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So, how can I improve the profile?

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By *arbarianz OP   Couple
over a year ago

BARNSTAPLE

So! yeah, profile is in it's infancy. first draft. plenty to refine etc..

What can I add to attract the right sort of people? and filter out the 'hey X' posts etc?

nb; I know I need to get more male pics on there. :P anything other than that is great! :D

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

I think you will struggle to attract couples when you say "you are there to add to OUR experience".

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By *inky Biscuit DunkerMan
over a year ago

Gloucestershire

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By *irty PrettyWoman
over a year ago

Cardiff


"I think you will struggle to attract couples when you say "you are there to add to OUR experience"."

That’ll struggle to attract women as well.

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By *mberWoman
over a year ago

Preston

You repeat yourself about the cuck thing. Say it once if it's important. If people ignore it, they're not for you.

It's very passive aggressive, you don't come across as warm and welcoming.

You don't need to separate the letters in kik and I don't know that you need the 0 in p0rn either. (You might, but I don't think so)

I've not looked at your photos as I'm not in a suitable environment so can't comment.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's a very long profile, which some won't mind, but it's a bit long for me; you can likely reduce it a lot, infer your key points and let people know you're happy to discuss further.

I agree also that it comes across a bit heavy with the 'for our pleasure' stuff, it's a common complaint here that singles can feel like glorified sex toys with some couples, which isn't good. Everyone has an equal right to a good time.

Good luck

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By *arbarianz OP   Couple
over a year ago

BARNSTAPLE


"It's a very long profile, which some won't mind, but it's a bit long for me; you can likely reduce it a lot, infer your key points and let people know you're happy to discuss further.

I agree also that it comes across a bit heavy with the 'for our pleasure' stuff, it's a common complaint here that singles can feel like glorified sex toys with some couples, which isn't good. Everyone has an equal right to a good time.

Good luck "

thanks for the replies all. I've cleaned it up recently, it may even be longer. I'm fine with that, if somebody can't take 2/3 mins to read.. then we aren't really interested.

The reason for the our pleasure etc stuff was of the dozens of messages/week.. a good 75% were 'bull's thinking this was something it wasn't. so I felt it worth mentioning multiple times

some good notes though, thanks!

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By *arbarianz OP   Couple
over a year ago

BARNSTAPLE


"I think you will struggle to attract couples when you say "you are there to add to OUR experience"."

that part is firmly aimed at the dozens of solo males :P

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am not a fan of the pics. For me the type of pics you have on are a major no no. I want to see more personality in it. Try and stand out for the right reasons

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Also add a PFP

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why don't you want to know peoples names? Comes across as a bit cold like

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By *arbarianz OP   Couple
over a year ago

BARNSTAPLE


"Why don't you want to know peoples names? Comes across as a bit cold like"

I guess because we have no plans on sharing ours. so don't expect it of them no idea what a PFP is btw! :P

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why don't you want to know peoples names? Comes across as a bit cold like

I guess because we have no plans on sharing ours. so don't expect it of them no idea what a PFP is btw! :P "

You've got your names on your profile description! Are you going to just call the people you meet "sex object number1" "Sex object number2" etc?!

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By *arbarianz OP   Couple
over a year ago

BARNSTAPLE


"Why don't you want to know peoples names? Comes across as a bit cold like

I guess because we have no plans on sharing ours. so don't expect it of them no idea what a PFP is btw! :P

You've got your names on your profile description! Are you going to just call the people you meet "sex object number1" "Sex object number2" etc?!"

No, we've got aliases! and shit, that works for us!

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By *arbarianz OP   Couple
over a year ago

BARNSTAPLE

Added PFP! didn't realise we didn't have one set!

I think it's very easy for males to underestimate the amount of messages couples get. so honestly, if we lose a few cos they feel we are short with them etc.. then so be it :P

I try and put a lot of info in there so as not to waste peoples time. not to be rude

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By *arbarianz OP   Couple
over a year ago

BARNSTAPLE

Added/amended a few bits. added a pfp! much happier with it! thanks for the feedback :D

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