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**pops a tic-tac"Yes, me too. I'm technically a bi-male. I just like the sexy girl clothes... | |||
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"Maybe more will put Bi on their profile as getting messages from straight on their profile ,after i point it out "oh im bi just dont admit it ,bit sad or just keeping options open "I think it’s more a society perception thing to be honest, I think most couples are more comfortable in a bi guys presence | |||
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"We’d love a bi top to share  "why are all the sexy bi cpls so far away ???? | |||
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"I’m noticing a particular new trend in couples requesting BI males or is that just my imagination? " Hope it continues, love to meet bi couples, have met some at swingers club | |||
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"Maybe more will put Bi on their profile as getting messages from straight on their profile ,after i point it out "oh im bi just dont admit it ,bit sad or just keeping options open I think it’s more a society perception thing to be honest, I think most couples are more comfortable in a bi guys presence "I dont mind either way ,only hubby needs bi ,so we are all happy . | |||
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"I’m noticing a particular new trend in couples requesting BI males or is that just my imagination? " Long may it continue! | |||
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"I think it's great that bi men are Able to be out more. There is a lot of discrimination against bi guys. Why I don't know! " It’s because we want to have our cake and eat it - also apparently we are dirty & diseased ridden | |||
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"I think it's great that bi men are Able to be out more. There is a lot of discrimination against bi guys. Why I don't know! It’s because we want to have our cake and eat it - also apparently we are dirty & diseased ridden "I do like cake | |||
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"I think it's great that bi men are Able to be out more. There is a lot of discrimination against bi guys. Why I don't know! It’s because we want to have our cake and eat it - also apparently we are dirty & diseased ridden
I do like cake"Who doesn’t like cake.. It is fabulous to be able to be genuinely open about who you are though... | |||
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"I think it's great that bi men are Able to be out more. There is a lot of discrimination against bi guys. Why I don't know! It’s because we want to have our cake and eat it - also apparently we are dirty & diseased ridden
I do like cake
Who doesn’t like cake.. It is fabulous to be able to be genuinely open about who you are though..."So very true, once you accept the fact of who you are it opens a whole different dimension | |||
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Yes, me too.
I'm technically a bi-male. I just like the sexy girl clothes...
"Me too and might i say how sexy you look too......xx pm me please HOWEVER: Im not finding a lot of interest though, Sadly, from couples ....which i really would like ... Maybe my age and being FUGLY ..   | |||
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"I still find being bi on here seems to put more people off. Sometimes I wonder if putting straight would help but then I’m not straight so I’m just being honest. Can only be wait and hope. " My sentiments exactly .....and i dont even need to dress im 99% Alpha male just Bi vers tbh  | |||
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"I’m noticing a particular new trend in couples requesting BI males or is that just my imagination? " it is but beards are out........ move with the times    | |||
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"I’m noticing a particular new trend in couples requesting BI males or is that just my imagination? " Requesting and receiving are unfortunately not quite the same... | |||
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"Straight men are in minority now." always have been just peer presure made them think otherwise | |||
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"I don't think that being a bi Male is the 'In Thing'. More men are starting to become more relaxed about their sexuality and wanting to satisfy those desires in a safe environment like this website. Although society is more open to gay relationships, there is still a taboo around bi men, it's not something you would discuss with your friends and family. I envisage in a decade or so it won't be such an issue as it becomes more accepted by a younger demographic. "This | |||
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"I don't think that being a bi Male is the 'In Thing'. More men are starting to become more relaxed about their sexuality and wanting to satisfy those desires in a safe environment like this website. Although society is more open to gay relationships, there is still a taboo around bi men, it's not something you would discuss with your friends and family. I envisage in a decade or so it won't be such an issue as it becomes more accepted by a younger demographic. ". Think you're spot on there, also people are more willing to experiment in general 
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"I don't think that being a bi Male is the 'In Thing'. More men are starting to become more relaxed about their sexuality and wanting to satisfy those desires in a safe environment like this website. Although society is more open to gay relationships, there is still a taboo around bi men, it's not something you would discuss with your friends and family. I envisage in a decade or so it won't be such an issue as it becomes more accepted by a younger demographic. "I agree with this 100% | |||
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"I don't think that being a bi Male is the 'In Thing'. More men are starting to become more relaxed about their sexuality and wanting to satisfy those desires in a safe environment like this website. Although society is more open to gay relationships, there is still a taboo around bi men, it's not something you would discuss with your friends and family. I envisage in a decade or so it won't be such an issue as it becomes more accepted by a younger demographic. "I agree with this. When Schofield came out as gay the amount of criticism I heard from guys I work with and people in pub was shocking. But it was not younger people doing the criticism | |||
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"Straight men are in minority now. always have been just peer presure made them think otherwise" That's the real issue, being accepted in real life, so to speak! I work in construction, and in my experience, bigotry is still rife in this day and age. Publicly, I don't share my sexuality, but I never lie about it either. When conversations steer that way, I tend to be very ambiguous with my input, using humour, but I call out bigots when I hear them rant! Dickheads. And by all accounts, many of them are also hypocrites! Whether you just enjoy looking at the same sex, or want to be thrown around like a fuckdoll by them, you just be whatever level of bisexual you want to be! True swingers shouldn't care, respect and trust are the important factors in my opinion! x x | |||
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"I don't think that being a bi Male is the 'In Thing'. More men are starting to become more relaxed about their sexuality and wanting to satisfy those desires in a safe environment like this website. Although society is more open to gay relationships, there is still a taboo around bi men, it's not something you would discuss with your friends and family. I envisage in a decade or so it won't be such an issue as it becomes more accepted by a younger demographic. "Well said and pretty much sums me up. Still waiting for my first bi mmf though, can't understand why I'm not getting at least a dozen invites a week | |||
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"Straight men are in minority now. always have been just peer presure made them think otherwise That's the real issue, being accepted in real life, so to speak! I work in construction, and in my experience, bigotry is still rife in this day and age. Publicly, I don't share my sexuality, but I never lie about it either. When conversations steer that way, I tend to be very ambiguous with my input, using humour, but I call out bigots when I hear them rant! Dickheads. And by all accounts, many of them are also hypocrites! Whether you just enjoy looking at the same sex, or want to be thrown around like a fuckdoll by them, you just be whatever level of bisexual you want to be! True swingers shouldn't care, respect and trust are the important factors in my opinion! x x"Could not agree more! | |||
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"I’m noticing a particular new trend in couples requesting BI males or is that just my imagination? " "The in thing" I very much doubt it. The day I can go to a "normal" swinging event and people don't feel entitled to say something nasty at the sight of me having my cock sucked by a guy or returning the favour.....then I will say "cool its generally accepted now" | |||
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"Maybe more will put Bi on their profile as getting messages from straight on their profile ,after i point it out "oh im bi just dont admit it ,bit sad or just keeping options open "We here this quite a lot as we don't play with straight guys. And of course the" I'm not bi but I'll let him suck me off if I can fuck you " | |||
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"Maybe more will put Bi on their profile as getting messages from straight on their profile ,after i point it out "oh im bi just dont admit it ,bit sad or just keeping options open
We here this quite a lot as we don't play with straight guys. And of course the" I'm not bi but I'll let him suck me off if I can fuck you ""When I get messages from "straight" guys on here, I always reply pointing out that I'm male, with a penis, testicles, hairy chest etc, just on case they've accidentally sent "Nice cock mate" to the wrong person | |||
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"I’m noticing a particular new trend in couples requesting BI males or is that just my imagination? "The in thing" I very much doubt it. The day I can go to a "normal" swinging event and people don't feel entitled to say something nasty at the sight of me having my cock sucked by a guy or returning the favour.....then I will say "cool its generally accepted now"" Now that I agree with - although will say more clubs are starting to be all inclusive at any time (Club SX is, as is Purple Mamba I believe, and Mingles was before it closed) so progress is slowly being made on that front from the clubs perspective - as I said further up too the majority of Fab users, in my experience, either aren't bothered by bisexual men or actively seek us - it's just the ones that state they won't that stand out and create the false perception that bi men are not wanted by the majority. | |||
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"Maybe more will put Bi on their profile as getting messages from straight on their profile ,after i point it out "oh im bi just dont admit it ,bit sad or just keeping options open
We here this quite a lot as we don't play with straight guys. And of course the" I'm not bi but I'll let him suck me off if I can fuck you ""They're miss's out on doing the sucking themselves, so much fun | |||
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"Straight men are in minority now." Not as much as straight couples | |||
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"Straight men are in minority now. always have been just peer presure made them think otherwise That's the real issue, being accepted in real life, so to speak! I work in construction, and in my experience, bigotry is still rife in this day and age. Publicly, I don't share my sexuality, but I never lie about it either. When conversations steer that way, I tend to be very ambiguous with my input, using humour, but I call out bigots when I hear them rant! Dickheads. And by all accounts, many of them are also hypocrites! Whether you just enjoy looking at the same sex, or want to be thrown around like a fuckdoll by them, you just be whatever level of bisexual you want to be! True swingers shouldn't care, respect and trust are the important factors in my opinion! x x" To this especially the respect and trust bit, I would add discretion too. We are all here for the same outcome? Fun pleasuarable, endorphin releasing, sex, if your not, and some on here do struggle with this, then go to another playground. And when we talk about respect and trust it goes as far as being clean well presented and healthy in a sexual health kind of way...... how many mf couple swingers get regular testing for instance ??? I practice safely but still keep a close eye on things, so please Stay Safe people. Not only now during these sad times, but ALWAYS X | |||
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"I’m noticing a particular new trend in couples requesting BI males or is that just my imagination? "The in thing" I very much doubt it. The day I can go to a "normal" swinging event and people don't feel entitled to say something nasty at the sight of me having my cock sucked by a guy or returning the favour.....then I will say "cool its generally accepted now" Now that I agree with - although will say more clubs are starting to be all inclusive at any time (Club SX is, as is Purple Mamba I believe, and Mingles was before it closed) so progress is slowly being made on that front from the clubs perspective - as I said further up too the majority of Fab users, in my experience, either aren't bothered by bisexual men or actively seek us - it's just the ones that state they won't that stand out and create the false perception that bi men are not wanted by the majority." Him I don't share your confidence but I'd love it if you are right. wouldn't it be funny if everyone was honest on here and it turned out that the majority of men are somewhere on the bi curve. If would be hard to get a true figure though because soooooo many are in self denial. | |||
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"I’m noticing a particular new trend in couples requesting BI males or is that just my imagination? "The in thing" I very much doubt it. The day I can go to a "normal" swinging event and people don't feel entitled to say something nasty at the sight of me having my cock sucked by a guy or returning the favour.....then I will say "cool its generally accepted now" Now that I agree with - although will say more clubs are starting to be all inclusive at any time (Club SX is, as is Purple Mamba I believe, and Mingles was before it closed) so progress is slowly being made on that front from the clubs perspective - as I said further up too the majority of Fab users, in my experience, either aren't bothered by bisexual men or actively seek us - it's just the ones that state they won't that stand out and create the false perception that bi men are not wanted by the majority. Him I don't share your confidence but I'd love it if you are right. wouldn't it be funny if everyone was honest on here and it turned out that the majority of men are somewhere on the bi curve. If would be hard to get a true figure though because soooooo many are in self denial." I'm not sure they're in self-denial (although *some* are) more they are being deceitful to try and get round the preferences of the minority whilst closing the door on a lot of people that are actively seeking them | |||
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"We look for bi males because hubby is bisexual we find it sexy sharing a cock and wife enjoys watching the two men play so only meet men who are fully comfortable with other men not men who are prepared to let a guy suck him to get to the wife " This is us too 100% | |||
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"Do I need a label because I’d like to play and suck on a cock ?? " Do you need a label? No. Will letting people know if your straight/bi/gay (etc) within this lifestyle benefit you and others? Yes. L | |||
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"Not bothered what people label me only interested in what I’d like " Good luck with that... Personally I prefer sex to be a mutual enjoyment... | |||
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"I think it's great that bi men are Able to be out more. There is a lot of discrimination against bi guys. Why I don't know! " Maybe because many guys that suck cock are putting in their profiles "straight" which is dishonest. They should just be honest and say they are gay or bi. | |||
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"Maybe more will put Bi on their profile as getting messages from straight on their profile ,after i point it out "oh im bi just dont admit it ,bit sad or just keeping options open
We here this quite a lot as we don't play with straight guys. And of course the" I'm not bi but I'll let him suck me off if I can fuck you ""Why not reply with "how about you suck him off while I fuck you with a strap on" | |||
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"Most anoying quote "orally bi" . Are you attracted to men? No? Well you're not bi you're just horny"Or how about the ones that say they are "very bi" | |||
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"I think there is a little bi in all of us. I still dont fancy men but I do now love a bit of cock as well. I'm lucky that my partner K allows me to experiment. If you think about it all straight men watch porn and enjoy watching the dick action. And loads of men want mmf action. So what's that all about " This is me | |||
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"Let us admit that the pleadures to be gained out weigh the social stigma...and the social hypocricy..." I agree. I worried declaring myself bi curious initially but now I dont give a flying feck. The sort of people who disapprove are not the sort of people we would play with anyway | |||
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"Maybe more will put Bi on their profile as getting messages from straight on their profile ,after i point it out "oh im bi just dont admit it ,bit sad or just keeping options open
We here this quite a lot as we don't play with straight guys. And of course the" I'm not bi but I'll let him suck me off if I can fuck you "
When I get messages from "straight" guys on here, I always reply pointing out that I'm male, with a penis, testicles, hairy chest etc, just on case they've accidentally sent "Nice cock mate" to the wrong person "Haha very true | |||
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"I’m noticing a particular new trend in couples requesting BI males or is that just my imagination? "The in thing" I very much doubt it. That's fab straight haha The day I can go to a "normal" swinging event and people don't feel entitled to say something nasty at the sight of me having my cock sucked by a guy or returning the favour.....then I will say "cool its generally accepted now" Now that I agree with - although will say more clubs are starting to be all inclusive at any time (Club SX is, as is Purple Mamba I believe, and Mingles was before it closed) so progress is slowly being made on that front from the clubs perspective - as I said further up too the majority of Fab users, in my experience, either aren't bothered by bisexual men or actively seek us - it's just the ones that state they won't that stand out and create the false perception that bi men are not wanted by the majority. Him I don't share your confidence but I'd love it if you are right. wouldn't it be funny if everyone was honest on here and it turned out that the majority of men are somewhere on the bi curve. If would be hard to get a true figure though because soooooo many are in self denial." | |||
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"Let us admit that the pleadures to be gained out weigh the social stigma...and the social hypocricy... I agree. I worried declaring myself bi curious initially but now I dont give a flying feck. The sort of people who disapprove are not the sort of people we would play with anyway" Exactly!!! The key word being disapprove. I don't mind a bit if its a turn off for someone each to their own, but where the air is thick with disapproval and judgement.....grrrr don't get me started. | |||
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"Let us admit that the pleadures to be gained out weigh the social stigma...and the social hypocricy... I agree. I worried declaring myself bi curious initially but now I dont give a flying feck. The sort of people who disapprove are not the sort of people we would play with anyway Exactly!!! The key word being disapprove. I don't mind a bit if its a turn off for someone each to their own, but where the air is thick with disapproval and judgement.....grrrr don't get me started." I have seen this at clubs quite ironic really, we are all there for our own thing, no nasty comments needed I find that very odd as swingers we are supposed to be open minded and accepting | |||
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"Most anoying quote "orally bi" . Are you attracted to men? No? Well you're not bi you're just horny"I'm not having a go here, but it's not your place to decide someone else's identity. I'm not attracted to males as a whole package, but I'm aroused by aspects of them physically, at different levels at different times, with different people. I am bisexual, just maybe not the same way others might be. But that doesn't make me any more or less bisexual than anyone else identifying as bi, it's a very very broad spectrum! | |||
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"Most anoying quote "orally bi" . Are you attracted to men? No? Well you're not bi you're just horny
I'm not having a go here, but it's not your place to decide someone else's identity. I'm not attracted to males as a whole package, but I'm aroused by aspects of them physically, at different levels at different times, with different people. I am bisexual, just maybe not the same way others might be. But that doesn't make me any more or less bisexual than anyone else identifying as bi, it's a very very broad spectrum!"Precisely because it's a broad spectrum, some of us are more bisexual than others. And although in the past I have occasionally had my complaints towards MF couples, I think they have every right to decide somebody's identity when they have asked for a bisexual guy and the bisexual guy does not make it clear and explicit to them, before any meeting takes place, that he is only comfortable with being sucked off by the husband and nothing more. | |||
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You got one available candidate x"Can’t wait, tried pegging again the other night was a lot of fun | |||
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"Most anoying quote "orally bi" . Are you attracted to men? No? Well you're not bi you're just horny
I'm not having a go here, but it's not your place to decide someone else's identity. I'm not attracted to males as a whole package, but I'm aroused by aspects of them physically, at different levels at different times, with different people. I am bisexual, just maybe not the same way others might be. But that doesn't make me any more or less bisexual than anyone else identifying as bi, it's a very very broad spectrum!
Precisely because it's a broad spectrum, some of us are more bisexual than others.
And although in the past I have occasionally had my complaints towards MF couples, I think they have every right to decide somebody's identity when they have asked for a bisexual guy and the bisexual guy does not make it clear and explicit to them, before any meeting takes place, that he is only comfortable with being sucked off by the husband and nothing more. "But that isn't deciding their identity, it's asking them for it. Setting comfortable boundaries happens with all relationships, and if being sucked off is as far as you're happy to go, then that's your prerogative | |||
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"Most anoying quote "orally bi" . Are you attracted to men? No? Well you're not bi you're just horny
I'm not having a go here, but it's not your place to decide someone else's identity. I'm not attracted to males as a whole package, but I'm aroused by aspects of them physically, at different levels at different times, with different people. I am bisexual, just maybe not the same way others might be. But that doesn't make me any more or less bisexual than anyone else identifying as bi, it's a very very broad spectrum!
Precisely because it's a broad spectrum, some of us are more bisexual than others.
And although in the past I have occasionally had my complaints towards MF couples, I think they have every right to decide somebody's identity when they have asked for a bisexual guy and the bisexual guy does not make it clear and explicit to them, before any meeting takes place, that he is only comfortable with being sucked off by the husband and nothing more.
But that isn't deciding their identity, it's asking them for it. Setting comfortable boundaries happens with all relationships, and if being sucked off is as far as you're happy to go, then that's your prerogative "But if you don’t know yourself yet you can’t honestly tell someone else.. they can just test the waters and take each step at a time, it’s no different to learning what your swinging limits are you don’t know until you try, just my opinion | |||
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"Most anoying quote "orally bi" . Are you attracted to men? No? Well you're not bi you're just horny
I'm not having a go here, but it's not your place to decide someone else's identity. I'm not attracted to males as a whole package, but I'm aroused by aspects of them physically, at different levels at different times, with different people. I am bisexual, just maybe not the same way others might be. But that doesn't make me any more or less bisexual than anyone else identifying as bi, it's a very very broad spectrum!
Precisely because it's a broad spectrum, some of us are more bisexual than others.
And although in the past I have occasionally had my complaints towards MF couples, I think they have every right to decide somebody's identity when they have asked for a bisexual guy and the bisexual guy does not make it clear and explicit to them, before any meeting takes place, that he is only comfortable with being sucked off by the husband and nothing more.
But that isn't deciding their identity, it's asking them for it. Setting comfortable boundaries happens with all relationships, and if being sucked off is as far as you're happy to go, then that's your prerogative
But if you don’t know yourself yet you can’t honestly tell someone else.. they can just test the waters and take each step at a time, it’s no different to learning what your swinging limits are you don’t know until you try, just my opinion "If people have chemistry, it's easier to test your boundaries together. When you spend your life keeping something private for fear of negative reactions (my personal experience of society), it can be hard to come to terms with yourself as you gain no insight from others. Being brought up in a very toxic masculine environment, surrounded by male bravado, bigotry and violence, being openly honest about your sexuality is tough. Even in this platform, there are still people aggressively biased against bisexual men, but very rarely against bisexual women. Women are almost expected to be a little bi, encouraged for the most part as a turn on for guys! So to judge or vilify anyone for how they decide to present themselves and their sexuality, is just perpetuating the cycle of negativity most of us have spent a lifetime struggling against. Bisexuality is misunderstood by so many people, and too many choose to attack, ridicule or shun us, when simple acceptance is all we want. | |||
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"Most anoying quote "orally bi" . Are you attracted to men? No? Well you're not bi you're just horny
I'm not having a go here, but it's not your place to decide someone else's identity. I'm not attracted to males as a whole package, but I'm aroused by aspects of them physically, at different levels at different times, with different people. I am bisexual, just maybe not the same way others might be. But that doesn't make me any more or less bisexual than anyone else identifying as bi, it's a very very broad spectrum!
Precisely because it's a broad spectrum, some of us are more bisexual than others.
And although in the past I have occasionally had my complaints towards MF couples, I think they have every right to decide somebody's identity when they have asked for a bisexual guy and the bisexual guy does not make it clear and explicit to them, before any meeting takes place, that he is only comfortable with being sucked off by the husband and nothing more.
But that isn't deciding their identity, it's asking them for it. Setting comfortable boundaries happens with all relationships, and if being sucked off is as far as you're happy to go, then that's your prerogative "It is your prerogative only if you are honest with the people whom you decide to contact. Similarly, there are MF couples whereby the male partner is only comfortable with oral sex with another guy; and that makes a good match with a single guy who is also only comfortable with male-on-male oral sex. | |||
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