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By *asmarts OP   Couple
over a year ago

sheffield

Seems to be a lot of very judgmental people on here, having a go at people who are married but on Fab, bareback loving people.

Leave them alone please, we all have our kinks and reasons for being here. If they are open in here to what they are or doing then let it be.

Fun is the name of them, just ignore those you don’t want to interact with.

I feel better now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Seems to be a lot of very judgmental people on here, having a go at people who are married but on Fab, bareback loving people.

Leave them alone please, we all have our kinks and reasons for being here. If they are open in here to what they are or doing then let it be.

Fun is the name of them, just ignore those you don’t want to interact with.

I feel better now

"

Well it is Thursday

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By *asmarts OP   Couple
over a year ago

sheffield


"Seems to be a lot of very judgmental people on here, having a go at people who are married but on Fab, bareback loving people.

Leave them alone please, we all have our kinks and reasons for being here. If they are open in here to what they are or doing then let it be.

Fun is the name of them, just ignore those you don’t want to interact with.

I feel better now

Is it??

Well it is Thursday "

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

I'm OK with judgement, it doesn't always have to be expressed though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thank you for posting this. I wholeheartedly agree! I am one of those married people that prefer to go bareback, it's clear on my profile, and I haven't got safe sex listed as an interest so not to confuse or mislead.

If going bareback isn't for you then fine, either please bring condoms as I will use them, or choose not to meet.

At the very least judge quietly, no need to attack and bash people. And going from the other threads it seems like this site has a big enough community of people that are fine with it, so leave be.

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By *hebritukCouple
over a year ago

London

It’s a free country, so do what you please! So long it does not harms people. You can always say no and move on!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You should imho always live by your own rules and not the opinions of others and that is how we approach fab.

We once endured a social were a hardened swinger who didn’t know us spent most of the social telling us what we should be doing and were we were going wrong!!!

Best of luck and stay frosty!!!!!

T

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By *otwife and MasterCouple
over a year ago

Derby

This is a forum, ie. a place for discussion. If you dont like what people say you are free to skip the forum area.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This is a forum, ie. a place for discussion. If you dont like what people say you are free to skip the forum area. "

Took the words right out of my mouth.

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By *h86Man
over a year ago

Glos

As long as its safe, legal and consensual, what right does anyone have to comment on anyone else's life. Do what you want and be happy as far as I'm concerned!

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham


"This is a forum, ie. a place for discussion. If you dont like what people say you are free to skip the forum area.

Took the words right out of my mouth. "

It’ must of been while you were kissing me

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By *hebritukCouple
over a year ago

London


"This is a forum, ie. a place for discussion. If you dont like what people say you are free to skip the forum area. "

We are confused, can’t you disagree or have an opinion on a forum?

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By *inkycreamCouple
over a year ago

manchester


"This is a forum, ie. a place for discussion. If you dont like what people say you are free to skip the forum area.

Took the words right out of my mouth. "

Quite fooking right

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm OK with judgement, it doesn't always have to be expressed though. "

Agree with this. The site is full of it, it's how we make decisions and is normal. It doesn't always have to be made public.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This is a forum, ie. a place for discussion. If you dont like what people say you are free to skip the forum area.

We are confused, can’t you disagree or have an opinion on a forum? "

I think that's allowed, but I guess it's down to how the opinions are expressed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Seems to be a lot of very judgmental people on here, having a go at people who are married but on Fab, bareback loving people.

Leave them alone please, we all have our kinks and reasons for being here. If they are open in here to what they are or doing then let it be.

Fun is the name of them, just ignore those you don’t want to interact with.

I feel better now

"

Hear Hear

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Seems to be a lot of very judgmental people on here, having a go at people who are married but on Fab, bareback loving people.

Leave them alone please, we all have our kinks and reasons for being here. If they are open in here to what they are or doing then let it be.

Fun is the name of them, just ignore those you don’t want to interact with.

I feel better now

"

Couldn’t agree more, I am fairly new to the lifestyle and my personal preference is safe sex however each to their own. I don’t want someone coming in my mouth either which I’ve noticed Some people who “don’t do bareback” seem to be fine with. Now I’m no scientist but vaginal and anal sex are not the only means of catching an STI.

We’ve heard of men looking for a woman but won’t let his wife fuck people as he thinks it is disgusting. Or the old guy in ripped stockings fucking a cucumber. Not my bag personally but why judge.

Everyone has their thing and yes in everyday life doing your 9-5 you may not have the opportunity or freedom to express yourself.

This is that platform for some people and between consenting adults it their choice how they choose to conduct themselves.

If their not fucking you or financing you then people need to keep their opinions to themselves.

I will now climb off my soap box

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By *layful HarlequinMan
over a year ago

iver heath

Well said each to there own that’s what the worlds about.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

its the judgement day

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