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Oral technique - for the ladies

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Ladies, when receiving oral, what makes for a good technique? What do you enjoy? What's the difference between good and bad from your experience?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That can be quite hard to tell as women like different things and have different preferences.

The most outstanding orgasms I've had from oral, is when a guy fingers me while slightly sucking my clit and flicking his tongue around the clit. I struggle with full on pressure on my clit

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Even just for me it can be really variable. Mostly someone who listens and doesn't just assume they know what they're doing. Often less is more, gently building with fingers, lips, and tongue. Build, retreat, so I don't get too sensitive.

Combine it with fingering and I'll be the right kind of mess.

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By *oleene HoneybeeWoman
over a year ago

on the naughty side of the street


"That can be quite hard to tell as women like different things and have different preferences.

The most outstanding orgasms I've had from oral, is when a guy fingers me while slightly sucking my clit and flicking his tongue around the clit. I struggle with full on pressure on my clit "

Same for me

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Ladies, any more views?

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

Wife likes to use an anal hook, the ball up against her g spot.

A vibrator on the hook and a mans tongue holding the hook in place.

Turns the tongue white for awhile and the taste buds take about two hours to recover, so I’ve been told.

Think that is what he said, he was slurring and salivating a lot at the time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"That can be quite hard to tell as women like different things and have different preferences.

The most outstanding orgasms I've had from oral, is when a guy fingers me while slightly sucking my clit and flicking his tongue around the clit. I struggle with full on pressure on my clit "

This!

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West

It's a combination of things - just the right amount of tongue in just the right place, combined with fingering (pussy or ass), maybe some nipple twiddling too. Mix it up a bit and take direction

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Oh anal fingering might make me explode

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West


"Oh anal fingering might make me explode "

I love it

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By *ornyDubMan25Man
over a year ago

Berlin


"That can be quite hard to tell as women like different things and have different preferences.

The most outstanding orgasms I've had from oral, is when a guy fingers me while slightly sucking my clit and flicking his tongue around the clit. I struggle with full on pressure on my clit "

Sounds stupid but gently tracing out the alphabet around the clit usually has great results

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By *oudLoutishLoverWoman
over a year ago

Colchester

I avoid any man who says he’s good at oral. This usually means he will try out all the ‘tricks’ his exes have liked, one after the other, and it’s awful.

Women like VERY different things.

The best men at oral sex are patient, intuitive, and can read what a woman is enjoying. So leave your ego and your ‘experience’ outside the bedroom, be attentive, and take direction.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"I avoid any man who says he’s good at oral. This usually means he will try out all the ‘tricks’ his exes have liked, one after the other, and it’s awful.

Women like VERY different things.

The best men at oral sex are patient, intuitive, and can read what a woman is enjoying. So leave your ego and your ‘experience’ outside the bedroom, be attentive, and take direction."

Oh god the ego. I hate it.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"That can be quite hard to tell as women like different things and have different preferences.

The most outstanding orgasms I've had from oral, is when a guy fingers me while slightly sucking my clit and flicking his tongue around the clit. I struggle with full on pressure on my clit

Sounds stupid but gently tracing out the alphabet around the clit usually has great results "

Just the ladies on this thread ... Listen and learn!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"That can be quite hard to tell as women like different things and have different preferences.

The most outstanding orgasms I've had from oral, is when a guy fingers me while slightly sucking my clit and flicking his tongue around the clit. I struggle with full on pressure on my clit

Sounds stupid but gently tracing out the alphabet around the clit usually has great results "

Totally agree and a good technique if you can get the pressure just right

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"That can be quite hard to tell as women like different things and have different preferences.

The most outstanding orgasms I've had from oral, is when a guy fingers me while slightly sucking my clit and flicking his tongue around the clit. I struggle with full on pressure on my clit

Sounds stupid but gently tracing out the alphabet around the clit usually has great results "

That's a lot of concentration! Not one for a 69

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

I fall to pieces during a 69

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I fall to pieces during a 69 "

Yeah, I'm not a very multi skilled person. It ends up being a 6 and then a 9

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West


"I fall to pieces during a 69

Yeah, I'm not a very multi skilled person. It ends up being a 6 and then a 9 "

I prefer to take turns and give/receive full focus

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By *nvisible_beardMan
over a year ago

near newbridge, wales

Read her body language and learn what she likes

If she says right there.... DO NOT CHANGE WHAT YOURE DOING ha

They hate that

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Read her body language and learn what she likes

If she says right there.... DO NOT CHANGE WHAT YOURE DOING ha

They hate that "

This one's just for the ladies ... Listen and learn ...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Any more thoughts ladies? Your chance to 'coach' the fellas!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Read her body language and learn what she likes

If she says right there.... DO NOT CHANGE WHAT YOURE DOING ha

They hate that

This one's just for the ladies ... Listen and learn ..."

To be fair he's bang on there! I can be enjoying myself without a goal in sight and then a certain technique will have me declaring "that! Keep doing that!!"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And patience. I'm very slow to ignite. If you don't enjoy spending time following her bodies queues then just don't bother. Nothing worse than a resentful half arsed attempt exactly the same as being aware a woman isn't enjoying blowing you...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I fall to pieces during a 69

Yeah, I'm not a very multi skilled person. It ends up being a 6 and then a 9

I prefer to take turns and give/receive full focus "

Me too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Top tips ladies, many thanks will go and practice on a bath sponge later

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By *ed RobzWoman
over a year ago

Further than you think

Slight blowing on a very wet clit can also create a mind numbing sensation

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By *rgentum DiaboliMan
over a year ago

Sheffield

It's like playing an instrument. You need to listen with your ears and your mouth and be patient. And you get better with practice with each partner.

Sorry if mansplaining!

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By *aughty Nas xxxMan
over a year ago

Birmingham

Good tips here x

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