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Is there anything wrong with me???

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

hi just need to know been on here a couple of weeks now message loads been respectful read profiles see if am compatible and really nothing so seeing is it just me???

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

Nah, you've just joined at a bad time really. Keep at it

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks just theres only so many times you message different people and nothing back and think shit its me! The worse ones is where they read it and nothing back no even no thanks your not what were looking for!! ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"hi just need to know been on here a couple of weeks now message loads been respectful read profiles see if am compatible and really nothing so seeing is it just me???"

Three weeks is no time at all on fab bud

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thanks just theres only so many times you message different people and nothing back and think shit its me! The worse ones is where they read it and nothing back no even no thanks your not what were looking for!! ??"

Remember no one is obliged to reply and the women on here get constantly bombarded with hundreds of messages off of blokes trying it on. It'd be literally impossible for a woman on here to answer every message she gets like

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't sweat it, there are many reasons you may not get a reply. Just remember, we can't all be for everyone... And now, things are going to get much harder as "wanting to chat" is rarely just that, so ya know

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

All good advice above OP but top tip that may be useful - often message recipients will look at your profile before they even consider opening a message - so take a look at yours and ask yourself does it sell you well? Does it make you stand out and pique peoples interest, or is it just another generic profile like so many others on here? Does it tell a reader a little about you, what you're looking for and what you think you offer? And does it have a side order of pics that show you off well?

Be honest with yourself and if the answer to any of those is "No" then make appropriate changes.

Also remember there are many other ways to approach the site other than blindly messaging people - getting active in the forums or chat rooms is a great way to spark conversation, or getting along to clubs or group socials is another.

Good luck

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By *orthern StarsCouple
over a year ago

Durham


"All good advice above OP but top tip that may be useful - often message recipients will look at your profile before they even consider opening a message - so take a look at yours and ask yourself does it sell you well? Does it make you stand out and pique peoples interest, or is it just another generic profile like so many others on here? Does it tell a reader a little about you, what you're looking for and what you think you offer? And does it have a side order of pics that show you off well?

Be honest with yourself and if the answer to any of those is "No" then make appropriate changes.

Also remember there are many other ways to approach the site other than blindly messaging people - getting active in the forums or chat rooms is a great way to spark conversation, or getting along to clubs or group socials is another.

Good luck "

This

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By *xMFM3sumsxxWoman
over a year ago

SouthWest Lancashire

If you get loads of replies on the forum you can be reassured you are fit.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If you get loads of replies on the forum you can be reassured you are fit. "

Like I do lol

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By *xMFM3sumsxxWoman
over a year ago

SouthWest Lancashire


"If you get loads of replies on the forum you can be reassured you are fit.

Like I do lol"

I think your dog toy is cute.

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By *mcouple2Couple
over a year ago

Warrington

Get your self to your local club. Socialise.

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By *illerpinsMan
over a year ago

liverpool


"If you get loads of replies on the forum you can be reassured you are fit. "

like i dont

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By *xMFM3sumsxxWoman
over a year ago

SouthWest Lancashire


"If you get loads of replies on the forum you can be reassured you are fit.

like i dont "

Neither do i and i'm female, something not right there.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If you get loads of replies on the forum you can be reassured you are fit.

Like I do lol

I think your dog toy is cute. "

Hes the little pervy pirate

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By *illerpinsMan
over a year ago

liverpool


"If you get loads of replies on the forum you can be reassured you are fit.

like i dont

Neither do i and i'm female, something not right there. "

i will message you hehe x x

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By *DW1983Man
over a year ago

Aberdeen, Leeds, Sheffield


"hi just need to know been on here a couple of weeks now message loads been respectful read profiles see if am compatible and really nothing so seeing is it just me???"

There's people been on here three years and still got nowhere! Some good advice above already. Goi g to clubs and socialising is the best way - all the people I know on here are people I've met in real life first at clubs etc, as a guy you're fighting a losing battle most of the time, just another message in a sea of messages in every woman's inbox.

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By *xMFM3sumsxxWoman
over a year ago

SouthWest Lancashire


"If you get loads of replies on the forum you can be reassured you are fit.

Like I do lol

I think your dog toy is cute.

Hes the little pervy pirate "

Nice avatar, he doesn't look pervy.

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By *mcouple2Couple
over a year ago

Warrington


"hi just need to know been on here a couple of weeks now message loads been respectful read profiles see if am compatible and really nothing so seeing is it just me???

There's people been on here three years and still got nowhere! Some good advice above already. Goi g to clubs and socialising is the best way - all the people I know on here are people I've met in real life first at clubs etc, as a guy you're fighting a losing battle most of the time, just another message in a sea of messages in every woman's inbox."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If you get loads of replies on the forum you can be reassured you are fit.

Like I do lol

I think your dog toy is cute.

Hes the little pervy pirate

Nice avatar, he doesn't look pervy."

You dont know him like I do!

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By *xMFM3sumsxxWoman
over a year ago

SouthWest Lancashire


"If you get loads of replies on the forum you can be reassured you are fit.

Like I do lol

I think your dog toy is cute.

Hes the little pervy pirate

Nice avatar, he doesn't look pervy.

You dont know him like I do!"

Kinda glad, i had a pervy zippy toy and the thing he'd get up to.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you're athletic then maybe show a little more meat

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If you get loads of replies on the forum you can be reassured you are fit.

Like I do lol

I think your dog toy is cute.

Hes the little pervy pirate

Nice avatar, he doesn't look pervy.

You dont know him like I do!

Kinda glad, i had a pervy zippy toy and the thing he'd get up to. "

Yeh Zippy is a right perv you can tell lol

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By *av501TV/TS
over a year ago

Mancetter?


"All good advice above OP but top tip that may be useful - often message recipients will look at your profile before they even consider opening a message - so take a look at yours and ask yourself does it sell you well? Does it make you stand out and pique peoples interest, or is it just another generic profile like so many others on here? Does it tell a reader a little about you, what you're looking for and what you think you offer? And does it have a side order of pics that show you off well?

Be honest with yourself and if the answer to any of those is "No" then make appropriate changes.

Also remember there are many other ways to approach the site other than blindly messaging people - getting active in the forums or chat rooms is a great way to spark conversation, or getting along to clubs or group socials is another.

Good luck "

This above is a Carlsberg statement very honest informative and you wont recieve a better one ever on Fab......I'd look at you pics for definite .....take a few more a little more provocative but not Crass and probs lose the football scarf one some people might not like AJAX lol ......dont know how your messages read either..... maybe PM me one over and Defo bad timing and 3 weeks ......not long at all...... and check out the Near Me button local is always good to icebreak as you straight away have something in common. Good luck x

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