FabSwingers.com forum: Is My Ages An Issue?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Not Having Much Luck On Here I Know I've Only Been On Here A Week, But Is It Because Am So Young?

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Think your profile might have something to do with it as well.....needs tweaking

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Def need to fill in the interests bit too xx

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey

Your age will be an issue to some.

But it's your profile that needs working on.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Am Not Very Good With Stuff Like That, So Open To Ideas To Improve My Chances? X

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Your age will be an issue to some.

But it's your profile that needs working on."

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *ensual temptressWoman
over a year ago

Southampton

there will be 20 something guys who have no issues getting meets so nope age isnt the issue .

what were your exspectations of the site ? are they realistic ? is your profile standing out from the thousands of other guys on here ? are you showing yourself in the best possible light ? ask yourself these questions and may find things change.

wish you all the best on the site and have patience ! x

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Could Do With More An Better Pictures Really lol

Am Not Really Sure What Am Looking For Just Trying To Explore My Sexual Side More? Well Any Help To Make Me Stick Out More Would Be Very Welcomed

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *ovedupstillCouple
over a year ago

mullinwire

tweaking?

you need a profile full stop.

and you have been on here a week, fella.

it takes that long to get paid for work.

how fast were you expecting women to drop at your feet?

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *londeCazWoman
over a year ago

Arse End of the Universe, Cumbria

Don't capitalise every word, very annoying to us pedantic twunts who were taught only to capitalise at the beginning of a sentence and proper nouns....add more to your profile and be patient

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

get a decent profile, take a look at mine if you want to see something thats obviousily working for me , it will show you where yours is certinally lacking

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"get a decent profile, take a look at mine if you want to see something thats obviousily working for me , it will show you where yours is certinally lacking"

Well you certainly don't need help sticking out. Lovely cock pic.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm honestly curious. How do you meet if you can't accomodate and can't travel?

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *ovedupstillCouple
over a year ago

mullinwire

"I'm honestly curious. How do you meet if you can't accomodate and can't travel?"

bus shelter at the end of the road lol

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm honestly curious. How do you meet if you can't accomodate and can't travel?

bus shelter at the end of the road lol"

Back of an old vauxhall corsa ?

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *ovedupstillCouple
over a year ago

mullinwire

"I'm honestly curious. How do you meet if you can't accomodate and can't travel?

bus shelter at the end of the road lol

Back of an old vauxhall corsa ?

using his mums corolla? lol

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm honestly curious. How do you meet if you can't accomodate and can't travel?

bus shelter at the end of the road lol

Back of an old vauxhall corsa ?

using his mums corolla? lol"

on school field while drinking white lightening ?

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

nope he just expects the lucky lady to pick him up and take back to hers (and he wonders why no meets lol)

"Well you certainly don't need help sticking out. Lovely cock pic.

aww thanks you made it blush and the ends gone all red

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I Can Accom Just Sick Of People Like Single Men Message To Meet So I Choose To Say I Couldn't!

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well utilise your message filters and single men wont message you

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

your profile pic isnt very good, i can hardly see it, and you need to say more about yourself and what sort of person you are looking for.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *eet_the_spartanMan
over a year ago

Manchester

I've just turned 21 and i've met some lovely people and been to some great parties.

Good pictures, good profile and good conversation (which includes good manners!). That's all you need on here.

On a side note, capitalising every word you write is very annoying.

Good luck dude

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've just turned 21 and i've met some lovely people and been to some great parties.

Good pictures, good profile and good conversation (which includes good manners!). That's all you need on here.

On a side note, capitalising every word you write is very annoying.

Good luck dude

Good advice.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm honestly curious. How do you meet if you can't accomodate and can't travel?

bus shelter at the end of the road lol

Back of an old vauxhall corsa ?

Better than back of a Vauxhall Viva

lol

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"nope he just expects the lucky lady to pick him up and take back to hers (and he wonders why no meets lol)

Well you certainly don't need help sticking out. Lovely cock pic.

aww thanks you made it blush and the ends gone all red

I agree and would sit on it in a flash, oh nice face too x

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ok then here's the old master's secrets, grasshopper.

As the shitty corporate term goes, you need to 'think out of the box' a bit.

Women and couples get 100's of messages daily, so you need to do something that stands out if you are going down that route, I don't tend to bother with that messaging shite much anyway, there are better and far more bountiful ways of attracting attention and interest, just post total shite on here and do quirky random status updates.

It's a bit like fishing (Good for an acronym here but an even more boring sport that cricket and formula 1! lol), the more time you spend preparing your bait and weighing up the surroundings, the better chance you have of getting a bite. Put it this way, if you message one person, they are the only people that will see it, so unless it hits the spot it's been a wasted effort, regardless of how good it is, whereas casting out into the great unknown of the forums and then sitting back and waiting for bites gets you multiple results with only one cast.

As others have said, you do need at least an half decent profile to pull it off but once you have had a couple of meets and a couple of good verifications, you will then have progressed to fanny magnet status grasshopper

It works for me anyway! lol.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Could Do With More An Better Pictures Really lol

Am Not Really Sure What Am Looking For Just Trying To Explore My Sexual Side More? Well Any Help To Make Me Stick Out More Would Be Very Welcomed

x"
Yeah porno mag will make you stick out more mate.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *am sampsonMan
over a year ago

cwmbran

"I Can Accom Just Sick Of People Like Single Men Message To Meet So I Choose To Say I Couldn't!"

Well isn't it better to deal with the single men issue by using filters because as it stands now why would any couple or single female want to meet you as they would have to pick you up and accomodate you

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It seems to me that you thought just opening a profile, sticking a couuple of lines of text and adding some pics would be all you needed, women would be falling over themselves to meet you.

Zero effort will reap no rewards, as you have found out.

My advice would be to get out and chat in pubs to women at a weekend. You will be more successful than here.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"It seems to me that you thought just opening a profile, sticking a couuple of lines of text and adding some pics would be all you needed, women would be falling over themselves to meet you.

Zero effort will reap no rewards, as you have found out.

My advice would be to get out and chat in pubs to women at a weekend. You will be more successful than here. "

Seems True Atm

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It seems to me that you thought just opening a profile, sticking a couuple of lines of text and adding some pics would be all you needed, women would be falling over themselves to meet you.

Zero effort will reap no rewards, as you have found out.

My advice would be to get out and chat in pubs to women at a weekend. You will be more successful than here.

Seems True Atm"

Do a Browse search on an older age range of guys (say 35-45) and see how they write their profiles. Also correct spelling and grammar are very important to women - you need to do some serious work on that one.

And if you have only been on here a week and you already have a 'meet-verified' tick, you ain't doin so bad mate.

Unless of course you have had someone help you fake it........ Get yourself into some serious do-do if you get caught on that one.....

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think he's been very clever, just by posting on the forum he's had more attention in a week than most single males get in a month.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Capitals at the start of every word really get on my nerves. Almost as much as text speak does.

Also, if you're only on here a week, you should maybe wait a little longer before starting to worry. Am sure you will have to start fighting them off with a pointy stick soon enough.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *inful_coupleCouple
over a year ago

Frimley

Guys ... most cock's look the damn same. So stop just putting cock pics up. Face shots or at least more body shots or clothed shots ... clothing can show what kind of personality you are. I HATE cock shots on a guy's profile. Absolute turn off. I'm not here to look at cock. I want a cock to fuck me but I don't want to see the same damn picture on every guy's profile! lol

x Perrie.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *eet_the_spartanMan
over a year ago

Manchester

"I think he's been very clever, just by posting on the forum he's had more attention in a week than most single males get in a month."

I disagree. Loads of guys go for that 'tactic'. There's a difference between good attention and bad attention though. Drawing attention to a bad profile does it more harm than good

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes along with the capital letters for every word, shouting (using capitals) at people to attach a face picture. Even if your age group was of an interest to me, nothing on your profile would make me want to visit again and it needs more than tweaking. Do a search on the forums as there has been a lot of advice on what to write.

Nice picture but that's about it, oh yes, you have been here a week, some guys wait months before a meet yet you are already verified and come onto the forums moaning that you are not having much luck

Patience is needed including meeting at 11ish? Was that 11pm Friday night or is that 11am this morning?

Good luck and welcome to Fab

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've had no meets on here either. I don't care though

Bit of chat and banter on here, plenty of willing ladies in the real world. If I start getting meets then great. If not then so what?

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

"Yes along with the capital letters for every word, shouting (using capitals) at people to attach a face picture. Even if your age group was of an interest to me, nothing on your profile would make me want to visit again and it needs more than tweaking. Do a search on the forums as there has been a lot of advice on what to write.

Patience is needed including meeting at 11ish? Was that 11pm Friday night or is that 11am this morning?

Good luck and welcome to Fab

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've had no meets on here either. I don't care though

Bit of chat and banter on here, plenty of willing ladies in the real world. If I start getting meets then great. If not then so what?"

An excellent positive view, definitely a good head there

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

Post new Message to Thread