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Joined becasue i am bored.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Has anyone else noticed how many new members have joined, stating just joined cos I am bored, or so bored chat to me.

We never realised there were so many people without friends or family to chat to.

Why not just go on FB And chat to people they know?

Even better call someone.

*Sigh*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That is a terrible reason to join Fab.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

says the people how have been on 9 weeks, live and let live, lets not judge, or be judged yourself

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"says the people how have been on 9 weeks, live and let live, lets not judge, or be judged yourself"

This profile has been on 9 weeks.

We have been on as singles for longer.

It seems like a bad reason to join, thats all.

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By *yx_InannaWoman
over a year ago

Burslem

To find this place I'd assume they were into sexual things already or they have been on before, what harm is there looking to find like minded people to chat to? Curb that boredom somewhat

Telling people with no friends and family to go use Facebook instead? How would that be of use? Can you not see the moronic and small minded statement there?

"Hey you don't know anyone here fuck off to Facebook where you know no one there either just so I don't have to put up with you"

Here's a question, if you're not here to chat right now and meets are banned why are you on? I presume it's because you're here to chat and perv profiles

Like everyone else! Everyone isolating is spending more time on fab than before because they don't have much to do in isolation

Everyone is going to be bored and losing their mind, no need to be rude about it especially when people like myself have no family or friends who gives a shit. How about filter accounts less than 5 days old and don't reply to people who've only been on a few weeks. Simple solutions instead of being rude.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

At no point was "Fuck off to facebook" written.

There are enough fake profiles on this site whitout others joining to pointlessly chat.

That was my point.

Also i do not believe that what was written was rude at all.

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By *ustme1820Woman
over a year ago

Southcoast Gosport


"Has anyone else noticed how many new members have joined, stating just joined cos I am bored, or so bored chat to me.

We never realised there were so many people without friends or family to chat to.

Why not just go on FB And chat to people they know?

Even better call someone.

*Sigh*

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many people join for many reasons and it’s their choice as to how they use the site. Don’t be so quick and harsh to judge people’s motives op

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"says the people how have been on 9 weeks, live and let live, lets not judge, or be judged yourself

This profile has been on 9 weeks.

We have been on as singles for longer.

It seems like a bad reason to join, thats all."

I totally agree its not a good reason to join Fab at all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Has anyone else noticed how many new members have joined, stating just joined cos I am bored, or so bored chat to me.

We never realised there were so many people without friends or family to chat to.

Why not just go on FB And chat to people they know?

Even better call someone.

*Sigh*

many people join for many reasons and it’s their choice as to how they use the site. Don’t be so quick and harsh to judge people’s motives op "

Everyone is entitled to have an opinion its not judging ever heard of free speech.

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By *ustme1820Woman
over a year ago

Southcoast Gosport


"Has anyone else noticed how many new members have joined, stating just joined cos I am bored, or so bored chat to me.

We never realised there were so many people without friends or family to chat to.

Why not just go on FB And chat to people they know?

Even better call someone.

*Sigh*

many people join for many reasons and it’s their choice as to how they use the site. Don’t be so quick and harsh to judge people’s motives op

Everyone is entitled to have an opinion its not judging ever heard of free speech."
yes thanks

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By *inky Biscuit DunkerMan
over a year ago

Gloucestershire

I joined years ago because I was hungry

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By *yx_InannaWoman
over a year ago

Burslem


"At no point was "Fuck off to facebook" written.

There are enough fake profiles on this site whitout others joining to pointlessly chat.

That was my point.

Also i do not believe that what was written was rude at all.

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I hadnt posted that you had said fuck off. I made a quote as to what your post implies.

All people can do is either "pointlessly chat" or cam sex. Not everyone wants to dangle their bits on cam to get or give some entertainment.

Doesn't mean people who are looking to chat for what ever reason shouldn't be here because you're not looking for the same thing.

Pointing out that people who want to do different things to you should go else where is rude.

Just coming on to chat only doesn't make a person out to be fake.

This is a community for many interests and desires it's selfish to think that someone doesnt have the right to be here because they don't fit your criteria / agenda.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I joined years ago because I was hungry "

Hope you got you biscuits

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I joined because I was bored

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I know people who - seriously - joined because they're looking for relationships (?!)

Oh well

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By *ornyhappyCouple
over a year ago

perth

People join for all sorts of reasons I guess.

The cries of "I'm bored" are really beginning to grate a lot though and certainly aren't something that would encourage us to chat.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Considering fab is now like a Facebook without meets - I see no problem if people join out of boredom.

I first joined as I was intrigued. Left and rejoined again as I was bored.

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By *yx_InannaWoman
over a year ago

Burslem


"I know people who - seriously - joined because they're looking for relationships (?!)

Oh well"

Is it not the right place for finding a partner who is also in to swinging and multiple sexual partners?

What better place to be than here?

Where most understand ethical non-monogamy / polygamy and can find people who enjoy the same things.

It's not generic dating sites where it's filled with serial monogamists and hook ups.

Yet try to explain to them that hook ups are the same thing that happen on swingers sites and in swingers clubs they swear you're a slut because they think swinging is seedy but their dating site bullshit looking for relationship lies but what they actually want is just want their dick wet for a night and they think its different to swinging.

So what better place to find a significant other than here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The fetish scene has gone completely gone the same way . Dare mention your bored and does anyone fancy sharing a fantasy and they are all over you like the Gestapo ! And not even wearing the uniforms !

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"The fetish scene has gone completely gone the same way . Dare mention your bored and does anyone fancy sharing a fantasy and they are all over you like the Gestapo ! And not even wearing the uniforms ! "

Messages asking to discuss fantasies are always welcome with us here or on the kink site

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some maybe joining because they are bored, but if only 50% stay it will be good news for the hard up club's when they reopen.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

This is a valid point.

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