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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I really like black ladies but find it so hard to meet and chat up a lady of my preference do any other guys find the same problem or is it just me x

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By *indapeterCouple
over a year ago

northamption

Yes very much so love to have fun with a black lady

But Linda has no problem finding black men to fuck her

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Yes I know what you mean there and I don’t mind black guys too but would love to have a black lady more x

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By *ungmagic10Man
over a year ago

Northampton

Lol I agree, I can go out clubbing locally and find one but on fabs nah. Most seem to like white men so it is what it is suppose. But I know here are events that cater for this hopefully when the storm passes I'll find myself there

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Lol I agree, I can go out clubbing locally and find one but on fabs nah. Most seem to like white men so it is what it is suppose. But I know here are events that cater for this hopefully when the storm passes I'll find myself there "

I thought you would find it easier x

Do you find it easier to meet white girls

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By *ungmagic10Man
over a year ago

Northampton


"Lol I agree, I can go out clubbing locally and find one but on fabs nah. Most seem to like white men so it is what it is suppose. But I know here are events that cater for this hopefully when the storm passes I'll find myself there

I thought you would find it easier x

Do you find it easier to meet white girls "

Yeah it is, I think everyone does lol their the majority

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Lol I agree, I can go out clubbing locally and find one but on fabs nah. Most seem to like white men so it is what it is suppose. But I know here are events that cater for this hopefully when the storm passes I'll find myself there

I thought you would find it easier x

Do you find it easier to meet white girls

Yeah it is, I think everyone does lol their the majority "

read the profiles? i’ve checked out a fair few black lady profiles and some do state the types of men they prefer.... as suggested above try attending multi racial events.

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By *ungmagic10Man
over a year ago

Northampton


"Lol I agree, I can go out clubbing locally and find one but on fabs nah. Most seem to like white men so it is what it is suppose. But I know here are events that cater for this hopefully when the storm passes I'll find myself there

I thought you would find it easier x

Do you find it easier to meet white girls

Yeah it is, I think everyone does lol their the majority

read the profiles? i’ve checked out a fair few black lady profiles and some do state the types of men they prefer.... as suggested above try attending multi racial events. "

Are you okay ? You're basically repeating what I said.

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By *69_maleMan
over a year ago

Market Deeping / Chertsey

There are few and far between black ladies within 70 to 100 miles, where ever you live. I have fancied black ladies since i was in my teens. I have messaged many a gorgeous black lady without a reply.

There are genuine white males amongst us that really fancy black ladies and hope that they can see that in our messages compared to those that just fancy their chances.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Yes that’s is so true and I hope they give us a chance to chat and see the the genuine side of us

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most of the black ladies profiles who I saw were looking for black men only

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Yes I seen a lot of this too shame to be fair but will keep looking

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By *entleman4MMFMan
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

I adore black ladies too

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By *oan of DArcCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow


"Most of the black ladies profiles who I saw were looking for black men only "

I've just done a search of black women looking men, I only looked at the first ten and of those who stated a racial preference it was for Caucasian men!

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By *ungmagic10Man
over a year ago

Northampton


"Most of the black ladies profiles who I saw were looking for black men only

I've just done a search of black women looking men, I only looked at the first ten and of those who stated a racial preference it was for Caucasian men!"

That's what I found as well. And they ones that were into black men, weren't into me so it is what it is.

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By *na_Luv_4PlayCouple
over a year ago

Santa lucia de Tirajana

Arrr the ebony queen lovers.. we both love women of all races but yes have a big weakness for beautiful smooth soft ebony skin.. we must be the lucky ones have many fond memories.x

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By *lackXealMan
over a year ago

Middlesbrough

I gave up finding a black lady on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Me too I like black ladies too, can't find any on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fascinating.

I never thought about this before

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By *eneral HysteriaMan
over a year ago

Newcastle

I've been lucky enough to enjoy the company of black ladies and it has been wonderful. However, just had a quick look - in my area/parameters there are TWO within 40 miles who have been online in the past month.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah there's hardly any in my area and most haven't been online for months.

I guess il have to move to a city

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith

I’ve not thought about this as a ‘thing’ before, but realise now that I’ve only ever known Caucasian ladies! Have I been missing out.........?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Me too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your problem will be a woman will not want to be with you just because you have a face about the colour of their skin try just takking to them these women ame not saying oh your black thats a turn on for me!!! Make then feel you fancy them not their colour

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By *antrelWoman
over a year ago

Birmingham/Cardiff

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By *ostonJoeMan
over a year ago

Boston

I would love to meet a black lady. Any lady really, from any culture with any ethnic background. She doesn't have to be a lady, in fact perhaps not having lady like attributes would be a benefit. Just to be two meters away from a lady would be amazing right now. Skinny one, plumper one, older one even one rejected by Jeremy Kyle for being too, you know. Just to have the attention and conversation with a lady would be amazing. Never again will I undervalue even the most mundane interactions with a lady. I will make the most of them. A bosom really does make the best pillow. I miss all of you ladies.

What was the conversation again???

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By *antrelWoman
over a year ago

Birmingham/Cardiff


"Your problem will be a woman will not want to be with you just because you have a face about the colour of their skin try just takking to them these women ame not saying oh your black thats a turn on for me!!! Make then feel you fancy them not their colour "

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By *pandjMan
over a year ago

Sparkford


"I’ve not thought about this as a ‘thing’ before, but realise now that I’ve only ever known Caucasian ladies! Have I been missing out.........? "

Due to where I’ve lived I’ve never had the opportunity to do anything with a black woman. I had an encounter with a Polynesian woman loved her coffee coloured skin next to mine.

I also spent 6 weeks in Kenya with work. There were some stunners out there and they were attacked to is white guys. We were told that one in six people in the area had HIV so I stayed away.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hmm as a black woman I find it really strange when a man of any race says I love black women. You cant love us all lol. If someone approaches me in that manner, ie "I love black women" it's a straight no as it feels very fetishist (is that even a word?)

I'd much rather someone read my profile and was interested in me for me as opposed to my blackness

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Your problem will be a woman will not want to be with you just because you have a face about the colour of their skin try just takking to them these women ame not saying oh your black thats a turn on for me!!! Make then feel you fancy them not their colour

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This ^^^

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hmm as a black woman I find it really strange when a man of any race says I love black women. You cant love us all lol. If someone approaches me in that manner, ie "I love black women" it's a straight no as it feels very fetishist (is that even a word?)

I'd much rather someone read my profile and was interested in me for me as opposed to my blackness"

See it seems to be fine if a white woman says she loves black men or is only looking for black men.

But when a white men says it, its a fetish thing.

Maybe what some men mean when they say that they "love black women" is they're more attracted to black women than white women in general.

Just like the white ladies who are only seeking black men.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hmm as a black woman I find it really strange when a man of any race says I love black women. You cant love us all lol. If someone approaches me in that manner, ie "I love black women" it's a straight no as it feels very fetishist (is that even a word?)

I'd much rather someone read my profile and was interested in me for me as opposed to my blackness

See it seems to be fine if a white woman says she loves black men or is only looking for black men.

But when a white men says it, its a fetish thing.

Maybe what some men mean when they say that they "love black women" is they're more attracted to black women than white women in general.

Just like the white ladies who are only seeking black men. "

No I think it's just as much of a fetish with white women and BBC. I think it's a horrible way to describe someone...by the colour of their genitals.

Again each to their own

When I get messages saying 'ooh I've never been with a black woman" I always reply in the same vein..you are not practising on me.

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By *indurFunkyBusinessWoman
over a year ago

East Anglia


"Hmm as a black woman I find it really strange when a man of any race says I love black women. You cant love us all lol. If someone approaches me in that manner, ie "I love black women" it's a straight no as it feels very fetishist (is that even a word?)

I'd much rather someone read my profile and was interested in me for me as opposed to my blackness"

I completely agree and it's not limited to gender! Saying that you like someone just because of their ethnicity is wrong and in my opinion, positive discrimination. Like me for me, not because of the colour of my skin.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Your problem will be a woman will not want to be with you just because you have a face about the colour of their skin try just takking to them these women ame not saying oh your black thats a turn on for me!!! Make then feel you fancy them not their colour "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hmm as a black woman I find it really strange when a man of any race says I love black women. You cant love us all lol. If someone approaches me in that manner, ie "I love black women" it's a straight no as it feels very fetishist (is that even a word?)

I'd much rather someone read my profile and was interested in me for me as opposed to my blackness

See it seems to be fine if a white woman says she loves black men or is only looking for black men.

But when a white men says it, its a fetish thing.

Maybe what some men mean when they say that they "love black women" is they're more attracted to black women than white women in general.

Just like the white ladies who are only seeking black men. "

No one has said its "fine" when it's the other way around. And you being dismissive of the way such terminology makes black women feel may just be the reason why you're struggling to meet one.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hmm as a black woman I find it really strange when a man of any race says I love black women. You cant love us all lol. If someone approaches me in that manner, ie "I love black women" it's a straight no as it feels very fetishist (is that even a word?)

I'd much rather someone read my profile and was interested in me for me as opposed to my blackness

See it seems to be fine if a white woman says she loves black men or is only looking for black men.

But when a white men says it, its a fetish thing.

Maybe what some men mean when they say that they "love black women" is they're more attracted to black women than white women in general.

Just like the white ladies who are only seeking black men.

No one has said its "fine" when it's the other way around. And you being dismissive of the way such terminology makes black women feel may just be the reason why you're struggling to meet one."

Tell dem sis!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hmm as a black woman I find it really strange when a man of any race says I love black women. You cant love us all lol. If someone approaches me in that manner, ie "I love black women" it's a straight no as it feels very fetishist (is that even a word?)

I'd much rather someone read my profile and was interested in me for me as opposed to my blackness

See it seems to be fine if a white woman says she loves black men or is only looking for black men.

But when a white men says it, its a fetish thing.

Maybe what some men mean when they say that they "love black women" is they're more attracted to black women than white women in general.

Just like the white ladies who are only seeking black men.

No one has said its "fine" when it's the other way around. And you being dismissive of the way such terminology makes black women feel may just be the reason why you're struggling to meet one.

Tell dem sis!!"

Honestly, any guy who messages me talking about race gets blocked straight away

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By *indurFunkyBusinessWoman
over a year ago

East Anglia


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Honestly, any guy who messages me talking about race gets blocked straight away "

I'll second that one too!

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By *oppet22TV/TS
over a year ago

huddersfield

I love all kinds colour shapes and sizes as it the person not what they can be

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By *nique_78Woman
over a year ago

Home, somewhere in Norfolk


"Hmm as a black woman I find it really strange when a man of any race says I love black women. You cant love us all lol. If someone approaches me in that manner, ie "I love black women" it's a straight no as it feels very fetishist (is that even a word?)

I'd much rather someone read my profile and was interested in me for me as opposed to my blackness"

I'd also like to add, for me I detest being placed in the 'any hole will do' category. I'm picky who I spend time with...just maybe there are other women on this site who feel the same regardless of colour.

Crazy way of thinking but there you go ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hmm as a black woman I find it really strange when a man of any race says I love black women. You cant love us all lol. If someone approaches me in that manner, ie "I love black women" it's a straight no as it feels very fetishist (is that even a word?)

I'd much rather someone read my profile and was interested in me for me as opposed to my blackness"

Love this, it’s a turn off and usually a straight block x

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By *os19Man
over a year ago

Edmonton

I have met and played with a few black girls at Rios spa.For me colour never came into it we chatted in the spa area we got on and we had fun.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ladies...when have guys ever been so quiet on fab lol

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith


"Ladies...when have guys ever been so quiet on fab lol"

I asked earlier if I’ve been missing out, and all the ladies have been quiet......?

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By *9alMan
over a year ago

Bridgend

years ago I lived in the west midlands & had sex with a few black prostitutes I really enjoyed it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Honestly, any guy who messages me talking about race gets blocked straight away

I'll second that one too!"

I don't do that. Unless it comes up in chat or in the forum.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ladies...when have guys ever been so quiet on fab lol

I asked earlier if I’ve been missing out, and all the ladies have been quiet......?"

We weren't quiet. We just didn't answer you personally

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ladies...when have guys ever been so quiet on fab lol

I asked earlier if I’ve been missing out, and all the ladies have been quiet......?

We weren't quiet. We just didn't answer you personally"

He is missing out though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"years ago I lived in the west midlands & had sex with a few black prostitutes I really enjoyed it "

Good for you. I'd imagine you're going to have to pay for it every time after that comment.

And you guys wonder why you are struggling

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By *eneral HysteriaMan
over a year ago

Newcastle


"years ago I lived in the west midlands & had sex with a few black prostitutes I really enjoyed it

Good for you. I'd imagine you're going to have to pay for it every time after that comment.

And you guys wonder why you are struggling "

But hey...

Top profile halfway too

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith


"Ladies...when have guys ever been so quiet on fab lol

I asked earlier if I’ve been missing out, and all the ladies have been quiet......?

We weren't quiet. We just didn't answer you personally"

Exactly!

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By *eneral HysteriaMan
over a year ago

Newcastle

I had plenty pm me!

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith


"I had plenty pm me! "

I did a search and the nearest three ladies to me were 40 miles away, in the North East......which works for you lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"years ago I lived in the west midlands & had sex with a few black prostitutes I really enjoyed it

Good for you. I'd imagine you're going to have to pay for it every time after that comment.

And you guys wonder why you are struggling

But hey...

Top profile halfway too"

Thanks x

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By *na_Luv_4PlayCouple
over a year ago

Santa lucia de Tirajana

Think everyone has their own opinion on this, I totally get labeling people BBC etc, We absolutely love interracial meets/fun not just black guys/girls but every culture in the world, Most of us on here have a preferred type like size age hair colour etc.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ladies...when have guys ever been so quiet on fab lol

I asked earlier if I’ve been missing out, and all the ladies have been quiet......?

We weren't quiet. We just didn't answer you personally

He is missing out though "

No-one is missing out as ethnicity has no bearing on sexual ability. All women have the same bits just as men have the same bits regardless of colour. Its how you use what you have that counts.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"years ago I lived in the west midlands & had sex with a few black prostitutes I really enjoyed it

Good for you. I'd imagine you're going to have to pay for it every time after that comment.

And you guys wonder why you are struggling

But hey...

Top profile halfway too

Thanks x"
gotta say i loved your pics and turning up at my house like that, thats a thought worth savouring especially if my dad answers door

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By *ungmagic10Man
over a year ago

Northampton


"Hmm as a black woman I find it really strange when a man of any race says I love black women. You cant love us all lol. If someone approaches me in that manner, ie "I love black women" it's a straight no as it feels very fetishist (is that even a word?)

I'd much rather someone read my profile and was interested in me for me as opposed to my blackness

See it seems to be fine if a white woman says she loves black men or is only looking for black men.

But when a white men says it, its a fetish thing.

Maybe what some men mean when they say that they "love black women" is they're more attracted to black women than white women in general.

Just like the white ladies who are only seeking black men. "

It's a fetish same way for most

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Got to say don’t know what it is but I really like a black lady

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"years ago I lived in the west midlands & had sex with a few black prostitutes I really enjoyed it "

Part of the problem

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hmm as a black woman I find it really strange when a man of any race says I love black women. You cant love us all lol. If someone approaches me in that manner, ie "I love black women" it's a straight no as it feels very fetishist (is that even a word?)

I'd much rather someone read my profile and was interested in me for me as opposed to my blackness

See it seems to be fine if a white woman says she loves black men or is only looking for black men.

But when a white men says it, its a fetish thing.

Maybe what some men mean when they say that they "love black women" is they're more attracted to black women than white women in general.

Just like the white ladies who are only seeking black men.

It's a fetish same way for most"

So feeling attracted to someone is a fetish. Hmm okay.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I don’t see it as a colour of some one at all

There is only two race’s on this planet and that is human and huwomen in my eyes x

I just really like a lady that is all women and a lady with a darker skin pigment is what I really like x and I would love to chat and meet more of my preferences

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By *oan of DArcCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow


"Hmm as a black woman I find it really strange when a man of any race says I love black women. You cant love us all lol. If someone approaches me in that manner, ie "I love black women" it's a straight no as it feels very fetishist (is that even a word?)

I'd much rather someone read my profile and was interested in me for me as opposed to my blackness

See it seems to be fine if a white woman says she loves black men or is only looking for black men.

But when a white men says it, its a fetish thing.

Maybe what some men mean when they say that they "love black women" is they're more attracted to black women than white women in general.

Just like the white ladies who are only seeking black men.

It's a fetish same way for most

So feeling attracted to someone is a fetish. Hmm okay. "

I think the fetish is about being attracted to someone purely because of their skin colour, where their personal qualities are secondary or unimportant.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hmm as a black woman I find it really strange when a man of any race says I love black women. You cant love us all lol. If someone approaches me in that manner, ie "I love black women" it's a straight no as it feels very fetishist (is that even a word?)

I'd much rather someone read my profile and was interested in me for me as opposed to my blackness

See it seems to be fine if a white woman says she loves black men or is only looking for black men.

But when a white men says it, its a fetish thing.

Maybe what some men mean when they say that they "love black women" is they're more attracted to black women than white women in general.

Just like the white ladies who are only seeking black men.

It's a fetish same way for most

So feeling attracted to someone is a fetish. Hmm okay.

I think the fetish is about being attracted to someone purely because of their skin colour, where their personal qualities are secondary or unimportant."

Well that's not the case with me.

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By *oan of DArcCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow


"Hmm as a black woman I find it really strange when a man of any race says I love black women. You cant love us all lol. If someone approaches me in that manner, ie "I love black women" it's a straight no as it feels very fetishist (is that even a word?)

I'd much rather someone read my profile and was interested in me for me as opposed to my blackness

See it seems to be fine if a white woman says she loves black men or is only looking for black men.

But when a white men says it, its a fetish thing.

Maybe what some men mean when they say that they "love black women" is they're more attracted to black women than white women in general.

Just like the white ladies who are only seeking black men.

It's a fetish same way for most

So feeling attracted to someone is a fetish. Hmm okay.

I think the fetish is about being attracted to someone purely because of their skin colour, where their personal qualities are secondary or unimportant.

Well that's not the case with me. "

That's fine, I wasn't suggesting it was

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hmm as a black woman I find it really strange when a man of any race says I love black women. You cant love us all lol. If someone approaches me in that manner, ie "I love black women" it's a straight no as it feels very fetishist (is that even a word?)

I'd much rather someone read my profile and was interested in me for me as opposed to my blackness

See it seems to be fine if a white woman says she loves black men or is only looking for black men.

But when a white men says it, its a fetish thing.

Maybe what some men mean when they say that they "love black women" is they're more attracted to black women than white women in general.

Just like the white ladies who are only seeking black men.

It's a fetish same way for most

So feeling attracted to someone is a fetish. Hmm okay.

I think the fetish is about being attracted to someone purely because of their skin colour, where their personal qualities are secondary or unimportant.

Well that's not the case with me.

That's fine, I wasn't suggesting it was "

I know. Gotcha

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I don’t think it’s a fetish it’s a preference for me xx and yes I do like same

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hmm as a black woman I find it really strange when a man of any race says I love black women. You cant love us all lol. If someone approaches me in that manner, ie "I love black women" it's a straight no as it feels very fetishist (is that even a word?)

I'd much rather someone read my profile and was interested in me for me as opposed to my blackness"

Very true, I agree with your statement.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hmm as a black woman I find it really strange when a man of any race says I love black women. You cant love us all lol. If someone approaches me in that manner, ie "I love black women" it's a straight no as it feels very fetishist (is that even a word?)

I'd much rather someone read my profile and was interested in me for me as opposed to my blackness

See it seems to be fine if a white woman says she loves black men or is only looking for black men.

But when a white men says it, its a fetish thing.

Maybe what some men mean when they say that they "love black women" is they're more attracted to black women than white women in general.

Just like the white ladies who are only seeking black men.

It's a fetish same way for most

So feeling attracted to someone is a fetish. Hmm okay. "

Would you like to point out where anyone said that?

What is it that you love about black women that applies to all black women? Because if it's a skin colour issue, that's fetishist.

Out of interest, how many black women do you know well? Have you had relationships with any? Is it a purely sexual desire?

Indulge me please lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"years ago I lived in the west midlands & had sex with a few black prostitutes I really enjoyed it

Good for you. I'd imagine you're going to have to pay for it every time after that comment.

And you guys wonder why you are struggling

But hey...

Top profile halfway too

Thanks xgotta say i loved your pics and turning up at my house like that, thats a thought worth savouring especially if my dad answers door "

Haha dont worry it's not gonna happen x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don’t see it as a colour of some one at all

There is only two race’s on this planet and that is human and huwomen in my eyes x

I just really like a lady that is all women and a lady with a darker skin pigment is what I really like x and I would love to chat and meet more of my preferences "

Well why are you commenting about having preferences of a particular hue over another. If you dont see colour (which is just the most ridiculous comment to make unless you are colourblind) how can you tell us apart lol. Come on sunshine

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Yes I understand what you mean and yes I can dertermine the difference but I don’t like to label people as a colour sorry if I have offended you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hmm as a black woman I find it really strange when a man of any race says I love black women. You cant love us all lol. If someone approaches me in that manner, ie "I love black women" it's a straight no as it feels very fetishist (is that even a word?)

I'd much rather someone read my profile and was interested in me for me as opposed to my blackness

See it seems to be fine if a white woman says she loves black men or is only looking for black men.

But when a white men says it, its a fetish thing.

Maybe what some men mean when they say that they "love black women" is they're more attracted to black women than white women in general.

Just like the white ladies who are only seeking black men.

It's a fetish same way for most

So feeling attracted to someone is a fetish. Hmm okay.

Would you like to point out where anyone said that?

What is it that you love about black women that applies to all black women? Because if it's a skin colour issue, that's fetishist.

Out of interest, how many black women do you know well? Have you had relationships with any? Is it a purely sexual desire?

Indulge me please lol"

That was my vibe

I can't explain what I like about black women. I don't like everyone, I just know what I like when I see it.

I know one black woman well. I haven't had relationships with any. There are not many at all where I live. It's not just a sexual thing for me but damn it's a turn on.

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By *eavenscentitCouple
over a year ago

barnstaple


"Most of the black ladies profiles who I saw were looking for black men only "

Not surprised....look at history and how black women have been abused by white men.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is a very interesting topic.....

I’ll give you my experience visiting the UK....

All my cousins are second generation Jamaican Brits.... All 20 of the have children with non spouses.... It doesn’t bother me at all but comparing that with my family in the USA and Canada only about 20% have children with non black people....

Now if you read most of the black women profiles on Fab ... most are looking for white men....

Op I’m not sure where you’re looking for black women but Fab should be a goldmine for you....

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I just know around Nottingham there is not many but I probably need to look further a field

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"years ago I lived in the west midlands & had sex with a few black prostitutes I really enjoyed it

Good for you. I'd imagine you're going to have to pay for it every time after that comment.

And you guys wonder why you are struggling

But hey...

Top profile halfway too

Thanks xgotta say i loved your pics and turning up at my house like that, thats a thought worth savouring especially if my dad answers door

Haha dont worry it's not gonna happen x"
awwww i was so looking forward to it

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By *oodgirlturnedNaughtyWoman
over a year ago

Derby

As a black lady on here i get messages from white guys telling me how they've never been with black lady before, to me that's the worst thing you can say, as I'm not a novelty and it's an instant turn off. Pretty much the same when i get massages of black guys asking if i fuck black men. Just for the record, i like all men, well those over 5'11 lol

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By *na_Luv_4PlayCouple
over a year ago

Santa lucia de Tirajana


"As a black lady on here i get messages from white guys telling me how they've never been with black lady before, to me that's the worst thing you can say, as I'm not a novelty and it's an instant turn off. Pretty much the same when i get massages of black guys asking if i fuck black men. Just for the record, i like all men, well those over 5'11 lol"

5ft9 but could always buy some heels ????

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As a black lady on here i get messages from white guys telling me how they've never been with black lady before, to me that's the worst thing you can say, as I'm not a novelty and it's an instant turn off. Pretty much the same when i get massages of black guys asking if i fuck black men. Just for the record, i like all men, well those over 5'11 lol"
lol yes and i agree entirely with what you are saying a womans a woman and a mans a man you're either attracted or not

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've also always fancied black ladies since I was young. I grew up with a black lady who is absolutely beautiful, nothing ever happened between us as we where good friends.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As a black lady on here i get messages from white guys telling me how they've never been with black lady before, to me that's the worst thing you can say, as I'm not a novelty and it's an instant turn off. Pretty much the same when i get massages of black guys asking if i fuck black men. Just for the record, i like all men, well those over 5'11 lol"

Phew I just made it

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By *edonist79Man
over a year ago

Trowbridge

My last 3 exs were mixed black. I love the contrast of skin colour. Spunk on their skin is sexy as hell too for some reason.

My one ex and her new partner are on here somewhere I recently saw. Wasn't expecting that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Your problem will be a woman will not want to be with you just because you have a face about the colour of their skin try just takking to them these women ame not saying oh your black thats a turn on for me!!! Make then feel you fancy them not their colour

"

Dont get me wrong I do find the colour of the skin very sexy myself but I wouldnt want to sleep with a black woman just because she is black I would still have to be attached to her and she to me

I think all women are beautiful in their own way no matter colour of skin short or tall fat or slim

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By *oan of DArcCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow


"My last 3 exs were mixed black. I love the contrast of skin colour. Spunk on their skin is sexy as hell too for some reason.

"

So what they had between their ears didn't do much for you?!

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By *oirinMarkusCouple
over a year ago

West Midlands and West London

This whole thread makes me despair. Think whatever you want, but if a man actively told me he had a "thing" for black women and then followed it up by talking about his spunk on my skin, I'd have zero interest. Keep it to yourself and charm her into bed as you would with a regular woman.

Because she's a regular woman.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This whole thread makes me despair. Think whatever you want, but if a man actively told me he had a "thing" for black women and then followed it up by talking about his spunk on my skin, I'd have zero interest. Keep it to yourself and charm her into bed as you would with a regular woman.

Because she's a regular woman. "

Totally agree with you a woman is a woman no matter the colour of her ski

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By *oan of DArcCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow


"This whole thread makes me despair. Think whatever you want, but if a man actively told me he had a "thing" for black women and then followed it up by talking about his spunk on my skin, I'd have zero interest. Keep it to yourself and charm her into bed as you would with a regular woman.

Because she's a regular woman. "

Hallelujah!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This whole thread makes me despair. Think whatever you want, but if a man actively told me he had a "thing" for black women and then followed it up by talking about his spunk on my skin, I'd have zero interest. Keep it to yourself and charm her into bed as you would with a regular woman.

Because she's a regular woman.

Totally agree with you a woman is a woman no matter the colour of her ski"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Me too

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By *oodgirlturnedNaughtyWoman
over a year ago

Derby


"This whole thread makes me despair. Think whatever you want, but if a man actively told me he had a "thing" for black women and then followed it up by talking about his spunk on my skin, I'd have zero interest. Keep it to yourself and charm her into bed as you would with a regular woman.

Because she's a regular woman. "

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By *oodgirlturnedNaughtyWoman
over a year ago

Derby


"As a black lady on here i get messages from white guys telling me how they've never been with black lady before, to me that's the worst thing you can say, as I'm not a novelty and it's an instant turn off. Pretty much the same when i get massages of black guys asking if i fuck black men. Just for the record, i like all men, well those over 5'11 lol

Phew I just made it "

Hahaha, have you now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This whole thread makes me despair. Think whatever you want, but if a man actively told me he had a "thing" for black women and then followed it up by talking about his spunk on my skin, I'd have zero interest. Keep it to yourself and charm her into bed as you would with a regular woman.

Because she's a regular woman. "
agree with this.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I really like black ladies but find it so hard to meet and chat up a lady of my preference do any other guys find the same problem or is it just me x"

Get yourselves to the islands when all this is over, plenty of hot girls who like their white chocolate

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This whole thread makes me despair. Think whatever you want, but if a man actively told me he had a "thing" for black women and then followed it up by talking about his spunk on my skin, I'd have zero interest. Keep it to yourself and charm her into bed as you would with a regular woman.

Because she's a regular woman. "

Agreed but having a preference is fine, the spunk comment is just gross

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love. Black ladies. Few on here. From Dublin there cool

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As a black lady on here i get messages from white guys telling me how they've never been with black lady before, to me that's the worst thing you can say, as I'm not a novelty and it's an instant turn off. Pretty much the same when i get massages of black guys asking if i fuck black men. Just for the record, i like all men, well those over 5'11 lol

Phew I just made it

Hahaha, have you now"

6 footer here. So your telling me there's a chance.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I really like black ladies but find it so hard to meet and chat up a lady of my preference do any other guys find the same problem or is it just me x

Get yourselves to the islands when all this is over, plenty of hot girls who like their white chocolate "

Sounds like a great holiday

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By *eavy Metal BallzMan
over a year ago

Birmingham


"This whole thread makes me despair. Think whatever you want, but if a man actively told me he had a "thing" for black women and then followed it up by talking about his spunk on my skin, I'd have zero interest. Keep it to yourself and charm her into bed as you would with a regular woman.

Because she's a regular woman. "

All fine and dandy having a preference or type as they say, but the whole fetishising of a persons skin colour is all very distasteful.

Just treat people as people.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I really like black ladies but find it so hard to meet and chat up a lady of my preference do any other guys find the same problem or is it just me x

Get yourselves to the islands when all this is over, plenty of hot girls who like their white chocolate "

Now this ladie is a beautiful woman

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This whole thread makes me despair. Think whatever you want, but if a man actively told me he had a "thing" for black women and then followed it up by talking about his spunk on my skin, I'd have zero interest. Keep it to yourself and charm her into bed as you would with a regular woman.

Because she's a regular woman. "

Yes Queen!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Yes that’s not the best thing I have heard

I just think different about black ladies x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My last 3 exs were mixed black. I love the contrast of skin colour. Spunk on their skin is sexy as hell too for some reason.

So what they had between their ears didn't do much for you?! "

OMG I dont keep up with this chat for a couple of days and this happens. Who said this? Where has he gone? And what is 'mixed black'? So many questions for him. SMH

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By *attyBevCouple
over a year ago

Cambridge

Hold up hold how have I missed this

Its 2020 and there are still idiots??

Pleaseeeee

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This whole thread makes me despair. Think whatever you want, but if a man actively told me he had a "thing" for black women and then followed it up by talking about his spunk on my skin, I'd have zero interest. Keep it to yourself and charm her into bed as you would with a regular woman.

Because she's a regular woman. "

I agree with you.

I also personally don’t like being described as a “chocolate woman” or being told the “contrast” of my skin against their lighter one is “sexy” or a “turn on”.

We all have preference be it race, size, age but I think there’s a fine line.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Yes I totally agree with you ladies and if I have offended you with anything I have said I apologise x

I just asked a question about how hard I find it to meet and chat up a lady of my preference x

X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hmm as a black woman I find it really strange when a man of any race says I love black women. You cant love us all lol. If someone approaches me in that manner, ie "I love black women" it's a straight no as it feels very fetishist (is that even a word?)

I'd much rather someone read my profile and was interested in me for me as opposed to my blackness"

I think this is the key difference.

Black women want to be for asked the person they are now what they are where as quite a few black men are happy to be seen as an fetish object (bbc) if it means they can get meets.

Ofcourse not all black guys are a bbc and not all want to be seen as one either.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hmm as a black woman I find it really strange when a man of any race says I love black women. You cant love us all lol. If someone approaches me in that manner, ie "I love black women" it's a straight no as it feels very fetishist (is that even a word?)

I'd much rather someone read my profile and was interested in me for me as opposed to my blackness

I think this is the key difference.

Black women want to be for asked the person they are now what they are where as quite a few black men are happy to be seen as an fetish object (bbc) if it means they can get meets.

Ofcourse not all black guys are a bbc and not all want to be seen as one either."

I’ve just seen a thread that begs to differ xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I hate posts like this so pointless.. Black women are human to and we like and dislike the same things as other races..

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I agree Maltese

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By *anatthetopMan
over a year ago

Kent

Most black women on the scene prefer white men.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Most black women on the scene prefer white men."

Might be just a UK thing....

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By *mooth Operator 07Man
over a year ago

in the deep mist of the valleys


"Hmm as a black woman I find it really strange when a man of any race says I love black women. You cant love us all lol. If someone approaches me in that manner, ie "I love black women" it's a straight no as it feels very fetishist (is that even a word?)

I'd much rather someone read my profile and was interested in me for me as opposed to my blackness

See it seems to be fine if a white woman says she loves black men or is only looking for black men.

But when a white men says it, its a fetish thing.

Maybe what some men mean when they say that they "love black women" is they're more attracted to black women than white women in general.

Just like the white ladies who are only seeking black men.

No I think it's just as much of a fetish with white women and BBC. I think it's a horrible way to describe someone...by the colour of their genitals.

Again each to their own

When I get messages saying 'ooh I've never been with a black woman" I always reply in the same vein..you are not practising on me. "

I have the same cheeky response. Ooh i never been with a Blackman before. Funny enough, neither have i. Next

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By *nique_78Woman
over a year ago

Home, somewhere in Norfolk


"Hmm as a black woman I find it really strange when a man of any race says I love black women. You cant love us all lol. If someone approaches me in that manner, ie "I love black women" it's a straight no as it feels very fetishist (is that even a word?)

I'd much rather someone read my profile and was interested in me for me as opposed to my blackness"

100% agree with your opinion

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By *uitednbooted2Man
over a year ago

Berkshire

I run a social chat group for black ladies who are into white guys . Looking for more members. DM me for details

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I run a social chat group for black ladies who are into white guys . Looking for more members. DM me for details "

Can’t DM you as you’ve blocked males from messaging you.

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