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By *thleticgirth OP   Man
over a year ago

wirral

I was talking to a couple on fab briefly and read up about it and realised this is something i would love. I am very genuine. I have found an old thread on the forum but it is not very active. Any advice or other seekers?

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By *tormchasingCouple
over a year ago

Essex

We have talked about this but not explored it. We both agreed we'd be open to the idea if the right set of circumstances came up.

But we think it's highly unlikely that we would find someone we both like equally (and like us both equally) and I don't think we'd want to change our relationship if that wasn't the case.

For us, it's something that would just happen, rather than something we would go looking for

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By *tirling DarkCouple
over a year ago

Stirling

We did it for 5 years and although fun it is extremely hard to maintain. In the end caring for family members resulted in a drift apart.

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By *thleticgirth OP   Man
over a year ago

wirral

I mind if this is mfm or fmf, i am just hoping i can find a couple near to me also looking and there being a mutual attraction.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I did it last year. It was beyond exciting, but as with the other poster, family gets in the way x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is something that Mrs Classy is definitely interested in and has tried to explore over the years

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By *orders-cplCouple
over a year ago

middx cpl

we are very interested in this have been for ages any tips welcome

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By *rMrsBrightsideCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle

This is a subject that always interests me and I find myself wondering if it is something we could ever do. I think it has to be at the right time in your life though and I don't think for us that is yet. Enjoy reading different people's experiences of it though as it does vary.

Mrs x

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By *ounty durham bbw coupleCouple
over a year ago

darlington

We have spoken about it we would love a regular bi Male partner but at our Kids age its probably to hard to make work right now maybe in a few years

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By *itguy21066Man
over a year ago

leicester

We have talked about this, and even have the guy we want to be the third person, the fantasy of it happening is amazingly horny to both of us, but we are both real enough to know we could not put this into practise, to be a real poly relationship where there is equal love between us, all 3 of us living together going on holidays going out together etc, family friends and children would not accept it we don’t think, so for now it’s just fantasy, but one which we both find soooo horny.

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By *thleticgirth OP   Man
over a year ago

wirral


"We have talked about this, and even have the guy we want to be the third person, the fantasy of it happening is amazingly horny to both of us, but we are both real enough to know we could not put this into practise, to be a real poly relationship where there is equal love between us, all 3 of us living together going on holidays going out together etc, family friends and children would not accept it we don’t think, so for now it’s just fantasy, but one which we both find soooo horny."

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By *thleticgirth OP   Man
over a year ago

wirral


"We have talked about this, and even have the guy we want to be the third person, the fantasy of it happening is amazingly horny to both of us, but we are both real enough to know we could not put this into practise, to be a real poly relationship where there is equal love between us, all 3 of us living together going on holidays going out together etc, family friends and children would not accept it we don’t think, so for now it’s just fantasy, but one which we both find soooo horny."

He must be gutted, you guys look amazing

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By *unkymale65Man
over a year ago

Worksop

I would love a poly relationship so sexy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We have talked about this, and even have the guy we want to be the third person, the fantasy of it happening is amazingly horny to both of us, but we are both real enough to know we could not put this into practise, to be a real poly relationship where there is equal love between us, all 3 of us living together going on holidays going out together etc, family friends and children would not accept it we don’t think, so for now it’s just fantasy, but one which we both find soooo horny."
. ompletely agree. The sort of relationship would be absolutely amazing if we could find the right person

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By *eediousMan
over a year ago

Smallville


"We have talked about this, and even have the guy we want to be the third person, the fantasy of it happening is amazingly horny to both of us, but we are both real enough to know we could not put this into practise, to be a real poly relationship where there is equal love between us, all 3 of us living together going on holidays going out together etc, family friends and children would not accept it we don’t think, so for now it’s just fantasy, but one which we both find soooo horny."

I am sure you can start gradually and build from there..

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By *itguy21066Man
over a year ago

leicester


"We have talked about this, and even have the guy we want to be the third person, the fantasy of it happening is amazingly horny to both of us, but we are both real enough to know we could not put this into practise, to be a real poly relationship where there is equal love between us, all 3 of us living together going on holidays going out together etc, family friends and children would not accept it we don’t think, so for now it’s just fantasy, but one which we both find soooo horny.

I am sure you can start gradually and build from there.."

Well they give each other the occasional massage, which I encourage, they have pleasured each other at the end, on a couple of occasions, but he doesn’t know I encourage that or knows I know about the sexual ending, the problem is like I said earlier acceptance in society, so I can’t see it happening like a proper poly relationship

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By *eediousMan
over a year ago

Smallville


"We have talked about this, and even have the guy we want to be the third person, the fantasy of it happening is amazingly horny to both of us, but we are both real enough to know we could not put this into practise, to be a real poly relationship where there is equal love between us, all 3 of us living together going on holidays going out together etc, family friends and children would not accept it we don’t think, so for now it’s just fantasy, but one which we both find soooo horny.

I am sure you can start gradually and build from there..

Well they give each other the occasional massage, which I encourage, they have pleasured each other at the end, on a couple of occasions, but he doesn’t know I encourage that or knows I know about the sexual ending, the problem is like I said earlier acceptance in society, so I can’t see it happening like a proper poly relationship"

Well, as you know society always catches up to what people are into eventually. Go after your wants with conviction

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely something we'd be interested in with another couple. Would have to be local and a 4 way connection tho.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wife has been in a relationship with her steady boyfriend for over 4 years now. It works well for us

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By *thleticgirth OP   Man
over a year ago

wirral


"Definitely something we'd be interested in with another couple. Would have to be local and a 4 way connection tho. "

Such a shame you are not looking for this with another male x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Wife has been in a relationship with her steady boyfriend for over 4 years now. It works well for us"

Wow that’s pretty amazing!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

After looking into it a lot recently, i know myself to be polyamorous. After lockdown i intend to find a way to live openly as the bisexual sex positive poly person i really am.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Something we are wanting to do lately weve discussed it alot but not as a full time thing but on meets or socials out with who we have chosen

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By *xcited99Couple
over a year ago

omagh

It certainly would be interesting.

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

I'm polyamarous. I've been with one partner for 4 years and have dated others though currently my other connections are either casual or fairly new. My partner has been dating someone else for about 18 months.

There's a poly community in the north west and there's even monthly socials if it's something you want to pursue.

I will say though from reading this thread that I do want to point out though that triads are just one type of polyamory and while they do exist, in my experience it is a lesser common version. I know a fair number of poly people but I don't currently know anyone in a triad, only someone who once was.

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool


"I'm polyamarous. I've been with one partner for 4 years and have dated others though currently my other connections are either casual or fairly new. My partner has been dating someone else for about 18 months.

There's a poly community in the north west and there's even monthly socials if it's something you want to pursue.

I will say though from reading this thread that I do want to point out though that triads are just one type of polyamory and while they do exist, in my experience it is a lesser common version. I know a fair number of poly people but I don't currently know anyone in a triad, only someone who once was."

*Polyamorous

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By *penbicoupleCouple
over a year ago

Northampton

My advice would be to really look into it before you jump in. It's not as 'straightforward' as swinging.

And it's essential that everyone is on the same page, as there are numerous models of poly relationship.

If you then decide it's for you, there is a certain dating app that is "OK" with people listing themselves as poly. If you go down that route, I hope "Cupid" is kind to you.

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