FabSwingers.com forum: BDSM

By *ild Phoenix OP Man
over a year ago

London

Hey everyone, hope you're staying safe, do you have kinky minds? Are you up for having BDSM session? If yes what are you interested in trying?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd love to try HIA

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By *ild Phoenix OP Man
over a year ago

London

What you like to try? And is it on yourself or others?

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

"I'd love to try HIA "

Thought you were all about the KIA?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'd love to try HIA

Thought you were all about the KIA?

Bloody autocorrect !! Yes I mean KIZ obviously

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

BDSM is certainly an interest of mine OP but it's not about specifics I'd like to try, more a submissive mindset to get into with someone that makes me "feel" submissive and who I then hand control to - I also find the subject fascinating from an intellectual perspective and enjoy discussing it with likeminded people

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I absolutely love BDSM D/s play is amazing. Ive tried so much over the years and cant wait to go to a dungeon after lockdown x

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By *h86Man
over a year ago

Glos

Definitely Femdom where I'm tied and blindfolded, not knowing whats about to happen. Well, pegging at least hopefully

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By *ild Phoenix OP Man
over a year ago

London

I have wide experience in BDSM and I do private sessions, so am happy to discuss it with like minded swingers.

As some people think that BDSM is about pain, when it's not at that at all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hi, I'm quite new to this lifestyle, just waiting till this lock down is over to get collared, can't wait, however I will also be in control sometimes. One of my first it's to be wearing remote control love eggs in public, n we both can't wait,

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By *ild Phoenix OP Man
over a year ago

London

"Hi, I'm quite new to this lifestyle, just waiting till this lock down is over to get collared, can't wait, however I will also be in control sometimes. One of my first it's to be wearing remote control love eggs in public, n we both can't wait, "

Hi, what did you tried so far? And if you can tell us more about your experience.

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By *herryblossom_BJWoman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

Only with the right people as it's about trust

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By *ild Phoenix OP Man
over a year ago

London

"Only with the right people as it's about trust"

Definitely, that's why before meeting anyone I make sure to chat for proper period of time till we have trust in each other and I can prepare a session to turn her mentally before physically.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I want to tie a man up and make him watch me give him a slow oily hand job.

Taking him to the edge multiple times until he can't help himself and he cums without me touching him.

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By *ild Phoenix OP Man
over a year ago

London

"I want to tie a man up and make him watch me give him a slow oily hand job.

Taking him to the edge multiple times until he can't help himself and he cums without me touching him. "

Wow that's amazing, although I am a Dom but I would love to try that feeling.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OK so really new to it, just done mind control, I like being mind consumed but it does over take in my sleep, n wake up cummin,

N one real time experience, but this was more about my on personal test, to cut long story short left ex husband last year, I've not had sex for nearly 6 years, n lost all my confidence.

Anyway so this happened

I had been talking to a potential dom, who wanted to test me to see if I really wanted this lifestyle, we discussed various things n what he wanted me to do, to which I fully agreed too. for a good while. He was honest n told me he didn't have time to train a new sub. so I turned up to his house, (although she thought I was mad, my best friend waited in the car) I let myself in, stripped naked n put the blindfold on, he then walked in silently, went to the freezer n got a frozen ice cube of his cum out n put it in my mouth, then he bent me over a kitchen stool n fucked me up the arse (can't believe I'm telling u this lol) after a good very good session of that he then walked me to a cushion to kneel on still blind folded n skull fucked me, he then let himself out I got dressed n went back to my car,

the test was to keep the blindfold on which I did.

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By *ild Phoenix OP Man
over a year ago

London

"OK so really new to it, just done mind control, I like being mind consumed but it does over take in my sleep, n wake up cummin,

N one real time experience, but this was more about my on personal test, to cut long story short left ex husband last year, I've not had sex for nearly 6 years, n lost all my confidence.

Anyway so this happened

the test was to keep the blindfold on which I did.

Thank you for sharing, what amazing experience, this shows that BDSM isn't about pain but about mind control and turning mentally.

Would you like to discuss potential scenarios in private?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thank you for the offer, but Im just waiting for this lock down to get collared, my Sir would be the only guy I'd be having those conversations with in private.

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By *ild Phoenix OP Man
over a year ago

London

"Thank you for the offer, but Im just waiting for this lock down to get collared, my Sir would be the only guy I'd be having those conversations with in private. "

No worries, I wish you amazing sessions in the future and hope you'll keep us updated with your adventures;)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I absolutely love BDSM D/s play is amazing. Ive tried so much over the years and cant wait to go to a dungeon after lockdown x

I am with you on that one missus

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thank you xx

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By *ild Phoenix OP Man
over a year ago

London

"I absolutely love BDSM D/s play is amazing. Ive tried so much over the years and cant wait to go to a dungeon after lockdown x

I am with you on that one missus

What dungeon do you go to. As I am always interested in visiting new dungeons.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I absolutely love BDSM D/s play is amazing. Ive tried so much over the years and cant wait to go to a dungeon after lockdown x

I am with you on that one missus

Fallen Angel's in Birmingham is meant to be an amazing BDSM club to try. Its top of my list x

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By *ild Phoenix OP Man
over a year ago

London

"I absolutely love BDSM D/s play is amazing. Ive tried so much over the years and cant wait to go to a dungeon after lockdown x

I am with you on that one missus

Fallen Angel's in Birmingham is meant to be an amazing BDSM club to try. Its top of my list x"

Thank you for the recommendation, I'll make sure to visit it when the lockdown is over.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I absolutely love BDSM D/s play is amazing. Ive tried so much over the years and cant wait to go to a dungeon after lockdown x

I am with you on that one missus

What dungeon do you go to. As I am always interested in visiting new dungeons. "

Dungeon is probably the wrong word, I know some clubs have a Dungeon in their premises. Ive been in a few. A few Doms I know have their own dungeon and equipment. I just want BDSM fun so will travel if I have too xx

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By *ild Phoenix OP Man
over a year ago

London

"I absolutely love BDSM D/s play is amazing. Ive tried so much over the years and cant wait to go to a dungeon after lockdown x

I am with you on that one missus

What dungeon do you go to. As I am always interested in visiting new dungeons.

You're always welcome and try my session where you'll be pushed to your maximum limits,in several toys and different positions. These toys are totally harmless, but they leave marks on the body. You dont have to try all my toys, we try only those that you're interested in and on the aim of the training.

My session includes electrodes, pussy,clit,tits and nipples pump,pussy stretching, flogging,erotic massage,anal toys ,anal gaping,clamps,enema,and other erotic toys in additional to wild sex in different techniques,breath control,bondage, ropes,and blindfold.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Advice please, I've got a couple of ideas of what how n where to go, with my guy when I'm in control, but will anyone share their experiences that they enjoyed in this role play where the sub is in control x tia

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By *ild Phoenix OP Man
over a year ago

London

"Advice please, I've got a couple of ideas of what how n where to go, with my guy when I'm in control, but will anyone share their experiences that they enjoyed in this role play where the sub is in control x tia"

Unfortunately Tia I was never controlled by my sub, but I think I'll give that a try in the future, hope that others can share us there experiences.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OK thanks,

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By *inkycreamCouple
over a year ago

manchester

Got the scares to prove it

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By *ikilovesCCouple
over a year ago

village life, closest main town inverness

Would like to try some more rope tying and get a cross

Bought one of the over door ones but it's just not the same lol

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By *ild Phoenix OP Man
over a year ago

London

"Got the scares to prove it

Great work on your profile pics.

I believe you'll enjoy trying my toys.

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By *asterandGenieCouple
over a year ago

Norfolk

"I have wide experience in BDSM and I do private sessions, so am happy to discuss it with like minded swingers.

As some people think that BDSM is about pain, when it's not at that at all."

Well if you’re an M or an S then yes it is

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like to dominate axwench in my captain's quarter's with my caine and paddle.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fundamentally BDSM is a mental game that needs to be built upon trust. It's a fascinating game of chess that needs strategy, understanding a deep insight into what the sub needs and desires in order to be fulfilled and set free in release.

Anyone can spank or dish out pain, but without the above, you are missing 99% of the point.

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By *ild Phoenix OP Man
over a year ago

London

"Fundamentally BDSM is a mental game that needs to be built upon trust. It's a fascinating game of chess that needs strategy, understanding a deep insight into what the sub needs and desires in order to be fulfilled and set free in release.

Anyone can spank or dish out pain, but without the above, you are missing 99% of the point. "

So true, well said. Unfortunately the largest number of people think it's pain and spanking.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Boob bondage

Suckle, ice , oil then cum.

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By *ack-offMan
over a year ago

hertfordshire

Nothing better than teasing a sexy lady

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"OK so really new to it, just done mind control, I like being mind consumed but it does over take in my sleep, n wake up cummin,

N one real time experience, but this was more about my on personal test, to cut long story short left ex husband last year, I've not had sex for nearly 6 years, n lost all my confidence.

Anyway so this happened

the test was to keep the blindfold on which I did.

I'm collared myslef and in my view trust it's not something that would come easily..specialy on BDSM.

I'm surprised that you managed to trust all that on a 1st meet however glad you had a good experience!

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By *ild Phoenix OP Man
over a year ago

London

"Nothing better than teasing a sexy lady

Exactly, that will turn you in crazy way.

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By *izzibeth9Couple
over a year ago

Loughborough

"OK so really new to it, just done mind control, I like being mind consumed but it does over take in my sleep, n wake up cummin,

N one real time experience, but this was more about my on personal test, to cut long story short left ex husband last year, I've not had sex for nearly 6 years, n lost all my confidence.

Anyway so this happened

the test was to keep the blindfold on which I did.

I'm collared myslef and in my view trust it's not something that would come easily..specialy on BDSM.

I'm surprised that you managed to trust all that on a 1st meet however glad you had a good experience! "

I thought the same, not sure I’d trust anyone to do any scenes with that I hadn’t first met and communicated with properly!

There are soooo many guys out there these days that claim to be a ‘Dom’ when actually they just like a bit of rough sex or are a little bit kinky.

I don’t think I could do any kind of BDSM with anyone that I hadn’t got a good connection with, it’s far too deep and personal for me.

My favourite thing at the moment (my favourite things do change) is wax play ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Anyone can spank or dish out pain, but without the above, you are missing 99% of the point. "

Id still love a full on session in a dungeon though with a trusted Dom for a one off play, more if it was local x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I absolutely love BDSM D/s play is amazing. Ive tried so much over the years and cant wait to go to a dungeon after lockdown x

I am with you on that one missus

What dungeon do you go to. As I am always interested in visiting new dungeons.

Sounds amazing, typical not local

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By *ild Phoenix OP Man
over a year ago

London

"I absolutely love BDSM D/s play is amazing. Ive tried so much over the years and cant wait to go to a dungeon after lockdown x

I am with you on that one missus

What dungeon do you go to. As I am always interested in visiting new dungeons.

Sounds amazing, typical not local

You're welcome to London anytime, and if you like we can stay in touch till you visit London,where I'll take you to clubs and dungeon that I go to.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"OK so really new to it, just done mind control, I like being mind consumed but it does over take in my sleep, n wake up cummin,

N one real time experience, but this was more about my on personal test, to cut long story short left ex husband last year, I've not had sex for nearly 6 years, n lost all my confidence.

Anyway so this happened

the test was to keep the blindfold on which I did.

I'm collared myslef and in my view trust it's not something that would come easily..specialy on BDSM.

I'm surprised that you managed to trust all that on a 1st meet however glad you had a good experience! "

We had been talking a good while, however it was more about me, n having the courage n confidence to actually go through with it, I was rebuilding myself back, n it was as simple as, if I can do this I can do anything,

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By *ountryfansCouple
over a year ago

huntingdon

I (adie) would love to be tied with ropes. Love to be teased and tormented.

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