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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

my partner has recently had his leg amputated below the knee, before this happened i loved him watching me having sex with other men and cpls, but now i am wondering if it could put ppl off from meeting us, as he will be in a wheelchair

kate

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

I think to start with this will bother you more. Something so drastic and life changing is going to play an important part in your lives.

When you have had time to take it all in and it doesnt seem such a big thing, i think if you just mention it on your profile and mention in your first message whether it holds your partner back at all i cant see any problems. There will be those that wont want to play as a preference but you may be surprised how many it wont bother. Try not to loose sight of why people wont meet you, im sure you have been rejected in the past at some stage as you will again but try not to focus on it just being for the one reason.

Good luckxxxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As a man on ere if I met ur criteria I would be in touch and it wouldn't put me off, I don't meet the criteria but thought would leave u some positive feed back, good luck for the future

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had testicular cancer 7 years ago, and the treatment was to have bilateral orchidectomies. In laymans speak I had both my balls cut off.

I have a testicula prothesis and can still spunk thanks to my testostrone injections.

I'm very open about things and will inform anyone I meet, If they have a problem with it, thats their problem.

Don't worry and enjoy a good life and great sex.

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By *onnoisseur100Man
over a year ago

Woking-ish

Firstly I hope your OH is recovering well, I just wanted to say, no it wouldn't make any difference to me either, I don't fit your requirements and you don't fit mine, but if we did, it wouldn't worry me whether he joins in or even just watches.

I'm sure you both will continue enjoying your swinging in the future. Good luck.

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By *orth West CoupleCouple
over a year ago

liverpool


"I had testicular cancer 7 years ago, and the treatment was to have bilateral orchidectomies. In laymans speak I had both my balls cut off.

I have a testicula prothesis and can still spunk thanks to my testostrone injections.

I'm very open about things and will inform anyone I meet, If they have a problem with it, thats their problem.

Don't worry and enjoy a good life and great sex. "
This post has balls.....

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead


"my partner has recently had his leg amputated below the knee, before this happened i loved him watching me having sex with other men and cpls, but now i am wondering if it could put ppl off from meeting us, as he will be in a wheelchair

kate"

as long as you are honest, so it doesn't come as any surprise i dont think it really makes any difference... in fact in a way it is in a way a different conversation starter... people will see behind the gloss anyway.....

sean xxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I might have got this the wrong way a little..... but..... you seem worried people won't want to come round and shag you now if your other half is present in a wheelchair

Is this something that you both have discussed or is it just your own fears ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i dont think it would put people off, just mention it on your profile and make sure they know if you do think your getting to the meeting stage,

ive played with a couple before where the man wasnt always fit enough to join in and thats why they started on fab and if i went around and he was in a wheel chair or just sat in a chair i wouldnt of minded as long as he was enjoying himself and everyone else was then thats the main thing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I had testicular cancer 7 years ago, and the treatment was to have bilateral orchidectomies. In laymans speak I had both my balls cut off.

I have a testicula prothesis and can still spunk thanks to my testostrone injections.

I'm very open about things and will inform anyone I meet, If they have a problem with it, thats their problem.

Don't worry and enjoy a good life and great sex. This post has balls..... "

Hear hear

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By *kmale421Man
over a year ago

wirral


"my partner has recently had his leg amputated below the knee, before this happened i loved him watching me having sex with other men and cpls, but now i am wondering if it could put ppl off from meeting us, as he will be in a wheelchair

kate"

OK I've read your profile which is very detailed. Now if I had read that only, but not your above post in this forum, I'd say that I personally don't meet your criteria on the distance issue, but I'm comfortable with everything else.

Your profile mentions your husband is older than you and has had health issues, and that he would be present certainly for the first few meets. You don't mention that he has had an amputation. Because your profile is so detailed, I think you should mention that in there, and if not, certainly in the opening couiple of messages you have with someone.

From a personal point of view, it wouldn't bother me at all that he has had an amputation.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

he only had his amputation 2 months ago, i have not got round to changeing my profile yet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wouldn't bother either of us meeting anyone with an amputation, same with scars etc... for whatever reason.

Some people wont like it but do you want to meet them anyway?

and im sure, though he has a wheelchair now, he will in time get a prosthesis? and be able to walk again ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ive fantasised a lot about having sex with someone with an amputation... And im sorry if thats sick and wrong im just being honest? good luck guys, im sure some ppl will mind but many more won t give it a thought xx mel

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hi..

It wouldn't put us off meeting you at all...

we all have bits of our bodies we don't like etc.. hes still the same person.. go for it guys! enjoy! xxxx

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By *ovedupstillCouple
over a year ago

mullinwire

think most men on here would fuck a hole in a wall, so dont think your worries are of concern, if im honest.

however, i would worry about your OH's mental state if he finds out you are worried how his new disability/disfigurement, im sorry, i cant think of a PC term, could affect your sex life.

im almost certain his confidence and mood will already be very low with this turn of events.

hope you both come out the other side of this a stronger and closer couple.

x

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