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FWB, what's more important to you...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

The friendship or the benefits?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Benefits. Got friends and a family already, although it's good to have a connection as it's makes things more relaxed and fun, it's ultimately just about sex for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would say definitely both in equal measures.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Benefits. Got friends and a family already, although it's good to have a connection as it's makes things more relaxed and fun, it's ultimately just about sex for me. "

We surely that's a fuck buddy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Benefits. Got friends and a family already, although it's good to have a connection as it's makes things more relaxed and fun, it's ultimately just about sex for me.

We surely that's a fuck buddy. "

You're probably right. Get the two mixed up sometimes!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Benefits. Got friends and a family already, although it's good to have a connection as it's makes things more relaxed and fun, it's ultimately just about sex for me.

We surely that's a fuck buddy.

You're probably right. Get the two mixed up sometimes!"

Easy mistake.

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By *affeine DuskMan
over a year ago

Caerphilly

The 'with' part.

Otherwise it's one or the other.

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By *osie xWoman
over a year ago

wolverhampton


"I would say definitely both in equal measures. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The friendship or the benefits?"

Benefits for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The 'with' part.

Otherwise it's one or the other.

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Oohh good call!!

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

Benefits. It’s sex I want

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By *herryblossom_BJWoman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

Love to meet someone i can get on in and out of bedroom.

But if i have to choose.. Benefits outweigh friendship as we all want great sex

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By *llaboutthewifeCouple
over a year ago

Cardiff

No connection means no benefits, have to have that mental and physical connection for it to work.

That's why repeat meets are best, to build on it

Jo x

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By *oobyliciousnessWoman
over a year ago

outside Llanelli.


"The friendship or the benefits?"

Both in equal measures it’s great to get along with someone share a giggle then enjoy the benefits just as much

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West

For me and my fwb, we were friends and teammates first, benefits second. So I think the friendship is ultimately more important for me and I think for him too. The benefits are fun, feels very naughty even though obviously I have permission, but if we never saw each other for sexy times, I'd cope. I wouldn't want to never see him again, period. So, friendship wins.

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By *iercedtaurusMan
over a year ago

Leicester

The friendship aspect is what I look for more than the benefits.

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By *thleticgirthMan
over a year ago

wirral


"Love to meet someone i can get on in and out of bedroom.

But if i have to choose.. Benefits outweigh friendship as we all want great sex"

I would love to chat but alas i have read your profile and you have a height restriction

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Both. Benefits are what it's actually about but friendship and trust leads to pushing boundaries and exploring fantasies

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By *ocoTemptationMan
over a year ago

london

For me its important that we are genuinely friends. Friend who can both rely on each other to be open and supportive about the adventures we have with other people in a non jealous no judgmental way as a friend would.

...and the benefits being when you're not meeting just to hangout or Netflix n Chill you can still fuck on an uninhibited carnal level.

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

Both equally important. It’s mutual connection.

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By *herryblossom_BJWoman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

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By *herryblossom_BJWoman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire


"Love to meet someone i can get on in and out of bedroom.

But if i have to choose.. Benefits outweigh friendship as we all want great sex

I would love to chat but alas i have read your profile and you have a height restriction "

Sorry but I'm super fussy

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By *overWantedMan
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

Friendship. Lots of texts, planning the odd night away etc. Getting pictures of the lingerie I bought

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By *ribsaMan
over a year ago

A box at end of your bed

For me and my FwB I think it's the friendship first followed by the benefits. We enjoy each other's company and have similar interests the sex is just the icing on the cake so to speak.

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By *heeseandWineCouple
over a year ago

Reading and Southampton


"Both. Benefits are what it's actually about but friendship and trust leads to pushing boundaries and exploring fantasies "
We totally agree

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Some good feedback on this thread. Interesting to hear others opinions. For me I think the term has to involve friendship x

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By *quaman87Man
over a year ago

Colchester

Both but benefit a little more

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Benefits x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Benefits x"

See Im not so sure. I think the friendship is as important tbh

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