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Whos ever wanted to be the 3rd/4th cog in a relationship?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

We've always thought it would be fun to have a male or female or even a couple to bring into a relationship. Not anything serious as in move in lol just a little something extra

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sounds fun

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

It could be

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lots of different ideas and fun to be had with a 3rd and 4th

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had a married FwB many years ago who I’d have happily been more regular with. Her hubby was in full approval and joined us once.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've had a polyamorous relationship before. Wa great!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I've had a polyamorous relationship before. Wa great! "

Oohh was it

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

Like the idea of a couple but not exclusive or anything

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By *orthampton jamesMan
over a year ago

Northampton


"We've always thought it would be fun to have a male or female or even a couple to bring into a relationship. Not anything serious as in move in lol just a little something extra "
mmm sounds fun, had a few 3sum an 4sum in the past, allways so much fun

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Like the idea of a couple but not exclusive or anything"

Obvs no lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We had a third guy. Bit of poly relationship as we discovered..

All went out. She went to his. Stayed at his. He stayed at ours etc was fun. Till he called it off after a year.. As we really did have to be discreet. Which was hard.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"We had a third guy. Bit of poly relationship as we discovered..

All went out. She went to his. Stayed at his. He stayed at ours etc was fun. Till he called it off after a year.. As we really did have to be discreet. Which was hard. "

Sounds a lot of fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It could be lots of fun with the right people.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It could be lots of fun with the right people. "

Fingers crossed we get to find out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have been the third wheel with a couple for a short time, we discussed a full on poly etc and although it was great fun in fantasy land the dynamic is almost impossible to have without having underlying emotions and it was just massively stressful as it ended up like a tug of war for her affections and eventually we all couldn’t cope with the fact I loved his wife which is a huge ask I know very sad and lost good friends so won’t do it again

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I have been the third wheel with a couple for a short time, we discussed a full on poly etc and although it was great fun in fantasy land the dynamic is almost impossible to have without having underlying emotions and it was just massively stressful as it ended up like a tug of war for her affections and eventually we all couldn’t cope with the fact I loved his wife which is a huge ask I know very sad and lost good friends so won’t do it again "

Well first rule is make the rules. Plus we have a little one so cant be that complicated to start with

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We were constantly evolving discussing rules and trying to find ways to make things work and keep everyone happy we did communicate constantly but it’s just too complex in my opinion but that’s just my experience, don’t get me wrong I made lots of mistakes and was very demanding and selfish at times so didn’t help matters at all

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