FabSwingers.com forum: I don't get.....

By *d4fun73 OP Man
over a year ago

Shipley

Guys do you get views from couples/females and then when you look at their profile, it says no single guys but yet the veris say they do!?

Then you can't message them!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Me and the wifes couples profile reads as above, we do play with single guys in Clubs but it's not often, so we have Veri's from single guys but dont actively search them on fab.

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

Some people don't want all the single guys contacting them, but look for themselves and contact the ones they like the look of.

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By *adMerWoman
over a year ago

Sandwich

That’s because there’s so many single guys on here that women and couples can do their own looking and choosing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Guys do you get views from couples/females and then when you look at their profile, it says no single guys but yet the veris say they do!?

Then you can't message them!! "

Lots of couples and single females like to do the choosing and not get 100’s of messages a day cluttering their inbox.

If they wink or message you, you can reply.

If they don’t, they were just having a nosy.

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By *d4fun73 OP Man
over a year ago

Shipley

"Guys do you get views from couples/females and then when you look at their profile, it says no single guys but yet the veris say they do!?

Then you can't message them!!

Lots of couples and single females like to do the choosing and not get 100’s of messages a day cluttering their inbox.

If they wink or message you, you can reply.

If they don’t, they were just having a nosy.

I get that just shame when you like the look of someone but can't message them..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Guys do you get views from couples/females and then when you look at their profile, it says no single guys but yet the veris say they do!?

Then you can't message them!! "
Maybe they only like the idea of approaching single guys as and when it suits them ?

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By *JohnMan
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

"I get that just shame when you like the look of someone but can't message them.. "

If they don't want single men contacting them, then contacting them isn't going to lead to anything good. However much you like them. You're not missing out by not being able to do it.

"No single men" can mean many things, but what they all have in common is not wanting single men to contact them. They'll know the rest of what it means to them; we don't need to. All we need to know is "no single men".

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

Some might have veris where they have spoken to a guy in a club, or had a social when out of town, doesn’t mean they want to meet them for sex

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By *moothdickMan
over a year ago

stoke

Cpls view me and like someone said if they are interested then they make contact, just so happens none make contact with after viewing lol

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By *yx_InannaWoman
over a year ago

Burslem

Be patient they may open their inbox up on occasion by removing the filter.

When the filter blocking single men it says not looking for single men. It's not that everyone isnt it's just they don't want 100s of messages in their inbox.

Once a message is sent to a person's inbox whether it's replied to or not means that person can message again even if the filter is on.

You will get a warning if there was no reply to your 1st message.

Some people aren't in the mood to chat to you right now but maybe in the future, take it if you aren't blocked as that there's a maybe in the future.

People are looking for different things at different times. So if an inbox filter is on and they do meet singles add them to your hotlist.

If you don't get a reply to your message take it as its a not right now maybe in future or as a try again some time later and adhere to what they ask for in a message making it more likely to get a response. An absolute no is a block of course.

I'm waiting for the day fab install a reset button for filters for everyone not on the friends list. Stopping people from messaging when you want the filters to apply to all. When 1000s have messaged and applying the filter makes no difference it means having to make a new account to have a peaceful manageable inbox reset filter would be extremely useful.

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

"Guys do you get views from couples/females and then when you look at their profile, it says no single guys but yet the veris say they do!?

Then you can't message them!! "

If you participate in the forum, people will often take a look at your profile to get a better idea of who is talking.

Cal

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By *d4fun73 OP Man
over a year ago

Shipley

"Guys do you get views from couples/females and then when you look at their profile, it says no single guys but yet the veris say they do!?

Then you can't message them!!

If you participate in the forum, people will often take a look at your profile to get a better idea of who is talking.

Cal"

I do from time to time when a thread is interesting, then I get views from all over which is nice!

It's a good time to make friends for the future at the moment....

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

"Guys do you get views from couples/females and then when you look at their profile, it says no single guys but yet the veris say they do!?

Then you can't message them!!

Lots of couples and single females like to do the choosing and not get 100’s of messages a day cluttering their inbox.

If they wink or message you, you can reply.

If they don’t, they were just having a nosy.

I get that just shame when you like the look of someone but can't message them.. "

It's not a shame for them if they don't want to be contacted because they are doing their own searching. Try and focus on the ones you can contact. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Guys do you get views from couples/females and then when you look at their profile, it says no single guys but yet the veris say they do!?

Then you can't message them!!

Lots of couples and single females like to do the choosing and not get 100’s of messages a day cluttering their inbox.

If they wink or message you, you can reply.

If they don’t, they were just having a nosy.

I get that just shame when you like the look of someone but can't message them.. "

Take it more as them doing your ego a favour and not rejecting your advances with either a refusal, delete, or even a block as chances are more than likely it’s what you’d get if they’ve not messaged or winked at you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Guys do you get views from couples/females and then when you look at their profile, it says no single guys but yet the veris say they do!?

Then you can't message them!! "
of course but no harm in looking and reading some profile names may give the impression of a couple like mine for example

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