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By *aspasher OP   Man
over a year ago

South shields

I have FBW and been playing on and off for quite a while and have great fun but when she is playing with me she rubbs the head of my cock with here thumb and it is not pleasant i have attempted to ajust what she does in a niceway but she just dont get it

any thoughts?

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By *ittleMissCaliWoman
over a year ago

all loved up

Just tell her.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have FBW and been playing on and off for quite a while and have great fun but when she is playing with me she rubbs the head of my cock with here thumb and it is not pleasant i have attempted to ajust what she does in a niceway but she just dont get it

any thoughts?

"

Dude just tell her that you want her to bite it instead of using her thumb

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tell her it’s not a lamp

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just grab her thumb and say mmmm can you do that there instead I love that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tell her that you don’t like it, do it in a nice way

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull


"I have FBW and been playing on and off for quite a while and have great fun but when she is playing with me she rubbs the head of my cock with here thumb and it is not pleasant i have attempted to ajust what she does in a niceway but she just dont get it

any thoughts?

"

Rolled up newspaper and tap her on the nose or back of her head

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By *ornytoad1362Couple
over a year ago

St. Austell

yes just tell her straight m8

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By *aspasher OP   Man
over a year ago

South shields

done that 10 min later back at it

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"done that 10 min later back at it "

Speaking from a woman's point of view if I told a guy nicely once that I didn't like something he was doing and he did it again I would be a bit firmer in saying I didn't like it the second time

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Try showing her what to do ... she may be forgetful!

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By *itty9899Man
over a year ago

Craggy Island


"I have FBW and been playing on and off for quite a while and have great fun but when she is playing with me she rubbs the head of my cock with here thumb and it is not pleasant i have attempted to ajust what she does in a niceway but she just dont get it

any thoughts?

"

Show, don't tell. or perhaps get her to do things you do like by saying " I like it when you do this..." that way, she may remember and do that more often

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By *oodnitegirlWoman
over a year ago

Yorkshire

Tell her to use her palm like squeezing a lemon instead. Always a winner x

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By *etLikeMan
over a year ago

most fundamental aspects


"I have FBW and been playing on and off for quite a while and have great fun but when she is playing with me she rubbs the head of my cock with here thumb and it is not pleasant i have attempted to ajust what she does in a niceway but she just dont get it

any thoughts?

Show, don't tell. or perhaps get her to do things you do like by saying " I like it when you do this..." that way, she may remember and do that more often"

This

Or if that still doesn’t work, look at why you don’t like it and how you could like it. Tell her that you need some lube on either your head or her thumb to make it “really good”

What’s disappointing is that the F of FWB is Friend. Friends should be able to tell each other things and be told things even if it’s not what they might want to hear

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By *oo and LustCouple
over a year ago

Cambridge & Bucks.

Ask her if there is anything you do that she doesn't like that way it opens the communication and you can then work on the things you both like.

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By *oo and LustCouple
over a year ago

Cambridge & Bucks.

Ask her if there is anything you do that she doesn't like that way it opens the communication and you can then work on the things you both like.

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