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what lingerie for curvy women??

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hi all, just after some opinions on lingerie for curvy women, I'm a size 16-18 (depending on where we shop), I have a mummy tummy and big ish hips.

Now hubby loves whatever I wear but I'm looking to update my lingerie collection and find it hard to find items that will suit a woman with bigger hips and a mummy tummy, I'm not looking to hide my curves but im looking for items that will enhance them, obviously it would be for my hubby first and foremost but also looking for items that will be suitable when we are on meets, things that are either easy to get into, or something I can wear underneath more appropriate clothing (incase we meet in a public area first), I want to tease obviously but not every Tom, Dick or Sally in the bar/club lol (if that's where we meet) .

Obviously im aware you cant post links on here so maybe if you mention items, shops, or even if you yourself have photos on here of you wearing something that enhances your curves and I could see? Would be appreciated.

I have already picked a few items on ann summers today (I do love their lingerie) but any suggestions would be great

Thank you x

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By *elshsunsWoman
over a year ago

Flintshire

Love honey or Sparkling strawberry are good xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love honey are really good x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The fish net thing in my profile pic is from there. Its full Leg and crotchless with that design at the front

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Avoid any cheese cutter things. Anything black are nice, things that cover but are skin tight but fit well. No baggy items. Anything that leads to a bit of imagination. Top and bottom matching, correct fitting bra. Try before you buy. Pictures always welcome

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Love honey or Sparkling strawberry are good xx"

Thank you, loving your little outfits on your march 24th & 27th pictures, stunning!! Hope you dont mind me asking but where did you get them from? Not sure that colour would suit me as I usually wear either all black or black with pink in it x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks all for your recommendations, always welcome for more x

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By *assy_AttitudeWoman
over a year ago

RHYL

Going to say Love honey as member of fab you can get a discount from their link. The other strawberry one is good too. To be honest also try primark. Good luck lovely

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love Honey, Bondara, Harmony, Ann Summers (I have to be quick at AS because bigger sizes sell out so quickly). Amazon surprisingly has some nice plus size stuff, just read the reviews and use the size chart

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By *ove2lickJemWoman
over a year ago

LIVERPOOL

Peek on asos as well, I found the figleaves fever curve for my 16/18 mate and it looked amazing on. There are still some left but odd sizes now, but just shows what's available

I've personally used bondara also but can't comment for the larger sizes. And, amazon! I got a gorgeous basque for only £8, it was £13 on ebay! Can't ever go wrong with £2 bodystockings off ebay either lol xx

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By *etro1940sCouple
over a year ago

Kingston upon Thames

Higher quality is always best. A dark or black basque can be very attractive for us "curvy" ladies. Erotic does not relate to size. x Anne

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love honey are fantastic for stuff. My pvc one in my photos are from there extremely flattering with stockings and suspenders. Im the same sizing as yourself.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love to see a basque on a curvy lady.

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By *elshsunsWoman
over a year ago

Flintshire


"Love honey or Sparkling strawberry are good xx

Thank you, loving your little outfits on your march 24th & 27th pictures, stunning!! Hope you dont mind me asking but where did you get them from? Not sure that colour would suit me as I usually wear either all black or black with pink in it x"

They were from lovehoney ... they fit lovely and they have a good returns policy too ... xxx

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By * little bit naughtyCouple
over a year ago

Bedford

Not exactly lingerie, but latex is super sexy and looks great on curvy ladies. Westward Bound is a great maker. Pricy, but worth it!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks everyone for your recommendations, have ended up sticking with Ann summers because I know generally how their items fit and feel, but not quite finished yet so may find more items from different shops x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Playful promises have beautiful lingerie for all sizes. Honey Birdette is lush too xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Love honey are fantastic for stuff. My pvc one in my photos are from there extremely flattering with stockings and suspenders. Im the same sizing as yourself. "

Just gotta say I LOVE your profile, I had a right giggle, love your personality xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Love honey are fantastic for stuff. My pvc one in my photos are from there extremely flattering with stockings and suspenders. Im the same sizing as yourself.

Just gotta say I LOVE your profile, I had a right giggle, love your personality xx "

Thank you.

Its normally a massive out off but those that do come through i have a giggle with...x

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By *om and JennieCouple
over a year ago

Chams or Socials

Try Curvy Kate & Pour Moi too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm a 22 (mum tum thingy also) and I get all my sexier stuff from either playful promises Gabi Fresh range mostly or Asos for body suits etc xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well love honey has a few good ones take a look at my pics see what you think as I have a few from there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Baby doll nighties are my go to... I'm a fuller figure too and I really like either a baby doll or a crotch less body stocking xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Shein is great , got my hot lady a nice little red number for a £5 x

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By *oundmywaybackWoman
over a year ago

Birmingham


"I'm a 22 (mum tum thingy also) and I get all my sexier stuff from either playful promises Gabi Fresh range mostly or Asos for body suits etc xx"

I am a size 18 and I would also recommend the Gabi Fresh range I will make a couple of my photos public where you can see a few of their pieces.

I am not the best model for them, but at least you will get the idea

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Love honey are fantastic for stuff. My pvc one in my photos are from there extremely flattering with stockings and suspenders. Im the same sizing as yourself. "

I love those pics, especially the bum shot

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'm a 22 (mum tum thingy also) and I get all my sexier stuff from either playful promises Gabi Fresh range mostly or Asos for body suits etc xx

I am a size 18 and I would also recommend the Gabi Fresh range I will make a couple of my photos public where you can see a few of their pieces.

I am not the best model for them, but at least you will get the idea "

You look stunning! Thank you for sharing x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Well love honey has a few good ones take a look at my pics see what you think as I have a few from there "

Love your pictures! I think I may just order a few outfits from Love Honey now you look gorgeous!! X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm the same but it's about finding the right lingerie to dress your curves, im a 16/18 and a curvaceous figure, try Pourmoi, love honey is ok but i find there stuff not very durable, Ann summers I like but more expensive but stuff does last, playful promises too worth a look

Xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'm the same but it's about finding the right lingerie to dress your curves, im a 16/18 and a curvaceous figure, try Pourmoi, love honey is ok but i find there stuff not very durable, Ann summers I like but more expensive but stuff does last, playful promises too worth a look

Xx"

Thank you, you look absolutely gorgeous! X

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By *bwlookingforfunWoman
over a year ago

crawley

I'm size 20. Have a look at my gallery. I have no issue with wearing any lingerie, but I prefer my front covered.

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By *bwlookingforfunWoman
over a year ago

crawley

Actually drop me a message if you want, i can send you few pics with places I got them from. Just realised lingerie pics are mostly private due to tattoos.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Actually drop me a message if you want, i can send you few pics with places I got them from. Just realised lingerie pics are mostly private due to tattoos. "

Will do thanks x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like Bra Stop.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well love honey has a few good ones take a look at my pics see what you think as I have a few from there

Love your pictures! I think I may just order a few outfits from Love Honey now you look gorgeous!! X"

Ohh good they do some nice bits.. i am 18/20 n i have no trouble at all.. good luck, have fun

n thankyou hun x

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By *imon_hydeMan
over a year ago

Stockport

Great information and photos on here z

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

16/18 yet your last pic you look a size 10? Or is that an old pic?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"16/18 yet your last pic you look a size 10? Or is that an old pic? "

Never been a size 10 lol, if I was to go by my correct size in a 14, but because I have big hips size 14 tends to be far too tight at times (depending on where is shop) so i tend to go for size 16-18 and they seem to fit much better and the oldest picture on our profile is from about 9 months ago, but most of them are from the past couple of months or so

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


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Was it that bad? haha

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

We go to goth shops for a lot ours , fraction of the price and loads sexier and more creative. Mrs is size 10 bottom and 12-14 / 30J on top so hard to buy sets other than bravissimo

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By *alcon43Woman
over a year ago

Paisley

I go for a broader suspender belt as you can see from my pics. It helps with the tummy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pour Moi have some lovely sets x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Free returns and 25% off right now too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I ordered a very cute lacy body stocking from Love Honey. It's arrived today and I am obsessed with it!! I'm a size 18 with a squishy mum tum that I feel very self-conscious about, but this is a revelation. I highly recommend it!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hello all again and thank you again for all of your suggestions! I ended up ordering quite a few things from Ann summers which I shower hubby (most of them) and he cant wait to see them on me so will just wait for them to arrive now, thanks again everyone!! X x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can’t beat a woman in a nice underwear

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By *DreamOfGenieWoman
over a year ago

London

Some great suggestions on here which I'll be investigating...as a bigger girl (16-20 depending on the shop, big hips) I'd always just assumed I should avoid places like Asos and Ann Summers but I'll give them a go.

Also, another vote for Figleaves Curve here...I LOVE their ranges and they fit really nicely.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What Katie did...does nice woman’s underwear..it’s very sexy and classy

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By *inacoolWoman
over a year ago

Torfaen

Crotchless bodystockings r very stretchy, great under conventional clothes, comfy for clubs etc, & can add more lingerie over them too, ebay is cheaper unless £5 or so in lovehoney’s sales x

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By *adydoWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

Agree LoveHoney is brilliant, a lot of great deals on BrasStop too

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By *rincess PhoenixWoman
over a year ago

Southampton

I might use some of these suggestions too. Unfortunately I'm out of proportion as I'm a size 14/16 but my breasts don't fit in anything that size I tend to have to buy underwear in XL or XXL size to try and fit them in

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By *anter and baguetteCouple
over a year ago

BRIDGEND


"Crotchless bodystockings r very stretchy, great under conventional clothes, comfy for clubs etc, & can add more lingerie over them too, ebay is cheaper unless £5 or so in lovehoney’s sales x"

And how well you wear it too xx

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By *ara HenessyCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

I’m curvy and find retro styles look better!

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