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By *irewolff OP   Man
over a year ago

Dublin

When you see the words 'good looking couple' to describe themselves or if a guy or gal says this on their profile, what do you think??

Does this bother you or not? It bothers me. Each to their own & all that but this statement gets an eye roll from me & I have left the building.

We have been rejected for not being good looking enough. Their loss tbh

MsD x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do think that beauty is subjective. That said I wouldn't reply to anyone that puts that in their profile, after all nobody likes rejection....

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By *issyfaggotfayeTV/TS
over a year ago

Bolton

I don't even worry about it, the World is big enough to be able to avoid such stuff. You are one fit girl, may I say x chin up, chest out, walk tall xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I suppose it's betterthan writing Ugly Bastard

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By *oppet22TV/TS
over a year ago

huddersfield

Don't know why op I'd class you as hot know what you mean though people are what they are some are hot to some but not all am same as you I am who I am take me or leave me

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By *uicy jonesMan
over a year ago

near a big hill in s/ shropshire NOT in

Sadly there's plenty of those type of people on here !!! Self centred look at me types!!!!and as you say it is their loss because usually he is one type of the ones that don't get that nice meets and only one is a type of one of my meets

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By *ite -meWoman
over a year ago

my house

Totally agree.... all these.... Good looking hung fit guy..... Hot sexy lady.... etc...... just because they think they are hot or fit or good looking doesn't mean everyone else thinks they are.... Narcissistic springs to mind....

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By *irewolff OP   Man
over a year ago

Dublin


"I don't even worry about it, the World is big enough to be able to avoid such stuff. You are one fit girl, may I say x chin up, chest out, walk tall xxx"

It doesnt bother me in the slightest! Been through too much to give a toss what people like that think. I have been called a stunner but I dont put that on our profile!

xx

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By *eekfreek00Man
over a year ago

Dublin

Beauty is in the eye of the beer holder...ahem...I mean beholder

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By *nlyIfItsWorthItMan
over a year ago

Newcastle

I think 'not bad looking' is my preference. Typically British.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When you see the words 'good looking couple' to describe themselves or if a guy or gal says this on their profile, what do you think??

Does this bother you or not? It bothers me. Each to their own & all that but this statement gets an eye roll from me & I have left the building.

We have been rejected for not being good looking enough. Their loss tbh

MsD x"

Isn’t saying ‘their loss’ just as bad as profiles saying ‘good looking ‘?

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By *evaquitCouple
over a year ago

Catthorpe

I (he) do find myself saying 'er, I'll be the judge of that, thanks', so I do get where you're coming from, op. It's no biggie really as face pics tell you whether you find someone attractive initially, no matter the amount of self flattery is going to make someone else see something different.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

I like confidence and if people think they're good looking I can't see a problem with that.

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By *irewolff OP   Man
over a year ago

Dublin


"When you see the words 'good looking couple' to describe themselves or if a guy or gal says this on their profile, what do you think??

Does this bother you or not? It bothers me. Each to their own & all that but this statement gets an eye roll from me & I have left the building.

We have been rejected for not being good looking enough. Their loss tbh

MsD x

Isn’t saying ‘their loss’ just as bad as profiles saying ‘good looking ‘? "

I dont feel that they are the same, no. Its their loss as in attraction is not only skin deep. Chat, chemistry is important and they rule out people based purely on looks alone. Sure looks are important initially but there is more to it than that. This is why we meet socially first. We and I in particular dont like to make up our minds until we meet in person.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"When you see the words 'good looking couple' to describe themselves or if a guy or gal says this on their profile, what do you think??

Does this bother you or not? It bothers me. Each to their own & all that but this statement gets an eye roll from me & I have left the building.

We have been rejected for not being good looking enough. Their loss tbh

MsD x

Isn’t saying ‘their loss’ just as bad as profiles saying ‘good looking ‘?

I dont feel that they are the same, no. Its their loss as in attraction is not only skin deep. Chat, chemistry is important and they rule out people based purely on looks alone. Sure looks are important initially but there is more to it than that. This is why we meet socially first. We and I in particular dont like to make up our minds until we meet in person. "

we rule out people based on looks. I'm not here to have sex with someone I don't find attractive. I know a lot of people go on personality alone or at least say they do. However some of us go for looks when it comes to casual sex and that doesn't make us wrong, just different to you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When you see the words 'good looking couple' to describe themselves or if a guy or gal says this on their profile, what do you think??

Does this bother you or not? It bothers me. Each to their own & all that but this statement gets an eye roll from me & I have left the building.

We have been rejected for not being good looking enough. Their loss tbh

MsD x

Isn’t saying ‘their loss’ just as bad as profiles saying ‘good looking ‘?

I dont feel that they are the same, no. Its their loss as in attraction is not only skin deep. Chat, chemistry is important and they rule out people based purely on looks alone. Sure looks are important initially but there is more to it than that. This is why we meet socially first. We and I in particular dont like to make up our minds until we meet in person. "

I disagree, why is it a persons ‘loss’ if they don’t find you attractive? They might prioritise looks over personality

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By *irewolff OP   Man
over a year ago

Dublin


"When you see the words 'good looking couple' to describe themselves or if a guy or gal says this on their profile, what do you think??

Does this bother you or not? It bothers me. Each to their own & all that but this statement gets an eye roll from me & I have left the building.

We have been rejected for not being good looking enough. Their loss tbh

MsD x

Isn’t saying ‘their loss’ just as bad as profiles saying ‘good looking ‘?

I dont feel that they are the same, no. Its their loss as in attraction is not only skin deep. Chat, chemistry is important and they rule out people based purely on looks alone. Sure looks are important initially but there is more to it than that. This is why we meet socially first. We and I in particular dont like to make up our minds until we meet in person.

we rule out people based on looks. I'm not here to have sex with someone I don't find attractive. I know a lot of people go on personality alone or at least say they do. However some of us go for looks when it comes to casual sex and that doesn't make us wrong, just different to you"

I didnt say it was wrong to say. But I dont feel its necessary to say on a profile. Having the confidence to believe you are good looking is a postive thing but I personaly feel its not something you need to state. Thats all. It puts me off someone in a heartbeat.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When you see the words 'good looking couple' to describe themselves or if a guy or gal says this on their profile, what do you think??

Does this bother you or not? It bothers me. Each to their own & all that but this statement gets an eye roll from me & I have left the building.

We have been rejected for not being good looking enough. Their loss tbh

MsD x

Isn’t saying ‘their loss’ just as bad as profiles saying ‘good looking ‘?

I dont feel that they are the same, no. Its their loss as in attraction is not only skin deep. Chat, chemistry is important and they rule out people based purely on looks alone. Sure looks are important initially but there is more to it than that. This is why we meet socially first. We and I in particular dont like to make up our minds until we meet in person.

we rule out people based on looks. I'm not here to have sex with someone I don't find attractive. I know a lot of people go on personality alone or at least say they do. However some of us go for looks when it comes to casual sex and that doesn't make us wrong, just different to you

I didnt say it was wrong to say. But I dont feel its necessary to say on a profile. Having the confidence to believe you are good looking is a postive thing but I personaly feel its not something you need to state. Thats all. It puts me off someone in a heartbeat. "

Your loss

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By *irewolff OP   Man
over a year ago

Dublin


"When you see the words 'good looking couple' to describe themselves or if a guy or gal says this on their profile, what do you think??

Does this bother you or not? It bothers me. Each to their own & all that but this statement gets an eye roll from me & I have left the building.

We have been rejected for not being good looking enough. Their loss tbh

MsD x

Isn’t saying ‘their loss’ just as bad as profiles saying ‘good looking ‘?

I dont feel that they are the same, no. Its their loss as in attraction is not only skin deep. Chat, chemistry is important and they rule out people based purely on looks alone. Sure looks are important initially but there is more to it than that. This is why we meet socially first. We and I in particular dont like to make up our minds until we meet in person.

I disagree, why is it a persons ‘loss’ if they don’t find you attractive? They might prioritise looks over personality "

And having that preference for decision making is fair enough. Their choice. Me personally, I wait until I meet face to face before I fully decide. And we are so bloody awesome in person, its a shame not to even try!!!!

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By *irewolff OP   Man
over a year ago

Dublin


"When you see the words 'good looking couple' to describe themselves or if a guy or gal says this on their profile, what do you think??

Does this bother you or not? It bothers me. Each to their own & all that but this statement gets an eye roll from me & I have left the building.

We have been rejected for not being good looking enough. Their loss tbh

MsD x

Isn’t saying ‘their loss’ just as bad as profiles saying ‘good looking ‘?

I dont feel that they are the same, no. Its their loss as in attraction is not only skin deep. Chat, chemistry is important and they rule out people based purely on looks alone. Sure looks are important initially but there is more to it than that. This is why we meet socially first. We and I in particular dont like to make up our minds until we meet in person.

we rule out people based on looks. I'm not here to have sex with someone I don't find attractive. I know a lot of people go on personality alone or at least say they do. However some of us go for looks when it comes to casual sex and that doesn't make us wrong, just different to you

I didnt say it was wrong to say. But I dont feel its necessary to say on a profile. Having the confidence to believe you are good looking is a postive thing but I personaly feel its not something you need to state. Thats all. It puts me off someone in a heartbeat.

Your loss "

Meh....not upset!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When you see the words 'good looking couple' to describe themselves or if a guy or gal says this on their profile, what do you think??

Does this bother you or not? It bothers me. Each to their own & all that but this statement gets an eye roll from me & I have left the building.

We have been rejected for not being good looking enough. Their loss tbh

MsD x

Isn’t saying ‘their loss’ just as bad as profiles saying ‘good looking ‘?

I dont feel that they are the same, no. Its their loss as in attraction is not only skin deep. Chat, chemistry is important and they rule out people based purely on looks alone. Sure looks are important initially but there is more to it than that. This is why we meet socially first. We and I in particular dont like to make up our minds until we meet in person.

I disagree, why is it a persons ‘loss’ if they don’t find you attractive? They might prioritise looks over personality "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When you see the words 'good looking couple' to describe themselves or if a guy or gal says this on their profile, what do you think??

Does this bother you or not? It bothers me. Each to their own & all that but this statement gets an eye roll from me & I have left the building.

We have been rejected for not being good looking enough. Their loss tbh

MsD x

Isn’t saying ‘their loss’ just as bad as profiles saying ‘good looking ‘?

I dont feel that they are the same, no. Its their loss as in attraction is not only skin deep. Chat, chemistry is important and they rule out people based purely on looks alone. Sure looks are important initially but there is more to it than that. This is why we meet socially first. We and I in particular dont like to make up our minds until we meet in person.

we rule out people based on looks. I'm not here to have sex with someone I don't find attractive. I know a lot of people go on personality alone or at least say they do. However some of us go for looks when it comes to casual sex and that doesn't make us wrong, just different to you

I didnt say it was wrong to say. But I dont feel its necessary to say on a profile. Having the confidence to believe you are good looking is a postive thing but I personaly feel its not something you need to state. Thats all. It puts me off someone in a heartbeat.

Your loss

Meh....not upset! "

Really? Yet you went to the trouble of starting a thread about it? Upset? Probably not , but it is obviously bothering you

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By *mberWoman
over a year ago

Preston

I don't like it when people tell me they're good looking (it's subjective) and wouldn't respond to someone who was looking for someone good looking (again subjective)

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By *irewolff OP   Man
over a year ago

Dublin


"When you see the words 'good looking couple' to describe themselves or if a guy or gal says this on their profile, what do you think??

Does this bother you or not? It bothers me. Each to their own & all that but this statement gets an eye roll from me & I have left the building.

We have been rejected for not being good looking enough. Their loss tbh

MsD x

Isn’t saying ‘their loss’ just as bad as profiles saying ‘good looking ‘?

I dont feel that they are the same, no. Its their loss as in attraction is not only skin deep. Chat, chemistry is important and they rule out people based purely on looks alone. Sure looks are important initially but there is more to it than that. This is why we meet socially first. We and I in particular dont like to make up our minds until we meet in person.

we rule out people based on looks. I'm not here to have sex with someone I don't find attractive. I know a lot of people go on personality alone or at least say they do. However some of us go for looks when it comes to casual sex and that doesn't make us wrong, just different to you

I didnt say it was wrong to say. But I dont feel its necessary to say on a profile. Having the confidence to believe you are good looking is a postive thing but I personaly feel its not something you need to state. Thats all. It puts me off someone in a heartbeat.

Your loss

Meh....not upset!

Really? Yet you went to the trouble of starting a thread about it? Upset? Probably not , but it is obviously bothering you "

I wanted to see how other people felt about seeing this comment. Trust me....I am very comfortable in my own skin & I dont take rejection to heart. Takes all sorts of preferences etc to make the world tick! Be a boring place if we all liked the same things.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When you see the words 'good looking couple' to describe themselves or if a guy or gal says this on their profile, what do you think??

Does this bother you or not? It bothers me. Each to their own & all that but this statement gets an eye roll from me & I have left the building.

We have been rejected for not being good looking enough. Their loss tbh

MsD x

Isn’t saying ‘their loss’ just as bad as profiles saying ‘good looking ‘?

I dont feel that they are the same, no. Its their loss as in attraction is not only skin deep. Chat, chemistry is important and they rule out people based purely on looks alone. Sure looks are important initially but there is more to it than that. This is why we meet socially first. We and I in particular dont like to make up our minds until we meet in person.

we rule out people based on looks. I'm not here to have sex with someone I don't find attractive. I know a lot of people go on personality alone or at least say they do. However some of us go for looks when it comes to casual sex and that doesn't make us wrong, just different to you

I didnt say it was wrong to say. But I dont feel its necessary to say on a profile. Having the confidence to believe you are good looking is a postive thing but I personaly feel its not something you need to state. Thats all. It puts me off someone in a heartbeat.

Your loss

Meh....not upset!

Really? Yet you went to the trouble of starting a thread about it? Upset? Probably not , but it is obviously bothering you

I wanted to see how other people felt about seeing this comment. Trust me....I am very comfortable in my own skin & I dont take rejection to heart. Takes all sorts of preferences etc to make the world tick! Be a boring place if we all liked the same things. "

I agree, different strokes for different folks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's a bit unfair to suggest folks who describe themselves as good looking are up their own arse. Fair enough it they aren't for you but as you correctly stated each to their own.

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By *irewolff OP   Man
over a year ago

Dublin


"It's a bit unfair to suggest folks who describe themselves as good looking are up their own arse. Fair enough it they aren't for you but as you correctly stated each to their own."

Thats why I inserted question marks in the title. I am on the fence if they are or not. Not gonna lose sleep over it though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When you see the words 'good looking couple' to describe themselves or if a guy or gal says this on their profile, what do you think??

Does this bother you or not? It bothers me. Each to their own & all that but this statement gets an eye roll from me & I have left the building.

We have been rejected for not being good looking enough. Their loss tbh

MsD x"
you can't appeal to everyone and everyone can't appeal to you, if the profile write up is overly pretentious then that can be off putting but the ones that put me off are overly negative eg if you do this this and this you're blocked, no pics you're blocked, if you haven't read my profile you're yes you guessed it blocked.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When you see the words 'good looking couple' to describe themselves or if a guy or gal says this on their profile, what do you think??

Does this bother you or not? It bothers me. Each to their own & all that but this statement gets an eye roll from me & I have left the building.

We have been rejected for not being good looking enough. Their loss tbh

MsD xyou can't appeal to everyone and everyone can't appeal to you, if the profile write up is overly pretentious then that can be off putting but the ones that put me off are overly negative eg if you do this this and this you're blocked, no pics you're blocked, if you haven't read my profile you're yes you guessed it blocked. "

Isn’t it fine for someone to say think and write they are good looking ? Isn’t that just someone having confidence in their appearance ? I’d rather someone say that then be all upset about thinking they are ugly ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's a bit unfair to suggest folks who describe themselves as good looking are up their own arse. Fair enough it they aren't for you but as you correctly stated each to their own."

1000% agreeeeeee xxx

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By *inkycreamCouple
over a year ago

manchester

Don’t put a lot of emphasis on looks, if you can challenge our minds much better, for us.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No it doesn’t bother me.

I’d admire their confidence and ability to love the way they look.

I consider myself attractive, that doesn’t mean I’m up my own arse. Strange view!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When you see the words 'good looking couple' to describe themselves or if a guy or gal says this on their profile, what do you think??

Does this bother you or not? It bothers me. Each to their own & all that but this statement gets an eye roll from me & I have left the building.

We have been rejected for not being good looking enough. Their loss tbh

MsD x"

I think fair play to them for feeling confidence about their appearance

I don’t know why you are even wasting time worrying about it ( especially at this present time!). if you’re that worried about not being attractive enough reinvent yourself change your hair and make up, personally I think it’s a confidence issue here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes I agree that it puts me off messaging someone that says good looking.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When you see the words 'good looking couple' to describe themselves or if a guy or gal says this on their profile, what do you think??

Does this bother you or not? It bothers me. Each to their own & all that but this statement gets an eye roll from me & I have left the building.

We have been rejected for not being good looking enough. Their loss tbh

MsD x

I think fair play to them for feeling confidence about their appearance

I don’t know why you are even wasting time worrying about it ( especially at this present time!). if you’re that worried about not being attractive enough reinvent yourself change your hair and make up, personally I think it’s a confidence issue here. "

LOOOOOOOOOL CHANGE YOUR HAIR AND MAKE UP OMG LOL

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No it doesn’t bother me.

I’d admire their confidence and ability to love the way they look.

I consider myself attractive, that doesn’t mean I’m up my own arse. Strange view!"

Exactly my thoughts! As the saying goes if you can’t love yourself and all that. Besides confidence is an attractive quality and how you carry yourself x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When you see the words 'good looking couple' to describe themselves or if a guy or gal says this on their profile, what do you think??

Does this bother you or not? It bothers me. Each to their own & all that but this statement gets an eye roll from me & I have left the building.

We have been rejected for not being good looking enough. Their loss tbh

MsD x

I think fair play to them for feeling confidence about their appearance

I don’t know why you are even wasting time worrying about it ( especially at this present time!). if you’re that worried about not being attractive enough reinvent yourself change your hair and make up, personally I think it’s a confidence issue here.

LOOOOOOOOOL CHANGE YOUR HAIR AND MAKE UP OMG LOL "

what’s your problem ?!?! I was merely suggesting things to improve the OP’s confidence if she’s that worried about what she looks like

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Beauty is inner deep xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When you see the words 'good looking couple' to describe themselves or if a guy or gal says this on their profile, what do you think??

Does this bother you or not? It bothers me. Each to their own & all that but this statement gets an eye roll from me & I have left the building.

We have been rejected for not being good looking enough. Their loss tbh

MsD x

I think fair play to them for feeling confidence about their appearance

I don’t know why you are even wasting time worrying about it ( especially at this present time!). if you’re that worried about not being attractive enough reinvent yourself change your hair and make up, personally I think it’s a confidence issue here.

LOOOOOOOOOL CHANGE YOUR HAIR AND MAKE UP OMG LOL

what’s your problem ?!?! I was merely suggesting things to improve the OP’s confidence if she’s that worried about what she looks like

What’s my problem ? Lol your trying to help the confidence ? By telling her to change her make up ? I. A open forum !! Ok if u think that helps her confidence then I apologise "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When you see the words 'good looking couple' to describe themselves or if a guy or gal says this on their profile, what do you think??

Does this bother you or not? It bothers me. Each to their own & all that but this statement gets an eye roll from me & I have left the building.

We have been rejected for not being good looking enough. Their loss tbh

MsD xyou can't appeal to everyone and everyone can't appeal to you, if the profile write up is overly pretentious then that can be off putting but the ones that put me off are overly negative eg if you do this this and this you're blocked, no pics you're blocked, if you haven't read my profile you're yes you guessed it blocked.

Isn’t it fine for someone to say think and write they are good looking ? Isn’t that just someone having confidence in their appearance ? I’d rather someone say that then be all upset about thinking they are ugly ? "
i agree if you think you're good looking you are to you but not always to others, confidence is sexy but over confidence is arrogant

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When you see the words 'good looking couple' to describe themselves or if a guy or gal says this on their profile, what do you think??

Does this bother you or not? It bothers me. Each to their own & all that but this statement gets an eye roll from me & I have left the building.

We have been rejected for not being good looking enough. Their loss tbh

MsD x

I think fair play to them for feeling confidence about their appearance

I don’t know why you are even wasting time worrying about it ( especially at this present time!). if you’re that worried about not being attractive enough reinvent yourself change your hair and make up, personally I think it’s a confidence issue here.

LOOOOOOOOOL CHANGE YOUR HAIR AND MAKE UP OMG LOL

what’s your problem ?!?! I was merely suggesting things to improve the OP’s confidence if she’s that worried about what she looks like

What’s my problem ? Lol your trying to help the old confidence ? By telling her to change her make up ? I. A open forum !! Ok if u think that helps her confidence then I apologise "

you’re missing my point!!! if you’re not happy with the way you look and feel and unattractive make an effort to change it to feel better about yourself. stop trying to make something out of nothing you dick !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No it doesn’t bother me.

I’d admire their confidence and ability to love the way they look.

I consider myself attractive, that doesn’t mean I’m up my own arse. Strange view!

Exactly my thoughts! As the saying goes if you can’t love yourself and all that. Besides confidence is an attractive quality and how you carry yourself x"

Absolutely agree.

In my experience those confident within themselves tend to be more approachable.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When you see the words 'good looking couple' to describe themselves or if a guy or gal says this on their profile, what do you think??

Does this bother you or not? It bothers me. Each to their own & all that but this statement gets an eye roll from me & I have left the building.

We have been rejected for not being good looking enough. Their loss tbh

MsD x

I think fair play to them for feeling confidence about their appearance

I don’t know why you are even wasting time worrying about it ( especially at this present time!). if you’re that worried about not being attractive enough reinvent yourself change your hair and make up, personally I think it’s a confidence issue here.

LOOOOOOOOOL CHANGE YOUR HAIR AND MAKE UP OMG LOL

what’s your problem ?!?! I was merely suggesting things to improve the OP’s confidence if she’s that worried about what she looks like

What’s my problem ? Lol your trying to help the old confidence ? By telling her to change her make up ? I. A open forum !! Ok if u think that helps her confidence then I apologise

you’re missing my point!!! if you’re not happy with the way you look and feel and unattractive make an effort to change it to feel better about yourself. stop trying to make something out of nothing you dick !

I’m not missing any point and to encourage someone’s confidence you need to realise how every comment can be perceived? By telling someone openly to change their make up ? Can’t it be perceived both ways ? But instead of having a adult debate u have to call someone a dick ? Classy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you’re what would generally seen as attractive, there’s no harm in being aware of that. And even if you didn’t find them attractive, let people have things I say.

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By *elly72Woman
over a year ago

glasgow

Nothing wrong with liking who you are it depends what else is in the profile I wouldn’t judge someone on two words, just because they knocked you back it’s a bit unnecessary

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When you see the words 'good looking couple' to describe themselves or if a guy or gal says this on their profile, what do you think??

Does this bother you or not? It bothers me. Each to their own & all that but this statement gets an eye roll from me & I have left the building.

We have been rejected for not being good looking enough. Their loss tbh

MsD x

I think fair play to them for feeling confidence about their appearance

I don’t know why you are even wasting time worrying about it ( especially at this present time!). if you’re that worried about not being attractive enough reinvent yourself change your hair and make up, personally I think it’s a confidence issue here.

LOOOOOOOOOL CHANGE YOUR HAIR AND MAKE UP OMG LOL

what’s your problem ?!?! I was merely suggesting things to improve the OP’s confidence if she’s that worried about what she looks like

What’s my problem ? Lol your trying to help the old confidence ? By telling her to change her make up ? I. A open forum !! Ok if u think that helps her confidence then I apologise

you’re missing my point!!! if you’re not happy with the way you look and feel and unattractive make an effort to change it to feel better about yourself. stop trying to make something out of nothing you dick !

I’m not missing any point and to encourage someone’s confidence you need to realise how every comment can be perceived? By telling someone openly to change their make up ? Can’t it be perceived both ways ? But instead of having a adult debate u have to call someone a dick ? Classy

"

you know exactly what point I was trying to make, like I say stop trying to make something out of nothing, and yes you are being a dick and showing yourself up

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By *omtom7Man
over a year ago

Tralee

Thought this was about people putting things up their ass

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When you see the words 'good looking couple' to describe themselves or if a guy or gal says this on their profile, what do you think??

Does this bother you or not? It bothers me. Each to their own & all that but this statement gets an eye roll from me & I have left the building.

We have been rejected for not being good looking enough. Their loss tbh

MsD x

I think fair play to them for feeling confidence about their appearance

I don’t know why you are even wasting time worrying about it ( especially at this present time!). if you’re that worried about not being attractive enough reinvent yourself change your hair and make up, personally I think it’s a confidence issue here.

LOOOOOOOOOL CHANGE YOUR HAIR AND MAKE UP OMG LOL

what’s your problem ?!?! I was merely suggesting things to improve the OP’s confidence if she’s that worried about what she looks like

What’s my problem ? Lol your trying to help the old confidence ? By telling her to change her make up ? I. A open forum !! Ok if u think that helps her confidence then I apologise

you’re missing my point!!! if you’re not happy with the way you look and feel and unattractive make an effort to change it to feel better about yourself. stop trying to make something out of nothing you dick !

I’m not missing any point and to encourage someone’s confidence you need to realise how every comment can be perceived? By telling someone openly to change their make up ? Can’t it be perceived both ways ? But instead of having a adult debate u have to call someone a dick ? Classy

you know exactly what point I was trying to make, like I say stop trying to make something out of nothing, and yes you are being a dick and showing yourself up "

Ok I’m showing myself up ? Great u keep showing up your profile ow sorry it’s blank ?

Hope u one day manage to put a pic up take care x

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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago

somewhere


"When you see the words 'good looking couple' to describe themselves or if a guy or gal says this on their profile, what do you think??

Does this bother you or not? It bothers me. Each to their own & all that but this statement gets an eye roll from me & I have left the building.

We have been rejected for not being good looking enough. Their loss tbh

MsD x"

Jesus cant believe some one could say that to you especially since you're a couple.

Having said that I'd nearly know what Irish couples would say that and think its perfectly fine to do it as well

I actually blocked some couples because I was fed up with their look at me updated profile pic being loaded every 2 hours and asking for fabs also

Your photos look great so I wouldn't worry about the shallow people on here

Best of luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thought this was about people putting things up their ass "

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By *ullpa72Man
over a year ago

Isle of Arran

Op I can honestly say that I take All profiles with a pinch of salts !it's a rare breed that can honestly discribe themselves .Also it's so subjective we are all different and that's were the fun starts . personally I chat with folk see if we can laugh together then take it from there .body shape just don't bother me ,so long as it's fun for all concerned .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well it’s been a pleasure but my bed is calling goodnight xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When you see the words 'good looking couple' to describe themselves or if a guy or gal says this on their profile, what do you think??

Does this bother you or not? It bothers me. Each to their own & all that but this statement gets an eye roll from me & I have left the building.

We have been rejected for not being good looking enough. Their loss tbh

MsD x

I think fair play to them for feeling confidence about their appearance

I don’t know why you are even wasting time worrying about it ( especially at this present time!). if you’re that worried about not being attractive enough reinvent yourself change your hair and make up, personally I think it’s a confidence issue here.

LOOOOOOOOOL CHANGE YOUR HAIR AND MAKE UP OMG LOL

what’s your problem ?!?! I was merely suggesting things to improve the OP’s confidence if she’s that worried about what she looks like

What’s my problem ? Lol your trying to help the old confidence ? By telling her to change her make up ? I. A open forum !! Ok if u think that helps her confidence then I apologise

you’re missing my point!!! if you’re not happy with the way you look and feel and unattractive make an effort to change it to feel better about yourself. stop trying to make something out of nothing you dick !

I’m not missing any point and to encourage someone’s confidence you need to realise how every comment can be perceived? By telling someone openly to change their make up ? Can’t it be perceived both ways ? But instead of having a adult debate u have to call someone a dick ? Classy

you know exactly what point I was trying to make, like I say stop trying to make something out of nothing, and yes you are being a dick and showing yourself up

Ok I’m showing myself up ? Great u keep showing up your profile ow sorry it’s blank ?

Hope u one day manage to put a pic up take care x"

is that the best you can do lol

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By *oudLoutishLoverWoman
over a year ago

Colchester

People who think they’re something special are not my preferred company. Nothing is uglier than having to assert that you think you’re better than other people.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"People who think they’re something special are not my preferred company. Nothing is uglier than having to assert that you think you’re better than other people."
but you're loud and loutish does the same apply

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By *UNANDNICEMan
over a year ago

Basildon

It's a bit of a put off because they are looking for a gym fit guy with a big c--k with tattoos..well that's what I think anyway

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By *ndrew CareyMan
over a year ago

Peterborough, Cambridgeshire & Lincolnshire


"When you see the words 'good looking couple' to describe themselves or if a guy or gal says this on their profile, what do you think??

Does this bother you or not? It bothers me. Each to their own & all that but this statement gets an eye roll from me & I have left the building.

We have been rejected for not being good looking enough. Their loss tbh

MsD x"

It makes me chuckle as attraction is subjective.

Especially when you see some of the people making the requests.

I just smile and move on.

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By *he riverdeep69Couple
over a year ago

North west ish

Doesn't put us off at all. The problem with fab is being confident and not having self estem issues is often seen as 'being up their own arse'. Why tho? As long as they are not OTT and arrogent we would rather have someone who doesn't have confidence issues.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When you see the words 'good looking couple' to describe themselves or if a guy or gal says this on their profile, what do you think??

Does this bother you or not? It bothers me. Each to their own & all that but this statement gets an eye roll from me & I have left the building.

We have been rejected for not being good looking enough. Their loss tbh

MsD x

Isn’t saying ‘their loss’ just as bad as profiles saying ‘good looking ‘?

I dont feel that they are the same, no. Its their loss as in attraction is not only skin deep. Chat, chemistry is important and they rule out people based purely on looks alone. Sure looks are important initially but there is more to it than that. This is why we meet socially first. We and I in particular dont like to make up our minds until we meet in person.

I disagree, why is it a persons ‘loss’ if they don’t find you attractive? They might prioritise looks over personality "

^ this

I fail to see how it's someone 'loss' to not have sex with a couple they aren't attracted to.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Seems kinda jealous haha,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's a bit of a put off because they are looking for a gym fit guy with a big c--k with tattoos..well that's what I think anyway "

Hello ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

But of a tricky one as it's a site to sell yourself.If you was selling your car you wouldn't start by saying body work is shabby hard to start smokes a bit .....but once running it gets you from A to B.

I just think if they put good looking they are being honest,if they put look like a bag of spanners they are not going to attract what they are looking for

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We are just judging them by their profile . Each to their own.

Getting rejected shouldn't be making you less confident .

I have seen people with glossy pics, having verifications of Elite fuck parties rejecting us and we give a fuck to them and move on.

At the end of the day people will meet if their preferences match anyway

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve got something a little similar on my profile and I’m definitely not up my own arse.

Although, it does have a little disclaimer next to it.

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By *rindiMan
over a year ago

chester

Always subjective, everyone finds someone attractive, that to others are just plain ugly.

Accept that there are all kinds on here, some very up themselves, some less so.

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By *irewolff OP   Man
over a year ago

Dublin

Interesting to read all the opinions. Thanks xx

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By *rGenuineMan
over a year ago

Purley

The site is reflective of real life so each to their own. Worse on here is those who really seem to rate themselves but actually you wouldn’t touch with a barge pole.

But each to their own. One persons sexy god is another’s Frankenstein.

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By *rindiMan
over a year ago

chester


"Interesting to read all the opinions. Thanks xx"

But you two are kinda hot, just my opinion ????

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By *erdyWoman
over a year ago

wiltshire


"Beauty is in the eye of the beer holder...ahem...I mean beholder "

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By *jonesMan
over a year ago

Plymouth

I find my eyes role when people say they are sapiosexial..and are looking for intelligent people...

Maybe I haven't had enough messages off idiots ..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why do people care what random strangers use to describe themselves.

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By *jonesMan
over a year ago

Plymouth


"Why do people care what random strangers use to describe themselves.

"

Why would anyone care how random strangers behave in any context.....extrapolating ...a lot ...because it reflects on us as a society , a group, how we interact and portray ourselves and communicate...

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By *entakuruMan
over a year ago

Exeter

I've never really given that much thought to a couple describing themselves as 'good-looking' as you would kind-of expect that in a relationship, each partner would probably be telling the other one that they're good-looking, even if they have a face like a bulldog chewing a hornet.

It's a bit different from describing onesself as 'good-looking', which under normal circumstances could be considered pretty arrogant - but at the same time, on a site where it's not that normal for people to use public face pics on their profile, is it big-headed to say that your facial features conform with society's expectations? Again, bit different from saying "I'm a god amongst men" or whatever.

I dunno, maybe best to not let yourself get annoyed over this kind of thing. 80% of profiles on this site are crap in some way or other.

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham


"I like confidence and if people think they're good looking I can't see a problem with that.

"

I’m fine with people describing themselves as hot, sexy etc but saying you are good looking is shallow and bordering arrogant , not confident at all , often the opposite

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By *av501TV/TS
over a year ago

Mancetter?


"When you see the words 'good looking couple' to describe themselves or if a guy or gal says this on their profile, what do you think??

Does this bother you or not? It bothers me. Each to their own & all that but this statement gets an eye roll from me & I have left the building.

We have been rejected for not being good looking enough. Their loss tbh

MsD x"

Cant message you privately must be on your " names not on the list your not coming in" list ........however hurt and rejection put aside ..... looking at your pics whoever rejected you wants thrashing with their white stick and feeding to the guide dogs.

Beauty is only skin deep? However there are some people on here who are definitely inside out

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By *ndy64hMan
over a year ago

Plymouth

My mistake, I came into this forum expecting to see something about men sticking their own cock up their arses.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I ignore such comments and make my own judgement.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I like confidence and if people think they're good looking I can't see a problem with that.

I’m fine with people describing themselves as hot, sexy etc but saying you are good looking is shallow and bordering arrogant , not confident at all , often the opposite "

I disagree.

I don’t think it’s arrogant to consider yourself good looking, to think you’re better looking than a majority of people, or that you’re above others because of your looks is arrogant in my opinion.

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