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When do people realistically think they will be meeting again?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I have had more than a few hopeful mails wanting to meet up after this is all over and see a few talking about it on the forums as well but I am genuinely surprised people are thinking about meets in the future just now.

I cant see me wanting to meet up with anyone this year and likely well into next year as well until there is an actual cure.

Am I being too cautious in my thinking?

Do people think they will be meeting and playing soon? After Summer? Or even this year?

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By *entralscotscpl7Couple
over a year ago

Falkirk

Our company has said the end of May and we should be returning to work.

They also said that the virus won't really affect our day to day business lol.

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By *uenevereWoman
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

I would say maybe August ... got to be positive.

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By *adMerWoman
over a year ago

Sandwich

I have a feeling that we will be looking at autumn this year at least. Even then we will probably be restricted to small groups.

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By *anxmann55Man
over a year ago

Douglas Isle of man.......

August September...it could come back in December...only reason I mention time scale we are not of people carry virus but not have the effects of it....irealize we should abide by the health professionals...I hope i am incorrect missing pussy and cock so much....

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By *elshsunsWoman
over a year ago

Flintshire

End of May hoping sooner x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

September time hopefully, but really knows for sure.

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By *uenevereWoman
over a year ago

Scunthorpe


"End of May hoping sooner x"

Sadly, I think you are being very optimistic.

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By *elshsunsWoman
over a year ago

Flintshire


"End of May hoping sooner x

Sadly, I think you are being very optimistic.

"

Who knows ?? It’s all speculation ...

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By *nDnRnRCouple
over a year ago

Belfast, Dublin, London, Gran Canaria

Sometime this year hopefully

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By *itty9899Man
over a year ago

Craggy Island

August, September.

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By *anxmann55Man
over a year ago

Douglas Isle of man.......


"End of May hoping sooner x

Sadly, I think you are being very optimistic."
absolutely no way be safe by may unless they health scientists find antidote for the virus....

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By *ings66Man
over a year ago

Bristol


"Sometime this year hopefully "

Maybe late in the year

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By *oneyBear100Couple
over a year ago

Gatwick area

Lockdown by the end of May but social distancing until end of the year. Swinging and social distancing do not make good bedfellows regardless of lockdown ending earlier.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm tentatively planning a week's road trip of perverted deviant sex in Sept - fingers crossed

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By *edandLouCouple
over a year ago

Liverpool

It's months away. If you think otherwise you are mistaken. In our opinion.

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By *entralscotscpl7Couple
over a year ago

Falkirk


"Lockdown by the end of May but social distancing until end of the year. Swinging and social distancing do not make good bedfellows regardless of lockdown ending earlier. "

People won't do that. As soon as lockdown has been lifted the will be a surge in parties and private social gatherings.

Hence the second wave.

It will happen unfortunately.

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By *omplexchiqueTV/TS
over a year ago

Sale


"I have had more than a few hopeful mails wanting to meet up after this is all over and see a few talking about it on the forums as well but I am genuinely surprised people are thinking about meets in the future just now.

I cant see me wanting to meet up with anyone this year and likely well into next year as well until there is an actual cure.

Am I being too cautious in my thinking?

Do people think they will be meeting and playing soon? After Summer? Or even this year?"

As ever with this question the answer sits firmly in the ‘it depends’ category. High risk takers who choose to meet regardless of law and medical guidance are already meeting now, some may never have stopped meeting at all! At the other end of the continuum risk averse people will wait until general public guidance changes and even then, may wait further before making their own minds up when they want to meet others.

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By *m3232Man
over a year ago

maidenhead

I think we are a couple of months off if we are lucky.

It would be great to get a test kit to rule out the virus before meeting.

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By *anxmann55Man
over a year ago

Douglas Isle of man.......


"End of May hoping sooner x

Sadly, I think you are being very optimistic.

Who knows ?? It’s all speculation ..."
absolutely...speculation..we can only hope that we have an end 2 the virus people get back 2 normality and sexy times ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

At this rate, New Year's Eve.

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By *edHeadedFunWoman
over a year ago

Didsbury

The realitic in me thinks July at the earliest. They will definitely phase the relaxing of the restrictions.

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By *anxmann55Man
over a year ago

Douglas Isle of man.......


"Lockdown by the end of May but social distancing until end of the year. Swinging and social distancing do not make good bedfellows regardless of lockdown ending earlier.

People won't do that. As soon as lockdown has been lifted the will be a surge in parties and private social gatherings.

Hence the second wave.

It will happen unfortunately."
I heard that it would reappear in December month that could well be aperson is carrying virus out like it's been mentioned keeping 2meters distance going tobe differcult built up cities thow....

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By *ettyboop61Woman
over a year ago

St Neots


"I have had more than a few hopeful mails wanting to meet up after this is all over and see a few talking about it on the forums as well but I am genuinely surprised people are thinking about meets in the future just now.

I cant see me wanting to meet up with anyone this year and likely well into next year as well until there is an actual cure.

Am I being too cautious in my thinking?

Do people think they will be meeting and playing soon? After Summer? Or even this year?"

I don't think your being unrealistic I wouldn't want to meet anybody to be honest This is a frightening times

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By *revaunanceCouple
over a year ago

Exeter

It is an ever changing situation. Those who think they'll be able to rush out and start meeting again soon are sadly going to be disappointed. Life will return close to what it was before, but only after a long transition, and until there is a vaccine then it is highly likely that periodic outbreaks will occur.

Realistically, we don't think we'll be meeting again until October at the earliest.

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By *anxmann55Man
over a year ago

Douglas Isle of man.......


"At this rate, New Year's Eve."
lol be your Christmas present have ya end away ...

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By *ear in the chairMan
over a year ago

yeah there

I wonder what fab admin will do regarding meets and the site changes if the lockdown is finished but the social distancing remains?

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By *abrielle247Couple (FF)
over a year ago

PDI Gran Canaria

Maybe never, now there's a thought. Can you imagine that.

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By *wenyMan
over a year ago

rufford

End of June beginning of July

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By *aintscoupleCouple
over a year ago

st helens

Aint a chance they will allow clubs to open until september at the earliest.

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By *alcon43Woman
over a year ago

Paisley

Until we’ve all been tested and know who has had it and who is immune then there’s no safe way to lift restrictions. The problem is that some people may be carriers and not display symptoms and there may be false results in the testing.

The issue is how do we prepare for this when it happens the next time. Will we start having larger stocks of key items at home?

Will we all get tested before returning to work?

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By *moretwoCouple
over a year ago

Feltham

Even when restrictions are lifted and people are meeting again unless we know we are immune or the virus has completely gone (which is unlikely) the only meets we will be having will be outside and watching only, swinging is just a bit of fun to us really not bothered either way and wouldn’t put ourselves or others at risk just for a bit of fun. Yep we will probably find it a comedown from group meets etc but can still be made fun.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i think lockdown will be lifted mid/end may.

I will prob be meeting again by mid june

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By *elshsunsWoman
over a year ago

Flintshire


"i think lockdown will be lifted mid/end may.

I will prob be meeting again by mid june"

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By *lansmanMan
over a year ago

Sheffield

The official lockdown will be partially lifted but once people start moving around again a second wave will hit. I predict a second lockdown in response to this.

It's a difficult call tbh.theres pressure both ways and it's a case of striking the right balance between deaths and the economy. A crystal ball is needed.

There is no vaccine yet and even if it was available now it would take months to inoculate everyone.

I honestly think 2020 is a write off.

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

Hopefully by Aug.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have had more than a few hopeful mails wanting to meet up after this is all over and see a few talking about it on the forums as well but I am genuinely surprised people are thinking about meets in the future just now.

I cant see me wanting to meet up with anyone this year and likely well into next year as well until there is an actual cure.

Am I being too cautious in my thinking?

Do people think they will be meeting and playing soon? After Summer? Or even this year?"

Just see how it goes! No one really knows do they!

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet

Hopefully before I become a born again virgin!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's not something that's on my mind for the foreseeable.

No plans, no nothing, just staying alive.

P

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

never,

who do you trust!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Likely the government will relax lock down rules and social distancing slowly in stages...

They may not cover swinging in the official briefings. X

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By *ondoner27Man
over a year ago

london

Doesn’t feel like it’s going to be any time soon

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By *guyMan
over a year ago

Wirral

It’ll be mid-June, at the earliest

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By *khotcouple20Couple
over a year ago

Hertfordshire

As soon as they say lockdown is lifted we will be..I’m annoyed we wasted so much time before..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm planning to see someone as soon as lockdown is over. I'm missing him too much to wait any longer

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By *xfordshireCoupleMFCouple
over a year ago

Nr. Oxford

My (John) gut feeling is that restrictions won’t be fully lifted until September at the earliest.

We might see some relaxing of things between now and then though.

But we we want to rush out and meet at the earliest opportunity? Seems a bit silly to me. So we’ll probably give it a few more weeks and see what happens before making that call.

- John

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By *abrielle247Couple (FF)
over a year ago

PDI Gran Canaria


"never,

who do you trust!"

Trust no one, especially the government.

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By *eekibooMan
over a year ago

Northwest

Watching the TV today there's a few countries slowly starting to come of the lockdown after 8 weeks so I reckon we have another month from now and then we will start getting back to normal

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By *lansmanMan
over a year ago

Sheffield

It will be interesting seeing if/when the second wave hits these countries.

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By *naquest321Man
over a year ago

Carlisle

I think summer will be over

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't know about meeting, I never do lol.

But I'm hoping to get back to work ASAP.

Also I'm waiting for a house transaction to complete soon.Do anyone know if you can move in during this??

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By *os19Man
over a year ago

Edmonton

A couple of weeks ago I would have said beginning of July pubs , restaurants , retail shops , barbers etc would be open with social distancing in place.However after seen how many people have so far away ( over 11,000 as of 13th April I now think it could October or November.I do hope I am wrong and we open sooner.I know that life is more important than money but how long can businesses and workers survive with little or no money.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think some people need a fantasy (right now) to aspire to, a goal to aim for that gives them the reassurance of normal at the end of all this virus jiggerypokery?

This obviously extends to meets.

B

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By *ittleMissCaliWoman
over a year ago

all loved up

Apart from perhaps one or two friends.. I only meet in clubs... so it's going to be when the clubs open for me.... but I will be going the very first time they open xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't know about meeting, I never do lol.

But I'm hoping to get back to work ASAP.

Also I'm waiting for a house transaction to complete soon.Do anyone know if you can move in during this?? "

No can’t move I don’t think

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have had more than a few hopeful mails wanting to meet up after this is all over and see a few talking about it on the forums as well but I am genuinely surprised people are thinking about meets in the future just now.

I cant see me wanting to meet up with anyone this year and likely well into next year as well until there is an actual cure.

Am I being too cautious in my thinking?

Do people think they will be meeting and playing soon? After Summer? Or even this year?"

I’m thinking first week in June xx

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By *ounty durham bbw coupleCouple
over a year ago

darlington

I think weekend 12th or 19th of June everything will open back up pubs restaurants etc.

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By *uffnmuffCouple
over a year ago

London

September but I hope for sooner.

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By *artender_onthelooseMan
over a year ago

Dublin

Sometime in June at the earliest

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By *ittleMissCaliWoman
over a year ago

all loved up


"I don't know about meeting, I never do lol.

But I'm hoping to get back to work ASAP.

Also I'm waiting for a house transaction to complete soon.Do anyone know if you can move in during this??

No can’t move I don’t think "
you can move. X

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

End of May/June latest. Under 25s and recovered will be back much earlier I’d we can get a test sorted

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't know about meeting, I never do lol.

But I'm hoping to get back to work ASAP.

Also I'm waiting for a house transaction to complete soon.Do anyone know if you can move in during this?? "

I’ve seen a few people move not sure if it’s ok or not, maybe worth checking if you need to hire lorries etc!

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By *carlett AllureWoman
over a year ago

Cardiff

I’m hoping for June! Cheeky club night for my birthday would be perfect considering my week away song be happening

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not a clue and like EVERYONE we don’t know! Pointless to even speculate x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Social distancing until October

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

July minimum...

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By *ornychickxxxWoman
over a year ago

north east

Soon I hope I miss my fb

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By *ovestrapMan
over a year ago

London

Lockdown should end by. May if we are lucky or June.

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith


"never,

who do you trust!"

Friends I’ve been meeting for years

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By *B69Woman
over a year ago

Wiltshire

Not that anyone knows for sure but I’m thinking September when schools are due back after summer break.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m saving a lot of money not going out to the cinema, restaurants, travel let alone clubs. It might be a permanent change for me. Honestly, social distancing will be here for a long time and swinging clubs, like bars, cinemas. theatres and pubs will be the last places to re-open. Can’t be more optimistic than that.

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley

Whenever the lockdown ends.

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By *mcouple2Couple
over a year ago

Warrington

Mass testing is coming .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Think we are in this until the elusive vaccine(next year) but we will be let out on a leash and dragged back in a few times until then........just be bloody careful as it’s a lucky dip if you have a unknown health issue and get bad with this. Still trying to work out the amount people that potentially have already had this if the mortality rate is between 1-3 % and 11000 people have succumbed then how many don’t know hey had it of have it compared to the test numbers. Until we get out again I would like to hear from you lot and pass time with just words

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By *eoeclipseWoman
over a year ago

glasgow

11000 have died, but there are hundreds of thousands who have survived. We can't go around curing everything or living indoors until they do, it's all just a part of nature as cruel or as unsympathetic as that may sound it's fact and when put in perspective of large scale it's as bad as it all sounds on the media, Individually, yes it's a threat along with many others.

Lots of things can kill you, tetanus....when was the last time you got that booster?

Cancer - incurable

Flu - goes round killing 10's of thousands every year

Pollution - kills 10's of thousands a year

Starvation - still kills millions per year

So on & so forth.

We're told this virus came from animals.....who do you think is the biggest customer of animals.....health services for experiments....many more million of them die every year & right now for a virus that most will survive.

Just think, if we didn't travel by plane, the virus wouldn't have travelled as far or as quickly as it has. This is us & how we live that caused this and so many other issues round the globe.

Use this time to work out what's really important, who you are & I'll tell you it ain't material items, fame or every lasting life, it's enjoying the time we've got it's the " - " that's important.

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By *itzimadCouple
over a year ago

harwich

2 years minimum look back at history spanish flu was 3 years were more advanced medically now but i realy think at least 2 years before your willing to get close to a stranger

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"2 years minimum look back at history spanish flu was 3 years were more advanced medically now but i realy think at least 2 years before your willing to get close to a stranger"

I wouldnt of thought that by the way things seem to be going in China already

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By *offee27Man
over a year ago

Wiltshire

Lockdown until late summer, social distancing till early next year in my opinion. I hope I'm wrong however as I'm not the only missing human company now

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By *xpressionistMan
over a year ago

ST. ALBANS

As I'm now on here as a single Male, it's not going to make much difference really whether anyone can meet or not. Certainly won't notice any difference.

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By *ocoTemptationMan
over a year ago

london

I'm thinking nothing approaching normal until September and even then I think habits are going to be very different.

Next year I can imagine profiles saying

STI tested

Covid19 vaccinated/immune

No kissing ever

...and on the next cheery note...

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By *ounty durham bbw coupleCouple
over a year ago

darlington


"2 years minimum look back at history spanish flu was 3 years were more advanced medically now but i realy think at least 2 years before your willing to get close to a stranger"
no way the government will keep social distancing for 2 years people won't put up with being separated from friends and family that long everything will reopen at some point this summer

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By *hadow KingsCouple (MM)
over a year ago

Birmingham

I get back to work. Don't fancy being sort changed getting only 80% of my wages and I wanna complete my apprenticeship so I can finally get the big dough.

Start looking for a place to live and just have my freedom of movement and association/disassociation back.

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By *lairesurreyfunTV/TS
over a year ago

Weybridge

Spain slowly relaxing now but theyve been in a proper lockdown. People dying now caught it before our lockdown so I'd say another 2 months .

You cant realistically let peoplecretutn to work and social distance and the age thing is a red herring .

There will be a second wave and as with most virus it wont go away so deaths will continue as will our immunity .

I expect there are some people still hooking up now anyway

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By *eannaTV/TS
over a year ago

Cwmfelifach, nr Newport

There's another two waves of this virus for us to survive and that's before the so called antidote so my guess would be about 18months, on a lighter note I reckon that should give me time to get in shape

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By *etro1940sCouple
over a year ago

Kingston upon Thames


"September but I hope for sooner. "
We suspect essential work and education by September. We might be back at play by November. This is being candid about the big picture. A tough second wave of infection is the last thing the UK needs.

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By *kyblue1878Couple
over a year ago

Southport

Couldn't give a monkeys. When all this is over family and friends come first and the lifestyle can wait. Wouldn't bother us if pressed reset in 2021.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What's this again concept?

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By *akbearMan
over a year ago

Newbury

I think it will be autumn and then locked down again Christmas early 2021

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By *edGMan
over a year ago

Daventry

I wouldn't consider meeting anyone for close contact until next year. This thing will probably go for round 2 next winter

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By *irestorm 500Couple
over a year ago

coventry


"Couldn't give a monkeys. When all this is over family and friends come first and the lifestyle can wait. Wouldn't bother us if pressed reset in 2021."

Ditto and at the moment not sure if how I feel about continuing with the lifestyle, this virus and situation changes your outlook on life l, just my personnal thoughts x Storm x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Be lucky to see the end of this by October I’d almost put money on it

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By *pider-WomanWoman
over a year ago

Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro

Until a vaccine is available to all. A year or two difinately not this year.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Govt leak says 25th May it's starting to go back to normal

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By *tevej64Man
over a year ago

manchester

once the idiot government figure out that by taking blood from those who've had CV19 and transfusing it into those that haven't we'll all get the antibodies req'd to fight the virus. Maybe be the end of the year.

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By *kyblue1878Couple
over a year ago

Southport


"once the idiot government figure out that by taking blood from those who've had CV19 and transfusing it into those that haven't we'll all get the antibodies req'd to fight the virus. Maybe be the end of the year."

Didn't realise the government now had to be scientists and micro biologists to politically govern. Bright left wing comment

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By *orny IrishMan
over a year ago

Rural Wiltshire

I hope we will be out of lockdown and travelling by August as I want to go home and help my mum celebrate her 70th otherwise it will be super shite for her.

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By *orny IrishMan
over a year ago

Rural Wiltshire


"once the idiot government figure out that by taking blood from those who've had CV19 and transfusing it into those that haven't we'll all get the antibodies req'd to fight the virus. Maybe be the end of the year."

I am assuming you have a PhD in microbiology or something like that?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don’t honestly think we’ll have a reduction in the social distancing guidelines for at least 6 months. Shops may start opening sooner like they are in Italy & Spain this week. As for social meets outside of family who knows when we’ll be allowed ??

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By *arney_bettyCouple
over a year ago

Leicester


"11000 have died, but there are hundreds of thousands who have survived. We can't go around curing everything or living indoors until they do, it's all just a part of nature as cruel or as unsympathetic as that may sound it's fact and when put in perspective of large scale it's as bad as it all sounds on the media, Individually, yes it's a threat along with many others.

Lots of things can kill you, tetanus....when was the last time you got that booster?

Cancer - incurable

Flu - goes round killing 10's of thousands every year

Pollution - kills 10's of thousands a year

Starvation - still kills millions per year

So on & so forth.

We're told this virus came from animals.....who do you think is the biggest customer of animals.....health services for experiments....many more million of them die every year & right now for a virus that most will survive.

Just think, if we didn't travel by plane, the virus wouldn't have travelled as far or as quickly as it has. This is us & how we live that caused this and so many other issues round the globe.

Use this time to work out what's really important, who you are & I'll tell you it ain't material items, fame or every lasting life, it's enjoying the time we've got it's the " - " that's important. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some on here say 2021 before this is over, do realise most club's will be gone and the scene so small it won't be any good. If lockdown goes on to long the whole country will be finished anyway, so no jobs and money have to come on here for our kicks .

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By *sm265Woman
over a year ago

Shangri-la

I certainly don't envisage meeting anyone new or attending clubs until at least 2021. Depending on how things progress once lockdown eventually ends, & how all that is handled, I might consider meeting trusted friends later in the year but I won't be rushing to do so.

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By *sm265Woman
over a year ago

Shangri-la


"once the idiot government figure out that by taking blood from those who've had CV19 and transfusing it into those that haven't we'll all get the antibodies req'd to fight the virus. Maybe be the end of the year."

There are still big questions about the level of immunity people who have recovered have. Whilst they have developed some antibodies they are not yet sure whether they have developed enough to prevent reinfection. Its a new virus so we are all starting from scratch. & it's not quite as simple as taking blood from the recovered & putting it into others.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My medic friends say schools should reopen in May but I can imagine a lot of parents won't want that. I can't envisage meeting anyone till say September myself.

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By *edandLouCouple
over a year ago

Liverpool

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By *elshsunsWoman
over a year ago

Flintshire

Well Europe is starting to relax restrictions so we a couple of weeks behind ... seems like a lot of people are gonna be hiding away ...

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By *ovegames42Man
over a year ago

london


"At this rate, New Year's Eve."

One hell of a New Year’s Eve Party.

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By *alking HeadMan
over a year ago

Bolton

I'm buying shares in clingfilm, rubber gloves and antiseptic lubricant.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am going to be optimistic and say maybe around September or October... but of course that will depend on how the next few months play out.

At the end of the day, my health and the health of my immediate family comes first.

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By *verysmileMan
over a year ago

Canterbury


"I'm buying shares in clingfilm, rubber gloves and antiseptic lubricant."

You may want to invest in kippers and pancakes as they are the only things that fit under the door for your dinner party guests.

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By *edGMan
over a year ago

Daventry

i certainly wouldn't consider close contact with anyone I didn't know until next year unless the introduce some nationwide programme enabling someone to show they have had and recovered from the virus. This thing will be going for round 2 in the winter

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm buying shares in clingfilm, rubber gloves and antiseptic lubricant."

Full length condoms as they had in Naked Gun!

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley

As soon as I'm allowed I shall be bouncing on a penis (that belongs to a friend).

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some time next year.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've had 2 request tonights to meet tonight fing idiots

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By *ust RachelTV/TS
over a year ago

Horsham

Next year, might as well be optimistic that is has fooked off by then.

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By *oroRick1027Man
over a year ago

Middlesbrough

Spare a thought for the poor sods that have recovered from it and are now immune. They still can't get any fun.

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By *ob198XaMan
over a year ago

teleford

Lockdown will be eased at some point but don’t be expecting pubs and swingers clubs to be opening before we have a vaccine or effective treatment... expect some form of social distancing to remain for all 2020. The only exception might be those of us under 40 and at lower risk could at some point be allowed out to take our chances and socialise more freely.

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By *ob198XaMan
over a year ago

teleford


"As soon as I'm allowed I shall be bouncing on a penis (that belongs to a friend)."

For those currently uncoupled you could always move someone in to isolate with... they just need to have had a row at home and stay for a reasonable period of time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There’s a good chance social distancing of some sort will be with us until this time next year.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Clubs will not open until 2021, I could be wrong but I can’t see how they will; same goes for pubs, bars, restaurants etc.

In terms of private meets, towards the latter end of the year. I can’t see how they’ll completely relax lockdown when there isn’t a cure and all it’ll mean is numbers of people dying will increase again.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Clubs will not open until 2021, I could be wrong but I can’t see how they will; same goes for pubs, bars, restaurants etc.

In terms of private meets, towards the latter end of the year. I can’t see how they’ll completely relax lockdown when there isn’t a cure and all it’ll mean is numbers of people dying will increase again. "

Webcam fun then

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By *ocoTemptationMan
over a year ago

london


"Clubs will not open until 2021, I could be wrong but I can’t see how they will; same goes for pubs, bars, restaurants etc.

In terms of private meets, towards the latter end of the year. I can’t see how they’ll completely relax lockdown when there isn’t a cure and all it’ll mean is numbers of people dying will increase again. "

I think you are right. Generally I try not to dampen the hopes of the optimists but I don't picture swinging clubs being allowed to open any sooner than gyms and bars. However phased the move back to normality is I personally won't be swinging until I feel comfortable enough to let my daughter go back to school and I know I won't feel comfortable before autumn at the very earliest.

I suspect I will phase in gradually by focusing on private meets. Its not always easy to meet privately as a single male but it is what it is.

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By *m3232Man
over a year ago

maidenhead

What we need is a test kit so we can test each other when we meet to put us in the all clear.

This would be the way to get one to one meetings back on track.

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley


"Clubs will not open until 2021, I could be wrong but I can’t see how they will; same goes for pubs, bars, restaurants etc.

In terms of private meets, towards the latter end of the year. I can’t see how they’ll completely relax lockdown when there isn’t a cure and all it’ll mean is numbers of people dying will increase again. "

If bars, restaurants and clubs have to close for nearly a year now many do you think will survive to reopen? Very few because they won't be able to afford it. Do you think the government will pay 80% of people's wages for almost a year? No chance! It isn't viable to shut down a whole country's social/recreation industry for 9 months.

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By *exyCouple999Couple
over a year ago

South Bucks


"I have had more than a few hopeful mails wanting to meet up after this is all over and see a few talking about it on the forums as well but I am genuinely surprised people are thinking about meets in the future just now.

I cant see me wanting to meet up with anyone this year and likely well into next year as well until there is an actual cure.

Am I being too cautious in my thinking?

Do people think they will be meeting and playing soon? After Summer? Or even this year?"

Probably never, to the same extent anyway.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

It's going to depend on the scale of its eradication. If it's pretty eradicated, any time is good, so play it by ear

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley


"I have had more than a few hopeful mails wanting to meet up after this is all over and see a few talking about it on the forums as well but I am genuinely surprised people are thinking about meets in the future just now.

I cant see me wanting to meet up with anyone this year and likely well into next year as well until there is an actual cure.

Am I being too cautious in my thinking?

Do people think they will be meeting and playing soon? After Summer? Or even this year?

Probably never, to the same extent anyway."

Really?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have had more than a few hopeful mails wanting to meet up after this is all over and see a few talking about it on the forums as well but I am genuinely surprised people are thinking about meets in the future just now.

I cant see me wanting to meet up with anyone this year and likely well into next year as well until there is an actual cure.

Am I being too cautious in my thinking?

Do people think they will be meeting and playing soon? After Summer? Or even this year?

Probably never, to the same extent anyway.

Really? "

Whilst most will in the .ajn proceed with swinging like they did before, I think you'll get two small but distinct groups branching off from the norm of swinging when this ends. One will be terrified of meeting and see possible infection in every contact for a while if you will.

The other will feel cheated and therefore will try and "make up for lost time" and cram 6 months to 2 years (depending when mass scale vaccination has taken place) worth of meets into one occasion, ie full scale orgies with the aim being to have sex with dozens in one night?

Both are human nature.

B

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By *ily Con CarneTV/TS
over a year ago

Cornwall

I've turned into a hermit for the foreseeable future

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We're very fortunate in that we've two couples as close friends that we play with so we won't be needing clubs or similar for the foreseeable future.

That said, it's going to be a good while after restrictions are lifted that we'll be playing anyway.

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By *ounty durham bbw coupleCouple
over a year ago

darlington

We have a couple of regulars3we will meet as soon as restrictions are lifted at a guess late summer once everyone is back at work and pubs are open could be a bit longer before clubs are open

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By *ave-and-LouiseCouple
over a year ago

Torquay

Sadly with everything going on, on top of having a new baby, I think it won't even be this year...

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley


"I have had more than a few hopeful mails wanting to meet up after this is all over and see a few talking about it on the forums as well but I am genuinely surprised people are thinking about meets in the future just now.

I cant see me wanting to meet up with anyone this year and likely well into next year as well until there is an actual cure.

Am I being too cautious in my thinking?

Do people think they will be meeting and playing soon? After Summer? Or even this year?

Probably never, to the same extent anyway.

Really?

Whilst most will in the .ajn proceed with swinging like they did before, I think you'll get two small but distinct groups branching off from the norm of swinging when this ends. One will be terrified of meeting and see possible infection in every contact for a while if you will.

The other will feel cheated and therefore will try and "make up for lost time" and cram 6 months to 2 years (depending when mass scale vaccination has taken place) worth of meets into one occasion, ie full scale orgies with the aim being to have sex with dozens in one night?

Both are human nature.

B "

Before clubs open I will go and see friends, then after the clubs open I'll be back there every week. I wasn't a 'shag multiple people every week' anyway so that won't really affect me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have had more than a few hopeful mails wanting to meet up after this is all over and see a few talking about it on the forums as well but I am genuinely surprised people are thinking about meets in the future just now.

I cant see me wanting to meet up with anyone this year and likely well into next year as well until there is an actual cure.

Am I being too cautious in my thinking?

Do people think they will be meeting and playing soon? After Summer? Or even this year?

Probably never, to the same extent anyway.

Really?

Whilst most will in the .ajn proceed with swinging like they did before, I think you'll get two small but distinct groups branching off from the norm of swinging when this ends. One will be terrified of meeting and see possible infection in every contact for a while if you will.

The other will feel cheated and therefore will try and "make up for lost time" and cram 6 months to 2 years (depending when mass scale vaccination has taken place) worth of meets into one occasion, ie full scale orgies with the aim being to have sex with dozens in one night?

Both are human nature.

B

Before clubs open I will go and see friends, then after the clubs open I'll be back there every week. I wasn't a 'shag multiple people every week' anyway so that won't really affect me. "

You'll probably be in the main group then. But you'll get some who DIDN'T shag multiple people beforehand going absolutely "fuck crazy" as it will be an age since they last had sex with anyone.

So to them the idea of having a roundabout with condom wielding members of the opposite sex lying upon it like dairylea triangles in the box whilst they repeatedly bounce off one and onto the next will seem highly overdue and indeed their "right" for having put up with waiting so long and "survived" the sexless lockdown.

B

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Put Gloucestershire into your tour, pretty please!!

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By *ust PeachyWoman
over a year ago

Prestonish

I think most of us will start meeting again in phases - particularly singles.

I imagine many singles have a (or a few) favourite FB’s that they trust. Previously we chose to trust people with regard to sexual history, std’s etc - now we’ll add covid to that - ie there’ll be people we trust enough to let us know if they’ve come into contact with those infected or have symptoms. They’re the people we’ll meet first, I think.

I imagine shagging someone in a club we first met 30 minutes ago will be put on hold, for many, until a vaccine is found!

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By *ilver Fox 60Man
over a year ago

Southport

I think social distancing will be in place for at least a year.

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By *ounty durham bbw coupleCouple
over a year ago

darlington


"I think social distancing will be in place for at least a year. "
won't keep pubs shut for a year there will be some general rules going forward but much more relaxed than at the moment if they keep everything shut for a year there will be nothing to open back up

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley


"I think social distancing will be in place for at least a year. won't keep pubs shut for a year there will be some general rules going forward but much more relaxed than at the moment if they keep everything shut for a year there will be nothing to open back up"

Agreed, the country will have to start moving again before then.

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By *am4CamWoman
over a year ago

Fairy Land

Hopefully at the same time that the experts consider socialising in any form is safe and advisable.

People who decide to relax the rules based on the fact that they “know and trust” someone they’ve play met with previously or were planning on meeting would be irresponsibly putting a shag ahead of safety of themselves and others.

I would seriously question my motivations and priorities if I was trying to justify acting against advice as some have implied they would be happy to do in the thread.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hopefully at the same time that the experts consider socialising in any form is safe and advisable.

People who decide to relax the rules based on the fact that they “know and trust” someone they’ve play met with previously or were planning on meeting would be irresponsibly putting a shag ahead of safety of themselves and others.

I would seriously question my motivations and priorities if I was trying to justify acting against advice as some have implied they would be happy to do in the thread. "

The thing is some people will be completely honest with you about not barebacking and their sexual history etc AND are in your trusted group of friends.

However the difference with COVID is that it's a lot harder for them to actually KNOW that they don't have it especially in the early days?

B

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By *am4CamWoman
over a year ago

Fairy Land


"Hopefully at the same time that the experts consider socialising in any form is safe and advisable.

People who decide to relax the rules based on the fact that they “know and trust” someone they’ve play met with previously or were planning on meeting would be irresponsibly putting a shag ahead of safety of themselves and others.

I would seriously question my motivations and priorities if I was trying to justify acting against advice as some have implied they would be happy to do in the thread.

The thing is some people will be completely honest with you about not barebacking and their sexual history etc AND are in your trusted group of friends.

However the difference with COVID is that it's a lot harder for them to actually KNOW that they don't have it especially in the early days?

B"

Absolutely.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What do you mean, again?

For the more risk averse if you are meeting pre-vaccination/natural immunity, good luck.....

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By *iliciousCouple
over a year ago

Sussex/Surrey

This is with us until there is a vaccine and that is 12-18 months away. So, for ourselves, I expect that’s when we will be meeting again. Unless there is s drastic change in that forecast then meeting strangers for sex is just too risky. No amount of social distancing to allow some form of economic flow to resume Can changes that basic fact as far as I can see.

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By *1GloryHoleMan
over a year ago

Old Town Eastbourne


"This is with us until there is a vaccine and that is 12-18 months away. So, for ourselves, I expect that’s when we will be meeting again. Unless there is s drastic change in that forecast then meeting strangers for sex is just too risky. No amount of social distancing to allow some form of economic flow to resume Can changes that basic fact as far as I can see. "

August, September.

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By *bbott24Couple
over a year ago

Devizes

July

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me not for the rest of the year at least if at all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I suspect, all things being equal, assuming a general positive trend and no unforseen issues, I'd be anticipating my next meet would be approximately, roundabout, in the vicinity of never.

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