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By *lwaysup4it69 OP   Couple
over a year ago

Kirkby in Ashfield

A lot of people talk about what they will do differently after lockdown ends. Just curious will anyone play rules change regarding bareback? We have been a bb couple since we started, just curious to see if people will have changed views. We will carry on as before

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Luv group bareback sex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No, will still go bareback.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love bareback with couples who enjoy bareback fun but also I go for regular checks and I also use condoms what meeting couples that are not into bareback fun. In the end it’s up to the couples themselves but I find more cuckold couples like bareback because most cucks like to clean up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A lot of people talk about what they will do differently after lockdown ends. Just curious will anyone play rules change regarding bareback? We have been a bb couple since we started, just curious to see if people will have changed views. We will carry on as before"

I know it’s personal preference, but I don’t know why you’d play such a lottery with your own health with so many STI’s being incurable?

I’ll stay safe and play safe with new people and would only go bareback with someone I’ve been seeing a while after testing.

Bareback requests are like a filter for me as to whether I want to meet them. If they ask for it, no chance.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only thing bareback threads are good for is the block button. You want to play Russian roulette with your health, then we'll avoid

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By *artinbobMan
over a year ago

Leicester


"Only thing bareback threads are good for is the block button. You want to play Russian roulette with your health, then we'll avoid "

Survive corona. Get an STD seems perfect logical to me #sarcasm

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By *..FirstMan
over a year ago

london

Bareback was and is risky. Not for me thanx.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bareback always for me, block me if you wish and yes I’m aware of the risks.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Bareback always for me, block me if you wish and yes I’m aware of the risks. "

And aware or the risks passing something undetected on to the next folk? Even if they’re not a bareback lover?

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By *..FirstMan
over a year ago

london

Exactly! Cocks and CoVid, the same rules apply.

Wash it and put on the PPE!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mmm love it why change Sue x

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By *hotographer 30Man
over a year ago

rochdale

Great pics Tom and sue love natural look x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You know can catch some stds by skin to skin contact right, so condoms dont stop you getting an STD, not advocating bareback but Things like herpes can be caught and passed from kissing etc x

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By *ounty durham bbw coupleCouple
over a year ago

darlington

We still will go bb we don't meet often and get checked regularly I know people get hyper critical about it but we don't try corrupt or change people if their profile is safe sex only we wouldn't message them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why are people obeying lockdown to stay healthy then advocating taking major risks by having unprotected sex with strangers after lockdown ? Whilst bareback feels and looks so much better is it worth the risk ? With some std's now becoming drug resistant do you want to take the risk ? We wont be going bareback...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s up to what you enjoy and if you are like me I get checked but I don’t do bareback all the time I use condoms too but if the couple say will you do bare back than yes because it’s for their enjoyment

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By *..FirstMan
over a year ago

london

O&J, You guys are even more attractive because of this.

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By *aulp4alsMan
over a year ago

Warrington


"Only thing bareback threads are good for is the block button. You want to play Russian roulette with your health, then we'll avoid "

I totally agree with you safe is the only way

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

Never bareback for me. Sex can be just as good with a condom and always safer.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Deffo be bareback and as much as possible x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You know can catch some stds by skin to skin contact right, so condoms dont stop you getting an STD, not advocating bareback but Things like herpes can be caught and passed from kissing etc x"

You’d sincerely hope that people wouldn’t be playing at all if they’ve a herpes flare up. Condom or no condom.

Using condoms is just eliminating a lot more risk. Like not going out as much now. Yes, chlamydia, for example, can be passed through oral sex, but it’s far less likely than through unprotected penetration.

As I said, if you’re happy to take your chances, especially with the incurable ones, such as herpes, HIV, HPV (genital warts and leading to cervical cancer), and hepatitis B, crack on. It just won’t be with me.

Perhaps if all the bareback players had their own little ‘lockdown’ and put a jonny on we’d not be seeing a 600% rise in gonorrhoea in 10 years and it’s mutation into super-gonorrhoea, which is getting resistant to treatment.

As I say, it’s just a useful filter to me although I do find it mildly selfish.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

As I say, it’s just a useful filter to me although I do find it mildly selfish. "

Nothing selfish about looking after your own well being

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Still be bareback for us xxx

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By *artinbobMan
over a year ago

Leicester


"You know can catch some stds by skin to skin contact right, so condoms dont stop you getting an STD, not advocating bareback but Things like herpes can be caught and passed from kissing etc x

You’d sincerely hope that people wouldn’t be playing at all if they’ve a herpes flare up. Condom or no condom.

Using condoms is just eliminating a lot more risk. Like not going out as much now. Yes, chlamydia, for example, can be passed through oral sex, but it’s far less likely than through unprotected penetration.

As I said, if you’re happy to take your chances, especially with the incurable ones, such as herpes, HIV, HPV (genital warts and leading to cervical cancer), and hepatitis B, crack on. It just won’t be with me.

Perhaps if all the bareback players had their own little ‘lockdown’ and put a jonny on we’d not be seeing a 600% rise in gonorrhoea in 10 years and it’s mutation into super-gonorrhoea, which is getting resistant to treatment.

As I say, it’s just a useful filter to me although I do find it mildly selfish. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

As I say, it’s just a useful filter to me although I do find it mildly selfish.

Nothing selfish about looking after your own well being "

No, selfish for not giving a shit about others

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By *LIRTWITHUSCouple
over a year ago

Chester

Still No bb for us, got stockpile condoms to get through

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nothing different for me. Still love bareback.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nothing different for me. Still love bareback. "

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By *attPaulaCouple
over a year ago

Blackpool

With select people, we love it.

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By *addysdadCouple
over a year ago

southern Cumbria


"Still be bareback for us xxx"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This event is showing how easy a virus can transmit.

We wouldn’t consider ever playing without protection with others.

Be safe

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No bb when swinging, i value my life to much.

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By *uninlondon69Man
over a year ago

Tower Bridge South

Bareback is definitely on the menu after lockdown

If you live in an area where you can get one, this is an ideal time to do a postal test.

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By *lwaysup4it69 OP   Couple
over a year ago

Kirkby in Ashfield

Thank you all who have commented so far. Done for some against, looks like us bareback fan will carry on as before and safe players will continue safe play

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I imagine the divide will get larger. It will become even more polarising. Those against will be extreme in their views. And it’s only fair

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By *lwaysup4it69 OP   Couple
over a year ago

Kirkby in Ashfield


"I imagine the divide will get larger. It will become even more polarising. Those against will be extreme in their views. And it’s only fair "

It still will not be right for them to be horrible to other, freedom of speech is good but not being nasty to people

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I imagine the divide will get larger. It will become even more polarising. Those against will be extreme in their views. And it’s only fair

It still will not be right for them to be horrible to other, freedom of speech is good but not being nasty to people"

Agree with this.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don’t think it’s being nasty. It’s trying to save people’s lives. Maybe not the best words. But sometimes you’ve got to be cruel to be kind.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I imagine the divide will get larger. It will become even more polarising. Those against will be extreme in their views. And it’s only fair

It still will not be right for them to be horrible to other, freedom of speech is good but not being nasty to people"

No one has been nasty on here. Just giving their own, educated opinions. You can’t really argue with facts when your only argument is personal preference, but hey ho. Vice la différence

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Vive even. Bloody autocorrect.

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By *lwaysup4it69 OP   Couple
over a year ago

Kirkby in Ashfield


"I don’t think it’s being nasty. It’s trying to save people’s lives. Maybe not the best words. But sometimes you’ve got to be cruel to be kind. "

I know a number of people who have had bile hurtful messages just because they play bare, that's the sort of thing I mean that is nasty

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This man is correct it’s facts. It’s documented. Surely we can all remember the adverts in the 80s. The dangers are still there. The biggest rise in HIV infections isn’t with gay men. It’s heterosexuals in their 50s. The people that are coming out of long term marriages and shagging with the help of the Internet. And it’s not just you that suffers. It’s your family and friends. Is the sex that much better without a condom? Not enough to lose it all. See how hard it is getting a shag once you’re infected.

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By *htcMan
over a year ago

MK

Bareback for me. I can't use condoms, I get a serious reaction to them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Bareback for me. I can't use condoms, I get a serious reaction to them."

You’re using the wrong ones then.

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By *tirling DarkCouple
over a year ago

Stirling

Best thing about these threads is we get to use our block button.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Best thing about these threads is we get to use our block button."

Yay.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Bareback for me. I can't use condoms, I get a serious reaction to them."

Use Skyns for example. No latex. My ex has heard every excuse under the sun for not wanting to wear them, so has a vast selection of sizes and types. If it’s still a ‘no’ then they’re shown the door.

We chat regularly about it and it’s amazing how many people have a reason to not wear them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Best thing about these threads is we get to use our block button."

Makes me laugh, that people you are never likely to meet block you for having a personal preference.

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By *LIRTWITHUSCouple
over a year ago

Chester


"Best thing about these threads is we get to use our block button.

Makes me laugh, that people you are never likely to meet block you for having a personal preference. "

We'd rather make notes on profile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's easy to block people here ,thanks to such threads .

Sorry BB lovers ,no offence intended ,it's just to protect ourselves .

It's kind of Fab lockdown for many people like us who advocate safe sex practice.

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By *hitehunter4bbcMan
over a year ago

Bristol

Not had bare sex for 13 years not worth the risk .plus the breeders are about .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Exactly! Cocks and CoVid, the same rules apply.

Wash it and put on the PPE! "

Nicely put

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By *ndy64hMan
over a year ago

Plymouth


"You know can catch some stds by skin to skin contact right, so condoms dont stop you getting an STD, not advocating bareback but Things like herpes can be caught and passed from kissing etc x

You’d sincerely hope that people wouldn’t be playing at all if they’ve a herpes flare up. Condom or no condom.

Using condoms is just eliminating a lot more risk. Like not going out as much now. Yes, chlamydia, for example, can be passed through oral sex, but it’s far less likely than through unprotected penetration.

As I said, if you’re happy to take your chances, especially with the incurable ones, such as herpes, HIV, HPV (genital warts and leading to cervical cancer), and hepatitis B, crack on. It just won’t be with me.

Perhaps if all the bareback players had their own little ‘lockdown’ and put a jonny on we’d not be seeing a 600% rise in gonorrhoea in 10 years and it’s mutation into super-gonorrhoea, which is getting resistant to treatment.

As I say, it’s just a useful filter to me although I do find it mildly selfish. "

For someone who lists, anal, oral, rimming, watersports, I'm surprised you commented on this forum.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Best thing about these threads is we get to use our block button.

Makes me laugh, that people you are never likely to meet block you for having a personal preference.

We'd rather make notes on profile "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You know can catch some stds by skin to skin contact right, so condoms dont stop you getting an STD, not advocating bareback but Things like herpes can be caught and passed from kissing etc x

You’d sincerely hope that people wouldn’t be playing at all if they’ve a herpes flare up. Condom or no condom.

Using condoms is just eliminating a lot more risk. Like not going out as much now. Yes, chlamydia, for example, can be passed through oral sex, but it’s far less likely than through unprotected penetration.

As I said, if you’re happy to take your chances, especially with the incurable ones, such as herpes, HIV, HPV (genital warts and leading to cervical cancer), and hepatitis B, crack on. It just won’t be with me.

Perhaps if all the bareback players had their own little ‘lockdown’ and put a jonny on we’d not be seeing a 600% rise in gonorrhoea in 10 years and it’s mutation into super-gonorrhoea, which is getting resistant to treatment.

As I say, it’s just a useful filter to me although I do find it mildly selfish.

For someone who lists, anal, oral, rimming, watersports, I'm surprised you commented on this forum."

I don’t get your point, if there is one? Can you not use condoms for anal? I always have, perhaps I’m doing it wrong?

As for the others, its a far reduced risk and largely more prone for male to female transmission.

As for watersports. Read up on it. There’s a possibility of transmission, but it’s the least of all.

As I say, I don’t really get your point.

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By *inkycreamCouple
over a year ago

manchester

I wouldn’t let these threads get to you, said before look at there profiles 95% are new probably fake years old verifications if any, there not spreading much love just a bunch of guys wanking over the thought of and staying very safe

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By *onny MCMan
over a year ago

Crawley


"Bareback is definitely on the menu after lockdown

If you live in an area where you can get one, this is an ideal time to do a postal test."

Ordered one today, go to a walk in clinic every three months but local hospital one is shut at the moment.

This did cross my mind a while ago actually, with everyone stopping play for longer than it takes everything to show up on these tests, wouldn't it be great if we could get as many on the scene as possible tested, treated and guaranteed clear now?

Wouldn't that be a bonus for the scene in the long term?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Bareback is definitely on the menu after lockdown

If you live in an area where you can get one, this is an ideal time to do a postal test.

Ordered one today, go to a walk in clinic every three months but local hospital one is shut at the moment.

This did cross my mind a while ago actually, with everyone stopping play for longer than it takes everything to show up on these tests, wouldn't it be great if we could get as many on the scene as possible tested, treated and guaranteed clear now?

Wouldn't that be a bonus for the scene in the long term?"

I was only tested (all clear) last month and it’s well over 6 months since I had any.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think a lot of this is alot of frustration talking ,but considering people using common sense worries me Just look at how people treated social distancing to start with.

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By *ittleMissCaliWoman
over a year ago

all loved up

No .. I will still use condoms for full sex and play safer.

Bareback feels great but not with anyone but a long term partner x

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By *ensual temptressWoman
over a year ago

Southampton

Have to laugh at those who play bare back and yet have safe sex on their profile .

If you wish to play unprotected then at least be honest and give others the choice to play or avoid .

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By *ugardadcleanerMan
over a year ago

cirencester

All parties we do are condom optional. We never use. Our fun our decision.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Deffo be bareback and as much as possible x"

You guys have some very hot pics on your profile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you had a very close clique of couples, then bareback may be safe.

However if you are playing the field, surely you have a responsibility to prevent to the best of your ability the transfer of stds.

Ive mentioned before on another thread that my brother went to a bareback gang bang. Caught syphilis and hiv. It nearly killed him.. Yet he still fucks and goes dogging. As he passed on both stds to his wife, i haven't spoken to him in years out of disgust.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"All parties we do are condom optional. We never use. Our fun our decision. "

Do you demand clean beds, clean sheets, disposable gloves , syringes and needles in hospitals ?

Do you believe in Social distancing in current situation?

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By *oftDevilMan
over a year ago

Reading


"Have to laugh at those who play bare back and yet have safe sex on their profile .

If you wish to play unprotected then at least be honest and give others the choice to play or avoid . "

There is no “bareback” option, you can be someone that can play either way depending on circumstances.

I enjoy bareback (tested, on prep) in some circumstances but have a “safe sex” by default and find it offensive when someone try bareback without discussing it. So I would put both on my profile if the option was available.

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By *unscot44Man
over a year ago

Stepps (Glasgow)

Never have gone bareback in a meet and never will. I just think it is too risky even if you know the individual/couple fairly well.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think there should be icons for bareback and safe sex on profiles so it's easily identifiable and won't feel offended to anyone .

No need to use block button either .

And as a responsible person ,everyone should mention about it in their profiles .

Like cigarette packs have a Statutory warning about Health effects .

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By *asterPSubslutCouple
over a year ago

Eastbourne


"A lot of people talk about what they will do differently after lockdown ends. Just curious will anyone play rules change regarding bareback? We have been a bb couple since we started, just curious to see if people will have changed views. We will carry on as before"

No change for us bb

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If you had a very close clique of couples, then bareback may be safe.

However if you are playing the field, surely you have a responsibility to prevent to the best of your ability the transfer of stds.

Ive mentioned before on another thread that my brother went to a bareback gang bang. Caught syphilis and hiv. It nearly killed him.. Yet he still fucks and goes dogging. As he passed on both stds to his wife, i haven't spoken to him in years out of disgust. "

HIV and syphilis is a nasty combination and the treatment for syphilis If you have HIV is not pleasant.

Thankfully people can now protect themselves against HIV by taking one pill a day, which I’d recommend to anyone regularly engaging in bareback sex.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I won't with anyone new....

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By *LIRTWITHUSCouple
over a year ago

Chester


"Have to laugh at those who play bare back and yet have safe sex on their profile .

If you wish to play unprotected then at least be honest and give others the choice to play or avoid .

There is no “bareback” option, you can be someone that can play either way depending on circumstances.

I enjoy bareback (tested, on prep) in some circumstances but have a “safe sex” by default and find it offensive when someone try bareback without discussing it. So I would put both on my profile if the option was available."

Both on profile would be good, honesty as its upfront. But so many tick safe when they bb

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You know can catch some stds by skin to skin contact right, so condoms dont stop you getting an STD, not advocating bareback but Things like herpes can be caught and passed from kissing etc x

You’d sincerely hope that people wouldn’t be playing at all if they’ve a herpes flare up. Condom or no condom.

Using condoms is just eliminating a lot more risk. Like not going out as much now. Yes, chlamydia, for example, can be passed through oral sex, but it’s far less likely than through unprotected penetration.

As I said, if you’re happy to take your chances, especially with the incurable ones, such as herpes, HIV, HPV (genital warts and leading to cervical cancer), and hepatitis B, crack on. It just won’t be with me.

Perhaps if all the bareback players had their own little ‘lockdown’ and put a jonny on we’d not be seeing a 600% rise in gonorrhoea in 10 years and it’s mutation into super-gonorrhoea, which is getting resistant to treatment.

As I say, it’s just a useful filter to me although I do find it mildly selfish.

For someone who lists, anal, oral, rimming, watersports, I'm surprised you commented on this forum.

I don’t get your point, if there is one? Can you not use condoms for anal? I always have, perhaps I’m doing it wrong?

As for the others, its a far reduced risk and largely more prone for male to female transmission.

As for watersports. Read up on it. There’s a possibility of transmission, but it’s the least of all.

As I say, I don’t really get your point. "

Water sports is the least risky of any sexual encounter.

People may not like the thought of is, but that is another matter entirely.

Personally I love it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Best thing about these threads is we get to use our block button.

Makes me laugh, that people you are never likely to meet block you for having a personal preference. "

Lol

I’m using this thread to invite friends.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im confused by the connection? COVID isnt sexually transmitted so why would a lockdown change your thoughts on bareback?

Someone further up said it shows how quickly a virus cant be spread ... yes but every virus is different and you cant base one on another so again no connection

I cant see the pandemic changing peoples sexual behaviour unless it had given them some sort of anxiety about being around other people again full stop which would really br a mental health issue to be worked through with a therapist

This isn’t me advocating bb , i always get tested before reaching that stage with a monogamous partner just saying I cant see any connection between lockdown and bb

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By *orny daddy 22Man
over a year ago

barry south wales

I can't wait to slide my cock in a nice pussy and ass once this is over love it

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds


"You know can catch some stds by skin to skin contact right, so condoms dont stop you getting an STD, not advocating bareback but Things like herpes can be caught and passed from kissing etc x"

This.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You know can catch some stds by skin to skin contact right, so condoms dont stop you getting an STD, not advocating bareback but Things like herpes can be caught and passed from kissing etc x

This."

As mentioned before, the risk is far, far reduced. It’s also more likely to be passed from male to female or male to male. And you’d dearly hope someone with a herpes flare up, when it’s infectious, would have the common decency not to be playing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you care about Corona virus and maintain social distance to break the chain then I am sure you would have similar thoughts about HIV too.

Gloves and condoms do the same, prevention and minimise risk.

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By *hamesGentMan
over a year ago

Oxfordshire

As I see it, if we're all in favour of observing the current (and let's face it, harsh) restrictions in order to 'save lives and protect the NHS', why wouldn't we do the same with our sex lives?

Worth remembering that contracting an STI will (for those of us who use it) add a further burden to the NHS, taking up time and resources, etc. And let's not even get on to antibiotic resistance.

Surely, we all have a responsibility to take care of our health, whether it be staying home at the moment, or wearing a condom when having sex with multiple partners.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As I see it, if we're all in favour of observing the current (and let's face it, harsh) restrictions in order to 'save lives and protect the NHS', why wouldn't we do the same with our sex lives?

Worth remembering that contracting an STI will (for those of us who use it) add a further burden to the NHS, taking up time and resources, etc. And let's not even get on to antibiotic resistance.

Surely, we all have a responsibility to take care of our health, whether it be staying home at the moment, or wearing a condom when having sex with multiple partners. "

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By *tirling DarkCouple
over a year ago

Stirling

No, people are blocking you so they never come across you.

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By *tirling DarkCouple
over a year ago

Stirling


"If you care about Corona virus and maintain social distance to break the chain then I am sure you would have similar thoughts about HIV too.

Gloves and condoms do the same, prevention and minimise risk."

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By *oeofsussexMan
over a year ago

Eastbourne

More like bearback for many I suspect!??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Surely this only applies to the swingers on this site.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"More like bearback for many I suspect!??"

Bearback. Now there’s a challenge and probably only marginally more dangerous. Grrrrr

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By *onynickiCouple
over a year ago

Bournemouth

Sounds a bit grizzly if you ask me!

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate


"More like bearback for many I suspect!??"

This topic will always polarise opinion

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Surely this only applies to the swingers on this site. "

Do stds not apply to single people . Have at it my fellow singles who knew sexual protection did not apply to us

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By *tterlysluterlyCouple
over a year ago

northampton

I'd say in an ideal world - a disease free one - EVERY man and most women I'd imagine would much prefer to go bare.

However that is not the world we play in and whilst we as a couple would both really love it, (can't beat the sight of cum dripping out of your wife!) in the real world BB is just for me and her exclusively sadly.

Back in the dark ages when we first played - pre AIDS days - wow we are old, it was a different game as a course of antibiotics could sort things out but there are too many nasty diseases around now to risk it unfortunately. But those parties in the late 70's and early 80's...wow!

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By *hitehunter4bbcMan
over a year ago

Bristol

Don't want to be the SDI police but I think cumming inside is an intimate thing shared with someone you love etc . I'm not really in to kissing someone on a first meet either .condoms are shit though And break on me a lot .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We are definitely back to BB after vivid.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We are definitely back to BB after vivid."

Mmmmm glad to hear it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We are definitely back to BB after vivid."

Happy to hear it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only with each other

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By *izzmonkeysCouple
over a year ago

Liverpool


"Im confused by the connection? COVID isnt sexually transmitted so why would a lockdown change your thoughts on bareback?

Someone further up said it shows how quickly a virus cant be spread ... yes but every virus is different and you cant base one on another so again no connection

I cant see the pandemic changing peoples sexual behaviour unless it had given them some sort of anxiety about being around other people again full stop which would really br a mental health issue to be worked through with a therapist

This isn’t me advocating bb , i always get tested before reaching that stage with a monogamous partner just saying I cant see any connection between lockdown and bb "

This

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