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By *eBornGemini OP   Man
over a year ago

Darlington

I’m thinking of having a name change, I think that the name I have at the minute just puts people off and makes it look like A) I’m just here for a quick shag and B) I’m not all that genuine...

Would love to know everyone’s thoughts as I am genuine and not just looking for quickies and I want to improve my profile

Look forward to your feedback

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you are big then stand by it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My friend was Dixie Normous on here and me and his gf made him change it as names like that sound immature or bragy

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By *eBornGemini OP   Man
over a year ago

Darlington


"If you are big then stand by it."

I have always been “got it flaunt it” kinda guy but I just feel in this environment it can make me look immature?

Maybe I’m wrong but that’s why I like the feedback

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By *eBornGemini OP   Man
over a year ago

Darlington


"My friend was Dixie Normous on here and me and his gf made him change it as names like that sound immature or bragy "

That’s my thought as well, thanks for the reply and feedback

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My friend was Dixie Normous on here and me and his gf made him change it as names like that sound immature or bragy

That’s my thought as well, thanks for the reply and feedback "

Why ask other people as some might like funny names others might not

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As the male of a couple my input may be superfluous but if you're going to use your username to advertise an asset at least prove it in your photos

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most folk can see past a name.

Depends on your profile n messages. (Aswell as photos) so its the whole package.

If youre happy with it keep it

If youre not then change it.

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By *eBornGemini OP   Man
over a year ago

Darlington


"My friend was Dixie Normous on here and me and his gf made him change it as names like that sound immature or bragy

That’s my thought as well, thanks for the reply and feedback

Why ask other people as some might like funny names others might not "

It’s tough as it is for men to progress on here and I have learnt a lot in the last few months, I am looking into clubs as there is a higher rate of success when it comes to socialising and meeting new people and also it was playing on my mind that my profile name may be putting people off and that’s why I’m not getting replies so thought I would put the question out there and get some feedback and advice

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By *eBornGemini OP   Man
over a year ago

Darlington


"As the male of a couple my input may be superfluous but if you're going to use your username to advertise an asset at least prove it in your photos "

I use to have all my pics set to public but again it’s about interaction and having most set to friends only invites intrigue and hopefully the odd friend request or acceptance of that makes sense?

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By *eBornGemini OP   Man
over a year ago

Darlington

Happy to accept any friend requests to prove the name holds true

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My friend was Dixie Normous on here and me and his gf made him change it as names like that sound immature or bragy

That’s my thought as well, thanks for the reply and feedback

Why ask other people as some might like funny names others might not

It’s tough as it is for men to progress on here and I have learnt a lot in the last few months, I am looking into clubs as there is a higher rate of success when it comes to socialising and meeting new people and also it was playing on my mind that my profile name may be putting people off and that’s why I’m not getting replies so thought I would put the question out there and get some feedback and advice "

Don't change things for other people as I said some will like it since won't if its playing on your mind then change it you could also put a vote up for your new name and what ever name wins you keep it lol

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By *eBornGemini OP   Man
over a year ago

Darlington


"My friend was Dixie Normous on here and me and his gf made him change it as names like that sound immature or bragy

That’s my thought as well, thanks for the reply and feedback

Why ask other people as some might like funny names others might not

It’s tough as it is for men to progress on here and I have learnt a lot in the last few months, I am looking into clubs as there is a higher rate of success when it comes to socialising and meeting new people and also it was playing on my mind that my profile name may be putting people off and that’s why I’m not getting replies so thought I would put the question out there and get some feedback and advice

Don't change things for other people as I said some will like it since won't if its playing on your mind then change it you could also put a vote up for your new name and what ever name wins you keep it lol "

That’s an awesome idea, I may just have to try that and see what happens ... just got to think of a good name first haha

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

When I first joined up to this site many moons ago, I was called superramfan, I can be Alice Winger occasionally as well

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’m thinking of having a name change, I think that the name I have at the minute just puts people off and makes it look like A) I’m just here for a quick shag and B) I’m not all that genuine...

Would love to know everyone’s thoughts as I am genuine and not just looking for quickies and I want to improve my profile

Look forward to your feedback "

I do generally judge someone by the username they pick as it displays their core personality, if it works for you great but if not change it Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My friend was Dixie Normous on here and me and his gf made him change it as names like that sound immature or bragy

That’s my thought as well, thanks for the reply and feedback

Why ask other people as some might like funny names others might not

It’s tough as it is for men to progress on here and I have learnt a lot in the last few months, I am looking into clubs as there is a higher rate of success when it comes to socialising and meeting new people and also it was playing on my mind that my profile name may be putting people off and that’s why I’m not getting replies so thought I would put the question out there and get some feedback and advice

Don't change things for other people as I said some will like it since won't if its playing on your mind then change it you could also put a vote up for your new name and what ever name wins you keep it lol

That’s an awesome idea, I may just have to try that and see what happens ... just got to think of a good name first haha "

No.peopoe chose your name for you lol

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By *eBornGemini OP   Man
over a year ago

Darlington


"I’m thinking of having a name change, I think that the name I have at the minute just puts people off and makes it look like A) I’m just here for a quick shag and B) I’m not all that genuine...

Would love to know everyone’s thoughts as I am genuine and not just looking for quickies and I want to improve my profile

Look forward to your feedback

I do generally judge someone by the username they pick as it displays their core personality, if it works for you great but if not change it Xx"

I’m definitely going to have a good think about it, appreciate your honesty and feedback

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By *eBornGemini OP   Man
over a year ago

Darlington


"My friend was Dixie Normous on here and me and his gf made him change it as names like that sound immature or bragy

That’s my thought as well, thanks for the reply and feedback

Why ask other people as some might like funny names others might not

It’s tough as it is for men to progress on here and I have learnt a lot in the last few months, I am looking into clubs as there is a higher rate of success when it comes to socialising and meeting new people and also it was playing on my mind that my profile name may be putting people off and that’s why I’m not getting replies so thought I would put the question out there and get some feedback and advice

Don't change things for other people as I said some will like it since won't if its playing on your mind then change it you could also put a vote up for your new name and what ever name wins you keep it lol

That’s an awesome idea, I may just have to try that and see what happens ... just got to think of a good name first haha

No.peopoe chose your name for you lol "

Ahhhh that’s a big gamble haha, but could definitely be interesting and fun to do..

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By *eBornGemini OP   Man
over a year ago

Darlington

Sent you a DM Tiny

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My friend was Dixie Normous on here and me and his gf made him change it as names like that sound immature or bragy

That’s my thought as well, thanks for the reply and feedback

Why ask other people as some might like funny names others might not

It’s tough as it is for men to progress on here and I have learnt a lot in the last few months, I am looking into clubs as there is a higher rate of success when it comes to socialising and meeting new people and also it was playing on my mind that my profile name may be putting people off and that’s why I’m not getting replies so thought I would put the question out there and get some feedback and advice

Don't change things for other people as I said some will like it since won't if its playing on your mind then change it you could also put a vote up for your new name and what ever name wins you keep it lol

That’s an awesome idea, I may just have to try that and see what happens ... just got to think of a good name first haha

No.peopoe chose your name for you lol

Ahhhh that’s a big gamble haha, but could definitely be interesting and fun to do.. "

It could get you lots of meets.My name I chose for you to make you sound really appealing to others is cheesy sausage

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sent you a DM Tiny "

Sorry I can't read as my eyes are broken from some of the images on here

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

I hope you don't get any sleep whatsoever whilst you're thinking about getting a new username.............

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By *eBornGemini OP   Man
over a year ago

Darlington


"My friend was Dixie Normous on here and me and his gf made him change it as names like that sound immature or bragy

That’s my thought as well, thanks for the reply and feedback

Why ask other people as some might like funny names others might not

It’s tough as it is for men to progress on here and I have learnt a lot in the last few months, I am looking into clubs as there is a higher rate of success when it comes to socialising and meeting new people and also it was playing on my mind that my profile name may be putting people off and that’s why I’m not getting replies so thought I would put the question out there and get some feedback and advice

Don't change things for other people as I said some will like it since won't if its playing on your mind then change it you could also put a vote up for your new name and what ever name wins you keep it lol

That’s an awesome idea, I may just have to try that and see what happens ... just got to think of a good name first haha

No.peopoe chose your name for you lol

Ahhhh that’s a big gamble haha, but could definitely be interesting and fun to do..

It could get you lots of meets.My name I chose for you to make you sound really appealing to others is cheesy sausage "

HahaHaha that name could go either way lol, my concern would be the cheesy part... not very inviting haha...

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By *eBornGemini OP   Man
over a year ago

Darlington


"I hope you don't get any sleep whatsoever whilst you're thinking about getting a new username............. "

Haha, my brain is in overdrive

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I hope you don't get any sleep whatsoever whilst you're thinking about getting a new username............. "

Insonia? Or is that to selective

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We all need to think of a name for op

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By *uke OzadeMan
over a year ago

Ho Chi Minge City

I used to be distinctlyaverageschlong but found I was flaunting my mediocrity too much so now I just use my real name

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By *eBornGemini OP   Man
over a year ago

Darlington


"We all need to think of a name for op "

I love it that your now my PR manager haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We all need to think of a name for op

I love it that your now my PR manager haha "

Public repellent

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By *eBornGemini OP   Man
over a year ago

Darlington


"We all need to think of a name for op

I love it that your now my PR manager haha

Public repellent "

I would have to say looking at your profile you are 100% the opposite

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I avoid all usernames of this type as just seems rather juvenile tbh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I honestly don't pay much attention to usernames

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Happy to accept any friend requests to prove the name holds true "

Keep it. It's who you are. Nothing more irritating than chatting to someone who then changes their name. It gets confusing.

Friend request being sent in 3,2,1......

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By *oved Up 2Couple
over a year ago

nottingham

If you were aiming to sound like a 16yr old when you created your profile name you've succeeded.

I wouldn't even look at your profile.

Sorry but you did ask for honesty

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By *nce a MinxWoman
over a year ago

near basingstoke

Honestly yours isn't that off-putting

I have blocked men frequently for vile usernames, sometimes they make me shudder in a bad way lol

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By *adame 2SwordsWoman
over a year ago

Victoria, London

I don't look for big cocks, sorry. you name just helps me to avoid you

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By *eBornGemini OP   Man
over a year ago

Darlington


"If you were aiming to sound like a 16yr old when you created your profile name you've succeeded.

I wouldn't even look at your profile.

Sorry but you did ask for honesty "

I did and I appreciate your honesty

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If you were aiming to sound like a 16yr old when you created your profile name you've succeeded.

I wouldn't even look at your profile.

Sorry but you did ask for honesty

I did and I appreciate your honesty "

I think you should keep your name. At least you are not a hypocrite.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No but your profile picture does

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By *isaB45Woman
over a year ago

Fabville

Yes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To me it implies it’s all you have to offer and there’s no personality to accompany it. We would rather go with anyone else

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’m thinking of having a name change, I think that the name I have at the minute just puts people off and makes it look like A) I’m just here for a quick shag and B) I’m not all that genuine...

Would love to know everyone’s thoughts as I am genuine and not just looking for quickies and I want to improve my profile

Look forward to your feedback "

that and your dick pic

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes because it doesn’t look big so false advertising

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By *erdyWoman
over a year ago

wiltshire

Anyone, who's profile name is associated with their genitalia is a no from me.

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By *edBubblesWoman
over a year ago

Sensual Street Horny Town Lincoln NE1 4BJ

Pmsl I can't possibly comment as you've blocked me but never spoken. Happy days

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Pmsl I can't possibly comment as you've blocked me but never spoken. Happy days "

Maybe he didn't like your name

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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago

hiding from cock pics.

his profile might be suspended

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By *eBornGemini OP   Man
over a year ago

Darlington

I have been unable to post anything for some reason

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By *eBornGemini OP   Man
over a year ago

Darlington

Holy shit it worked

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By *eBornGemini OP   Man
over a year ago

Darlington


"Pmsl I can't possibly comment as you've blocked me but never spoken. Happy days "

Have sent you a DM , but I didn’t block you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i think its a great name keep it......... keeps the competition down

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By *ute Manchester SwingersCouple
over a year ago

Manchester


"No but your profile picture does "

^^^^ yep

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By *eBornGemini OP   Man
over a year ago

Darlington


"No but your profile picture does

^^^^ yep"

Is that a better profile pic?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’m thinking of having a name change, I think that the name I have at the minute just puts people off and makes it look like A) I’m just here for a quick shag and B) I’m not all that genuine...

Would love to know everyone’s thoughts as I am genuine and not just looking for quickies and I want to improve my profile

Look forward to your feedback "

A transsexual friend many years ago used to talk about men’s schlongs which I’m sure she loved. So keep it I say xxx

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By *etro1940sCouple
over a year ago

Kingston upon Thames


"To me it implies it’s all you have to offer and there’s no personality to accompany it. We would rather go with anyone else "
a fair argument ... some charm or humour in a profile name is better ... just our humble opinion

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well mine is pretty accurate

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It doesn't look that big to be honest.. but pictures can be deceiving

Username is a put off.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It doesn't look that big to be honest.. but pictures can be deceiving

Username is a put off."

Ouch

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It doesn't look that big to be honest.. but pictures can be deceiving

Username is a put off.

Ouch"

I'm just answering OP's question

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By *eBornGemini OP   Man
over a year ago

Darlington


"It doesn't look that big to be honest.. but pictures can be deceiving

Username is a put off.

Ouch

I'm just answering OP's question "

U want to see the other pics? Maybe your opinion may change? Let me know and I will send friend request

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It doesn't look that big to be honest.. but pictures can be deceiving

Username is a put off.

Ouch

I'm just answering OP's question

U want to see the other pics? Maybe your opinion may change? Let me know and I will send friend request "

Think I'll pass

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By *eBornGemini OP   Man
over a year ago

Darlington

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By *eBornGemini OP   Man
over a year ago

Darlington


"It doesn't look that big to be honest.. but pictures can be deceiving

Username is a put off.

Ouch

I'm just answering OP's question

U want to see the other pics? Maybe your opinion may change? Let me know and I will send friend request

Think I'll pass "

I can send them in a message if you don’t want the rl friend request??

At least give me chance to prove you wrong lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It doesn't look that big to be honest.. but pictures can be deceiving

Username is a put off.

Ouch

I'm just answering OP's question

U want to see the other pics? Maybe your opinion may change? Let me know and I will send friend request

Think I'll pass

I can send them in a message if you don’t want the rl friend request??

At least give me chance to prove you wrong lol"

No chance

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It doesn't look that big to be honest.. but pictures can be deceiving

Username is a put off.

Ouch

I'm just answering OP's question

U want to see the other pics? Maybe your opinion may change? Let me know and I will send friend request

Think I'll pass

I can send them in a message if you don’t want the rl friend request??

At least give me chance to prove you wrong lol"

Having seen your schlong for myself I’m very pleased to say it’s very yummy and I’d like to get to know it better xxx. Thanks buddy xxx

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By *jb773Man
over a year ago

Bishops Stortford

I have changed my name a few times, never know if the username is the reason women never want to meet

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL


"My friend was Dixie Normous on here and me and his gf made him change it as names like that sound immature or bragy "
I liked it, always made me giggle.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Changed my name a few times over the years. When dressing fully I was known as Margo then Irene......and now.....guess what ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yes gemini omg you're a terrible twin

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