FabSwingers.com forum: Profile and first message help

By *jb773 OP Man
over a year ago

Bishops Stortford

I have been on fab for a while, and yes i have got verifications but only from guys.

I really want to meet women, but i feel like my profile is holding me back as well as my first messages. I feel as if they are too awkward not creative

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There’s no depth to your profile. Three lines isn’t much to sell yourself. Try adding some pictures that show personality, a fun side to you. Look at successful guys and see what there profiles say. But also hate to say it. Many women are turned off by bisexual guys.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes we dont like meeting bi guys ..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Remove your piccys as with them you dont look appealing ....in the slightest .. get dressed up n put a bit of effort in to your piccys n profile.. seriously your pics are !!!!!!!!!

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull

You say you want to meet someone for a good seeing to ?

I can't believe that line isn't working

You should be hearing knickers dropping to the floor all over the UK

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By *revaunanceCouple
over a year ago

Exeter

There is some good advice in these threads if you'd like to follow it:

https://www.fabswingers.com/forum/introductions/914931

https://www.fabswingers.com/forum/introductions/932836

https://www.fabswingers.com/forum/introductions/916853

https://www.fabswingers.com/forum/introductions/919169

https://www.fabswingers.com/forum/swingers/938170

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Looking for discreet fun and cannot accommodate.

I wonder why..

I agree - pictures are not appealing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One question we ask is. How do you do with ladies in the real world? Because it’s not any different on here.

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By *vgloryholebs16TV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol.

having verifications from men will turn lots of women (&some men) off..

Stand out..be unique and offer something different.

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By *jb773 OP Man
over a year ago

Bishops Stortford

"Remove your piccys as with them you dont look appealing ....in the slightest .. get dressed up n put a bit of effort in to your piccys n profile.. seriously your pics are !!!!!!!!!"

What pics should i get rid of? All of them can't be that bad?

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By *jb773 OP Man
over a year ago

Bishops Stortford

"Looking for discreet fun and cannot accommodate.

I wonder why..

I agree - pictures are not appealing."

What's wrong with my pics, any advice on how to make them better?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Put some nice clothes on. Look smart. Use the timer function. Pick a good background. And adopt a good posture. Honestly none of your current pics are very exciting. Get someone else to take the pics. Maybe who you live with will help.

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By *teveanddebsCouple
over a year ago

Norwich

You are straight but you want to meet tvs and you gave a blokes ass a 'good pounding'

And you wonder why......... ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You are straight but you want to meet tvs and you gave a blokes ass a 'good pounding'

And you wonder why......... ?

It said bi before - he must have changed it to straight.

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire

Everyone has a 'type' I don't like beards or hairy guys, but my boss at work he's a bear and it's his major turn on.

So you need to appeal to the person you're trying to attract. Women on here are the most difficult as they have plenty of choice, so that's better pictures, profile text and yes verifications that aren't Men or Tgirls but other Women.

You've had plenty of advice already so I won't add as there's no magic formula apart from research. Do some, take the advice and very helpful links given and you never know

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have been on fab for a while, and yes i have got verifications but only from guys.

I really want to meet women, but i feel like my profile is holding me back as well as my first messages. I feel as if they are too awkward not creative"

Would you ask a prospective employer on what to put in your CV?

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By *teveanddebsCouple
over a year ago

Norwich

"You are straight but you want to meet tvs and you gave a blokes ass a 'good pounding'

And you wonder why......... ?

It said bi before - he must have changed it to straight."

Third post from top, I bet that was it lmfao.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You are straight but you want to meet tvs and you gave a blokes ass a 'good pounding'

And you wonder why......... ?

It said bi before - he must have changed it to straight.

Third post from top, I bet that was it lmfao.

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