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Regular or 1 offs

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hi All

We are just wondering what you all prefer. Regular meets or just the one off meets. We do not like the wham bam meets we like long regular fun with regular meets

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Both used to think regulars... but found it quite exciting meeting one offs as well

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Regular all the way.........

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I prefer one offs, im not into wham bam meets tho, all because i dont want to meet someone again i still like to meet for a drink to make sure i like them, have a chat and a flirt then have a full night of hot steamy sex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Without a doubt one offs - regular becomes something we don't feel happy with , too friendly and often clingy - we just do this for the thrill and change which club meets and one offs satisfy perfectly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

prefer friendly meets, be them one offs or regular, we have a mix of both but always get to know eachother before and usually do something social before we play

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

depends on who it is

as i love regular fun and getting to know someone and buidling on it and becoming good friends and also having better and better sex all the time

but some people you do see again and its not the same as the first time, or they dont make the effort the same or just constantly texting haha, and that can make it not as good too. so people like that maybe you are better with one offs, but overall i like making sexy friends and keep in touch and play another day if i can x

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By *empnbunkCouple
over a year ago

south coast

Both

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

when i have seen someone twice or three times then i get bored with them, they probably get bored with me too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

both but one off are not for me really as like to know people .. sex is better for me like that .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

depends how sexy u iz

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As a single guy, i prefer regulars as dont get too many potentials to have one-offs Lol.

Though the occasional one nighter is fun!!

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

I like my regulars but dont mind one offs but i do like to get to know the person well before i meet them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Both used to think regulars... but found it quite exciting meeting one offs as well "

Ditto really - both have huge benefits

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By *ityboy2001Man
over a year ago

All NW

Regulars are better one because you can get know each other and really start to push each others buttons but of course only if the first meet goes well... And two with so many timewasters and fake profiles here meets with new people aren't always available. Although as a single guy I'm happy to meet either way...

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By *abloBackMan
over a year ago

London

I like regular one offs

I also like one off a regular

That's me, easy to please

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By *ush_tushWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

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By *ush_tushWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

When I first got into swinging i prefered o e-offs but found it was a bit too shallow for me and now much prefer regulars....with the trust built over time its easier to explore fantasies and experiences.....

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By *ush_tushWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like both . No matter which it is id always meet for a social drink first after a few exchanged messages on here. I have to feel comfortable with the person along with a physical attraction on both sides.

It's alot of fun

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By *eet_the_spartanMan
over a year ago

Manchester

Regualar definitely. I had a lot of one off meets before I met Rachel and joined here and everything. Not fun at all. I'd much rather have good friends with benefits

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By *its The Spot AlotMan
over a year ago

Plymouth

Think theres a place for both reg and 1 offs.

Reg tend to get better and can experiment

But there is that buz at meeting a new sexy friend mmmmm

I spose im just Greedy !!

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By *exki11enWoman
over a year ago

Bristol

I like repeat meets. You know what you're getting and the sex gets better every time.

I like the buzz and nerves of a new meet too tho.

Hey, i'm just greedy

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By *ovedupstillCouple
over a year ago

mullinwire

would like to find friends rather than notches, so repeat.

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By *U1966Man
over a year ago

Devon

Regular over one offs for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Regular for me (taking care to avoid the clingy ones ) as familiarity breeds trust and an ability ti be more open and let yourself go.

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By *nlyThaBestMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

Bit a both, as long as it's exciting and you all have fun it's a winner

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only really want to meet people going to have regular meets with, but that doesn't always pan out..

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

I'll take what I can get!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'll take what I can get!"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi All

We are just wondering what you all prefer. Regular meets or just the one off meets. We do not like the wham bam meets we like long regular fun with regular meets "

regular meets r the best,but last regular friend ended up begin a twisted bitch,but boy did she make me hard and horney,maybe one off r the best,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We prefer one off meets if its a private meet arranged through here, but at parties or in clubs we often see the same people repeatedly and will quite happily play again and again.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'll take what I can get!"

Ditto ........ Within reason

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like abit of both really. But do prefere regular meets with women I like the flirting going out and having fun when we choose to. Iam married but always dreamed of having a gf but I certainly wouldn't say no to a one off.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Regular is def more preferable. Just like with your partner you get to know what turns them on and visa versa. That said, pure raw sex with total stranger in a club is gr8 fun too ! lol

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By *habsMan
over a year ago

Fortress of Solitude, Middlesex

Depends on the person, lol. If its so good - go back for more I say!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

if i meet someone to many time i tend to find the sex gets a little samey and boring, as does the person lol i just think meeting new and different people keeps it more exciting

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

I like regular meets on and irregular basis if that makes sense.....

it doesn't have to be every so often, but if you click with people then I don't see why you should only meet once or twice.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i suppose it depends on what you call regular tho

regular as in calling on the same person every time you wanted a shag, meeting them on a weekly/monthy basis i wouldnt do

Meeting someone more than once i will do if its something like once every 3/4 or so months because thats a long enough gap to not get to know them to well and stops the time you do spend together from being same old

Tho most of my meets are one offs i will do re meets with the right person its just most guys i meet tend to be asking if i want to meet them again next weekend before we have even finished the meet that weekend and that just puts me off and the chances of me re meeting someone like that is zero

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By *habsMan
over a year ago

Fortress of Solitude, Middlesex

A girl once said that she prefers to not meet people more than once so she doesn't fall in love with them - surely that's more of an emotional discipline issue if there's a risk of falling in love with everyone you've slept with more than once?

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey


"Hi All

We are just wondering what you all prefer. Regular meets or just the one off meets. We do not like the wham bam meets we like long regular fun with regular meets "

We like both.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

take time to know someone...so a regular meet is better

but one off has his fun

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By *xpandmyhorizonsMan
over a year ago

Co. Antrim

One offs are good but I like regular too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"One offs are good but I like regular too"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is regular classed as once a year around my birthday or would that be a one off..... Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

regular meets are best by far, think women prefer it to men though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is regular classed as once a year around my birthday or would that be a one off..... Lol"
thats a one off hun..lmao

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is regular classed as once a year around my birthday or would that be a one off..... Lol thats a one off hun..lmao "

May have to use the same hand as last year, could be classed as regular then lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Regular is very nice...build up the trust and explore new things though yes I suppose one-offs can be exciting at times!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Regular meets over one off's. Really depends on how the first meet pan's out.

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By *risky-841Woman
over a year ago

Plymouth

I much prefer meeting someone with the hope of developing a friendship. I love fuck buddies and I've only had one in the past. I'd love to build up on that! hehe

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By *its The Spot AlotMan
over a year ago

Plymouth

I think most of us would prefer just a few reg fuck buddies.

I find you just get a good one and then try for a 2nd or 3rd and the 1st disapears then they drift back and the 3rd disapears

suddenly you either have a drought or all of them want a piece of you at the same time !!

its like trying to herding a group of cats lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

take it when you can.

be thankful.

dont pressure a woman into meeting again.

she will text,call you and let you know if she wants to.

and if not, dont worry.

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By *picyspiregirlCouple
over a year ago

chesterfield

I have a select few regulars but love the thrill of a one of meet.

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