FabSwingers.com forum: Tendancies

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Do women have more bi tendancies than men?

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By *r and mrs sanddancerCouple
over a year ago

BOLDON COLLIERY

there seems to be a tendency to remove posts now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do women have more bi tendancies than men?

I think that there are lots of ladies on here who are " BI" as a matter of convenience for there partners.

Unfortunately for me I have met a fair few of them

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By *eet_the_spartanMan
over a year ago

Manchester

I think it's more of a case of social pressure meaning most guys who do, don't dare to admit it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm bi out of my choice not my husbands...you can not force someone to be bi.

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By *inkypervertMan
over a year ago

Durham

"I think it's more of a case of social pressure meaning most guys who do, don't dare to admit it"

Sad but true...

girl on girl is widely accepted now, but two guys seems to be a huge issue

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't believe for a minute all of the females that say they are bi ... Are actually bi.....

It's a fashion to some... Others the hubby wants a it......

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By *inkypervertMan
over a year ago

Durham

"I'm bi out of my choice not my husbands...you can not force someone to be bi."

actually, you can... there are people who are "functionally bi", they have same gender sex, for different reasons, while they attracted emotionally to same sex at all

and such behavior can be forced

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't believe for a minute all of the females that say they are bi ... Are actually bi.....

It's a fashion to some... Others the hubby wants a it......"

Totally agree!

I remember when being gay or bi was a sexuality, not a fashion.

Mrs Artful like sex with other women BUT only women that connect with her and vice versa.

If someone is forced into it then that is wrong in the eyes of the law.

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By *usty2001Man
over a year ago

bolton

Why is girl on girl so acceptable rather than to two men together, I thought we lived in a sexual liberated society

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Stands on soapbox and shouts IM BI AND PROUD can someone help me down now please it's a bit high up here

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

"Why is girl on girl so acceptable rather than to two men together, I thought we lived in a sexual liberated society"

Why'd you think that?!!

You only have to read the "shock, horror" reactions in newspaper forums when swinging is mentioned or people with unconventional lives are reported to think for one second our society is sexually liberal.

There are things that turn people's stomachs from two men getting it on, inter-racial coupling, super size and super slim...c'est la vie.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I believe that women are less pressured by sexual stereotypes than men.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I remember when being gay or bi was a sexuality, not a fashion.

I don't think anyone should be forced into anything they don't want to do, full stop. However the attitude that some women (or men) are only putting it on is....very frustrating and very off-putting for those of us who are very sure about their sexuality. Maybe some women are, maybe they aren't, but I think it's a bit disrespectful to say that it's a fashion to anyone. It's hard enough to get people to believe you aren't really straight, or purely gay, or that it isn't just a phase without people doubting anyone who uses the bi label.

I remember when being gay was a cause for bullying, violence, and criminal charges - it wasn't all that long ago. Sexuality is a spectrum and on a sex-focused site is it only natural to see more people exploring it, even if that only means the occasional play in a club.

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By *encarolCouple
over a year ago

Tyneside

we find that once a lady has hit 50 she wants to try another woman out of cuirosity (cant spell ) we met 5 women who wanted to try another woman and they loved it

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By *ont Ask Dont GetWoman
over a year ago

amersham

Not this one! Male for me every time!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

when they are pissed yeh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

every single-and married- lady we have tempted unto a 3some have willingly enjoyed it-so much so that that my wife and I are beginning to thuink that most females are capable of enjoying bi play with females with whom they get on-we were - pleasantly - surprised that the young single girls we met ALL enjoyed bi play-I suppose 2 hairy men playing together will always be less aesthetically appealing than 2 females

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Before we started swinging , we had talked about whether any bi tendencies had arisen . None for me ( male) but a few in the last year of school for her - just a bit of snogging with girls , but a desire for more was still there .

Hence when we started swinging , long lost dreams became reality and she is totally happy in being able to explore further that side of her sexuality .

No pressure whatsoever from me - so the comments suggesting women pretend for their partners is certainly not the case for us !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"we find that once a lady has hit 50 she wants to try another woman out of cuirosity (cant spell ) we met 5 women who wanted to try another woman and they loved it

And I was one of them, thanks lol

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By *eet_the_spartanMan
over a year ago

Manchester

Rachel is bi, but only in the bedroom. No pressure from me there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I reckon lots of woman (not all ) would love to push the boundaries and see thier man with aguy in a same room environment but would be too scared to say and very many guys would also be tempted but never admit it to thier partner

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By *exyangietgirlTV/TS
over a year ago

edinburgh

I doubt if women have more bi tendencies than guys but there probably more of them for a couple of reasons.

Women are more tactile for a start and are much more comfortable with touching, hugging, kissing each other, etc. Then there's their clothes, which are deliberately designed to look and feel sexy and women are always commenting on each other's appearance, asking each other about how they look, seeing each other getting dressed and undressed.....and that can very easily lead to sexy feelings. Why should a woman not feel sexually aroused when she's watching another girl put on some nice lingerie with slinky stockings or tights? And from there,it's not a huge step to actually doing something...

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