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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hey everyone!

This is my first forum post, go me! Hahaha

Just got a question about something I read in a thread, do people generally assume as a guy if you can't accom you are cheating on your partner?

Thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hey everyone!

This is my first forum post, go me! Hahaha

Just got a question about something I read in a thread, do people generally assume as a guy if you can't accom you are cheating on your partner?

Thanks

"
yep thats the assumption always explain why

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

It's annoying that haha, can't accom because I live with a mate haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's annoying that haha, can't accom because I live with a mate haha"
well put you live in shared housing then, simples

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

He could be a single parent. Or concerned for his safety or privacy.

Lots of reasons.

So I don’t assume he’s cheating.

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By *uliette500Woman
over a year ago

Hull

Not just men.

I have been accused of lying about being single because I can't accommodate but the real reason is I have my son at home.

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By *orth_hantscplCouple
over a year ago

camberley

We prefer guys to be honest about whether they can accommodate. It’s frustrating getting to the point of arranging a meet only for them to admit they can’t actually accommodate after all, or they can but we’d have to stay downstairs and be quiet as their wife and kids are upstairs asleep

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

It seems like people are pretty quick to jump to assumptions on here

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"We prefer guys to be honest about whether they can accommodate. It’s frustrating getting to the point of arranging a meet only for them to admit they can’t actually accommodate after all, or they can but we’d have to stay downstairs and be quiet as their wife and kids are upstairs asleep "

People don't seriously do that?!?!!

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By *all-Eddies QosCouple
over a year ago

wirral


"It's annoying that haha, can't accom because I live with a mate haha"

Get him in on it.... 2 cocks better than 1

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It's annoying that haha, can't accom because I live with a mate haha

Get him in on it.... 2 cocks better than 1 "

I like your thinking

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ive been accused of cheating as im on as a single man and im married...untill they find out that she is also on here as a single lady. We are just enjoying playing alone for a while.

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By *teveanddebsCouple
over a year ago

Norwich


"Hey everyone!

This is my first forum post, go me! Hahaha

Just got a question about something I read in a thread, do people generally assume as a guy if you can't accom you are cheating on your partner?

Thanks

"

Not at all, but we do assume that most married men can't accommodate so not meeting men that can't gets rid of most of them. It's a numbers game.

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By *rontier PsychiatristMan
over a year ago

Coventry

As a single parent to young kids it was hard to accommodate (made more difficult when most of the women I'd start to talk to were also single parents). I'm sure I've missed opportunities because of my family situation. Women on fab are very naturally cynical when it comes to a single man who can not always accommodate at his own home. Those who have invest the energy to dig deeper and talk to me have got to understand my personal home situation.

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By *exy4youxxWoman
over a year ago

Pontefract


"It seems like people are pretty quick to jump to assumptions on here"

You have been here 2weeks we been here years lol and a lot of men are cheating on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If anyone assumes things about me are they actually worth meeting i question..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If anyone assumes things about me are they actually worth meeting i question..

"
i assume youre junngle fresh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It seems like people are pretty quick to jump to assumptions on here

You have been here 2weeks we been here years lol and a lot of men are cheating on here "
and women

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not just men.

I have been accused of lying about being single because I can't accommodate but the real reason is I have my son at home. "

Snap, and people assume you're not telling the truth.

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury


"Hey everyone!

This is my first forum post, go me! Hahaha

Just got a question about something I read in a thread, do people generally assume as a guy if you can't accom you are cheating on your partner?

Thanks

"

Yes.

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By *wink loverMan
over a year ago

Newcastle


"It's annoying that haha, can't accom because I live with a mate haha"

Why would living with a mate stop you from accommodating?

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By *nlyIfItsWorthItMan
over a year ago

Newcastle


"He could be a single parent. Or concerned for his safety or privacy.

Lots of reasons.

So I don’t assume he’s cheating. "

This

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It seems like people are pretty quick to jump to assumptions on here"
no just your guilty until you can prove your innocent ??

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By *ildatheart6969Couple
over a year ago

Cheltenham

People assume what they like

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

I assume they are not on AirBnB.... or I’m on the wrong app again, that would explain a few strange meets actually....

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By *ersnickety PantsWoman
over a year ago

Club Meets Only

I can't accom, doesn't mean I have a secret partner so I don't assume anyone else who can't accom is cheating

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By *exy4youxxWoman
over a year ago

Pontefract


"It seems like people are pretty quick to jump to assumptions on here

You have been here 2weeks we been here years lol and a lot of men are cheating on here and women "

Me bad this is true x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hey everyone!

This is my first forum post, go me! Hahaha

Just got a question about something I read in a thread, do people generally assume as a guy if you can't accom you are cheating on your partner?

Thanks

"

Yes, that's the assumption a lot of the time. I genuinely couldn't accommodate for a while and I was outright accused of cheating by people I'd never even messaged before

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

I don't assume I just don't invite anyone into my home who won't invite me to theirs.

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By *mberWoman
over a year ago

Preston

I don't assume. I ask.

I expect the truth.

I'm not naive enough to think I always get it though.

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By *orthern StarsCouple
over a year ago

Durham

Sadly many people do assume that. However we are open minded and try to keep an open mind. We don't accommodate for many reasons. Doesn't mean we are cheating.

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By *r_Jake70Man
over a year ago

London


"It's annoying that haha, can't accom because I live with a mate haha"

So you and your mate have an agreement not to have sex while you’re living together? I’ve been to a number of shared houses and flats, the either arrange for the other to go out for the night, or just keep out of the way. I honestly don’t see the problem. Unless your mate is also your partner.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's annoying that haha, can't accom because I live with a mate haha"

Get the mate to join in hehe

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is it different if a woman says she can't accommodate?

I think the cheating thing is assumed to be a man thing so if a woman says she can't it's probably the last thing a guy would think was the reason why she couldn't

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate


"It's annoying that haha, can't accom because I live with a mate haha

Why would living with a mate stop you from accommodating? "

Maybe his mate doesn't want strangers trooping in and out frequently? It's about respect for the people you live with really, it's their house too.

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