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By *ightmyfire OP   Man
over a year ago

beccles

I'm looking for woman mainly for naughty chat, I'm married and on here as a couple. Mrs is on here too. I'm looking for someone for naughty chats. Maybe social after covid19...maybe meeting..I say hi to lots of people but get very little response..any ideas?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your messages are probably boring. Try something else.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Simple "hi" would not get me interested.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Your messages are probably boring. Try something else. "

Savage...

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

Every 'hi'message we've ever recieved has been deleted.

Do you get similar results from your couple profile?

A

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You mention naughty twice in your thread. And 3x in your profile.

Somehow I don't get that "naughty" feeling at all...

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Get yourself known in the forum by interacting with people in a polite and friendly way. Let women see your personality

Good luck

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By *ick_and_BickerCouple
over a year ago

Nottingham


"I'm looking for woman mainly for naughty chat, I'm married and on here as a couple. Mrs is on here too. I'm looking for someone for naughty chats. Maybe social after covid19...maybe meeting..I say hi to lots of people but get very little response..any ideas?"

Theres very few women who will 'naughty chat' with people they've had sex with, let alone a stranger.

Maybe a bloke who's pretending to be a woman?

How about a wank group? Plenty of blokes doing those.

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By *adame 2SwordsWoman
over a year ago

Victoria, London

If you were a business, and you sent out various marketing messages, you would monitor the ones that work, build on them until you get a winning message.

Same with being on here, change your message frequently. Make them individual, personal, PLEASE read the profiles, personally, if it talks about sex, really not interested. It means you only see me for sex and not as a person. Talk to me as a person, and then you really unlock the sexier side to me.

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

You're probably used to getting lots more interest on your couples profile. As a single man however you need to up your game a bit, look around at successful men on here for an idea of what attracts women.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm looking for woman mainly for naughty chat, I'm married and on here as a couple. Mrs is on here too. I'm looking for someone for naughty chats. Maybe social after covid19...maybe meeting..I say hi to lots of people but get very little response..any ideas?"

Have you tried learning hyp notism?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You mention naughty twice in your thread. And 3x in your profile.

Somehow I don't get that "naughty" feeling at all..."

Actually it's 4x.

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By *ollycouple71Couple
over a year ago

manchester


"Your messages are probably boring. Try something else. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Someone definitely needs to light your fire.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes I like this x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Try ab trainer

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By *ream3.14159Man
over a year ago

Here & there

Lots of cake and chocolate

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I phoned this number once. It said "teen girls naughty chat"... I rang it up and the bird on the other end was telling me how she and her mate Tracy bunked off double english, went for a fag behind the bike sheds and then went into town and pinched some hairbrushes from woolies...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

put a cock pic as your profile pic

talk to all the women about pegging

and tell them you are bisexual

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By *irky_coupleCouple
over a year ago

kirky

absolutely hate "naughty" on here. We're not little children ffs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"put a cock pic as your profile pic

talk to all the women about pegging

and tell them you are bisexual "

Works for me...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah your profile looks very immature to me. And naughtiness is spelt wrong.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What's with the whole "naughty" thing? Honestly it sounds immature and pretty cringey to me.

Avoid using it in a message if you want a reply. Also your profile could use a bit more personality.

And make sure you read people's profiles before you message them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Send a pic of your bumhole

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hi" gets either blanked or the response "low"

Seriously there's feck all to say to "hi"

Agree with the emphasis on naughty. I'm a good person who likes to go a bit wild now and then rather than feel like I'm doing stuff wrong. Naughty = wrong.

P

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


""Hi" gets either blanked or the response "low"

Seriously there's feck all to say to "hi"

Agree with the emphasis on naughty. I'm a good person who likes to go a bit wild now and then rather than feel like I'm doing stuff wrong. Naughty = wrong.

P"

Brilliant response! I always go with a [deliberately all lowercase] can i help you.

"WUU2" or the more articulate version gets "the opposite of I down from"

Random xx-es gets the rest of the alphabet up to the one before X so yyaabb....uuvvww

If I may, I might steal your first idea.

Oh, and as for asking how I am... alexithymia is a thing. But too complex for most to imagine I reckon

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


""Hi" gets either blanked or the response "low"

Seriously there's feck all to say to "hi"

Agree with the emphasis on naughty. I'm a good person who likes to go a bit wild now and then rather than feel like I'm doing stuff wrong. Naughty = wrong.

P

Brilliant response! I always go with a [deliberately all lowercase] can i help you.

"WUU2" or the more articulate version gets "the opposite of I down from"

Random xx-es gets the rest of the alphabet up to the one before X so yyaabb....uuvvww

If I may, I might steal your first idea.

Oh, and as for asking how I am... alexithymia is a thing. But too complex for most to imagine I reckon"

You're more than welcome to it, you may also use my go to "hey" response.

Horses eat it. Oh my bad that's hay. Nevermind eh, can't win em all.

Or ...

Hey we're the Monkeys.

Freaks em right out.

P

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


""Hi" gets either blanked or the response "low"

Seriously there's feck all to say to "hi"

Agree with the emphasis on naughty. I'm a good person who likes to go a bit wild now and then rather than feel like I'm doing stuff wrong. Naughty = wrong.

P

Brilliant response! I always go with a [deliberately all lowercase] can i help you.

"WUU2" or the more articulate version gets "the opposite of I down from"

Random xx-es gets the rest of the alphabet up to the one before X so yyaabb....uuvvww

If I may, I might steal your first idea.

Oh, and as for asking how I am... alexithymia is a thing. But too complex for most to imagine I reckon

You're more than welcome to it, you may also use my go to "hey" response.

Horses eat it. Oh my bad that's hay. Nevermind eh, can't win em all.

Or ...

Hey we're the Monkeys.

Freaks em right out.

P"

Or you could do like The Ramones

"Hey"

"Ho lets go!"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If they’re interested they’ll reply.

If they’re not, they won’t.

It’s as simple as that really, it doesn’t matter how much you tweak your profile or your photos, if someone isn’t interested that won’t really change.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Someone definitely needs to light your fire."

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