FabSwingers.com forum: Clubs and Socials

By *ouple_m_and_j OP Couple
over a year ago

Darlington

Hey everyone, and thanks in advance for reading! As you probably get if you've read our profile, we've played quite a bit with single females and we're interested in more, soft swing and maybe more in time. Fi is very awkward about playing with other men, in fact it's still very much a no no, but she does want to play in the same room as other couples and play with Fems (and watch etc).

So we decided that maybe a club/social is the way to go here, obviously a soft swing couples meet would potentially give us what we want, but not necessarily the couple what they wanted! At the club there would (I assume) be plenty of opportunity for said couples.

But where to start? I feel very nervous about just calling the club (probably ClubF) and turning up - for a start, what to wear, what to bring, how to say hi! How to let people know that Fi is currently looking but don't touch if you're male and so on - lol so many questions... rules, eticates... I don't want us to be the awkward couple in the corner that everyone hides from!

I figured our best approach would probably be to get to know people here and go with them to the club? Or should we just 'man up' (lol) and turn up and see what happens?

What do you guys think?