FabSwingers.com forum: Ever been disappointed?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

So we hear all the time about the amazing meets couples have when swapping, either privately or in clubs etc.

What about when you've swapped and it's fallen short of your expectations? Were you disappointed or did you just chalk it up to experience and move on?

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

Just chalked it up to experience. The success of a meet usually depends on all concerned so we accept that we probably played our part.

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By *ikingCoolMan
over a year ago

carmarthen

Just go along with it as long as they did not lie to you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have had a few disappointments but put it down to experience.

Always makes for a good laugh when you talk to other couples about your horror stories.

Obviously with no names mentioned.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh Christ yes.

Always amazes me you read on the forums about crappy bad attitude timewasting guys yet you all still entertain them.

The good ones you ignore so have your disappointment.

You earnt it.

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By * and R cple4Couple
over a year ago

swansea

"Just chalked it up to experience. The success of a meet usually depends on all concerned so we accept that we probably played our part. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Oh Christ yes.

Always amazes me you read on the forums about crappy bad attitude timewasting guys yet you all still entertain them.

The good ones you ignore so have your disappointment.

You earnt it."

That’s the right attitude lol *sarcasm implied*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So we hear all the time about the amazing meets couples have when swapping, either privately or in clubs etc.

What about when you've swapped and it's fallen short of your expectations? Were you disappointed or did you just chalk it up to experience and move on?"
In our experience,if someone tells you they are great at something, they invariably aren't.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Oh Christ yes.

Always amazes me you read on the forums about crappy bad attitude timewasting guys yet you all still entertain them.

The good ones you ignore so have your disappointment.

You earnt it.

That’s the right attitude lol *sarcasm implied*"

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By *rimKardashianMan
over a year ago

Manchester

Oh, isn't that disappointment part of the very essence of this site?

Without that you'd not get to fully appreciate when you experience the highs!

Keeps you coming back. Well that's kind of how I works for myself.

Going to resubscribe again once this is all over & get back into the thick of things.

#findthatnexthigh #staysafe

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We have had a few disappointments but put it down to experience.

Always makes for a good laugh when you talk to other couples about your horror stories.

Obviously with no names mentioned.

Most bad experiences do make funny stories! Like the first time I used fab very young and very naive.

Chatted to a gorgeous women for a week. She was perfect...almost too good to be true....back then alarms bells did not ring.

She invited me over for drinks. The excitement had built up. The door opened and there stood a little old man looking back at me.

So anyway we had a cup of tea and I told him off and then went on my not so merry way.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When were pretty fab naive we thought all couples would be like us. We didn't realise that unicorn hunter couples existed. So very naively we arranged to meet a couple in a club, all seemed to be going well and we didn't really notice they weren't engaging with mr much.

Any way we went back to a room and they were all over me and I didnt realise that they had actually kicked Mr off the bed lmao!!!

He got up laughing and told me, i threw them off and they were most upset when we grabbed our stuff and made a swift exit.

We can spot unicorn hunters a mile off now but still makes us laugh

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Interesting feedback. We've been around for about 6 months, but feel a little reluctant to take the plunge as we don't want the experience to be a let down! Imagine if one half of you has a good time and the other half gets a raw deal.

Like you guys gave said though, chalk it up to experience

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

"Interesting feedback. We've been around for about 6 months, but feel a little reluctant to take the plunge as we don't want the experience to be a let down! Imagine if one half of you has a good time and the other half gets a raw deal.

Like you guys gave said though, chalk it up to experience

Thats why i am glad i fly solo

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Like you guys gave said though, chalk it up to experience

You just have to laugh it off.. we've had some fantastic times with some super hot couples who are genuine and want the full on 4 way

Clubs are best to meet people and fabs good to keep in touch and get party/club invites. We'd never meet anyone directly off fab anymore.

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By *lwaysup4it69Couple
over a year ago

Kirkby in Ashfield

We met a single guy for a 3sum, chatted to him for a while b4 the meet and hot on great, so we arranged a meet at his place. We turned up and all was fine. Quick drink then the play started, him and janine kissing and feeling each other while I watched. Then we moved things to the bedroom, all 3 of us naked, all ok for about 5 mins them the poor guy seemed to get stage fright and kept losing his erection every few mins. Ended up with me fucking janine while he watched, he did eventually manage to cum in her mouth. He was a nice guy but think we was his 1st 3sum and it was too much for him with there being me there, I think the fact that I was better endowed than him made him un easy a bit too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In a nutshell, yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Oh Christ yes.

Always amazes me you read on the forums about crappy bad attitude timewasting guys yet you all still entertain them.

The good ones you ignore so have your disappointment.

This is true, and it's funny and sad because it's true

You earnt it."

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By *helroyCouple
over a year ago

Skegness

One that sticks in mined met a guy in a pub all we seid what we all like and that wife loves lots of oral next he came to ours start kissing feeling her up get her undress all naked wife sucking his cock I licking her pussy offfed swop round but her just started fucking here then we move bedroom agin ilick her pussy he getting bj try to swop but agin cock in fucking her after he had gone we was talk wife seid he never did oral any wife next day txt him thanks we had enjoyed it bit oral wood be nice next reply I don't do oral no next time then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never been unsafe, but had two under my old account in which I just didn’t feel a connection a all.

One was mutual and was a relief for both of us that we could just go home. The other went a bit in denial and tried to get me to drink...was massively awkward and felt awful for saying I wasn’t feeling it, but I didn’t want to be having sex with someone when I just didn’t feel it at all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We’ve had mixed really, some really good and some ok. Not had a real bad one yet although had some close lol. It’s usually guys who think being endowed is enough and don’t know how to use it in the right way

Suppose our most strange one was after fun we sat around chatting about bi stuff and him saying he wasn’t into it. Then when we had round 2 of fun he sucked and wanked Male whilst fucking female. Then left, we were both gobsmacked as to what had happened

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By *entleman JayMan
over a year ago

Wakefield

I met a couple in a pub last Autumn with a female friend of mine. We got on well and instead of buying a second round we were invited back to the the airbandb they were staying at.

It soon became clear that he was more enthusiastic than her. We got the feeling it wax a twice a year thing that she indulged him. He was asking my friend to do this and that to her. Like he was ticking things off his fuckit list.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"We’ve had mixed really, some really good and some ok. Not had a real bad one yet although had some close lol. It’s usually guys who think being endowed is enough and don’t know how to use it in the right way

I think that's one of my thoughts too... People claiming they know what they're doing and turns out they're all talk. We've spent a lot of time learning what we enjoy and probably can't expect earth shattering experiences from others who simply don't know our bodies.

With the guy you mentioned, funny how people change their minds

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Every morning when I glimpse my Cuck Hubbies little thing lol x

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By *uncpl70Couple
over a year ago

Durham

We've had a few meets and reckon only 1 in 3 persons met have lived up to expectations.

I think people need to be honest on verifications. One guy we met had good verifications but was blatantly telling lies about living in the flat we attended and also bit my wife whilst performing oral sex.

This took my wife a long time to get over and stopped us having meets for a long time

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"We've had a few meets and reckon only 1 in 3 persons met have lived up to expectations.

This took my wife a long time to get over and stopped us having meets for a long time "

Ah guys sorry to hear that. Can totally appreciate having to take some time out. It's these stories that provide balance and awareness that swinging isn't always fab, no matter how much fun people do appear to have. It's good to hear both sides.

We hope you managed to move past that incident 3

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By *itty9899Man
over a year ago

Craggy Island

Every time I order out.

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By *ilkynmyzzyCouple
over a year ago

Bridlington

The time we invited a couple over for some fun after chatting for a while and the guy got jealous and hit is wife fell short of what we had envisaged. Not that it makes much difference but they had travelled about 140 miles to get here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had my worst sex with a friend on Fab. I can’t go into too much detail as not here to put people down. But looks and chat can be very deceiving

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Horror stories are great for breaking the ice. We met a couple before we joined Fab and the guy insisted in cutting Nickeys toenails and eating them so she would be a part of him forever.......

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Horror stories are great for breaking the ice. We met a couple before we joined Fab and the guy insisted in cutting Nickeys toenails and eating them so she would be a part of him forever......."

Please tell me that you didn't follow through. Christ on a bike!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I had my worst sex with a friend on Fab. I can’t go into too much detail as not here to put people down. But looks and chat can be very deceiving

Totally agree, tinder is well known for this too and we've both experienced that separately. I suppose fab isn't too dissimilar except for the fact that now there are two people who could be a let down in our case, rather than one.

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By *ilkyladyWoman
over a year ago

Burton on Trent

In my first year into fab, met a guy and had great meet. 2nd time, went to his place, all dolled up and he'd sent several messages saying how he couldn't wait to meet me again. Got there and he had an annoyed expression, said He'd had argument with someone and I think basically wanted me to clear off. Gutted wasn't the word for it. That's why I tend to only do clubs now as don't want my time wasted.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"In my first year into fab, met a guy and had great meet. 2nd time, went to his place, all dolled up and he'd sent several messages saying how he couldn't wait to meet me again. Got there and he had an annoyed expression, said He'd had argument with someone and I think basically wanted me to clear off. Gutted wasn't the word for it. That's why I tend to only do clubs now as don't want my time wasted. "

Having been to a few clubs we can see the appeal. Definitely seems to be the way forward to guarantee you get to have fun

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By *osweet69Couple
over a year ago

portsmouth

"Just chalked it up to experience. The success of a meet usually depends on all concerned so we accept that we probably played our part. "

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By *entleman JayMan
over a year ago

Wakefield

I’ve learnt the more you know someone the better the sex is. The majority of the one offs I’ve had have been disappointing. Having a few people you can get together with now and again is the way forward I think.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We had a couple to play round our house and although played with them at a club, it fell short at home. After we said to each other we didn’t enjoy it. Since then we won’t meet in our own home.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've had a couple of meets where we both fancied each other, social was great on both occasions.

We just didn't gel on a sexual level, it happens, it's a bit disappointing but you just put it behind you and move on.

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By *ounty durham bbw coupleCouple
over a year ago

darlington

Wife got kicked in the face once off the wife while down on the hubby all within pre arranged boundaries we laugh about it now

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By *_MariusMan
over a year ago

Currently Faraway

Once, not too long ago, I got approached in here by a couple who wanted a bi man for a threesome. I got chatting to the male on WhatsApp and he was constantly telling me how he and his mrs wanted a hairless guy so I said "fine, I will shave to the best of my abilities, bearing in mind that I am busy with my work shifts". Anyhow, late at night, I set off walking towards their house and once there, I was confronted with a situation of a couple who were clearly off their heads on something and the male half was interrogating me as opposed to having a conversation with me (the mrs was totally not involved). At some point the guy blurted out "we're not swingers" and soon after that, he asked me to leave and he blamed his mrs for it (in a low voice, just as I was making my way out of the door) I was glad I was asked to leave!!....

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