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So been new to the game what's the first steps in a meet? Eg what should be said or talked about?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

so got a couple of meets after this crazy stops some at the people's houses when I meet what should I talked about when we first meet eg whats steps should be taken would like some pointers or questions i wouldn't think of that you people might know ??

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By * and BCouple
over a year ago

Durham

Be yourself and things will just flow if all are feeling comfortable

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

thanks for your comment x

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By *ounty durham bbw coupleCouple
over a year ago

darlington

Our first couple of meets we were so nervous we barely spoke a word just pretty much got straight on with sex we have relaxed much more now and really enjoy the social side of it just be yourself and maybe meet somewhere neutral for a quick drink

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By *xfordshireCoupleMFCouple
over a year ago

Nr. Oxford

Confirm the hard limits beforehand so you’re not having to check halfway through.

I guess the obvious ones that some people don’t allow are kissing, anal and unsafe sex.

Ask what they do like, so you can focus on that initially.

Then understand they may be just as nervous as you, so just be yourself and go with the flow.

We find background music helps too!

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over a year ago

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

First steps for us is toeet at a neutral location. Never go straight to a strangers house. Chat about ordinary things until you feel comfortable

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By *ichaelangelaCouple
over a year ago

notts

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By *ichaelangelaCouple
over a year ago

notts

Grammar and punctuation are good subjects to discuss.

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