FabSwingers.com forum: Staying all night?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Just curious as I plan to meet up with people in hotels or their place. When meeting up, and assuming things go well of course, do you always expect to spend the whole night and sleep (actually sleep) together?

I'm interested in both the male and female perspective here.

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

Yes i would rather spend the night together if booking a hotel. I am not here for a relationship but do expect my Fab meets to be a bit special and not just a quick shag.

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By *edVelveteenCouple
over a year ago

Heaven in the Midlands

Nope. When the fun's done, time to go. I can't sleep with strangers in the vicinity. We can have all-night action, but when it's sleep time, it's time to go.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've done both, to me it depends how well you got on etc etc but do prefer all nighter

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By *ikingCoolMan
over a year ago

carmarthen

Make the night of it, you know if it went well, your at it again in the morning

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By *exualNeeds69Couple
over a year ago

Gatwick

Everyone is different and it is certainly a question to be asked when planning the meet. Also with who is paying for what (rooms) etc

Make it simple and clear so there can be no misinterpretations.

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By *adyA01Woman
over a year ago

Wellington

My preference as a single female, if I meet someone in a hotel then I like them to stay the night, that way I can take advantage of morning sex too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have done both, but more often than not when the fun is over then it's off to separate beds...

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By *oulja_01000Man
over a year ago

North East

Think it's different depending on chemistry and what you both expect from a meet.

I have had 2 or 3 stay overnight whilst accommodating the night befores antics (made a for a good morning re-run of naughtiness).... To a cuckold couple where I stayed the night with the Mrs's in their wedding to bed whilst hubby slept in the spare room. Whilst other singles and couples prefer to show the door once all the naughty fun is out the way...

Everyone is different and has different fantasies and kinks!... Guess you got to know what you want and that could also depend on the relationship you build with your play partners...

Hope that helps!

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By *ifeandhubby400Couple
over a year ago

Arse hole of nowhere ,Scotland

We have spent the night with a trusted meet ,but wouldnt with a random we have just met ,having sex is one thing but staying over and seeing each other in the cold light of day is another ,trusted regular only ...

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By *entlecaressMan
over a year ago

Wakefield/ Beverley

"Everyone is different and it is certainly a question to be asked when planning the meet. Also with who is paying for what (rooms) etc

Make it simple and clear so there can be no misinterpretations. "

I have done both and as said previously it depends on the meet and the people. But waking up with a meet couple in a big bed was interesting the first time it happened.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When we book hotels we like the guy to go once the fun is over then we can either have our own fun or sleep if we’re shattered! Plus then in the morning we can get another meet over if we want as we usually book a late check out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"When we book hotels we like the guy to go once the fun is over then we can either have our own fun or sleep if we’re shattered! Plus then in the morning we can get another meet over if we want as we usually book a late check out "

That's how I normally see it for couples too and the ones I have met in this situation see itvthe same...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always try to Accommodate and love people "that I know" staying the whole night.

Things can progress at their own pace, its more relaxed, we can experiment more and become much more comfortable with each other.

I even make breakfast.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love staying the night, being woken up to a stranger eating my pussy after it's been really fucked. Or maybe even waking up getting fucked, or vice versa waking them up sucking them nice and hard to start fucking all over again

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By *oroRick1027Man
over a year ago

Middlesbrough

If I'm meeting a single lady, I like to stay the night. But not with a couple.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It all depends on the meet - I do enjoy both......but generally only stay over if its just a meet with a "single" woman....

Also, it depends on whether its meant as a one night stand or if its meant just as a sexual experience, what time of day it happens and whether there is transport back if I havent driven there...

Once, I had a lunchtime meet - we enjoyed the hotel room and went our separate ways - we both fancied meeting up the following day, so went back to the same hotel room (I hadnt checked out) first thing the following morning....

On balance, I have to say that I have left after fun more than an overnight stay, but overnights can be good too - as the fun can continue....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I cant think of anything worse. Once the sex is over and they have completed their feedback questionnaire I want them gone. Our favourite part is going over what just happened and having a bit of a giggle

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By *angOnBunnyCouple
over a year ago

Ipswich

Nope. Separate ways always. Our bed is ours, and ours alone to sleep and cuddle in

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nowadays i only meet in clubs but years ago i only stayed overnight with one guy where i met him at his house and then in a hotel for the weekend with the guy who im now married to.

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By *vpamelaTV/TS
over a year ago

kinkville

Pre breakfast fun is always a nice bonus.

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By *arbellsWoman
over a year ago

Cambridge

It depends for me. If I know the person well then I will stay, if its someone I've only met a few times for social then I wouldn't stay

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By *hamesGentMan
over a year ago

Oxfordshire / Sussex

Good question this one. When I've been invited to a couple's home for an evening, more often than not, I've stayed the night, sleeping in their spare room. But that's something that has always been discussed beforehand, after spending some time getting to know them online or by phone. As I prefer a more unhurried and friendly encounter, this suits me well. It also means you can have a couple of drinks without having to worry about getting home. And of course, the obvious benefit is continuing the fun in the morning, which is a big part of the experience.

With hotel meets, I've both shared a room with a couple or booked my own room, which I think works better. It gives you a bit of privacy when you want it, and you can still continue the fun in the morning with a quick text invitation.

The key is working this out before you meet.

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

My preference would always be for an overnight stay but then my meets tend to be a little more than "just sex" and will usually last around 24 hours and consist of doing something social as well as spending intimate time together and are with people I've built a connection and chemistry with that, whilst still NSA, go beyond simply meeting for sex.

That said if it were with a couple, or someone that didn't want the overnight element, or even a meet in a club, and all other things being equal then an overnighter isn't a deal breaker either.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ahhh good topic.

I have done in the past but never on the first meet. Think it's quite intimate. Usually it's social drink and a good few hours at mine or theirs having some naughty fun if all goes well. Kinda seems natural to have a chill after for an hour then get off.

However I did regularly meet a cuck couple for over a year and a big fantasy of ours was for me and the wife to spend the night in their bed. Cuck was banished into the spare room until morning

Brought us coffee and watched as she laid in my arms.

Hot, hot, hot

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I also know couples who after the threesome want some time alone to fuck in order to talk about it. Few couples have said their best sex is straight after a meet

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By *uriousscouserWoman
over a year ago

Wirral

Depends on the person but we've normally talked it out beforehand.

My preference is for an overnight stay, I don't like to feel as though I'm watching the clock or there is a deadline.

I'm also a big fan of sleepy morning sex, all loose-limbed and warm-skinned.

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By *ikesEmBigMan
over a year ago

Amsterdam

I'm not why you wouldn't want to abuse the room all night

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends where you are and who really you get a feel for it usually have had 3 sums and then joined in the guest bedroom with the wife or he wants her for himself after woman sometimes want you to stay as well

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I also know couples who after the threesome want some time alone to fuck in order to talk about it. Few couples have said their best sex is straight after a meet "

Definitely this!

We never do sleep overs. I let them know before we meet that they will have to leave.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Depends on the person but we've normally talked it out beforehand.

My preference is for an overnight stay, I don't like to feel as though I'm watching the clock or there is a deadline.

I'm also a big fan of sleepy morning sex, all loose-limbed and warm-skinned."

We’ve got to agree with this,

Only 2 meets up to now but both have lasted till the early hours any way so by the time it was over it was time to go home anyway

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By *ily WhiteWoman
over a year ago

I've only ever stayed overnight with one person...we actually stayed together on our first meet, but we had chatted and had a connection before we met.

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By * and R cple4Couple
over a year ago

swansea

"Nope. When the fun's done, time to go. I can't sleep with strangers in the vicinity. We can have all-night action, but when it's sleep time, it's time to go.

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

Has to be full overnight in a hotel with a trusted FWB only.

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By *avefuntimes2Couple
over a year ago

Huntingdon

We have done both we don’t mind people staying over if we all get on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fire my broadside and sail off into the darkness.

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire

A guy offered to pay for a hotel room for me to get changed in and afterwards spend the night with him. But if I’ve never met that person before I’m not chancing it, besides he may snore and it, be as bad as my snoring

Once I told him, I’d get my own room and would also pay half towards dinner, (yes I need feeding) he cooled off.

I feel bought in some way, so prefer a nice evening then off they go, only with someone I know would I consider an all night meet.

Plus I’m never randy in the morning and my makeup maybe slightly smudge

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have done both over the years and it all depends on various things. The individuals meeting and what they want out it and also if it's a first meet or a long standing set up. As long as both get out of it what they want, that's the main thing

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By *racy_JacksWoman
over a year ago

Derby

Sleepovers are rare for me. I don’t meet in hotels anyway, struggle to sleep sharing a bed and I usually have things to do in the morning. Even with a trusted fwb who lives 50 miles away, he drives back!

I done it on occasion, usually for practical reasons. I have to be really into someone really for that (ie, someone I’m dating)

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By *bbott24Couple
over a year ago

Devizes

I let Jane do a sleep over with her fbuddy evidently her fucked many times

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By *hemainintainMan
over a year ago

govan

I would always want to get home but one early swig meet involved me meeting the couple in a bar, we all got on great so back to theirs. We had a really hot threesome but after the husband came he left me and his Mrs to it... We fucked some more and she came with me giving her oral.

I left at about three am. She text me at 9am asking if she could pop round. No hubby on sight. She came in and I fucked her on the kitchen table, she came as I came inside her.

I never knew if hubby knew she had followed up, I never asked if I'm honest and met her alone again a few weeks later.

They were engaged to be married and I'm sure they got married so maybe it was all just part of their dynamic ....

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By *ounty durham bbw coupleCouple
over a year ago

darlington

We prefer to leave once its over we always book a room of our own if we travel for a meet we have offered to have meets stop over at ours they usually prefer to leave once the sex is finished usually stop for a drink then go

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just curious as I plan to meet up with people in hotels or their place. When meeting up, and assuming things go well of course, do you always expect to spend the whole night and sleep (actually sleep) together?

I'm interested in both the male and female perspective here."

I will definitely spend the night as long as I enjoy her vibe, would be really nice to have causal fwb that you get along with

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By *oneyjule65Couple
over a year ago

Halifax

After social drinks & chat for a couple or so hours we come back to ours for a several hours of fun then they go home. We found 3 in our bed all night doesn't work really... can't afford a bigger bed...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When we can plan special meets, for us it almost feels more real if a guy spends the night with our Fem.

Once lockdown is over we have a bit of catching up to do. Any guys fancy an all nighter in 2021? Let’s book it now

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By *hecitycplCouple
over a year ago

London

We've met one guy a few times. F said she'd be happy to have him share the bed all night so she can be woken up by him in the morning. Or maybe she'll wake him up?

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over a year ago

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By *omerset_naughtyMan
over a year ago

marmaris,Icelemer Turkey

I'm interested in both the male and female perspective here."

Jessica I'd much rather spend the night together make the most time I could with someone like yourself. It's more special and the connection is there more then and obviously they know I'm not in any rush to leave or clock watching. Also nice to Wales up with them next to me afterwards too xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"After social drinks & chat for a couple or so hours we come back to ours for a several hours of fun then they go home. We found 3 in our bed all night doesn't work really... can't afford a bigger bed...

I sometimes end up in the guest bedroom, not always on my own either ??

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By *entlecaressMan
over a year ago

Wakefield/ Beverley

"When we can plan special meets, for us it almost feels more real if a guy spends the night with our Fem.

Once lockdown is over we have a bit of catching up to do. Any guys fancy an all nighter in 2021? Let’s book it now

Love to help you that both of us sandwiching your lovely lady wake up call mmm

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By *uninlondon69Man
over a year ago

Tower Bridge South

Morning sex is always a good way to pick up where we left the night before

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

I've only stayed overnight with someone once, I'd rather leave and not have to put up with snoring!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Either works for me, I have a king size bed and I'm only little so...

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By *xcited99Couple
over a year ago

omagh

No once the a ton cools down and I relax again I go off home. Main reason is that the sex with hubby afterwards is more amazing than usual.

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By *ittleMissCaliWoman
over a year ago

all loved up

I'm interested in both the male and female perspective here."
no... I dont like sharing a bed...so I'd have my fun and send them home.

I find it odd to spend the night with someone unless they are a regular partner

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By *dam1971Man
over a year ago

Bedford

I’ve done both, generally I prefer an overnight but it’s really always up for discussion. Mostly it’s down to whether she feels safe enough

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Overnight would be my preference, but then I don’t meet for ‘just’ sex. There has to be connection/chemistry and therefore a more intimate experience is desired from both sides.

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By *rzuuMan
over a year ago

Norwich

AS with most other comments on here, it very much on a meet by meet circumstance. Personally I would love for a lady to stay all night, but if she wants to go then I have no issue with that at all.

Everyone has preferences, so I don't adhere to a solid rule here.

Whatever though, both parties need to be comfortable and feel safe if the decision IS to stay over, and on the flip side, neither party should be offended is the other party decides NOT to stay.

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By *oneyjule65Couple
over a year ago

Halifax

I sometimes end up in the guest bedroom, not always on my own either ??"

Ooh

we only have a mattress in the attic...

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By *iss KinkWoman
over a year ago

North West

"Overnight would be my preference, but then I don’t meet for ‘just’ sex. There has to be connection/chemistry and therefore a more intimate experience is desired from both sides."

This

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By *he_virgin_maryWoman
over a year ago

Here, there and everywhere!

"My preference as a single female, if I meet someone in a hotel then I like them to stay the night, that way I can take advantage of morning sex too

Same here!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love this haha

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By *oneyBear100Couple
over a year ago

Gatwick area

We've both spent the night with someone else and had an amazing night but with singles we'd known for a while.

Not a one off 'random'

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