FabSwingers.com forum: The joy of collaring

By *oss and Suzie OP Couple
over a year ago

Porthmadog

Suzie's been collared for 12 years or so, and we love it as a sign of ownership. Ross crafted her current collar, which is padlocked, obvious, heavy but comfortable to wear. Wnen we swing, it releases her inner slut.

Who else loves a collar? What sort of collar suits you? What does it mean to you?

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By *olinservingMan
over a year ago

wallasey

"Suzie's been collared for 12 years or so, and we love it as a sign of ownership. Ross crafted her current collar, which is padlocked, obvious, heavy but comfortable to wear. Wnen we swing, it releases her inner slut.

Who else loves a collar? What sort of collar suits you? What does it mean to you?

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I’ve not worn one yet, hopefully will one day.

To me it signals my submission......and acceptance that I am willing to submit.

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By *ecky and justCouple
over a year ago

Godalming

B wears a day collar 24/7 that is subtle enough to pass for normal jewellery, for special times she has a more formal collar to wear, pics on our profile.

It means a huge amount to the both of us.

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By *oss and Suzie OP Couple
over a year ago

Porthmadog

Suzie has a leather collar with a padlock for going out to bars. Less obvious than her steampunk collar, but still gets sideways looks

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

Collars can have multiple meanings to different people - for some they're paper collars that are discarded and changed as often as people have hot dinners, for others they're a temporary symbol of submission during a given scene and for others they're as significant a bond as a wedding ring and remain on permanently.

For me one would probably sit somewhere between the last two - not sure I would or could wear one 24/7 but they would have a deeper significance than something put on just for a given scene (even if it came off at the end of that scene).

I do like the symbolism of a collar though and the individual significance they imply

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By *razytimesinloveCouple
over a year ago

SW Scotland

Oh this has me intrigued, in to hear people’s views on this as mrs often wears a collar when we play

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By *oss and Suzie OP Couple
over a year ago

Porthmadog

"Oh this has me intrigued, in to hear people’s views on this as mrs often wears a collar when we play"

Love the butt hook too... Suzie has a brass one to match her collar

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

I've got quite a few. The significance of which varies according to situation, time and place. Its not 24/7 with us and I can go months without wearing one because life events get in the way.

It's always interesting to note the reaction of the people we meet in swinging circles.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like the aesthetic of a collar whether heavy and obvious, slim and almost playfull. I also like how pearl or velvet chok ers look.

Each one has a different story personal to the person wearing it and who they are with. They are much more than an object.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have a black leather one bought from a guy in fuerteventuran market. He made personalised dog collars. Mine has kitten written on it in diamanté. Certainly opened his eyes to a whole new client Al when I popped it straight on and said "will this work daddy" to hubby hahahaha ha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes I do love a collar and a lead too xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i was bought a 'Slut' collar for my birthday and i love it!

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By *dwalu2Couple
over a year ago

Bristol

We love collar and lead play, between ourselves and when we have guests. It’s not a serious thing for us, but we love to share that kind of play with women who enjoy it too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We went on a meet once with another couple. I was busy playing with the other lady and I glanced over my shoulder to see mrs cherry on her knees sucking the guys cock has he put a collar and lead on her. It certainly gave his wife an extra inch to enjoy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wearing a collar full time is something I would love but not something we're able to move forward with as yet. So I wear a collar often when we play, again that can take on different connotations depending on weather I put the collar on myself whilst getting ready or if Ben puts it on me. We wanted to find a way that symbolises ownership without being too obvious. I'd had Ben tattooed on my wrist years ago so we made a little tweak and added 's so it now says Ben's. An added dimension to that was that I had it done at the same time as Ben had a new tattoo and mine was done with the same needle.

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By *hoenixcouplexxCouple
over a year ago

Leicestershire

D has a day collar and a play collar.

They both have a huge meaning to each of us but life does get in the way on occasion.

We have found that with the play collar in particular there can be a lot of mis-understandings so sometimes choose to not bother with it unless circumstances are right. The day collar never gets noticed so that works for us anyway.

We love to play with other ladies who enjoy a collar but that's on the rare side

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"i was bought a 'Slut' collar for my birthday and i love it!

I bet you look fabulous in it

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By *entleman4MMFMan
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

Somebody wearing a collar is so horny

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By *addyandbabyCouple
over a year ago

Bideford

I’ve worn my collar 24/7 since Daddy gave it to me 4 years ago

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By *inkycreamCouple
over a year ago

manchester

We love it in club setting, makes folk most curious. Suppose they start thinking how far could she go. Only to be shocked there’s no limit later

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

There is something about the stimulus/response from act of fitting a collar.

Making it a tiny bit tighter if things are going to be slightly more intense.

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By *ntrigued32Couple
over a year ago

Nottingham

Bookmarking for research purposes.

Jo.Xx

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West

N wears a collar for play, but not all the time. It's about submission and control for us, more than anything.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"There is something about the stimulus/response from act of fitting a collar.

Making it a tiny bit tighter if things are going to be slightly more intense."

That's an interesting idea. I hadn't ever thought of that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wear tags and chains 24/7 with inscriptions of ownership . They jingle under clothes all day long so i know they are there , sometimes they wrap around my nipple rings and give a little tug . I misplaced them a little while ago for about a week , i felt lost ...

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By *oss and Suzie OP Couple
over a year ago

Porthmadog

Tightness is important. Suzie's collars are made to fit and her main collar is snug; but her 'slut' collar is a tight fit, so she knows she's wearing it (will make pic public)

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By *essie.Woman
over a year ago

Serendipity

I enjoy wearing a collar and lead to play. Can’t stand one that’s tight around my neck though. Got a new one on order atm.

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By *rindiMan
over a year ago

chester

"Tightness is important. Suzie's collars are made to fit and her main collar is snug; but her 'slut' collar is a tight fit, so she knows she's wearing it (will make pic public)"

Love it, stunning collar on a stunning lady. My slave only wears hers for play, but she is becoming more daring and says next social event she will wear a plain collar. Those that know, will know, is enough excitement

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am not collared, but i wear a bracelet 24/7 with a unicorn from my Dom

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By *rindiMan
over a year ago

chester

"I am not collared, but i wear a bracelet 24/7 with a unicorn from my Dom "

Good girl ??

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By *oss and Suzie OP Couple
over a year ago

Porthmadog

Have also posted pic of Suzie in her public collar at a local bar in Spain

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By *he_virgin_maryWoman
over a year ago

Here, there and everywhere!

It's been a long time since I was collared and it's something I would look to get back into in the future.

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By *entleman4MMFMan
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

"Have also posted pic of Suzie in her public collar at a local bar in Spain"

Very hot

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Oh this has me intrigued, in to hear people’s views on this as mrs often wears a collar when we play

Love the butt hook too... Suzie has a brass one to match her collar "

Nice collar, would love Sue to wear a collar like that on

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By *heklumpsCouple
over a year ago

South

Collared 24/7 here.

Obv subtle ones for work n vanilla activities but playful ones when at home

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By *he_virgin_maryWoman
over a year ago

Here, there and everywhere!

"Collared 24/7 here.

Obv subtle ones for work n vanilla activities but playful ones when at home"

Love your profile and pics

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By *ayman2002Man
over a year ago

Peterborough

"Collared 24/7 here.

Obv subtle ones for work n vanilla activities but playful ones when at home"

Can I ask what your vanilla/work one's are like?

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By *asterslittlewhoreCouple
over a year ago

Edinburgh

I have a day collar its a bracelet and it means alot to me i never take it off i love when someone compliments it and just randomally looking at it on a normal day and being reminded im owned x

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By *ulahlollipopWoman
over a year ago

Reading/London

"B wears a day collar 24/7 that is subtle enough to pass for normal jewellery, for special times she has a more formal collar to wear, pics on our profile.

It means a huge amount to the both of us.

Oooft- hot profile guys- absolute fire!

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By *linyMan
over a year ago

Manchester/London

"B wears a day collar 24/7 that is subtle enough to pass for normal jewellery, for special times she has a more formal collar to wear, pics on our profile.

It means a huge amount to the both of us.

Oooft- hot profile guys- absolute fire! "

18 March picture your collar is too comfortable

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've been collared for six years. Check out picture I put up today

In submission always

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By *ulahlollipopWoman
over a year ago

Reading/London

"B wears a day collar 24/7 that is subtle enough to pass for normal jewellery, for special times she has a more formal collar to wear, pics on our profile.

It means a huge amount to the both of us.

Oooft- hot profile guys- absolute fire!

18 March picture your collar is too comfortable

I know babe- need some strong hands to buckle it for me...

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By *linyMan
over a year ago

Manchester/London

"B wears a day collar 24/7 that is subtle enough to pass for normal jewellery, for special times she has a more formal collar to wear, pics on our profile.

It means a huge amount to the both of us.

Oooft- hot profile guys- absolute fire!

18 March picture your collar is too comfortable

I know babe- need some strong hands to buckle it for me..."

Strong size 12 hands here to tighten that collar AND those clamps

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By *ulahlollipopWoman
over a year ago

Reading/London

"B wears a day collar 24/7 that is subtle enough to pass for normal jewellery, for special times she has a more formal collar to wear, pics on our profile.

It means a huge amount to the both of us.

Oooft- hot profile guys- absolute fire!

18 March picture your collar is too comfortable

I know babe- need some strong hands to buckle it for me...

Strong size 12 hands here to tighten that collar AND those clamps

Thank you for volunteering

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am not the type of Domme who wants to control a sub 24/7 in all aspects of their life. It is only in play when I put a collar on my subby, but when it's on and until it is removed it means I have their full attention and control of their body and mind.

Thems me rules

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I am not collared, but i wear a bracelet 24/7 with a unicorn from my Dom

Good girl ??"

Always.. Delicious, delectable, angelic, submissive

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By *allgirthyMan
over a year ago

Harrogate

This is one of the best threads I’ve come across recently - love seeing the bonds between couples when one partner has been collared. Been a long time since I handed one out but I very much hope to be in that situation again one day.

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By *oss and Suzie OP Couple
over a year ago

Porthmadog

"This is one of the best threads I’ve come across recently - love seeing the bonds between couples when one partner has been collared. Been a long time since I handed one out but I very much hope to be in that situation again one day."

Thanks for that insight... wedding rings are an outward sign if a bond between a couple, but a collar says it in spades.... 'my body and soul are my master's...'

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By *allgirthyMan
over a year ago

Harrogate

Yes, there is no real substitute for a collar - so much power and meaning wrapped up in such a sexy little thing.

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By *inkykat dirtydogCouple
over a year ago

Cov

We enjoy playing with Collars, we have loads of them, but it's mainly to do with the fact we think they look hot and sexy, to us it's not a submissive thing or anything like that, only for that kinky session. Maybe if we're doing sub and dom, it might count then during play.

Plus what else can you attach a lead too

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By *oss and Suzie OP Couple
over a year ago

Porthmadog

"We enjoy playing with Collars, we have loads of them, but it's mainly to do with the fact we think they look hot and sexy, to us it's not a submissive thing or anything like that, only for that kinky session. Maybe if we're doing sub and dom, it might count then during play.

Plus what else can you attach a lead too

Ermmmmm..... we actually have found other things to attach a lead to, when playing MMF....

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By *ecky and justCouple
over a year ago

Godalming

"B wears a day collar 24/7 that is subtle enough to pass for normal jewellery, for special times she has a more formal collar to wear, pics on our profile.

It means a huge amount to the both of us.

Oooft- hot profile guys- absolute fire! "

Thanks very much, means a lot to us.

We enjoy taking pictures that let people have a glimpse of our life.

We each wear a sign of our commitment to each other. I’ll upload a picture.

B knows when her day collar comes off and I attach her formal collar that the dynamic has changed.

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By *ikilovesCCouple
over a year ago

village life, closest main town inverness

This has been a very informative thread as I've worn them but more as a fashion accessory to a kinky outfit

The next one we buy will have much more significance after having learnt more about it

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By *onyMad123Couple
over a year ago

nottingham/ derby

Have a padlock necklace and mini handcuff bracelet

just as a reminder I'm always his, but when in a club I can play, want a collar but needs be comfy that says something like "NAUGHTY" OR "deviant" as opposed to slut, only my other half gets to call me that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Rebecca has a few collars, some which can be worn more discreetly in public which still have an edge about them to which people in the scene would probably question whilst out.

I love putting a collar on her - seems when collar goes on, she changes and becomes very naughty!

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By *osmosgirlWoman
over a year ago

Wetherby

It is a joy, indeed. Once the collar is on you know good things are going to happen.

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By *oss and Suzie OP Couple
over a year ago

Porthmadog

I have a new challenge, to make a collar to put on new friends, hence which is metal, heavy and adjustable.

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By *hloevtTV/TS
over a year ago

norwich

I wear a coller and lead when i go to clubs, i chose who i give the lead to so i stay in control . X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Have also posted pic of Suzie in her public collar at a local bar in Spain"

Suzie looks amazing in her collar, and I have always loved your profile... Very intriguing play..

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By *oss and Suzie OP Couple
over a year ago

Porthmadog

"Have also posted pic of Suzie in her public collar at a local bar in Spain

Suzie looks amazing in her collar, and I have always loved your profile... Very intriguing play..

Thanks! You're a Triumph owner too? I had a Bonneville before I discovered helicopters.....

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By *inkycreamCouple
over a year ago

manchester

"I have a new challenge, to make a collar to put on new friends, hence which is metal, heavy and adjustable."

Looking at your pictures, I’m sure they will be very happy with the outcome

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By *aimeSmithTV/TS
over a year ago

Cliss

Great thread xx

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By *f579Man
over a year ago

Midlands

We have a couple of collars with wording on, and a nice lead, when she wants it that way

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By *issyfaggotfayeTV/TS
over a year ago

Bolton

Wearing a collar, for me, is the ultimate act of submission. Feels so sexy knowing you give your body to your owner

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By *oss and Suzie OP Couple
over a year ago

Porthmadog

Have a new sub here in Spain, a very lovely lady. Tried a collar on her I'd made a few years ago as an exercise, heavyweight with 'slut' emblazoned on the front. Fitted a dream. Some things,are meant to be.

I think a collaring ceremony is coming up x

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By *wakers14Man
over a year ago

burgess hill

"Have a new sub here in Spain, a very lovely lady. Tried a collar on her I'd made a few years ago as an exercise, heavyweight with 'slut' emblazoned on the front. Fitted a dream. Some things,are meant to be.

I think a collaring ceremony is coming up x"
would love to see the ceremony, something very erotic about having a formal ceremony at the first fitting.

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By *oss and Suzie OP Couple
over a year ago

Porthmadog

I think a collaring ceremony is coming up x would love to see the ceremony, something very erotic about having a formal ceremony at the first fitting. "

I agree. I'm thinking about the form it would take. A few friends, a few drinks, a simple vow of obedience, collaring, friends enjoy her.....

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By *aimeSmithTV/TS
over a year ago

Cliss

I have a solid metal one hat needs locked in place with an alum key. Makes me feel v sub and eager to submit xx

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