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"Right ok so I have never met a couple on or off here. What have people's first experiences been like? If you were the single how were the nerves etc and couples what did you make of it, was there any jealousy seeing your partner with someone else? " if u think couples get jealous you might need to do some thinking about what u think swinging is. | |||
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"Right ok so I have never met a couple on or off here. What have people's first experiences been like? If you were the single how were the nerves etc and couples what did you make of it, was there any jealousy seeing your partner with someone else? if u think couples get jealous you might need to do some thinking about what u think swinging is." Why is every one of your replies on the forums a smart arse reply? | |||
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"Right ok so I have never met a couple on or off here. What have people's first experiences been like? If you were the single how were the nerves etc and couples what did you make of it, was there any jealousy seeing your partner with someone else? if u think couples get jealous you might need to do some thinking about what u think swinging is." I understand swinging completely but I'm guessing there is a first time for a couple? I have never been with a couple and the females I have been with had jealous streaks. What about couples where 1 partner has experienced swinging before and the other is a swing virgin? Am I stupid for thinking that maybe not all couples were entirely comfortable there 1st time swinging? | |||
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"Right ok so I have never met a couple on or off here. What have people's first experiences been like? If you were the single how were the nerves etc and couples what did you make of it, was there any jealousy seeing your partner with someone else? if u think couples get jealous you might need to do some thinking about what u think swinging is. Why is every one of your replies on the forums a smart arse reply?"  *looks for the handshake symbol* | |||
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"Right ok so I have never met a couple on or off here. What have people's first experiences been like? If you were the single how were the nerves etc and couples what did you make of it, was there any jealousy seeing your partner with someone else? " Our first time was on holiday , not planned and was very enjoyable , I'm sure others will agree it is very horny watching a guy slide his cock into the missus watching her lips stretch around his girth and the look of pleasure on her face | |||
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"Right ok so I have never met a couple on or off here. What have people's first experiences been like? If you were the single how were the nerves etc and couples what did you make of it, was there any jealousy seeing your partner with someone else? if u think couples get jealous you might need to do some thinking about what u think swinging is. Why is every one of your replies on the forums a smart arse reply?" why do u get upset by women with brains and opinions...it wasnt as you define it a smart arse reply but an honest appraisal of something the OP really needs to think about if he wants to expolore the lifestyle... want to discuss your issues with women?  | |||
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"Right ok so I have never met a couple on or off here. What have people's first experiences been like? If you were the single how were the nerves etc and couples what did you make of it, was there any jealousy seeing your partner with someone else? if u think couples get jealous you might need to do some thinking about what u think swinging is. Why is every one of your replies on the forums a smart arse reply? *looks for the handshake symbol*"why because you think women should know ther place too  | |||
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"Right ok so I have never met a couple on or off here. What have people's first experiences been like? If you were the single how were the nerves etc and couples what did you make of it, was there any jealousy seeing your partner with someone else? if u think couples get jealous you might need to do some thinking about what u think swinging is. I understand swinging completely but I'm guessing there is a first time for a couple? I have never been with a couple and the females I have been with had jealous streaks. What about couples where 1 partner has experienced swinging before and the other is a swing virgin? Am I stupid for thinking that maybe not all couples were entirely comfortable there 1st time swinging? " your opening post suggested you were not talking about a couples first time, but your own...however ignoring your lack of clarity... our first time was fab, there was no jealousy, the fun and thrill of seeing your partner with another is either something you get or you dont...which is why i questioned whether you understood swinging... some people are simply not monogamous, we enjoy seeing the pleasure others can give our partner...there wasnt a oh i have to do this to please them...if there is you shouldn't be here... however i will step out and leave you to the manlove of other single men with chips on their shoulders, which is a pity because ppl who really want to learn are sexy and get meets. btw i didnt suggest u were stupid, i suggested u may not understand swinging, which is no crime...and if u had not got arsey i would have thought no worse of u for it...wanting to be informed is good, being asked to think and refusing not so good. | |||
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"There is no doubt that some couples get jealous Ive seen it with my own eyes and have heard many a horror story about it too,one the other day from someone I know So I believe that asking the question is very valid " i agree some do, but they really shouldnt be swinging imo | |||
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"There is no doubt that some couples get jealous Ive seen it with my own eyes and have heard many a horror story about it too,one the other day from someone I know So I believe that asking the question is very valid i agree some do, but they really shouldnt be swinging imo" No they should'nt but no-one knows just how they're going to react if they've just started out | |||
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"There is no doubt that some couples get jealous Ive seen it with my own eyes and have heard many a horror story about it too,one the other day from someone I know So I believe that asking the question is very valid i agree some do, but they really shouldnt be swinging imo No they should'nt but no-one knows just how they're going to react if they've just started out" if u mean other ppl dont, fair enough, but the couple should, in my experience when u run interventions, usually dragging the upset woman to the bathroom...you discover they hadnt really talked about swinging...even in some cases being taken to a club without him mentioning what it was... Simple advice for the OP ,meet experienced couples | |||
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"There is no doubt that some couples get jealous Ive seen it with my own eyes and have heard many a horror story about it too,one the other day from someone I know So I believe that asking the question is very valid " I have heard rumours about 3somes gone wrong Altho this isnt necessarily swinging surely similar attractions are there. As far as Im aware jealousy is human nature. Thanks for your reply | |||
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"There is no doubt that some couples get jealous Ive seen it with my own eyes and have heard many a horror story about it too,one the other day from someone I know So I believe that asking the question is very valid i agree some do, but they really shouldnt be swinging imo No they should'nt but no-one knows just how they're going to react if they've just started out" the last thing I want is a 20st weighht lifter deciding maybe he wasnt as sure about it as he thought, no help for me with my boxers around my ankles and his wife straddling me haha | |||
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"There is no doubt that some couples get jealous Ive seen it with my own eyes and have heard many a horror story about it too,one the other day from someone I know So I believe that asking the question is very valid I have heard rumours about 3somes gone wrong Altho this isnt necessarily swinging surely similar attractions are there. As far as Im aware jealousy is human nature. Thanks for your reply " jealousy isnt human nature at all...some of us dont have it | |||
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"There is no doubt that some couples get jealous Ive seen it with my own eyes and have heard many a horror story about it too,one the other day from someone I know So I believe that asking the question is very valid i agree some do, but they really shouldnt be swinging imo" bygones be bygones? Maybe I should have thought about the title abit more. Better titles and maybe less hostility in replies, deal?  | |||
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"There is no doubt that some couples get jealous Ive seen it with my own eyes and have heard many a horror story about it too,one the other day from someone I know So I believe that asking the question is very valid i agree some do, but they really shouldnt be swinging imo bygones be bygones? Maybe I should have thought about the title abit more. Better titles and maybe less hostility in replies, deal? "i seriously want hostile hun... kisses hugs and smushy stuff  | |||
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"There is no doubt that some couples get jealous Ive seen it with my own eyes and have heard many a horror story about it too,one the other day from someone I know So I believe that asking the question is very valid i agree some do, but they really shouldnt be swinging imo No they should'nt but no-one knows just how they're going to react if they've just started out the last thing I want is a 20st weighht lifter deciding maybe he wasnt as sure about it as he thought, no help for me with my boxers around my ankles and his wife straddling me haha "This is true haha But communiation is a wonderful thing, use it well and then you should have no problems,like someone said before have a meet socially or at least spend time socially so you can all see how you get one before you jump into the play scenario,its about all of you not just about the couple and not just about you,its a 3way thing and it can work beautifully | |||
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"There is no doubt that some couples get jealous Ive seen it with my own eyes and have heard many a horror story about it too,one the other day from someone I know So I believe that asking the question is very valid I have heard rumours about 3somes gone wrong Altho this isnt necessarily swinging surely similar attractions are there. As far as Im aware jealousy is human nature. Thanks for your reply jealousy isnt human nature at all...some of us dont have it" ohhh just after I wrote my last post.....jealousy is human natures maybe not the swinging side but jealousy as a whole is. Wether it be somebody better looking, more money, better car, more friends. My dog goes in a jealous sulk if she even gets a whiff of me being near another dog. | |||
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"There is no doubt that some couples get jealous Ive seen it with my own eyes and have heard many a horror story about it too,one the other day from someone I know So I believe that asking the question is very valid I have heard rumours about 3somes gone wrong Altho this isnt necessarily swinging surely similar attractions are there. As far as Im aware jealousy is human nature. Thanks for your reply jealousy isnt human nature at all...some of us dont have it ohhh just after I wrote my last post.....jealousy is human natures maybe not the swinging side but jealousy as a whole is. Wether it be somebody better looking, more money, better car, more friends. My dog goes in a jealous sulk if she even gets a whiff of me being near another dog. " if people are jealous its cos they percieve a lack in themselves...its why successful swinging couples tend to be so content
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"Two questions 1) Are you meeting socially for a drink first great ice breaker and great way to read body language and choose an escape if need be (it happens) 2)Are you just going to there place. If it is your first time then expecttions will be high relax and enjoy yourself and appreciate the experience interact with both male and female. I know its hard with your thoughts on the lady. Relax take your own condoms and enjoy." I haven't actually got this far Its just something I am intrested in but I can imagine me going into another couples house especially if I didn't really know them puts me on the back foot. Don't get me wrong Obviously it works extremely well for some experienced couples but i doubt it's always had 100% success rate | |||
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" My dog goes in a jealous sulk if she even gets a whiff of me being near another dog. " big tip dont enter it for bgt | |||
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"You are quite right to be wary - guess you wanna be aware of potential problems and what to expect ? An experienced couple is vital , as is an attraction as you will certainly be expected to perform , and although we have never experienced it , it would appear from others that is not uncommon for the inexperienced single guy to be unable to perform to an acceptable standard ! So , to sum up - be sure it's what you want and know in your heart you will be up for it - don't stress about it . Our experience tells us social time is not always the best bet either - too much familiarity can dampen the eroticism - we love the flirting between the single guy and Sabrina , but not necessarily long winded chat and then after establishing there is attraction , go for it ! "haha in other words be more worried about not pleasing the female. | |||
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" My dog goes in a jealous sulk if she even gets a whiff of me being near another dog. big tip dont enter it for bgt "haha theres more chance of her being a 101 Dalmatian (she isn't a Dalmatian) | |||
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"Two questions 1) Are you meeting socially for a drink first great ice breaker and great way to read body language and choose an escape if need be (it happens) 2)Are you just going to there place. If it is your first time then expecttions will be high relax and enjoy yourself and appreciate the experience interact with both male and female. I know its hard with your thoughts on the lady. Relax take your own condoms and enjoy. I haven't actually got this far Its just something I am intrested in but I can imagine me going into another couples house especially if I didn't really know them puts me on the back foot. Don't get me wrong Obviously it works extremely well for some experienced couples but i doubt it's always had 100% success rate " Most of the couples on here are very genuine and very much in love and they get a total buzz out of swinging and sharing each other its amazing to see the electric between them and how arouse bot parties are and the joy of a male to see his partner extremely satisfied it only enhances what they already have. If they did'nt enjoy it then they would'nt be here. The only time I have seen arguments is when alcohol is involved or when ones a little worse for ware and its not a pretty look. | |||
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"Two questions 1) Are you meeting socially for a drink first great ice breaker and great way to read body language and choose an escape if need be (it happens) 2)Are you just going to there place. If it is your first time then expecttions will be high relax and enjoy yourself and appreciate the experience interact with both male and female. I know its hard with your thoughts on the lady. Relax take your own condoms and enjoy. I haven't actually got this far Its just something I am intrested in but I can imagine me going into another couples house especially if I didn't really know them puts me on the back foot. Don't get me wrong Obviously it works extremely well for some experienced couples but i doubt it's always had 100% success rate Most of the couples on here are very genuine and very much in love and they get a total buzz out of swinging and sharing each other its amazing to see the electric between them and how arouse bot parties are and the joy of a male to see his partner extremely satisfied it only enhances what they already have. If they did'nt enjoy it then they would'nt be here. The only time I have seen arguments is when alcohol is involved or when ones a little worse for ware and its not a pretty look." well that's that I'll make sure the couple I eventually meet don't have a drink so theres no trouble | |||
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"Not blowing my own trumpet but personality wise I don't think/hope it would let me down and I think that's half the battle fought if we all get along. Just little petty things in the back of my mind which will probably be irrelevant at the time. Time too chat too some couples "Don't over think it just go for it honey. | |||
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"Right ok so I have never met a couple on or off here. What have people's first experiences been like? If you were the single how were the nerves etc and couples what did you make of it, was there any jealousy seeing your partner with someone else? if u think couples get jealous you might need to do some thinking about what u think swinging is." some do, ive met couples where one of them has kicked off because they cant handle it most couple i have met have been ok but i have had some bad experiences with jealous couple | |||
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"Right ok so I have never met a couple on or off here. What have people's first experiences been like? If you were the single how were the nerves etc and couples what did you make of it, was there any jealousy seeing your partner with someone else? if u think couples get jealous you might need to do some thinking about what u think swinging is. some do, ive met couples where one of them has kicked off because they cant handle it most couple i have met have been ok but i have had some bad experiences with jealous couple "maybe us singles should just stick together  especially with profile pics like yours. Pass me the glue  | |||
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