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"iv been on and off here for the past 2 years.. i go to parties, meets, clubs,im single and enjoying it. but over the past year i meet with a guy from here we meet at least once maybe twice a week, we text a lot and chat at least an hour every other day on the phone. thing is i dont just like him i really like him! hes really attractive great in the bedroom.. we can discuss all the topics in the world for hours... i cant tell him this as it may change things ... do i carry on seeing him ... or is it now time for me to get off fab and find a partner..i would like to be in a relationship iv been single 5 years! im never going to find partner/boyfriend while im here and having all my needs seen to!! " You may be surprised but he may feel as you do,and if so then you get the best of both worlds, swinging and a new partner | |||
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"iv been on and off here for the past 2 years.. i go to parties, meets, clubs,im single and enjoying it. but over the past year i meet with a guy from here we meet at least once maybe twice a week, we text a lot and chat at least an hour every other day on the phone. thing is i dont just like him i really like him! hes really attractive great in the bedroom.. we can discuss all the topics in the world for hours... i cant tell him this as it may change things ... do i carry on seeing him ... or is it now time for me to get off fab and find a partner..i would like to be in a relationship iv been single 5 years! im never going to find partner/boyfriend while im here and having all my needs seen to!! You may be surprised but he may feel as you do,and if so then you get the best of both worlds, swinging and a new partner" me and Jen met through here. neither of us started out wanting a relationship, but we found ourselves in love. we have been together for over a year and live together. we swing occasionally at parties and are very happy. we would not be where we are if we did not fess up how we felt about each other. it was weird to say so at first because we met through swinging after a meet via Fab. i am glad we took that plunge | |||
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"iv been on and off here for the past 2 years.. i go to parties, meets, clubs,im single and enjoying it. but over the past year i meet with a guy from here we meet at least once maybe twice a week, we text a lot and chat at least an hour every other day on the phone. thing is i dont just like him i really like him! hes really attractive great in the bedroom.. we can discuss all the topics in the world for hours... i cant tell him this as it may change things ... do i carry on seeing him ... or is it now time for me to get off fab and find a partner..i would like to be in a relationship iv been single 5 years! im never going to find partner/boyfriend while im here and having all my needs seen to!! " Do you need to get off fab...it sounds to me like you have found the person you want to have a more exclusive relationship with? If you know him then presumably you know his attitudes towards having a partner, if you are seeing him as regularly as you do and in not just for sex, you mention the great conversation) it sounds like he is in many ways willing to fill the boyfriend shaped hole you have decided exists. Why this thread is not about telling him you have feelings for him is a question only you can answer, but it is one worth thinking about. | |||
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"iv been on and off here for the past 2 years.. i go to parties, meets, clubs,im single and enjoying it. but over the past year i meet with a guy from here we meet at least once maybe twice a week, we text a lot and chat at least an hour every other day on the phone. thing is i dont just like him i really like him! hes really attractive great in the bedroom.. we can discuss all the topics in the world for hours... i cant tell him this as it may change things ... do i carry on seeing him ... or is it now time for me to get off fab and find a partner..i would like to be in a relationship iv been single 5 years! im never going to find partner/boyfriend while im here and having all my needs seen to!! " That amount of contact is erring more towards a relationship than swinging partners in my opinion. Tell him, what have you got to lose. What if is a terrible emotion to live with. | |||
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"Is it just me or am I missing something - as he is a Fab member isn't there a good chance he will read this thread anyway " Thinking the same. | |||
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"Is it just me or am I missing something - as he is a Fab member isn't there a good chance he will read this thread anyway Thinking the same." Maybe that's the point! | |||
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"hummm think i will tell him how i feel.. he will either run a mile or tell me he feels the same way ... will do it now before i change my mind! " Good luck xxx | |||
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"Is it just me or am I missing something - as he is a Fab member isn't there a good chance he will read this thread anyway " No he never reads the forum he only looks on fab about once a month if that. | |||
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"Is it just me or am I missing something - as he is a Fab member isn't there a good chance he will read this thread anyway Thinking the same." I have been on Fab for a year now and have only, in the last month, started looking into the forums. Perhaps he's a virgin....a forum one!!! | |||
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"well i did it i told him ..i suggested seeing less of each other .. i asked him to agree..he agreed, then i though why drag it out and get hurt in the end! so i said might aswell stop it now .. everything was good till feelings got in the way ..he agreed ... and that was that .... " still confused...why didnt you tell him hoe you felt and see if he felt the same? | |||
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"yeah i dont wana put it on him and him think im a bunny boiler , then again being friends aint going to work, i think its best i just say.. im moving on as nsa is no longer for me i want something more and the more i see him the more i want him .. bit harsh but its gotta be done .. i think " If you dont ask you dont get simples | |||
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"Why wasn't you open and honest with him! Surely if you can talk to him about anything for hours you could have told him how you felt? " | |||
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"I don't think I could take the rejection if I'm honest .... I reckon if he wants me he will come get me .. If things are meant to be they will be ... X" no you should have told him! We all know what men are like when it comes to making the first move! And what did you have to lose if you were going to end it anyway! | |||
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"I don't think I could take the rejection if I'm honest .... I reckon if he wants me he will come get me .. If things are meant to be they will be ... X" hmmm....playing games rarely works...you may have just lost a good thing if it was meant to be....hate that phrase...relationships take work. | |||
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"well i did it i told him ..i suggested seeing less of each other .. i asked him to agree..he agreed, then i though why drag it out and get hurt in the end! so i said might aswell stop it now .. everything was good till feelings got in the way ..he agreed ... and that was that .... " so after telling us all what you wanted... you told him the opposite! sorry... but WTF!!! sorry... i have two words for you.... mind games!!! so what was suppose to happen.. some sort of jedi mind trick.. let me let you into a secret... us men aren't really that good mindreaders!!! so if you had told him.. erm... lets say.....the truth!...it may have ended up differently... | |||
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"well i did it i told him ..i suggested seeing less of each other .. i asked him to agree..he agreed, then i though why drag it out and get hurt in the end! so i said might aswell stop it now .. everything was good till feelings got in the way ..he agreed ... and that was that .... so after telling us all what you wanted... you told him the opposite! sorry... but WTF!!! sorry... i have two words for you.... mind games!!! so what was suppose to happen.. some sort of jedi mind trick.. let me let you into a secret... us men aren't really that good mindreaders!!! so if you had told him.. erm... lets say.....the truth!...it may have ended up differently... " i am very suspicious of the reasons for posting now...call me a cynic but something all through doesnt ring true . | |||
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