FabSwingers.com forum: What would you do?

By *rtemis-Akela OP Couple
over a year ago

Wigan, Liverpool

If someone you met on here claimed to be clean, you played with them (bj only) and still ended up with an STD? Would you give them a chance to do the right thing, contact previous partners get themselves treated etc ..? Message their previous veris to make them aware? Write it in a veri? Public out them? They have been confirmed got it since I told them I came back positive but had told me they had come back clean days before we met to play.

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By *orticiaWoman
over a year ago

Wirral

Have you thought that you may have passed it to them?!

Did they test positive too?

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By *rtemis-Akela OP Couple
over a year ago

Wigan, Liverpool

I was clear and clean before meeting. As i regularly get checked. He claimed that he was clean. Then changed his story to possitive after i gave him my results. Now has changed story again to negative.

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By *xMFM3sumsxxWoman
over a year ago

SouthWest Lancashire

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh shit that's not good. A verf won't matter because the person can choose not to show it

You can post a status name and shame them

Or contact the people on the verf and tell them to get tested too.

This is what I hate about fab the worry of std.

It's crap that you caught it from a bj too.

Trust nobody.

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By *rtemis-Akela OP Couple
over a year ago

Wigan, Liverpool

Thats what ive thought. Or even leaving a comment in the same club forum he goes to regularly.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Thats what ive thought. Or even leaving a comment in the same club forum he goes to regularly. "

You could put a post in there. Just saying for all who have played with name

Just to make you aware they have a std. Better to know than be sorry.

If you don't mind me asking what did you caught.

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By *ommenhimCouple
over a year ago

wigan

"If someone you met on here claimed to be clean, you played with them (bj only) and still ended up with an STD? Would you give them a chance to do the right thing, contact previous partners get themselves treated etc ..? Message their previous veris to make them aware? Write it in a veri? Public out them? They have been confirmed got it since I told them I came back positive but had told me they had come back clean days before we met to play. "

Can you give more details ... what infection, timeline between you testing negative, then your next positive test, his timeline when he was tested negative, as he’d stated, prior to your meet and sexual partners for both (all three) in between. With this we’d be better equipped to help with your quandary.

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By *rtemis-Akela OP Couple
over a year ago

Wigan, Liverpool

Yeah I've done alot more research now and will definitely ask more questions

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By *ympho6969Woman
over a year ago

glasgow

Hopefully it wasnt anything serious.

As for naming and shaming, I dont think that's allowed lol. Be careful what you decide to do.

Its sad that people arent trustful on here. At least you're trying to do the right thing and I commend you for that. We need more like you

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