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By *oneyjule65 OP   Couple
over a year ago

Halifax

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By *oneyjule65 OP   Couple
over a year ago

Halifax

Typo

Who you meet? & if you do whether you play or not?.

Mr. lets me decide unless it's a couple when we both decide...

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By *eovilcouple76Couple
over a year ago

yeovil

Mrs s, she chats, she decides who, when and where, been a good judge of character so far

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That's the way it should be x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We both decide. It's a joint effort so joint decision. Communication is everrrrrrything.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Typo

Who you meet? & if you do whether you play or not?.

Mr. lets me decide unless it's a couple when we both decide... "

That's only fair. Good agreement between the two of yous

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

We both do. If either one of us isn't into someone, then that's never going to work.

Cal

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We both do, nobody takes one for the team but Mrs definitely gets final say

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By *eovilcouple76Couple
over a year ago

yeovil

It’s only the Mrs that plays, and me if mmf, so only fair that she decides, if I’m not happy we don’t go through with it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We both do. If either one of us isn't into someone, then that's never going to work.

Cal"

This!

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

Me. I am single. I would never let anyone tell me who to sleep with. Not even a husband if i had one.

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By *tarburst babydollMan
over a year ago

Dingwall

I do (Mrs) as I am the one that comes comes on here and answers messages and chats. I pick meets and then run them by him but he usually trusts my judgement

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By *heekyFlirtyCoupleCouple
over a year ago

Stockport

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What a odd question!

Both do, or it would never work

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Typo

Who you meet? & if you do whether you play or not?.

Mr. lets me decide unless it's a couple when we both decide... "

We don't play together or with the same person separately, but I usually decide for both of us.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd say it was a joint decision but it isn't really. I'm super mega fussy and B would bang a bullfrog if it paid him a compliment and walked with sass.

So I can almost guarantee if I say yes, he's not saying no

P

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By *urpeesandwineCouple
over a year ago

Hove


"We both do. If either one of us isn't into someone, then that's never going to work.

Cal

This!"

That’s us. Mrs has last word. But we have such a great thing together that we only want to add folks that enhance this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Typo

Who you meet? & if you do whether you play or not?.

Mr. lets me decide unless it's a couple when we both decide... "

And your decision was ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes seems like the oddest question if referring to couples, it should always be a joint decision

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I tend to be on here more but hubby has an equal say. We both agree or no meet. We both have right of veto, no questions asked

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My pussy decides who she wants to play with.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’d say it’s prob me (Mrs Spice ) unless it’s a couple we discuss first !!!! Communication and being honest is the way for us

Mrs Spice

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By *he Happy ManMan
over a year ago

Merseyside


"Typo

Who you meet? & if you do whether you play or not?.

Mr. lets me decide unless it's a couple when we both decide... "

That is how it should bed. If you are meeting a guy its you having sex with him. If you are meeting a couple things change.

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By *oneyjule65 OP   Couple
over a year ago

Halifax


"Typo

Who you meet? & if you do whether you play or not?.

Mr. lets me decide unless it's a couple when we both decide...

That is how it should bed. If you are meeting a guy its you having sex with him. If you are meeting a couple things change. "

Exactly what I was meaning

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By *ounty durham bbw coupleCouple
over a year ago

darlington

Both really we don't really have a type it's more likely the messages we get that turn us on or off we mostly look for bi men and and just try avoid sleazy messages

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Typo

Who you meet? & if you do whether you play or not?.

Mr. lets me decide unless it's a couple when we both decide... "
i decide

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By *teveanddebsCouple
over a year ago

Norwich

We play a little differently where it's usually me (Mr) who decides, a lot of the time Debs knows nothing about it until it actually happens.She does have a veto, obviously, and people are made aware of that but she hadn't used it yet. Sometimes, if we are looking for something that will be ongoing rather than a one off, then we both do.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely both of us, males must be respectful otherwise you've no chance with me, couples must be a 4 way connection and single females I tend to leave mainly to the fellas judgement, but must get on with me too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Definitely both of us, males must be respectful otherwise you've no chance with me, couples must be a 4 way connection and single females I tend to leave mainly to the fellas judgement, but must get on with me too. "

Definitely good answer

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By *eachesAndCream99Couple
over a year ago

Outskirts of Cardiff just off the M4

The Mr lets me decide with an added bit of input. However, if it's a couple then we both decide as neither of us wants to take one for the team...

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By *tirling DarkCouple
over a year ago

Stirling

Mrs decides

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Joint effort here

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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago

leeds

We swing to share each others enjoyment so we both decide.

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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"I'd say it was a joint decision but it isn't really. I'm super mega fussy and B would bang a bullfrog if it paid him a compliment and walked with sass.

So I can almost guarantee if I say yes, he's not saying no

P"

Bang a bullfrog.

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By *oneyjule65 OP   Couple
over a year ago

Halifax


"The Mr lets me decide with an added bit of input. However, if it's a couple then we both decide as neither of us wants to take one for the team... "

Exactly this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's not me hahaha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My man lets me decided what lady joins us. As if I don’t fancy them then he wouldn’t be happy. As half the turn on is me liking the women.

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By *bbott24Couple
over a year ago

Devizes

She decides

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

We decide together. If one of us isn't happy we don't meet

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By *oneyjule65 OP   Couple
over a year ago

Halifax


"It's not me hahaha "

How do you know?...

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By *randmrsmanchesterCouple
over a year ago

Manchester

Both of us

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's not me hahaha

How do you know?..."

Oh ultimately it's always them

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By *oneyjule65 OP   Couple
over a year ago

Halifax


"It's not me hahaha

How do you know?...

Oh ultimately it's always them "

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By *mcouple2Couple
over a year ago

Warrington

It's a mix. 4 way 2 couples if we all click it a 4some . If the Fems click its FF in a room and MM at the bar.

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