FabSwingers.com forum: Couples profiles

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Hi all, iv been coming across many couples profiles that seem to be the male half and the female 'is sleeping, at work, busy' all this nonsense.

To me it just seems like a Male after seeing abit of dick lol

Is this something that others seem to come across alot? And do yous think alot of single gay men do it to try and get chatting to straight guys?

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By *bi HaiveMan
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over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

"Hi all, iv been coming across many couples profiles that seem to be the male half and the female 'is sleeping, at work, busy' all this nonsense.

To me it just seems like a Male after seeing abit of dick lol

Is this something that others seem to come across alot? And do yous think alot of single gay men do it to try and get chatting to straight guys?"

There will be couples profiles that aren't really couples. They can be easy to spot - dodgy photos, none of them together, no veris or just one or two that are hidden.

There'll also be couples profiles where one party is more active than the other online, either through messages, chat or forums - much like ours. Fox probably hasn't logged on in months so it'll always be me spouting crap in here. Doesn't make us any less of a couple.

If you think a profile isn't what it seems, whether couple or single, then move on to another.

It's not as if they're scarce on site now is it.....

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By *bsolutebeginnersCouple
over a year ago

Planet Ork

Most couples aren’t joined at the hip but it doesn’t mean that it’s a not a real couples account. Just check the verifications to see if they are a real couple.

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By *ee And MikeCouple
over a year ago

Cannock

I am the cuck in a couple, I deal with the account but it’s not me that gains the pleasure from any meets.

Also not everyone feels like putting verifications on here, for example we’ve met two guys off here that were part of a couples account and the verifications might be a bit embarrassing for them to answer for to their partner

I’m certainly not interested in looking at other guys cocks, no matter how impressive they think they are

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thanks for the feedback, il keep an eye ouy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I (Mrs) am more active. We both participate when it comes to messaging. We have pics of us together in our private pics and will send them via DM. We tend not to be whipping the camera out when we're naked together as we're busy enjoying other things... Hence why our visible photos are of us separately.

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By *ong_John2333Man
over a year ago

Birmingham

"Hi all, iv been coming across many couples profiles that seem to be the male half and the female 'is sleeping, at work, busy' all this nonsense.

To me it just seems like a Male after seeing abit of dick lol

Is this something that others seem to come across alot? And do yous think alot of single gay men do it to try and get chatting to straight guys?"

Yep, this seems to happen a fair amount to me too... always waiting for the female half to turn up but she is always at work/in bed/in the shower etc...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Men need to understand when messaging couples, it’s more important to bond with the Male half first. If he doesn’t like you nothing will happen. He needs to feel comfortable and trust you with his wife.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Men need to understand when messaging couples, it’s more important to bond with the Male half first. If he doesn’t like you nothing will happen. He needs to feel comfortable and trust you with his wife. "

A million percent this

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By *angOnBunnyCouple
over a year ago

Ipswich

A million percent this

Fully agree

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By *bi HaiveMan
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over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

A different opinion on that from me.

Neither party has priority. You'll need to get on with both. It wouldn't matter to me if I thought a guy was perfect and we were getting on like a house on fire online. If Fox didn't think the same it would be a non starter. There's no point in trying to impress one half of a couple to get access to the other.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A true Male swinger knows to talk to both members of a couple. That’s why we recommend couples should meet men from couples profiles who play separately. These guys understand the dynamics and don’t tend to overstep the mark.

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By *ee And MikeCouple
over a year ago

Cannock

Totally agree, just because we are cucks doesn’t mean we don’t love our wives, in fact we probably love them more, it just that we can’t provide the sexual satisfaction they require, but that doesn’t mean to say we will hand them over to any disrespect idiot and I’m sorry to say there are quite a few on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I (thewife) am more active on here it's probably 70% me 30% the husband.

We do read messages and leave them for the other to read unless we are together. Because we have done this some people get proper shirty about this and throw accusations at us saying we're a fake couple. Ummmmmm have a read of our veris.

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By *bi HaiveMan
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over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

"A true Male swinger knows to talk to both members of a couple. That’s why we recommend couples should meet men from couples profiles who play separately. These guys understand the dynamics and don’t tend to overstep the mark. "

Being in a swinging couple gives some a better perspective. But equally I've met and known plenty who feel a sense of superiority over single guys - and I've been one.

You don't have to be part of a couple to have the right attitude and approach. Plenty of single guys do. And any couple meeting single guys needs to also remember that they're as important an element of any meet as the couple themselves. They're not there just for the couples benefit and their own enjoyment is just as important.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Yeah i fully get that not all couples are with each other 24/7. After reading these reviews i have an incline of what to lookout for. Dont get me wrong me and im sure most other single guys are down to speak to the male, hes part of the couple and i would just look for single women if i wasn't interested in speaking/the male joining in.

Its more along the lines of speaking for like a week and shes never been there but they always seem to be asking for pics and saying things like 'oh my wife would love if you done so and so', no you mean you would love lol

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By *oan of DArcCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow

"Hi all, iv been coming across many couples profiles that seem to be the male half and the female 'is sleeping, at work, busy' all this nonsense.

To me it just seems like a Male after seeing abit of dick lol

Is this something that others seem to come across alot? And do yous think alot of single gay men do it to try and get chatting to straight guys?"

When we first started here my hubby would do most of the messaging because I wasn't that interested in it, as time's gone on he's become less interested and it's me 80% of the time.

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By *irewolffMan
over a year ago

Dublin

Happens us ALL the time. Same excuses over and over.

They get my kik, I set up a group chat with MrD them and myself. The missus is either busy upstairs, asleep, not in the mood to chat blah blah blah.

Then I get the guy messaging me wanting to 'get to know me'. Using a couples profile is a way in for them. Pretty easy to out though.

MsD

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Happens us ALL the time. Same excuses over and over.

They get my kik, I set up a group chat with MrD them and myself. The missus is either busy upstairs, asleep, not in the mood to chat blah blah blah.

Then I get the guy messaging me wanting to 'get to know me'. Using a couples profile is a way in for them. Pretty easy to out though.

MsD"

Thats more the point im getting at, i see couples looking for a meet for the male half only, saying i want him to film and take pics and come back with a wet dick for me. To me thats a single guy allover lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’d love to can with you .

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

And there we have it lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never a truer word spoken!! Wish more people heed this advice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Happens us ALL the time. Same excuses over and over.

They get my kik, I set up a group chat with MrD them and myself. The missus is either busy upstairs, asleep, not in the mood to chat blah blah blah.

Then I get the guy messaging me wanting to 'get to know me'. Using a couples profile is a way in for them. Pretty easy to out though.

MsD"

We've had this a fair bit but.like you say easy to catch out.

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By *imandLynn98Couple
over a year ago

Palm Coast

I, the male half, do all the chatting online. Lynn only wants to see pics of who i am chatting with and not much else. She lets me screen and pick not only couples but singles as well. Also, she is still working and I am retired, therefore i have time to mess with the different websites and whatnot where she wants to come home from work and relax.

Couple that with the fact her adult son has moved in with us and we do not get much an opportunity to chat, cam, etc. as we do not have sufficient privacy in our home to do so.

Having said all that we have seen more than our share of couples profiles where only the male is available, ever. Why not just post a single profile? We cannot speak for everyone but we would certainly respect a person more for being honest about it and likely give them a shot if they were interesting and attractive.

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By *aomilatteCouple
over a year ago

Midlands

There're thousands of fake profiles on here. Single men get a couples profile so they can bypass messaging filters. They arrange to meet but the female is "poorly". We even had a "single" female asking could her "boyfriend" meet us

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By *llaboutthewifeCouple
over a year ago

Cardiff

When we get messages often they are addressed to mr

He rarely answers messages but reads them

But tbh that only shows us they haven't even read the profile and have just got distracted by a few pics.

Read the profile, as couples want different things, unless you read it how will you know?

Jo x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do all the reading, messaging and forum chatter. The Mr sees the pictures of who I’m speaking to but he’s just not bothered about chatting. He will when things get more serious and we talk to people we are planning on meeting. But we only joined Fab a week before the lockdown. Timing is not my strong point. Bee. X

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By *penmarriage UkCouple
over a year ago

Maidenhead

I Mr tend to be more active as Mrs does not like the chat layout and to compound the issue I am the only one that gets notifications. This is probably why you don't have more women on the site.

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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago

leeds

What a strange and rather old fashioned view. Surely a guy has to approach a couple as a couple, and both people within that couple decide whether to proceed. We play mainly in clubs and there the single guys that succeed are those that appreciate both members of a couple are equally important.

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By *lice AgainTV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol

I get contacted by quite a few 'couples'.

It's always the man and eventually after a bit of discussion it's about him meeting me away from the woman.

I enquire after the woman 'cause TBF I'd like to try a couple meet.

It's amazing how many women apparently work away all the time.

I'm yet to meet one of these 'couples' but it's either a single bloke on the blag or a married bloke who doesn't want his hard working wife to know he fancies guys in lingerie.

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By *ecky and justCouple
over a year ago

Godalming

Hmmm.

We’re definitely a couple. Think our veri’s and pictures will show that. We have our single profiles for single pursuits.

For us, we both use our account an equal amount of time but it will normally be me, J, that approaches people.

We’re normally chatting to couples and occasionally singles, both M&F, with a view to meeting eventually.

We would expect them to engage both of us as we both have to like them, no mean feat.!

If they only try to engage Becky, the conversation will stop.

We’ve had a few couples where on first glance they look perfect only to find it’s the guy only trying to arrange a meet, either for him or for both of them with her being none the wiser...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hi all, iv been coming across many couples profiles that seem to be the male half and the female 'is sleeping, at work, busy' all this nonsense.

To me it just seems like a Male after seeing abit of dick lol

Is this something that others seem to come across alot? And do yous think alot of single gay men do it to try and get chatting to straight guys?

There will be couples profiles that aren't really couples. They can be easy to spot - dodgy photos, none of them together, no veris or just one or two that are hidden.

If you think a profile isn't what it seems, whether couple or single, then move on to another.

It's not as if they're scarce on site now is it.....

A"
I agree with this. I (Rick) spend lots of time on here, and reading forum content,and sometimes private messaging people purely for a chat. As it is not Sandra's thing, she rarely comes on here. We have been accused of being fake, but to be honest, I don't care. I know how much fun and how many hot experiences we have had over the years, and am not going to be bullied into making long winded excuses.

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By *ee And MikeCouple
over a year ago

Cannock

"Hi all, iv been coming across many couples profiles that seem to be the male half and the female 'is sleeping, at work, busy' all this nonsense.

To me it just seems like a Male after seeing abit of dick lol

Is this something that others seem to come across alot? And do yous think alot of single gay men do it to try and get chatting to straight guys?

There will be couples profiles that aren't really couples. They can be easy to spot - dodgy photos, none of them together, no veris or just one or two that are hidden.

If you think a profile isn't what it seems, whether couple or single, then move on to another.

It's not as if they're scarce on site now is it.....

AI agree with this. I (Rick) spend lots of time on here, and reading forum content,and sometimes private messaging people purely for a chat. As it is not Sandra's thing, she rarely comes on here. We have been accused of being fake, but to be honest, I don't care. I know how much fun and how many hot experiences we have had over the years, and am not going to be bullied into making long winded excuses."

Personally as a cuck, it’s important that the male of the couple builds the bond with bull and it makes it far easier then if the Hotwife meets with the bull and wants to take things further

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hi all, iv been coming across many couples profiles that seem to be the male half and the female 'is sleeping, at work, busy' all this nonsense.

To me it just seems like a Male after seeing abit of dick lol

Is this something that others seem to come across alot? And do yous think alot of single gay men do it to try and get chatting to straight guys?"
We have had single guys approach us that turned out to be fakes/dreamers, so it isn't just couples profiles that can be fake.

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By *mberandlennyCouple
over a year ago

prescot

We are genuine and share the app. I tend to lead the search as the wife trusts me to do so. There have been times where the female takes the lead on the couples chat , but usually it’s a bi female and they really interested in more FF action more than couple interaction. We are both straight so it never comes off.

We openly discuss the couple we are communicating with. Have been some shockers at the start but you use your gut feelings.

Keep safe everyone x

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By *lthomasMan
over a year ago

Wolves

There are a lot of dreamers on here & guys who post as couples to chat to other couples or for fantasy when chatting to guys.

I had my fair share of dreamers over the years

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By *lthomasMan
over a year ago

Wolves

"There are a lot of dreamers on here & guys who post as couples to chat to other couples or for fantasy when chatting to guys.

I had my fair share of dreamers over the years"
snd just as I post this I get a message from a “couple” both Bi, no pictures, no verification & a1 line profile.

What do you think??

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