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Cuckolding, short or long term

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hi,

If your into cuckolding, do you like to keep to one or move on?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I prefer to meet couples as frequently or infrequently as they wish. I find cuckolding on one meet is OK but you don’t build the spark and also the trust. I have had couples I have met for months if not years, but it got better every time as the trust built

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I prefer to meet couples as frequently or infrequently as they wish. I find cuckolding on one meet is OK but you don’t build the spark and also the trust. I have had couples I have met for months if not years, but it got better every time as the trust built "

100% agree with this. Have had one off meets that are great but as trust & connection builds over time it gets much better. Boundaries are pushed and the sex gets much better

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Frequent is best I think

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

from a cucks position regular lovers for Mistress, a regular lover becomes used to issuing orders to me & extends limits of my humiliation, he becomes more comfortable having a cuckold under his control

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By *illthegapMan
over a year ago

Llantrisant

Long term is Definitely better for me, you get to know the couple, develop an idea about what they want from it, and everyone can grow and explore at the same pace then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Long term is way better. Dont enjoy one off cuckold meets that much

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By *ornyforbbc2019Couple
over a year ago

telford

Long term for us

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By *empting TravelsMan
over a year ago

London

I'm much more interested in couples who are keen to meet on a semi regular basis and build something over time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

regular is best but never exclusive to one guy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"from a cucks position regular lovers for Mistress, a regular lover becomes used to issuing orders to me & extends limits of my humiliation, he becomes more comfortable having a cuckold under his control"

Definitely agree with you there. A regular lover knows exactly what you want

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By *cunnylassCouple
over a year ago

Exeter

We much prefer regular meets with the same guy.This dynamic takes time and practice to evolve.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In my experience long term is way more intense and pleasurable.

Gives you a chance to build a real dynamic with the couple and ensures the sessions are waaaaay more intense

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By *elrose57Couple
over a year ago

reading

long term is much better for us, all 3 getting to know and being able to relax boundaries and explore, building on every meet

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By *ixen and RudolphCouple
over a year ago

LUTTERWORTH

Long term for us

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely a long term the more you meet the better it gets

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By *elrose57Couple
over a year ago

reading


"Definitely a long term the more you meet the better it gets"

oh so much better and so more relaxing and better in the kink depratment

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Long term x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

and also slowly & timely teaches the cuck (me) what to expect in allowance of being able to pleasure my wife, oral, toys etc, what lingerie i should be buying my wife because it must please him to look at sexually, how to prepare before he visits, all is important

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By *elrose57Couple
over a year ago

reading


"and also slowly & timely teaches the cuck (me) what to expect in allowance of being able to pleasure my wife, oral, toys etc, what lingerie i should be buying my wife because it must please him to look at sexually, how to prepare before he visits, all is important"

take the wife shopping for sexy undies and get her to send pic to her lover and he can tell you when to pay for them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I agree long term is better. As the relationship between all three members develops you understand each others needs more, boundaries become clearer and it becomes much more comfortable.

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By *ee And MikeCouple
over a year ago

Cannock

From my experience my wife always enjoys having a regular bull, although not exclusive.

Cuckolding for us is about the wife building a bond with her lover and that can only really come from spending time together and a lot of fucking.

Long term all the time for us.

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By *ocoTemptationMan
over a year ago

london

One of the reasons I so enjoy meeting cuckold couples is the fact that there is so much more room for sexual exploration. The more I get to know a couple the more potential there is for fun.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh yes a long term regular relationship is great. Having my partner enjoy her times with the bull each week is so horny and also he spends times with me too making me his cuck both at home and out and about. Also not just meeting him but meeting other guys as well depending on Mrs desires.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Long term and regular for me builds confidence and trust and heightens the intensity of meets and enables everyone to get out of it what they want and need. However it goes wrong when people are not open and honest unfortunately.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Long term is akways best on all fronts

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By *ioletVixenMrBlueBiCouple
over a year ago

northwich

We would be interested in a longer term cuckold dynamic, we have had a couple of guys we’ve met a second time but not had anything long term before and from the replies on here it sounds it adds a whole new layer

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

On a couple of occasions over the years we've met guys a few times. However I would not describe myself as a cuckold, we just do cuckold things. Mrs N is not dominant and all the guys have really wanted is to fuck her as they have been rather overcome with lust.

Just one or 2 have understood the mechanics of cuckold though and the need to build a relationship. The last one, a handsome late 20s guy took the time to sit with us and socialise a little and find out the dynamic of our relationship. 3 meets went really well where we explored some scenarios of great eroticism.

Mrs N even said as 1 scenario that she was willing to try was to go to his home. But as per usual it fizzled out, the guy disappeared off the scene and suddenly we were back to square 1.

After the lockdown we will perhaps try again.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"and also slowly & timely teaches the cuck (me) what to expect in allowance of being able to pleasure my wife, oral, toys etc, what lingerie i should be buying my wife because it must please him to look at sexually, how to prepare before he visits, all is important

take the wife shopping for sexy undies and get her to send pic to her lover and he can tell you when to pay for them"

that has been done to me (cuck) in the past

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By *inups99Couple
over a year ago

manchester


"From my experience my wife always enjoys having a regular bull, although not exclusive.

Cuckolding for us is about the wife building a bond with her lover and that can only really come from spending time together and a lot of fucking.

Long term all the time for us."

Well said. We have had the experience of a regular friend for a number of years with whom we’ve explored lots of scenarios and found for us it’s definitely the way to go.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

More hotwifing than cuck, but probably a combination. For domination there needs to be familiarity and trust, so having 5 or so regular partners for Dom stuff would be good. It could turn in to a long term relationship thing as long as it's sex only.

But aside from that one or two meets and move on is preferred. Looking for quantity as well as quality! Keeping it NSA is vital so it doesn't interfere with our marriage.

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By *ammy38Man
over a year ago

Hartley Wintney

From my experience, time needs to be taken to build the relationship, social first and set out what each other is looking for. Having the feeling of being comfortable with a cuck couple and knowing the limits. Definitely takes time and I’ve only met a few couples where it has truly worked for us all.

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By *ionel888Man
over a year ago

London

Long term relationship is great specially for cuckolding or Hotwife dynamic...

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By *irsttimecuckCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

We are new and have onky met 1 guy so far, met him 3 times before the lock down.

For us Jen would prefer 1 long term lover. So she could get to know him and build an intimate relationship with him.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Long term

The better you get to know someone and there likes and dislikes the better the sex gets

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By *oftDevilMan
over a year ago

Reading

As a bull definitely long term, it’s the dynamic that is exciting and fulfilling.

That said in a specific dynamic I tasked the hotwife to have string of one shots but it was in a power / control establishing scenario.

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By *ounty durham bbw coupleCouple
over a year ago

darlington

Can't see how a cuckold scenario would work in a one off situation we actively look for dom bi guys but it wouldn't really be cuckoldind I think that takes time we do enjoy regular meets though

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By *illthegapMan
over a year ago

Llantrisant


"Long term

The better you get to know someone and there likes and dislikes the better the sex gets

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This, exactly this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In our opinion, either works if it’s a good connection, although even for one offs it’s good to talk online for a while before any meet. Don’t want to waste anybodies time, theirs or ours. A social beforehand even if it’s the same night is also good. Regular is good to further the cuckolding experience but variety is the spice of life.

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By *lknhungMan
over a year ago

Luton

Long term fun, makes for a better relationship and allowing trust and comfortability which makes it easier to live out the fantasies

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By *ammy lynWoman
over a year ago

Stoke-on-trent

Definitely long term x

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By *tella HeelsTV/TS
over a year ago

west here ford shire

Best time for me was when wife had a long term boyfriend 4 yrs

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By *iganpairCouple
over a year ago

Wigan, Lancs.

when jess had a full-time boyfriend that's definitely been most memorable

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Long term 100%, that connection is priceless and adds to the fun lol

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By *ymrucplCouple
over a year ago

Newport

Trust is so important - so long terms for us!

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By *t9090Man
over a year ago

Cardiff

Long term 100%

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By *iclassyCouple
over a year ago

Manchester

We wait patiently for a long time bull who would be committed to meeting mrs regularly. Mrs has a preference for younger guys so inevitably this reduces chances of this being successful in my opinion..

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By *ummerforeverMan
over a year ago

greenford

Surprised there's not a queue round tge door!

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By *ancpl05Couple
over a year ago

Bridgend

Always prefer long term but so difficult to find .....

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By *lwaysup4it69Couple
over a year ago

Kirkby in Ashfield


"More hotwifing than cuck, but probably a combination. For domination there needs to be familiarity and trust, so having 5 or so regular partners for Dom stuff would be good. It could turn in to a long term relationship thing as long as it's sex only.

But aside from that one or two meets and move on is preferred. Looking for quantity as well as quality! Keeping it NSA is vital so it doesn't interfere with our marriage."

We have always said we would probably only meet same people a few times

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By *rthangMan
over a year ago

calderdale

I've done one off's and long term

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By *illthegapMan
over a year ago

Llantrisant


"Always prefer long term but so difficult to find ....."

Would love to chat to you both if you were interested?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Long term would be ideal.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Much prefer long term but finding that is not as easy as portrayed x

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By *ee And MikeCouple
over a year ago

Cannock

As I’ve said previously in this thread we prefer long term, but after all this is over and we can get back to some sort of normality I expect there will be a lot of short term meets for hotwives with bulls.

Us cucks will have a lot of work to do lol

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By *omis.69Man
over a year ago

Birmingham

It has to be long term for all concerned.

The initial thrill followed by natural progression, boundaries explored and pushed, limits agreed and fantasies scenarios played out over time. Rolls developed and expanded.

Doesn’t happen over night it takes time

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By *ocoTemptationMan
over a year ago

london

One offs can be fun but I much prefer to mix it up and have at least one couple that I'm able to meet up with on a regular basis.

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By *amesnplanesMan
over a year ago

Banbridge

I don't think I've ever had a one off meet with a cuck and a hotwife.

The long term arrangement can come with unique benefits that are best not written about in open forums.

But the real benefit is the dynamic and change as the bull understands the needs and wants of the couple, us the couples developing trust with the bull.

The long term approach is the best in my mind

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By *henanigans2023Couple
over a year ago

West Yorkshire

Long term is better, it allows the 3 way relationship to develop. Finding guys to play with is easy; finding a guy who truly understands the role of the Bull is difficult. We much prefer the intensity of a developed relationship for 3 people rather than a one off. X

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By *ioletVixenMrBlueBiCouple
over a year ago

northwich

We would be interested in a regular bull as we think it would be a whole different dynamic to one offs, however one worry we have with something longer term is any potential attachments that might develop for anyone involved which obviously you don’t get with a one off meet. Cuckold is an aspect of play we enjoy, but we aren’t really full time with it and don’t really want a regular bull to become a ‘boyfriend’ if that makes sense x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

im always up front with anyone who wants regular its sexual only friends yes anymore than that i will go ice cold and stop with that person ...full stop

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By *cutebum9Couple
over a year ago

wallsend

We’d love a regular long term as would make meets easier anyone in north east up for the job pm us

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By *ioletVixenMrBlueBiCouple
over a year ago

northwich


"im always up front with anyone who wants regular its sexual only friends yes anymore than that i will go ice cold and stop with that person ...full stop"

That’s a good way of looking at it. Certainly something we’d like to try after lockdown as it will open up some new ideas and it would be nice to have a reliable bull for when we are looking for meets

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By *empting TravelsMan
over a year ago

London

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By *ocoTemptationMan
over a year ago

london


"im always up front with anyone who wants regular its sexual only friends yes anymore than that i will go ice cold and stop with that person ...full stop"

Makes perfect sense. Mine is a pretty flexible approach. I openly state that I'm theoretically open to everything from one offs at one end to poly at the other extreme. However how I approach a couple is ultimately determined by their boundaries.

My post Covid-19 "template" is to aim for 2-3 semi regular couples (or single ladies). I think that's a reasonably goal to keep things fun and balanced

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Long Term for sure xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Longer term is so much better

You get to form a connection, find out what everyone wants from the situation (everyone is different so now on size fits all) relax and open up more easily.

Trust and friendship take time so to enjoy this side of things fully longer term is my preference.

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By *moothdickMan
over a year ago

stoke

I’d like find a couple for long term.. for all the reasons people have said about the trust, relaxation, wants and friendship ..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Long Term for sure xx"

Always long term!! X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like to meet a couple who are on the same wavelength as me then im there for the long term if they are

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

We would like to enter into bi female and male cuck fun, think the dynamic would be stunning for all four parties.

Wonder how a cuck would feel knowing his lady would prefer to be with a woman than someone with a pathetic cock.

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By *rthangMan
over a year ago

calderdale

I prefer long term

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