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TV/TS only - first experience out

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Simply put, when you went out for the first time as a TV/TS, what were your thoughts and feelings both before and afterwards.

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By *mmabluTV/TS
over a year ago

upton wirral

I was scared and very very nervous but did not take me long to feel elated and happy I loved it felt high.

It was in the village in Manchester so all very frendly

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire

Went to the Northern Concord in Manchester, a Trans support group. Got wolf whistled by a bunch of builders however also laughed at by the same builders.

Canal street in Manchester has many memories of going out now over the years, but that first time scary and liberating

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always go out in London. No really looks or does a second take. Maybe I’m lucky x

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By *vpamelaTV/TS
over a year ago

kinkville

My first time "out" was at a party with some people I had met before, some who knew I dressed. Incredibly scary and thrilling beforehand. Surrounding myself with people tolerant of dressing made it such a fantastic night that afterwards I wish I'd done it many years ago. Pamela has been out a few times since.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Scary and thrilling seems to be the theme - cant wait to get out there!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i havent plucked up the courage to do it yet lol

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By *eannaTV/TS
over a year ago

Cwmfelifach, nr Newport

Scary as hell went to a pub and played pool, plenty of guy's shaking their head's and muttering, but I felt elated and strangely aroused as I knew they were looking at me whilst I was bending over taking shots, I was wearing a mini skirt so they could see my knickers, not too much but just enough, only stayed for an hour

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I always go out in London. No really looks or does a second take. Maybe I’m lucky x "

No luck involved. You are incredibly convincing. Absolutely gorgeous

Miss V x

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By *loria JamesTV/TS
over a year ago

Durham

My first time going out was to a gay bar in Newcastle on a quiet Sunday evening. I remember thinking I'll not be the first TV to come in here.

It felt so natural and it was amazing been out in front of complete strangers, I was accompanied so felt safe. It was such a buzz.

Second time was with a small group of us, a guy from a stag group came up behind me and asked if I would do a lap dance for the groom. It was so funny when they realized x

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By *J GeminiTV/TS
over a year ago

Northumberland

Never been out, but there's always a first time ,

Xx

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By *loria JamesTV/TS
over a year ago

Durham


"Never been out, but there's always a first time ,

Xx"

Once this is over get yourself to Tbirds at Clubf, it's a great stepping stone to your first proper night out x

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By *J GeminiTV/TS
over a year ago

Northumberland


"Never been out, but there's always a first time ,

Xx

Once this is over get yourself to Tbirds at Clubf, it's a great stepping stone to your first proper night out x"

I have thought about it but I don't think I am quite there yet in my head,

Xx

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By *achelNottmTV/TS
over a year ago

notts/derbys

The first time was nerve wracking, but once out and meeting others, it's so lovely and you'll wonder why you didn't do it sooner.

It makes it easier if you're meeting someone as then you're less likely to back out.

I'm out and about all the time now xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My first time was with an ex girlfriend, we went to Candygirls. It felt sexy and empowering. I had a lot of attention from the boys in the dark room and cinema with my ex encouraging me to be a total slut ! Wasn’t what I initially planned but felt very natural at the time. Prior to this incarceration I’m out once a week at various places.

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By *loria JamesTV/TS
over a year ago

Durham


"Never been out, but there's always a first time ,

Xx

Once this is over get yourself to Tbirds at Clubf, it's a great stepping stone to your first proper night out x

I have thought about it but I don't think I am quite there yet in my head,

Xx"

You'll love it...trust me x

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By *J GeminiTV/TS
over a year ago

Northumberland


"Never been out, but there's always a first time ,

Xx

Once this is over get yourself to Tbirds at Clubf, it's a great stepping stone to your first proper night out x

I have thought about it but I don't think I am quite there yet in my head,

Xx

You'll love it...trust me x"

Maybe we could meet up there and you could keep an eye on me from a distance ,

Xx

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By *lairesurreyfunTV/TS
over a year ago

Weybridge


"My first time was with an ex girlfriend, we went to Candygirls. It felt sexy and empowering. I had a lot of attention from the boys in the dark room and cinema with my ex encouraging me to be a total slut ! Wasn’t what I initially planned but felt very natural at the time. Prior to this incarceration I’m out once a week at various places. "

Candy girls was my first time at night .a very sexualised environment. Moved on to pink punters .first time out in the day was london pride 7 years ago. V nervous but the best thing I could have done for my mental stability .living a double life was a head fuck

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire

My advice for going out for the first time, plan way ahead. Decide where you're going, what you'll wear and ensure the shoes you choose are comfortable

Plenty of clubs and venues or just a walk around the block. Just don't end up regretting any chance you have, no guarantee that bad things won't happen in certain circumstances, but chances are you'll just end up feeling free and liberated.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My first time was with an ex girlfriend, we went to Candygirls. It felt sexy and empowering. I had a lot of attention from the boys in the dark room and cinema with my ex encouraging me to be a total slut ! Wasn’t what I initially planned but felt very natural at the time. Prior to this incarceration I’m out once a week at various places.

Candy girls was my first time at night .a very sexualised environment. Moved on to pink punters .first time out in the day was london pride 7 years ago. V nervous but the best thing I could have done for my mental stability .living a double life was a head fuck "

Ohhh I love Pink Punters, such a great party vibe.

Good for you at London Pride my lovely xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is such a lovely thread! There’s so much that chimes with how I’ve felt or experienced..

My “first times” I see as being many, similar to Claire..

My first first time was going to meet my gf from the station. She already knew Tanja but I’d hidden her from the scary big world. So I dressed, got in the car and went out, went up to the platform to go and meet her and kissed her in public as Tanja for the first time.. we then went for out for a bit into Manchester.. it was exciting, invigorating and nervous.

JJ Gemini, do try TBirds! They are so welcoming! Gloria, I’m not sure if I saw you at the Christmas party (it’s a bit of a blur now) but if I did or the time before that then thank you! You and all the other Tbird patrons were so welcoming! I can’t wait to get back there!

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By *loria JamesTV/TS
over a year ago

Durham


"Never been out, but there's always a first time ,

Xx

Once this is over get yourself to Tbirds at Clubf, it's a great stepping stone to your first proper night out x

I have thought about it but I don't think I am quite there yet in my head,

Xx

You'll love it...trust me x

Maybe we could meet up there and you could keep an eye on me from a distance ,

Xx"

Yes that wont be a problem x

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By *loria JamesTV/TS
over a year ago

Durham


"This is such a lovely thread! There’s so much that chimes with how I’ve felt or experienced..

My “first times” I see as being many, similar to Claire..

My first first time was going to meet my gf from the station. She already knew Tanja but I’d hidden her from the scary big world. So I dressed, got in the car and went out, went up to the platform to go and meet her and kissed her in public as Tanja for the first time.. we then went for out for a bit into Manchester.. it was exciting, invigorating and nervous.

JJ Gemini, do try TBirds! They are so welcoming! Gloria, I’m not sure if I saw you at the Christmas party (it’s a bit of a blur now) but if I did or the time before that then thank you! You and all the other Tbird patrons were so welcoming! I can’t wait to get back there!"

Well make sure next time you say hello x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Still haven’t taken the plunge yet either x

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By *abrina59TV/TS
over a year ago

moved to cuckold land

A woman arranged meet me and took me a walk around Glasgow Green in early evening. It was amazing passing others some who never batted an eyelid at two women walking past them

Def was an amazing feeling

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By *ust RachelTV/TS
over a year ago

Horsham

I went to a translife event in Brighton many years ago, I was shitting myself walking from the underground car park t the event. There was about 10 of us walking together, we got some crap from a bunch of piss heads which didn't help my nerves.

Once into the event it was fabulous, I loved it so much.

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By *rgentum DiaboliMan
over a year ago

Sheffield

So much respect for you ladies having the courage to be who you want to be. Must be so tough.

Every one of you who have been brave makes it a bit easier for the next person to take the plunge and live the lives they can.

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By *loriaJTV/TS
over a year ago

Leeds

I found it liberating,more than anything. Exciting,yes, but I had this feeling of being another person, and of being accepted as a woman. This was probably in Sheffield or Manchester, but it was especially true in my home of Leeds.That would have been in the tranny clubs at first. I avoid them now, but they have their place to get you out there.

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By *abrielle247Couple (FF)
over a year ago

PDI Gran Canaria

Only started 6 years ago and went to Eureka on Saturday night by myself and had a fantastic time, very nervous but excited.

Not into tranny clubs as they tend to be seedy and full of desperate people.

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By *exyangietgirlTV/TS
over a year ago

edinburgh

I'm the same as most girls......very nervous and full of trepidation. However, I love going out now and have never had any trouble.

XXXX

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By *usan patentTV/TS
over a year ago

falkirk

Yes. Err nervous and scary but it disappears as the sky didn’t fall in and no one photographed and pointed at me ! Actually to walk past two ladies on the pavement who just , well didn’t see me ! Look at women and see what they wear in a similar situation , no total

stripogram while walking in a residential area !

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