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How do I show I’m genuine

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I have found it extremely hard to get talking with people on here .

I seem to only get messages from single guys, this is flattering but not really my thing .

I do try my best to send winks and message to people I like but most of the time I get nothing back .

I have made changes to my profile several times but still no change .

This is very bad for confidence and so far not enjoyable at all

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By *nlyIfItsWorthItMan
over a year ago

Newcastle

Maybe try clubs instead.

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip

What kind of messages are you sending out yo make contact? A lot of people let themselves down badly with that. Can you post an example to give you feedback on that? It's a very important part of starting to make contacts and friends on Fab.

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

Try going to organised socials they are a great way of meeting and getting to know people x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Block single guys if that's not your thing.

Try and get involved in the forums and you're more likely to get chatting with folk.

If its meets you're after from your local area go to a club.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not alot I can say maybe your not messaging the right people or reading profiles before you message them??? Maybe your messages come across aggressive or to much like oi fancy a fuck???

I am joy saying any of these things are what you do but I find just be positive and polite be friendly and dont expect every woman or couple on fab to want to jump your bones.

Alot of people on here are here.as much for the social side as they are to meet sexual partners.

I've met a couple of people on this site and not all have been sexual meets just friendly ones. Dont lose spirt there are far more guys on fab than women image getting 500 messages a day all offering the best sex of your life

You wont have time to read and reply to them all so you have to stand out to stand a chance. Talk on the forums make friends there or go to a club maybe this will help.

Sorry if I rambled on a bit

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By *otlovefun42Couple
over a year ago

Costa Blanca Spain...

How do I show I’m genuine?

On here define "genuine"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I never look at winks ever so they’re pointless.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"What kind of messages are you sending out yo make contact? A lot of people let themselves down badly with that. Can you post an example to give you feedback on that? It's a very important part of starting to make contacts and friends on Fab. "

I’ve change this several times and had some advise in forms about this . Still find that it’s hard to tell what people want in a first message

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By *elshkinkyMan
over a year ago

south wales

It’s a virtual nightclub from the 90’s.... you sometimes have to talk to a lot of women and get lots of rejection just to find that one person you hit it off with. And with the added bonus of not needing to put your stay press and short on and buy them a Diamond White

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"How do I show I’m genuine?

On here define "genuine""

I see lots of people saying genuine guys only so this is what I want to know! What exactly do they want ?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Try going to organised socials they are a great way of meeting and getting to know people x"

Feel a bit odd attending alone as I’m not very experienced at this

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds


"Try going to organised socials they are a great way of meeting and getting to know people x

Feel a bit odd attending alone as I’m not very experienced at this "

You will soon get talking to people. They are just like being dow the pub with your mates. Her yourself to the next York one....always a good night there x

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By *JohnMan
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

There's also the forum and the chat rooms. Join in the social side, and people will eventually get to know you.

Don't ignore the ones you aren't interested in meeting, either. You can still end up with some worthwhile friendsips, and the more you're seen as an OK person that others like, the better you'll look in the eyes of those you do want to meet.

I had a much better time at socials after I'd got to know a few people in chat (this was on another site. I don’t know if fab's chat has that sort of community). Some of them are still good friends now, years later.

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