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By *ingsman1 OP   Man
over a year ago

northampton

So I’ve seen a lady on here who’s kids go to school with mine, do I let her know or keep it under wraps ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So I’ve seen a lady on here who’s kids go to school with mine, do I let her know or keep it under wraps ?? "

I’d let her know and see what comes from it

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By *quaman87Man
over a year ago

Colchester

Maybe you could message and maybe have a meet with her

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is it worth any drama at the school gate?

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By *oudLoutishLoverWoman
over a year ago

Colchester

Always, always keep quiet.

Very bad form to say, ‘I know who you are/what you’re up to’.

If she’s a mum, she’s probably wise enough not to sh*t where she eats, so to speak.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When I first joined fab I had a face pic as my profile pic I was recognized at the school gates one day and it made me feel very awkward I'd personally leave it be

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By *rMrsBrightsideCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle

As a school mum, I would hate to think anyone had recognised me on here, even if I was single. I would rather if they did, they just didn't say anything. If it was the other way around I certainly wouldn't mention it x

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By *ornyDubMan25Man
over a year ago

Berlin

Most guys on here seem to think with the wrong head!

If you know her on a pretty friendly basis then you could mention it but I wouldnt expect anything to come of it, it's a bit close to home!

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By *oudLoutishLoverWoman
over a year ago

Colchester


"When I first joined fab I had a face pic as my profile pic I was recognized at the school gates one day and it made me feel very awkward I'd personally leave it be"

This

It’s your KID’S school, and hers!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would be mortified if anything was said x

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By *abrielle247Couple (FF)
over a year ago

PDI Gran Canaria

Sounds a bit creepy.

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By *ark ph0enixWoman
over a year ago

Teesside

I'd block you on here then blank you on school run

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By *abriellajackCouple
over a year ago

Newport

Never reveal you know. This place only works if people respect most peoples need for discretion.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We messaged a couple on here, he said they already knew us. Worked out I, Claire, had been talking to him every day at the nursery door

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

What’s your (and others) heads say?

What does your heart (non domestic side) say?

Domestic, doesn’t rule the work, it’s a herd effect.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I came across a lady I knew, she had just joined I gave her some warning about face pictures because there’s a lot more people on here than you first think and she hid them. Was never awkward after that and after a while we some fun together but it’s not always going to work out so well.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Block her. Never mention it and move on.

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By *uzz And WoodyCouple
over a year ago

Maidstone

Yeah, the creepy approach is always a winner.

Why not stalk her for good measure too?

Ed

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By *irty PrettyWoman
over a year ago

Cardiff

Somebody joined a few months back and immediately messaged me saying he knew me because he recognised something in a photo I’ve since hidden. He even got my name right. He seemed to think he could bully me into meeting him because of it. I lied and said he had the wrong person, and made it very clear I wouldn’t meet him. I also kept screenshots of everything in case he tried to go real life with it. By the next morning he’d deleted his profile, thankfully, but if he hadn’t I would have blocked him.

All of which is a long-winded way of saying leave it. She isn’t likely to fall into your arms in delight, and is actually much more likely to be freaked out and even scared, especially if she’s playing away. The best you’ll probably get is blocked.

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By *oudLoutishLoverWoman
over a year ago

Colchester

I had this with someone from school. After constant requests to 'catch up', I gave him an unequivocal 'no'. This led to him saying all the things my bullies said to me throughout school, most of which I'd blocked out. Upset me terribly, which is why I left Fab.

TLDR: There's no such thing as an 'in' with a woman, here, just because you know who she is. Rarely ends well.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Block n leave it

Never mix the 2

If you fancy her/relationship type chat to her at the school gates.

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By *ingsman1 OP   Man
over a year ago

northampton

Thanks for the advice guys.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Take it as a fluke that you found out who she is, rather than luck.

It's wise to generally assume that people will only disclose their intimate details to those who they choose to, at their own pace. Anything else is totally wrong, especially where there are extra vulnerabilities, such as heir children.

Many would find it frightening to have someone knew where they and their kids are.

I think it's worth considering reporting yourself to admin, with her profile name, so that you can bave disclosure of the power imbalance.

It's worth blocking her profile too.

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By *orthern StarsCouple
over a year ago

Durham

There's an unwritten rule in swinging we thought, discretion comes above all else, always.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Best off just keeping quiet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dont mention a thing, it's none of your business what she does in her private time. Just because you recognise her does not give you the right to approach her in real life, and at the school gates for God's sake, what's wrong with you! Respect peoples privacy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No please don’t approach and be cautious. If you get chatting on fab then take it from there but personally I would avoid however hot she is so go home after school run happens again next year and knock one or two out haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Say nothing. Her private life is none of your business, and if you only know who she is because of your children going to the same school you probably don’t know her well enough to try and discuss anything she does away from there.

Turn it the other way around, how would you feel if someone approached you and said they recognised you from a swinging site, would you feel it was an invasion of your privacy?

I had to block someone on another site as he recognised me and started commenting on my images- uncomfortable comments about me and Inked. Prior to commenting on that site he had started messaging me, asking me to shoot images to a higher level than I do in the public domain, trying to constantly refer to my lingerie etc, he is my friends ex and I’d actually done many fully clothed shoots with him. I wasn’t sure why he was trying to push my levels until he messaged complaining I’d blocked him on that site- now I will never shoot with him again.

He didn’t respect my rights to privacy in my personal life, I see him as a creep now- don’t be that man where this lady is concerned.

Have more respect for her, and yourself, but if you want to risk it, go ahead- but I can guarantee she won’t appreciate it.

Viv x

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT


"So I’ve seen a lady on here who’s kids go to school with mine, do I let her know or keep it under wraps ?? "

Say nothing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ignore everybody on here. They don't know how life really works. You should definitely approach her, giving her the Joey "so how you doing?" eyebrow thing, and you'll be guaranteed to get laid. Women love that stuff. Come back here and let us know how it goes. I would say good luck, but you really won't need it.

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT


"Ignore everybody on here. They don't know how life really works. You should definitely approach her, giving her the Joey "so how you doing?" eyebrow thing, and you'll be guaranteed to get laid. Women love that stuff. Come back here and let us know how it goes. I would say good luck, but you really won't need it. "

Oil you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ignore everybody on here. They don't know how life really works. You should definitely approach her, giving her the Joey "so how you doing?" eyebrow thing, and you'll be guaranteed to get laid. Women love that stuff. Come back here and let us know how it goes. I would say good luck, but you really won't need it. "
lol

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By *outh Wales HotwifeCouple
over a year ago

Hobbiton

Just ignore it. Never ever mention it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

this is just a website, life does not change because you come here, it perhaps shouldn't have been mentioned here thats where you've been imprudent, this place is a meeting point but life is a meeting point to whatever happened to chatting a woman up in the street i certainly have not lost that ability, just use your noddle next time

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT


"this is just a website, life does not change because you come here, it perhaps shouldn't have been mentioned here thats where you've been imprudent, this place is a meeting point but life is a meeting point to whatever happened to chatting a woman up in the street i certainly have not lost that ability, just use your noddle next time "

Ok

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT


"this is just a website, life does not change because you come here, it perhaps shouldn't have been mentioned here thats where you've been imprudent, this place is a meeting point but life is a meeting point to whatever happened to chatting a woman up in the street i certainly have not lost that ability, just use your noddle next time "

What's noodle?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"this is just a website, life does not change because you come here, it perhaps shouldn't have been mentioned here thats where you've been imprudent, this place is a meeting point but life is a meeting point to whatever happened to chatting a woman up in the street i certainly have not lost that ability, just use your noddle next time

What's noodle?"
a chinese dish of tastless stringy pasta like stuff

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT


"this is just a website, life does not change because you come here, it perhaps shouldn't have been mentioned here thats where you've been imprudent, this place is a meeting point but life is a meeting point to whatever happened to chatting a woman up in the street i certainly have not lost that ability, just use your noddle next time

What's noodle?a chinese dish of tastless stringy pasta like stuff "

Is it nice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"this is just a website, life does not change because you come here, it perhaps shouldn't have been mentioned here thats where you've been imprudent, this place is a meeting point but life is a meeting point to whatever happened to chatting a woman up in the street i certainly have not lost that ability, just use your noddle next time

What's noodle?a chinese dish of tastless stringy pasta like stuff

Is it nice "
nope tasteless rubbish...... pot noodle....... not my thing at all...... use your noddle

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT


"this is just a website, life does not change because you come here, it perhaps shouldn't have been mentioned here thats where you've been imprudent, this place is a meeting point but life is a meeting point to whatever happened to chatting a woman up in the street i certainly have not lost that ability, just use your noddle next time

What's noodle?a chinese dish of tastless stringy pasta like stuff

Is it nice nope tasteless rubbish...... pot noodle....... not my thing at all...... use your noddle "

You can take me out for some after this all ends

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"this is just a website, life does not change because you come here, it perhaps shouldn't have been mentioned here thats where you've been imprudent, this place is a meeting point but life is a meeting point to whatever happened to chatting a woman up in the street i certainly have not lost that ability, just use your noddle next time

What's noodle?a chinese dish of tastless stringy pasta like stuff

Is it nice nope tasteless rubbish...... pot noodle....... not my thing at all...... use your noddle

You can take me out for some after this all ends

"
lol I'd be ill watching you eat it

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT


"this is just a website, life does not change because you come here, it perhaps shouldn't have been mentioned here thats where you've been imprudent, this place is a meeting point but life is a meeting point to whatever happened to chatting a woman up in the street i certainly have not lost that ability, just use your noddle next time

What's noodle?a chinese dish of tastless stringy pasta like stuff

Is it nice nope tasteless rubbish...... pot noodle....... not my thing at all...... use your noddle

You can take me out for some after this all ends

lol I'd be ill watching you eat it "

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By *restonM50Man
over a year ago

preston

Knowing what someone enjoys is a great thrill.

I wouldn't approach or say anything. Too close to home.

I have seen a mum from school on here, but have never messaged or said anything.

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"So I’ve seen a lady on here who’s kids go to school with mine, do I let her know or keep it under wraps ?? "

Don't understand the word discretion then.

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By *aveman11Man
over a year ago

all over the uk with work

I'd not say anything unless you start a convos few times randomly get on well and it leads onto talking about things, as its discreet for a lot of people on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why do guys think because you're on here it's an open shag door policy. No, leave her alone and move on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would be majorly creeped out if anyone from Fab approached me or intimated that they knew me

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By *evaquitCouple
over a year ago

Catthorpe

Say absolutely nothing. Swinging rule number 1, respect others right to privacy and never acknowledge in public. If you want to talk to her do it via fab and respectfully accept whatever comes your way which will be likely the block button.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Say absolutely nothing. Swinging rule number 1, respect others right to privacy and never acknowledge in public. If you want to talk to her do it via fab and respectfully accept whatever comes your way which will be likely the block button."

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