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By *F79 OP   Couple
over a year ago

Moray

Looking for some tips on how to practice safe sex and still have great swapping fun.....

So for example..... there’s no point in using condoms for penetration with others if you have bareback oral with them....

So looking for some tips on the use of dental dams and condoms and still being able to swap back n fore between each other.

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

Use a new condom each time you swap

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds


"Looking for some tips on how to practice safe sex and still have great swapping fun.....

So for example..... there’s no point in using condoms for penetration with others if you have bareback oral with them....

So looking for some tips on the use of dental dams and condoms and still being able to swap back n fore between each other. "

I put up a similar thread a few weeks ago....the consensus was to have regular sex screening for STI’s which I’ve sent off my first test to the clinic.

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By *F79 OP   Couple
over a year ago

Moray


"Use a new condom each time you swap"

Of course, but I’m thinking of the longer sessions where *for example* Both Mrs are being fucked by the other Mr’s, and one Mr pulls out so the other Mrs can give oral to the other Mrs!

It’s the practicalities of using dams and condoms on/off/on/off and still retaining the fun and spontaneity.

Just looking for tips from couples who have been doing this for a long time and are well practiced!!

Thank you

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By *F79 OP   Couple
over a year ago

Moray


"I put up a similar thread a few weeks ago....the consensus was to have regular sex screening for STI’s which I’ve sent off my first test to the clinic. "

Thank you.... this is something we do anyway

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

I have never seen anyone use a dam for oral so can't offer any advice.

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds


"Use a new condom each time you swap

Of course, but I’m thinking of the longer sessions where *for example* Both Mrs are being fucked by the other Mr’s, and one Mr pulls out so the other Mrs can give oral to the other Mrs!

It’s the practicalities of using dams and condoms on/off/on/off and still retaining the fun and spontaneity.

Just looking for tips from couples who have been doing this for a long time and are well practiced!!

Thank you "

I don’t think there is really a ‘safe’ solution to this scenario but I’m watching with interest the comments.

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By *ensual -lover69Man
over a year ago

Blackburn


"Use a new condom each time you swap"

Love your pics

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By *F79 OP   Couple
over a year ago

Moray


"Use a new condom each time you swap

Of course, but I’m thinking of the longer sessions where *for example* Both Mrs are being fucked by the other Mr’s, and one Mr pulls out so the other Mrs can give oral to the other Mrs!

It’s the practicalities of using dams and condoms on/off/on/off and still retaining the fun and spontaneity.

Just looking for tips from couples who have been doing this for a long time and are well practiced!!

Thank you

I don’t think there is really a ‘safe’ solution to this scenario but I’m watching with interest the comments. "

We are thinking the same..... does somewhat make a mockery of ‘only practicing safe sex’ though.

Give/receive bareback oral, then use a condom for penetration..... only thing you are protecting from then is pregnancy.

If anyone has used dams they’ve found really good can you advise which ones please??!!

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

Never heard of anyone actually wearing one - is it like a fetish ? Just don’t suck cock with diseases and you’ll be fine

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds


"Never heard of anyone actually wearing one - is it like a fetish ? Just don’t suck cock with diseases and you’ll be fine "

Do you think we should have sight of the man’s last sex test results before we suck said cock?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Look out for the same hand moving between cocks and fannies.

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By *issyEMWoman
over a year ago

Nearly

Swinging open up my mind about safe sex and lets be honest put me in possition that i am not doibg oral at all with others.

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By *LIRTWITHUSCouple
over a year ago

Chester

Plenty of advice covered so many times it's upto you to decide end of the day. Eyes don't get cum in them and gums if bleeding hiv and others can get into bloodstream, same as anal as you can tear, cervix higher risk of cancer due to different sperms as well as obvious. It's about reducing risk, condoms and change between partners and use on toys, obvious no sperm transfer on hands. Oral stomach acid kills std but there's more than hiv for mouth etc. The nurse at our club std testing was very informative.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Plenty of advice covered so many times it's upto you to decide end of the day. Eyes don't get cum in them and gums if bleeding hiv and others can get into bloodstream, same as anal as you can tear, cervix higher risk of cancer due to different sperms as well as obvious. It's about reducing risk, condoms and change between partners and use on toys, obvious no sperm transfer on hands. Oral stomach acid kills std but there's more than hiv for mouth etc. The nurse at our club std testing was very informative. "

Agree with most of above

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By *LIRTWITHUSCouple
over a year ago

Chester


"Plenty of advice covered so many times it's upto you to decide end of the day. Eyes don't get cum in them and gums if bleeding hiv and others can get into bloodstream, same as anal as you can tear, cervix higher risk of cancer due to different sperms as well as obvious. It's about reducing risk, condoms and change between partners and use on toys, obvious no sperm transfer on hands. Oral stomach acid kills std but there's more than hiv for mouth etc. The nurse at our club std testing was very informative.

Agree with most of above "

Feel free to add

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By *ntraditionalwomanWoman
over a year ago

Manchester

risk of stis from oral are much much lower. most people in clubs will use condoms for penetrative sex and not oral

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By *F79 OP   Couple
over a year ago

Moray

Thank you for all your replies..... it must be the Nurse side of me that makes me think about these things.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thank you for all your replies..... it must be the Nurse side of me that makes me think about these things. "

It's not just you (and I'm not a nurse).

I started a thread months ago. And asked about attitudes towards dams and gloves in group situations.

I've not used dams so can't recommend any, but was told you can cut a condom - top off and up one side, and open out.

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham


"Never heard of anyone actually wearing one - is it like a fetish ? Just don’t suck cock with diseases and you’ll be fine

Do you think we should have sight of the man’s last sex test results before we suck said cock? "

Not needed - just use good judgment and limit yourself , STI from oral is a very small risk

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Plenty of advice covered so many times it's upto you to decide end of the day. Eyes don't get cum in them and gums if bleeding hiv and others can get into bloodstream, same as anal as you can tear, cervix higher risk of cancer due to different sperms as well as obvious. It's about reducing risk, condoms and change between partners and use on toys, obvious no sperm transfer on hands. Oral stomach acid kills std but there's more than hiv for mouth etc. The nurse at our club std testing was very informative. "

Is your cervix up your bum??

Must have had a poor biology teacher!!

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By *LIRTWITHUSCouple
over a year ago

Chester


"Plenty of advice covered so many times it's upto you to decide end of the day. Eyes don't get cum in them and gums if bleeding hiv and others can get into bloodstream, same as anal as you can tear, cervix higher risk of cancer due to different sperms as well as obvious. It's about reducing risk, condoms and change between partners and use on toys, obvious no sperm transfer on hands. Oral stomach acid kills std but there's more than hiv for mouth etc. The nurse at our club std testing was very informative.

Is your cervix up your bum??

Must have had a poor biology teacher!!"

What a strange comment

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By *aptainhook1Man
over a year ago

London

Sti's are on the increase and new ones are appearing which are antibiotic resistant. You can get sti's from giv8ng or recieving oral and it is not that rare anymore.

If you are single or a swingngcouple then can take more risks and get treated if get an sti. If married / in a relationship and your partner doesnt know about your meets then think carefully about the risks and that you could infect your married partner. Especially as sti's can take 2 weeks to show symptoms.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

New definition of safe sex.....do it from 2m away!!

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By *ohndunboyneMan
over a year ago

Dunboyne & Dublin

Get a bottle of Milton and a bottle of Listerine mint.

Mix together.

Pour liberally over all genitalia in the play area.

Commence fun, safe in the knowledge they're all stabilised and minty fresh

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By *ohndunboyneMan
over a year ago

Dunboyne & Dublin


"Get a bottle of Milton and a bottle of Listerine mint.

Mix together.

Pour liberally over all genitalia in the play area.

Commence fun, safe in the knowledge they're all stabilised and minty fresh "

Sterilized not stabilised

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By *ickygirl41Woman
over a year ago

Glasgow


"Use a new condom each time you swap

Of course, but I’m thinking of the longer sessions where *for example* Both Mrs are being fucked by the other Mr’s, and one Mr pulls out so the other Mrs can give oral to the other Mrs!

It’s the practicalities of using dams and condoms on/off/on/off and still retaining the fun and spontaneity.

Just looking for tips from couples who have been doing this for a long time and are well practiced!!

Thank you

I don’t think there is really a ‘safe’ solution to this scenario but I’m watching with interest the comments.

We are thinking the same..... does somewhat make a mockery of ‘only practicing safe sex’ though.

Give/receive bareback oral, then use a condom for penetration..... only thing you are protecting from then is pregnancy.

If anyone has used dams they’ve found really good can you advise which ones please??!!"

Large dams

Affix with one bit of medical tape above area.

Have spares ready to go.

Condoms open on table to reduce changeover time.

Wearer puts condom on (always faster)

Lube handy.

Enjoy.

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