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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hi folks, can someone take a look at my profile and let me know why i seem to attract just guys n tv/ts!!

I have tried everything but keep getting msgs asking if im into guys!!

Its starting to put me off the site now as when i open my mail there is a one eyed snake staring at me!! Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why don't you just the message filters so they can't message you? Lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

What msg filters?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Message filters are great! The odd one gets through, depending on how they've set-up their profile, but they will protect you!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

left hand side....message filters.....click as required

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"left hand side....message filters.....click as required"

From the "My Account" link

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Message filters are great! The odd one gets through, depending on how they've set-up their profile, but they will protect you!!"

how do i go about doing that? Is it in my profile box?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Click on read messages and near the top right it will mention message filters you can block single guys etc

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"left hand side....message filters.....click as required

From the "My Account" link"

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Found it!

Cheers for that folks! Appreciated!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And don't think it's anything in your profile, just that there's simply lots of blokes here looking for blokes so you'll get messaged.

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By *am sampsonMan
over a year ago

cwmbran

half the people who look at my profile are single guys but not many actually message me

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By *uitar_antiheroMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

I very rarely get messages from people I haven't already sent a message to, most of them are bi guys offering to suck me off. Tis just the way on here. I generally just send a polite "thanks but no thanks" in return.

Having written this I now realise there is no point in me posting it. But I'm gonna do it anyway.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I very rarely get messages from people I haven't already sent a message to, most of them are bi guys offering to suck me off. Tis just the way on here. I generally just send a polite "thanks but no thanks" in return.

Having written this I now realise there is no point in me posting it. But I'm gonna do it anyway."

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By *umpkinMan
over a year ago

near the sounds of the wimborne quarter jack!


"And don't think it's anything in your profile, just that there's simply lots of blokes here looking for blokes so you'll get messaged. "

I`ve also seen it said that some guys only look to see if you`ve got any prospective female meets on your verifications and friends lists.

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By *john121Man
over a year ago

staffs

If you plan on joining any other sites it's always a good idea to check out what facilities the site offers such as 'filters'

Its all to easy to get carried away by your cock and not use your brain! Which at the end of the day is a far more useful tool!

Your not alone and it will surprise you just how many profiles you'll read where peeps moan and biatch about those that keep messaging them and despite all the advice will still start their profile negatively.

So full marks for at least asking here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had the same problem with men messaging me,until I put a filter in.

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