FabSwingers.com forum: Just Wondering

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I seem to be contacted by quite a few guys who after an inital email and once you start to chat very very soon ask one of the following questions:

Do you have a bi friend (or I have a bi friend can I give her your addy)

Do you want to open a joint profile

Do you want to go to clubs/parties with me

Is it just me or are there others that get this ????

To be honest I can't decide if its flattering or I should be pissed off I'm not enough on my own lol

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By *riendlyfunfemWoman
over a year ago

A world of my own

I've had a few similar, seems to me that single guys can get into clubs cheaper as a couple, and they get off on having two women, or they want to meet a couple but many couples only want couples and fems and not single guys.

Ignore!

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By *ebzStarWoman
over a year ago

Notting

This also annoys me!!!

If iwant a bi fem i am quite capable of finding one myself - not for the pleasure of some guy who decides to try his luck.

IF i want a joint profile, i would do it with a partner - again not with some random bloke wanting a joint profile to increase his chances of a fuck.

And as for party invites, if its genuine and sounds interesting and i wanna go , then give me more info and i may consider it.

I think all us woman get this sort of mail hun, just delete. xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yup get a few like that! Also ones iv never spoke to wantin to meet that day... such is the nature of the site! polite no thanks if u that way inclined!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thank you guys, just wanted to know I wasn't doing something or saying something that was giving the wrong impression xxx

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By *tormchaserMan
over a year ago

Bury

I often ask girls to join me at a club - some will, some won't, but never in a million yeras did I think it was wrong to ask this.

There was certainly no ulterior motive, other than just having fun.

Ah well, I know now!

Apologies to anyone I have previously offended by so asking.

Phil

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't let it worry you, even couples get that now and again, some men forget a couple consists of two people and think we cannot be getting satisfied at home if we're on a swingers site, thank god some are real gentlemen

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Don't let it worry you, even couples get that now and again, some men forget a couple consists of two people and think we cannot be getting satisfied at home if we're on a swingers site, thank god some are real gentlemen

Thats one of our pet hates when they only address messages to one of the couple. If we wanted to do this alone we would both get single profiles !!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

hello,

not sure what the problem is.

in fairness you are asking for singles etc, and you don't say "not into clubs."

after a few messages, asking if your into the same things is, i would say a good thing to do. at least you can say no before meeting.....

and as your pictures are so good, and lets face it very hot indeed, i'm not suprised you get lots of messages.

maybe extend your profile letting people know a little more of your preferences...

did i mention how good your images are?

byeeeeeee

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"hello,

not sure what the problem is.

in fairness you are asking for singles etc, and you don't say "not into clubs."

after a few messages, asking if your into the same things is, i would say a good thing to do. at least you can say no before meeting.....

and as your pictures are so good, and lets face it very hot indeed, i'm not suprised you get lots of messages.

maybe extend your profile letting people know a little more of your preferences...

did i mention how good your images are?

byeeeeeee

Please don't get me wrong, I'm not upset about being asked questions, its a case of these certain guys haven't wanted to meet 'me' they have wanted someone to enable them to experience things they can't experience as a single guy.

I don't particularly want to be 'used' in that way, should I meet a guy and we get on and decide to experience these things together, thats a totally different thing................

And thank you for the compliments xxx

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By *ickmealloverWoman
over a year ago

a very plush appartment off junt 7 M5

I agree, Ignore the barstwards.

You are here for your pleasure and your pleasure only so tell the buggers to p off.

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By *itchfieldMan
over a year ago

Portsmouth

"I agree, Ignore the barstwards.

You are here for your pleasure and your pleasure only so tell the buggers to p off.

Seconded or thirded.

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