FabSwingers.com forum: Checking partners phone

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

started seeing a girl a few weeks back now and i thought everything was going great until recently something kept telling me there’s an issue but couldn’t tell what like a gut feeling sort of thing, so last Tuesday i couldn’t hack it anymore I let my suspicions get the better of me and while she was fast asleep i stopped through her phone and I know I shouldn’t of but i couldn’t help myself. I gets in the phone and I’m on her fb messenger group chat it’s her and 4 of her friends all seems normal as expected until they started talking about 2 of my mates how hot they think they are ect and the part that stunned me was seeing that my own gf or whatever ya wanna call her is in this chat telling her friends how she’d love to fuck my 2 mates ect

She knows I’ve seen this but claims it’s just girl banter

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

And you're on here actively looking to meet women and couples, doesn't seem like you're that fussed about the relationship.

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By *aomilatteCouple
over a year ago

Midlands

"And you're on here actively looking to meet women and couples, doesn't seem like you're that fussed about the relationship."

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By *mcouple2Couple
over a year ago

Warrington

"And you're on here actively looking to meet women and couples, doesn't seem like you're that fussed about the relationship."

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"And you're on here actively looking to meet women and couples, doesn't seem like you're that fussed about the relationship."

Like i said we’d only recently started seeing each other a few weeks back we haven’t stepped into anything serious, plus i was on here long before i met her x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"started seeing a girl a few weeks back now and i thought everything was going great until recently something kept telling me there’s an issue but couldn’t tell what like a gut feeling sort of thing, so last Tuesday i couldn’t hack it anymore I let my suspicions get the better of me and while she was fast asleep i stopped through her phone and I know I shouldn’t of but i couldn’t help myself. I gets in the phone and I’m on her fb messenger group chat it’s her and 4 of her friends all seems normal as expected until they started talking about 2 of my mates how hot they think they are ect and the part that stunned me was seeing that my own gf or whatever ya wanna call her is in this chat telling her friends how she’d love to fuck my 2 mates ect

She knows I’ve seen this but claims it’s just girl banter "

Started seeing her a few weeks ago and you are already living with her? I assume you are living with her or if she’s sleeping in the same place as you and you are ignoring the lockdown advice.........

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

"And you're on here actively looking to meet women and couples, doesn't seem like you're that fussed about the relationship.

Like i said we’d only recently started seeing each other a few weeks back we haven’t stepped into anything serious, plus i was on here long before i met her x"

Serious enough that you're living together during lockdown, if you managed to check her phone the other day.

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By *etLikeMan
over a year ago

most fundamental aspects

I think you need to look at your relationship and look at your own relationship with trust.

Jealousy and neurosis do not go well with open relationships (is that what you have? Because If you do, what’s the problem?) and swinging.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Checking her phone this early in a relationship is controlling behaviour

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By *teveanddebsCouple
over a year ago

Norwich

As my old gran used to say:

"It doesn't matter where you get your appetite from as long as you come home for dinner"

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By *carlettxWoman
over a year ago

Essex

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

She knows I’ve seen this but claims it’s just girl banter

No we aren’t already living together she stays at mine some nights and some nights I’m at hers and yes i admit it last week i broke lockdown rules and after seeing what i saw i wish i never

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By *carlettxWoman
over a year ago

Essex

Tbf mate going through someone’s phone especially when you have known them like 5 mins says more about you than it does about her

1. You have been on here 3 months and are still actively on here to even post this when you have a gf

2. As I said barely a relationship after 14 days or so. Of course she prob fancies your friends / other guys just as she must do you but still early days.

You should really be looking at how you would feel if she went down your phone and saw a swingers app on there ?

Would you feel guilty she’s caught you out or angry she’s gone down your phone ?

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

"As my old gran used to say:

"It doesn't matter where you get your appetite from as long as you come home for dinner""

I like that

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By *etLikeMan
over a year ago

most fundamental aspects

The other thing is that she was saying how she’d like to fuck so and so. So you don’t see people here or in the media who you tell your mates you’d like to fuck? Doesn’t mean that you do. Same probably applies with her

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By *s.KerryTV/TS
over a year ago

Blackpool

Somehow I don't think this thread is going how the O.P had hoped it might

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Green arrow makes interesting reading

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By *adetMan
over a year ago

South of Ipswich

So you're both flouting the lockdown rules?

Sounds like you deserve each other quite frankly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sounds quite innocent to me. Haven't you ever had dirty thoughts about women?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Tbf mate going through someone’s phone especially when you have known them like 5 mins says more about you than it does about her

1. You have been on here 3 months and are still actively on here to even post this when you have a gf

2. As I said barely a relationship after 14 days or so. Of course she prob fancies your friends / other guys just as she must do you but still early days.

You should really be looking at how you would feel if she went down your phone and saw a swingers app on there ?

Yeah I’ve been here 3 months and still active on this site but like i originally said we had only just started seeing each other it was early stages

And yeah fair point at the beginnings of a relationship you probably still find others attractive granted but you don’t openly admit how you’d love to team 2 close friends of the man/woman you’re entering something with

And like i previously said also i know what i done was wrong snooping though someone’s phone is an invasion of privacy i shouldn’t of done it i regret doing that but i did confirm my suspicions

Would you feel guilty she’s caught you out or angry she’s gone down your phone ?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Somehow I don't think this thread is going how the O.P had hoped it might

It’s going exactly how i hoped i wanted debates and honest opinions and that’s exactly what I’m getting

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By *rs_pegging_mrCouple
over a year ago

Norfolk

Really annoyed that you're breaking lockdown rules! More than 700 people a day are dying right now.

You've only been together for 2 weeks. She might think your mates are hot and she's having banter with her mates but you've known each other for 5 mins. She's probably just not that into you yet.

If you like her, stop checking her phone, stop breaking lockdown and see how things develop. If it's meant to be it will be.

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

"Somehow I don't think this thread is going how the O.P had hoped it might

It’s going exactly how i hoped i wanted debates and honest opinions and that’s exactly what I’m getting "

You could always introduce her to your best friend. He might fancy her and then you could have a go with his wife?

Or just stop checking her phone.

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By *teveanddebsCouple
over a year ago

Norwich

"Somehow I don't think this thread is going how the O.P had hoped it might

It’s going exactly how i hoped i wanted debates and honest opinions and that’s exactly what I’m getting "

So where was her pre-op TS brother (you know the one that lives with you and your g/f that you don't live with) while you were going through her phone?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As someone else said the green arrow doesnt lie #fantasist

The OP is from dundee so I'm guessing his 'girlfriend' is his sister or at least another family member

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have just looked at some of your other posts in forums and only 2 days ago you said you want to fuck your neighbour.

Think you and your girl friend are equally matched then.

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By *teveanddebsCouple
over a year ago

Norwich

"Really annoyed that you're breaking lockdown rules! More than 700 people a day are dying right now.

You've only been together for 2 weeks. She might think your mates are hot and she's having banter with her mates but you've known each other for 5 mins. She's probably just not that into you yet.

If you like her, stop checking her phone, stop breaking lockdown and see how things develop. If it's meant to be it will be."

Don't worry, it's all fantasy anyway. Check his green arrow

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By *entralscotscpl7Couple
over a year ago

Falkirk

You sound like a bit of a control freak OP.

She can't talk to her friends about anything of a sexual nature but you can quite happily meet other people for random sex.

Seems very one sided to me.

Do her the favour of finishing with her.

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By *adyA01Woman
over a year ago

Wellington

"I have just looked at some of your other posts in forums and only 2 days ago you said you want to fuck your neighbour.

Think you and your girl friend are equally matched then.

I also looked, he also wants to do his mates new wife, oh and his girlfriend's brother has had a go with him too...

This guy is deep in fantasy land haha

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By *entralscotscpl7Couple
over a year ago

Falkirk

"Really annoyed that you're breaking lockdown rules! More than 700 people a day are dying right now.

You've only been together for 2 weeks. She might think your mates are hot and she's having banter with her mates but you've known each other for 5 mins. She's probably just not that into you yet.

If you like her, stop checking her phone, stop breaking lockdown and see how things develop. If it's meant to be it will be.

Don't worry, it's all fantasy anyway. Check his green arrow

Doh.........

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have just looked at some of your other posts in forums and only 2 days ago you said you want to fuck your neighbour.

Think you and your girl friend are equally matched then.

While the pre op ts brother of his girlfriend watches ????

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Really annoyed that you're breaking lockdown rules! More than 700 people a day are dying right now.

You've only been together for 2 weeks. She might think your mates are hot and she's having banter with her mates but you've known each other for 5 mins. She's probably just not that into you yet.

If you like her, stop checking her phone, stop breaking lockdown and see how things develop. If it's meant to be it will be."

I absolutely regret breaking lockdown rules take nothing away from that it was only once but regardless i should never of done it hold my hands up there

I never said we were only together for 2 weeks i said we had been seeing each other for a few weeks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"And you're on here actively looking to meet women and couples, doesn't seem like you're that fussed about the relationship.

Like i said we’d only recently started seeing each other a few weeks back we haven’t stepped into anything serious, plus i was on here long before i met her x"

Sounds like double standards to me.

What's good for the goose is Good for the gander!

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By *carlettxWoman
over a year ago

Essex

Please green arrow

I feel I didn’t need to put the effort in to reply with advice

OP the forum for stories and fantasies will go crazy for your posts rather than the advice ones and I’m sure you will like the stories and fantasies too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And wants to fuck his mates wife.

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By *histle do nicelyMan
over a year ago

Glasgow South

my partner and I openly discuss each others friends and colleagues.. Suggesting what ifs.. what would you like to do them and have involved a few . Love it

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By *hebritukCouple
over a year ago

London

Time to come clean. Tell her you are on here!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Time to come clean. Tell her you are on here!

Me being on here has never been a secret

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By *entralscotscpl7Couple
over a year ago

Falkirk

"Please green arrow

I feel I didn’t need to put the effort in to reply with advice

OP the forum for stories and fantasies will go crazy for your posts rather than the advice ones and I’m sure you will like the stories and fantasies too

Yep should have checked the green arrow before replying.

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By *oneyjule65Couple
over a year ago

Halifax

Sorry for imposing but what does the Green Arrow mean?

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

"Sorry for imposing but what does the Green Arrow mean?

The thing next to your username.

Shows your 30 most recent forum posts or ones you've made contributions to.

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By *entralscotscpl7Couple
over a year ago

Falkirk

"Sorry for imposing but what does the Green Arrow mean?

Press the green arrow next to the OPS name and it will bri g up a list of previous posts they have made.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Sorry for imposing but what does the Green Arrow mean?

Click. On the green.Arrow beside ops name and it shows other posts they've made

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By *BCambsCouple
over a year ago

Biggleswade

"Sorry for imposing but what does the Green Arrow mean?

If you click the green arrow next to the original, or any, posters name you can see what else they have posted to.

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By *carlettxWoman
over a year ago

Essex

"Sorry for imposing but what does the Green Arrow mean?

Next to the profile name there is a green arrow which shows all other forum posts they started or have contributed too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Sorry for imposing but what does the Green Arrow mean?

Next to the profile name there is a green arrow which shows all other forum posts they started or have contributed too

And in this case mainly fantasy

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By *s.KerryTV/TS
over a year ago

Blackpool

Normally I'd offer tea and biscuits at times like this but because of social distancing you'll all have to make your own

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By *oneyjule65Couple
over a year ago

Halifax

Ah thank you

had often wondered what the Green Arrow meant...useful to know

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By *hebritukCouple
over a year ago

London

"Time to come clean. Tell her you are on here!

Me being on here has never been a secret "

Invite her on here, you two might have more in common then you think!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Sorry for imposing but what does the Green Arrow mean?

If you click the green arrow next to a persons name while in the forums you can see all the posts they have made or replied to.

In this instance it's a good indication not to really believe the OP as it's more likely an attention seeking thread or pure fantasy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Really annoyed that you're breaking lockdown rules! More than 700 people a day are dying right now.

You've only been together for 2 weeks. She might think your mates are hot and she's having banter with her mates but you've known each other for 5 mins. She's probably just not that into you yet.

If you like her, stop checking her phone, stop breaking lockdown and see how things develop. If it's meant to be it will be.

Don't worry, it's all fantasy anyway. Check his green arrow

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Not more Jackanory Jesus!!

well being as the tiger king is exhausted this will be the next best thing

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By *oneyjule65Couple
over a year ago

Halifax

"Sorry for imposing but what does the Green Arrow mean?

If you click the green arrow next to a persons name while in the forums you can see all the posts they have made or replied to.

In this instance it's a good indication not to really believe the OP as it's more likely an attention seeking thread or pure fantasy"

Thank you

I have looked & it certainly looks like fantasy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Sorry for imposing but what does the Green Arrow mean?

Next to the profile name there is a green arrow which shows all other forum posts they started or have contributed too

Well I leaned something today ..

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By *oneyjule65Couple
over a year ago

Halifax

"Sorry for imposing but what does the Green Arrow mean?

Next to the profile name there is a green arrow which shows all other forum posts they started or have contributed too

Well I leaned something today .. "

Me too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I also checked the green tick, just 2 weeks ago the OP was married and his wife was upstairs fingering herself, but now he has a girlfriend who he is paranoid she wants to cheat on him. Something doesn't add up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I also checked the green tick, just 2 weeks ago the OP was married and his wife was upstairs fingering herself, but now he has a girlfriend who he is paranoid she wants to cheat on him. Something doesn't add up"

Ahhh you missed the bit where the girlfriends pre OP ts brother sneaked in to their room to play with his cock

It all goes on on Dundee

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

She knows I’ve seen this but claims it’s just girl banter "

Just met her, moved in and started to check her phone whilst you are looking on a swingers site, says it all really. Seems a bit possessive.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And now the post DEFINITELY isn’t going as the OP hoped. Cracking read though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That wasn’t the OP. He just commented on it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Sorry for imposing but what does the Green Arrow mean?

Click. On the green.Arrow beside ops name and it shows other posts they've made "

Never knew this. Cool. Handy. Haha.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"And you're on here actively looking to meet women and couples, doesn't seem like you're that fussed about the relationship.

Like i said we’d only recently started seeing each other a few weeks back we haven’t stepped into anything serious, plus i was on here long before i met her x"

So what’s wrong with what she’s doing? I would say what you’re doing is far worse.

I’d end it with you straight away if you took my phone while I was asleep and went through it. If you have suspicions, ask.

And me and my husband go through each other’s phones all the time. Not to see if we’re hiding anything - he chats to people and can’t be bothered explaining what’s been said so I’ll read it, vice versa

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"And you're on here actively looking to meet women and couples, doesn't seem like you're that fussed about the relationship.

Like i said we’d only recently started seeing each other a few weeks back we haven’t stepped into anything serious, plus i was on here long before i met her x"

And already getting jealous and hacking her phone ? Wow imagine what you could be like after it becomes serious

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ahhh you missed the bit where the girlfriends pre OP ts brother sneaked in to their room to play with his cock

It all goes on on Dundee

Dundee is epic

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

you're on a swinging site as a single bloke.

so there's that for her to consider also.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never felt the need to check a partners phone.

As they are private messages always thought there's definitely gonna be stuff in there I won't want to read.

Easier on my tired soul. To just not think about it. Haha

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By *entlecaressMan
over a year ago

Wakefield/ Beverley

"And you're on here actively looking to meet women and couples, doesn't seem like you're that fussed about the relationship."

Me thinks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Even if this tale were real, you’re fantasising about your best mates new wife and we’re ready to pounce on your next door neighbour only 7 days ago. I’d say you should set the poor girl free and let her find someone less paranoid

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

What's OK for you to do is also OK for her to do. You are on here looking for others, why shouldn't she be looking as well? You reap what you sow my friend. As for going through her phone, wrong on so many levels. I'd show you the door personally.

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By *anana JoeMan
over a year ago

Sheffield

Interesting resonances from some! It goes to show lockdown hasn't reduced the number of bitter snide fuckers on here be this tale true or not.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

This would do better in the Stories and Fantasies section

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Interesting resonances from some! It goes to show lockdown hasn't reduced the number of bitter snide fuckers on here be this tale true or not.

I don’t think it’s bitter or snide pointing out it’s most likely fantasy. Most folk have done it with humour... granted it’s been humour for the other readers, but still quite amusing.

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By *d4fun73Man
over a year ago

Shipley

This is the funniest thread by far! With help from the green arrow it all makes some kind of sense!! Remind me not to go to Dundee!!

The appetite reply was by far the best!!

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By *andaele50Couple
over a year ago

Fcuksville

Mind boggles! Pot/kettle.. What's good for the goose etc etc...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bin her off. Move on to the next.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Op u ok hun x

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By *ornyhappyCouple
over a year ago

perth

Green arrow throws up all sorts of contradictions. I feel like I need some sort of diagram to help understand... Wife/girlfriend/girlfriend's pre op trans brother

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ah thank you

had often wondered what the Green Arrow meant...useful to know

"
Indeed. It can be most revealing.

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By *av501TV/TS
over a year ago

Mancetter?

"And you're on here actively looking to meet women and couples, doesn't seem like you're that fussed about the relationship.

Like i said we’d only recently started seeing each other a few weeks back we haven’t stepped into anything serious, plus i was on here long before i met her x"

And you told her your on here from the the start ...right!!! Oh! Not a great start to a relationship really sorry, not judging.... Ive had my phone checked by a long term Serious partner .....I was legit at time but it broke us down

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *ab jamesMan
over a year ago

ribble valley

Why would you check your girls phone. You should have asked her direct. If I was her, you just got ditched. Respect people's privacy. Your paranoia is your problem

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Actually op reading your threads via the old green arrow, I'd call bullshit

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By *exbombs08Couple
over a year ago

Dundee

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By *exbombs08Couple
over a year ago

Dundee

Fantasist and dreamer!

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By *edGrayCouple
over a year ago

Swindon

I was feeling a bit down today with being on week 4 of lockdown. This thread has picked me up no end. Cheers everyone.

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By *teveanddebsCouple
over a year ago

Norwich

No need to PM OP.

Your follow up posts on the other thread make it clear that it's meant to be true not a made up fantasy.

Whatever forum it's posted in.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just waiting for OP to go unlos after declaring it's a social experiment. We've all seen this shit before

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By *oymaster69Man
over a year ago

GREENFORD

"And you're on here actively looking to meet women and couples, doesn't seem like you're that fussed about the relationship."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What do you think she would think of she read your fab msgs.... Honestly if you wouldn't let her see the things you say on fab, you sure as hell should not be going into her phone and reading her msgs.... I mean you could also do the girl solid and offer to arrange to get your mates over for a GB.... Could be the start of a wonderful swinging relationship if you played this right

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull

Fab Forums.. The gift that keeps giving

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By *napppaMan
over a year ago

London

"As my old gran used to say:

"It doesn't matter where you get your appetite from as long as you come home for dinner""

My new favourite quote!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

She knows I’ve seen this but claims it’s just girl banter "

Mmmmmmm yummy yummy karma

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Tbf mate going through someone’s phone especially when you have known them like 5 mins says more about you than it does about her

1. You have been on here 3 months and are still actively on here to even post this when you have a gf

What she said

2. As I said barely a relationship after 14 days or so. Of course she prob fancies your friends / other guys just as she must do you but still early days.

You should really be looking at how you would feel if she went down your phone and saw a swingers app on there ?

Would you feel guilty she’s caught you out or angry she’s gone down your phone ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I used to have an open relationship with my ex and he had full access to my phone, my profile, emails, everything. He could not wait to check my phone the moment I walked through the door - “who have you been chatting with today”. There was no privacy at all and although I had nothing to hide, I hated it. If you are going to have this type of relationships with someone, there needs to be trust without jealousy. It will either work, or not.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Youd be out the door

I would not want someone breaching trust n privacy.

Thats not a man

Thats not a boy friend

Thats a controller.. very red flag

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By *isstonguetasticjoWoman
over a year ago

widnes

Ur just like every other cheatin shit on here

Ur cohabiting with ur gf checkin her fuckin fone

But here is u on here STILL even after u say uv just started seeing a girl

2timin sbit like every other fuckin fella on here

Now u know how it feels wen a fella gets caught out shaggin behind his wife/gf

All the fuckin same

Full of shit

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By *artender_onthelooseMan
over a year ago

Dublin

Great read hahahaha

Some fantasy!

I smell a web of lies,lies I tells ye.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Would you fuck her mate's??? Just get a bigger bed and you can all ignore the lock down and fuck each other 4 in a bed

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

You're doing that after just a few weeks and she knows about it?

Why hasn't she dumped you already??

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