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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

You know the one;

The one who, if they turned up out of the blue and said they’d made the biggest mistake in their life when they split with you..... the one who you couldn’t honestly say how you’d react if they did.....

Yeah. Mine just did.

#confused.

Aaaaahhhhhh. What to do.

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet

If they turn up at 2am that's a booty call.

Avoid.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tap that ass and you will have a clear mind about what to do

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By *ust me2019Woman
over a year ago

Kirkby

Their an ex for a reason

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By *etwifeandhim69Couple
over a year ago

Darlington

I've not seen my ex in 25 years.

If they turned up now talking all that nonsense, I'd call the police.

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT


"You know the one;

The one who, if they turned up out of the blue and said they’d made the biggest mistake in their life when they split with you..... the one who you couldn’t honestly say how you’d react if they did.....

Yeah. Mine just did.

#confused.

Aaaaahhhhhh. What to do. "

Id say bye and don't come back.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ex for a reason not mater what don't go there it will end again causing you the same crap it did last time

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL


"Ex for a reason not mater what don't go there it will end again causing you the same crap it did last time "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always move forward and not backwards!!!

T

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By *m A FuckerMan
over a year ago

kingswood,surrey/leysdown kent

hmmmn unfortunately I don't think its the same 2nd time round....could be wrong.x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You know the one;

The one who, if they turned up out of the blue and said they’d made the biggest mistake in their life when they split with you..... the one who you couldn’t honestly say how you’d react if they did.....

Yeah. Mine just did.

#confused.

Aaaaahhhhhh. What to do. "

Put your cock away. She’s an ex for a reason!

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By *hloevtTV/TS
over a year ago

norwich

Move on , fish in the sea and all that !!

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By *pril86Woman
over a year ago

chester

Defo agree others move forwards ex’s are meant to stay in the past

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By *vpamelaTV/TS
over a year ago

kinkville


"You know the one;

The one who, if they turned up out of the blue and said they’d made the biggest mistake in their life when they split with you..... the one who you couldn’t honestly say how you’d react if they did.....

Yeah. Mine just did.

#confused.

Aaaaahhhhhh. What to do. "

If they became an ex because you transitioned and left you, I have to admit I might give them a second chance.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You know the one;

The one who, if they turned up out of the blue and said they’d made the biggest mistake in their life when they split with you..... the one who you couldn’t honestly say how you’d react if they did.....

Yeah. Mine just did.

#confused.

Aaaaahhhhhh. What to do. "

It depends upon the reasons why it ended, when it ended and why they want to start it again. Relationships don’t always end on bad traumatic terms, sometimes time apart gives space and clarity. Talk about it, make it clear what you want and take it very slow. Hope it works out xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

His loss move on.. dont go back

Ex for a reason.

Future is in front of you

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"You know the one;

The one who, if they turned up out of the blue and said they’d made the biggest mistake in their life when they split with you..... the one who you couldn’t honestly say how you’d react if they did.....

Yeah. Mine just did.

#confused.

Aaaaahhhhhh. What to do.

Put your cock away. She’s an ex for a reason! "

Don’t be a tw@ all your life.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"His loss move on.. dont go back

Ex for a reason.

Future is in front of you"

It rocked me when he called. I think about him a lot still and apparently that’s mutual.

I guess it’s a good thing there’s three hours driving between us.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah, I know the one, and that's the very one you need to stay away from!

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By *irateloversCouple
over a year ago

Pembrokeshire


"Ex for a reason not mater what don't go there it will end again causing you the same crap it did last time "

We were together years ago, we split up and got back together a few years later. Mrs has a saying "if you love something let it go, if it comes back it was meant to be". Not sure it is a mantra anyone should live by, but someone can be an ex for all sorts of reasons, not all of them are reasons to preclude rekindling things with an ex. Do whatever feels right for you OP

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Ex for a reason not mater what don't go there it will end again causing you the same crap it did last time

We were together years ago, we split up and got back together a few years later. Mrs has a saying "if you love something let it go, if it comes back it was meant to be". Not sure it is a mantra anyone should live by, but someone can be an ex for all sorts of reasons, not all of them are reasons to preclude rekindling things with an ex. Do whatever feels right for you OP "

I do miss him. He says he misses me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You know the one;

The one who, if they turned up out of the blue and said they’d made the biggest mistake in their life when they split with you..... the one who you couldn’t honestly say how you’d react if they did.....

Yeah. Mine just did.

#confused.

Aaaaahhhhhh. What to do.

Put your cock away. She’s an ex for a reason!

Don’t be a tw@ all your life. "

Well said!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You know the one;

The one who, if they turned up out of the blue and said they’d made the biggest mistake in their life when they split with you..... the one who you couldn’t honestly say how you’d react if they did.....

Yeah. Mine just did.

#confused.

Aaaaahhhhhh. What to do. "

You’ve moved on . Bye ????

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By *irateloversCouple
over a year ago

Pembrokeshire


"Ex for a reason not mater what don't go there it will end again causing you the same crap it did last time

We were together years ago, we split up and got back together a few years later. Mrs has a saying "if you love something let it go, if it comes back it was meant to be". Not sure it is a mantra anyone should live by, but someone can be an ex for all sorts of reasons, not all of them are reasons to preclude rekindling things with an ex. Do whatever feels right for you OP

I do miss him. He says he misses me.

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Talk to him, get a handle on how you feel, get a better understanding of how he feels and see where you end up mentally and emotionally. Nobody with any advice is going to have even the slightest understanding of the situations ins and outs, the finer details. Take advice, including this, with a pinch of salt. Do what feels best for YOU, not him or anyone else. Start off with a chat over a nice cup of tea

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A while after a relationship ends when the resentment/anger/whatever triggered the end has subsided we tend to romanticise the relationship. Write down everything that you didn’t like about the relationship/him. Aim for 50 things small or big. When you’re done doing that and read it again 24hrs later if you still want to give him your time then you decide x

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By *rontier PsychiatristMan
over a year ago

Coventry

The most destructive and confusing times of my life was when my wife left me. Turned out she did me a huge favour. A fresh opportunity to really understand my self, what I want from life and to truly find the woman that was made for me (which I have). I do not regret my marriage and I am truly proud of the my part in it and the husband I was. We had some great times and shared so great experiences that were real and off their time. But her cheating on me and leaving me gave me new life and an opportunity to truly find freedom and self understanding. Ultimately she was not the right one for me. I'm old fashioned and would have been completely faithful to her. So I thank her for setting me free and with all due respect I never have her back.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Me personally I would say tough luck twato you had your chance you fucked it .....but that's me, my Dad is with a woman now he was with 25yrs ago, they met up the chemistry was there I've never seen him happier, so trust your gut instinct it's rarely wrong

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By *ogerBottomsMan
over a year ago

Aberdare


"You know the one;

The one who, if they turned up out of the blue and said they’d made the biggest mistake in their life when they split with you..... the one who you couldn’t honestly say how you’d react if they did.....

Yeah. Mine just did.

#confused.

Aaaaahhhhhh. What to do. "

You mean the one who's the only one you'd consider giving up being single for? Oooft. Good luck with that.

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By *ympho6969Woman
over a year ago

glasgow


"Their an ex for a reason"

This

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The most destructive and confusing times of my life was when my wife left me. Turned out she did me a huge favour. A fresh opportunity to really understand my self, what I want from life and to truly find the woman that was made for me (which I have). I do not regret my marriage and I am truly proud of the my part in it and the husband I was. We had some great times and shared so great experiences that were real and off their time. But her cheating on me and leaving me gave me new life and an opportunity to truly find freedom and self understanding. Ultimately she was not the right one for me. I'm old fashioned and would have been completely faithful to her. So I thank her for setting me free and with all due respect I never have her back."

It's painful isn't it. I've gone through all the emotions, mainly negative...but ultimately him cheating and finally giving me a solid reason to leave for good was the best thing for me.

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By *ove3funCouple
over a year ago

Cheltenham

Totally depends why you split up.

Sounds like you're in, take it slow see what happens

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Totally depends why you split up.

Sounds like you're in, take it slow see what happens"

This

Whatever you decide I hope that you don’t have any regrets x

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By *ulgehunterMan
over a year ago

yorkshire

Suck his cock and tell him to go ,that's what I would do

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Suck his cock and tell him to go ,that's what I would do"

He’d love a suck and go I’m sure.

Not helpful

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By *ulgehunterMan
over a year ago

yorkshire


"Suck his cock and tell him to go ,that's what I would do

He’d love a suck and go I’m sure.

Not helpful "
I'd love a suck lol

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