that and those qualities are easily recognisable. Don't give up hope

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Good point on education HotNotts2. Spot on.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I like this too but sometimes people can try too hard and it's clearly not genuine. That's a turn off "

Agreed.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I think you're either sensual or you aren't. There's nothing wrong with the direct approach and it suits lots of people who want casual sex. The problem is when you want casual and sensual.

The intelligent part isn't down to what you learned through education there are plenty of intelligent people who haven't got a qualification to their name. It's emotional and sexual intelligence that counts.

There are people like that and those qualities are easily recognisable. Don't give up hope "

Correct assessment. I agree totally on education. Can’t stand snobbery either.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex


"I think you're either sensual or you aren't. There's nothing wrong with the direct approach and it suits lots of people who want casual sex. The problem is when you want casual and sensual.

The intelligent part isn't down to what you learned through education there are plenty of intelligent people who haven't got a qualification to their name. It's emotional and sexual intelligence that counts.

There are people like that and those qualities are easily recognisable. Don't give up hope

Correct assessment. I agree totally on education. Can’t stand snobbery either. "
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Neither can I, I don't like inverted snobbery either which seems to be far more prevalent and indeed encouraged and accepted.

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham


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The intelligent part isn't down to what you learned through education there are plenty of intelligent people who haven't got a qualification to their name"

Yes there are also people who are highly intelligent but very boring. I think when people state they want to meet intelligent people they often just want interesting, seductive and / or emotionally intelligent conversations, not a discussion on bioinformatics or a discussion of post modern feminist literature.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’m seeing a number of people on here, of all sexual persuasions, who are looking for, indeed longing to chat and meet those with a sensual and intelligent approach. It’s an approach I favour too, as I find the brash and often crude messages you get on here such a turn off. Does anyone one else feel the same? Let’s celebrate those more sensual Fabbers who enjoy that approach and long for it in their encounters on here.

Nothing we like more than standing at the bar of our favourite clubs reading out lengthy passages of Anna Karenina to our potential play partners "

Im actually styling myself on Karamazov snr these days...Shagging the village simpleton and that

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"

The intelligent part isn't down to what you learned through education there are plenty of intelligent people who haven't got a qualification to their name

Yes there are also people who are highly intelligent but very boring. I think when people state they want to meet intelligent people they often just want interesting, seductive and / or emotionally intelligent conversations, not a discussion on bioinformatics or a discussion of post modern feminist literature."
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Intelligence and education aren't the same in my opinion. I think there's a song called "educated fool"

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

Love this thread.... Are you sensual ? Would be interested in hearing examples of how it comes out in everyday life as well as dates / role play / meets

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By *uliaChrisCouple
over a year ago

westerham


"I’m seeing a number of people on here, of all sexual persuasions, who are looking for, indeed longing to chat and meet those with a sensual and intelligent approach. It’s an approach I favour too, as I find the brash and often crude messages you get on here such a turn off. Does anyone one else feel the same? Let’s celebrate those more sensual Fabbers who enjoy that approach and long for it in their encounters on here.

Nothing we like more than standing at the bar of our favourite clubs reading out lengthy passages of Anna Karenina to our potential play partners

Im actually styling myself on Karamazov snr these days...Shagging the village simpleton and that "

Well so long as you don’t meet the same end eh

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By *hamesGentMan
over a year ago

Oxfordshire / Sussex

I agree with much that's been written here. I much prefer a more thoughtful approach to this and appreciate getting to know people a little. I'm not talking about becoming lifelong friends (although if that happens, great), but I'm keen to spend my time with people who are like-minded, open and curious about the world, take their time and appreciate sensuality.

After all, good sex is about connection. And that needs to start in the mind.

As far as how sensuality comes out in everyday life, that's a good question. Appreciating beauty in all its forms, nature, people, music, food, etc., being open to new experiences, interested in learning, not quick to judge, and so on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think you're either sensual or you aren't. There's nothing wrong with the direct approach and it suits lots of people who want casual sex. The problem is when you want casual and sensual.

The intelligent part isn't down to what you learned through education there are plenty of intelligent people who haven't got a qualification to their name. It's emotional and sexual intelligence that counts.

There are people like that and those qualities are easily recognisable. Don't give up hope "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’m seeing a number of people on here, of all sexual persuasions, who are looking for, indeed longing to chat and meet those with a sensual and intelligent approach. It’s an approach I favour too, as I find the brash and often crude messages you get on here such a turn off. Does anyone one else feel the same? Let’s celebrate those more sensual Fabbers who enjoy that approach and long for it in their encounters on here.

Nothing we like more than standing at the bar of our favourite clubs reading out lengthy passages of Anna Karenina to our potential play partners

Im actually styling myself on Karamazov snr these days...Shagging the village simpleton and that

Well so long as you don’t meet the same end eh "

Im halfway through, don't spoil it for me! x

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